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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 05:50 PM Aug 2014

Phyllis Schlafly: Women Can Avoid Sexual Assault By Focusing on Marriage, Not Career [View all]

http://www.rightwingwatch.org/content/phyllis-schlafly-women-can-avoid-sexual-assault-focusing-marriage-not-career

In her radio address yesterday, Phyllis Schlafly took on the issue of domestic violence and sexual assault, which she said could be eliminated if women would just get married instead of focusing so much on their careers.

Noting that “marriage settles men down,” Schlafly asked, “So what’s the answer for women who worry about male violence? It’s not to fear all men. It’s to reject the lifestyle of frequent 'hookups,' which is so much promoted on college campuses today, while the women pursue a career and avoid marriage.”

We all know that married men can still be violent to their families, but they are far less likely to be violent against women than are live-in boyfriends.

Why is this? It’s true that women who have found men who are already better partners are more likely to marry them, but it’s also true that marriage settles men down. Being married makes a man care more about his family’s expectations and future because he sees his family as enduring. It also makes him more faithful and committed to his partner. Marriage makes men directly protective of their wives, and living in a home with their daughters gives them the opportunity to be directly protective of them as well. Marriage also creates indirect protection for wives and daughters, because married women and their children tend to live in safer neighborhoods.


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Someone find me the largest face-palm jpeg in history please randys1 Aug 2014 #1
I think Phyllis would like this one KamaAina Aug 2014 #3
double facepalm Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #17
Yes, since she has focused on her career and yet says that other womend shouldn't. Facepalm! SharonAnn Aug 2014 #53
I need one too. hardcover Aug 2014 #67
Oh for the love of mike, is she still around? Peacetrain Aug 2014 #2
Have you heard of ALEC? Thank her. eom littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #5
I was going to be more direct and ask TexasTowelie Aug 2014 #76
Does Shaffley think that violence against women started in the 1970s? That it isn't as old as time? Wella Aug 2014 #4
ALEC in action. The 40 yr. old plan, thank Phyllis. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #6
But that doesn't tell me why Shaffley said what she said. Wella Aug 2014 #11
Research ALEC. eom littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #13
Research "the rape of Lucretia" Wella Aug 2014 #14
Context is important. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #16
So what is the context of the Rape of Lucretia? Wella Aug 2014 #47
Leave me alone. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #49
Is that a request or a reply to my question? Wella Aug 2014 #51
History: Three whole days of membership. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #50
I have alerted on your post Wella Aug 2014 #52
DU Jury 7 -0 Leave It mnhtnbb Aug 2014 #57
What is the purpose of alerting, then? Wella Aug 2014 #59
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice mnhtnbb Aug 2014 #60
That doesn't answer the question, but thanks anyway Wella Aug 2014 #61
She reacted directly to Roe v. Wade, her mission is violence against women. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #12
I am amazed by the lack of informed people here. Phyllis helped create ALEC. NT littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #7
Phyllis Schlafly is full of baloney. Louisiana1976 Aug 2014 #8
I think she's full of something else KamaAina Aug 2014 #23
Doesn't qualify as a human being, so I'll just say that it's a disgrace to all organisms, everywhere NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #9
Phyllis Schlafly is a Koch puppet. eom littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #10
Shaffley's been around a long time, kid Wella Aug 2014 #15
Really? When do you think ALEC started? ? nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #18
I find your use of "kid" patronizing, by the way. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #28
I am sorry you feel that way. Wella Aug 2014 #46
She should have followed her own advice and spared the Country of her presence. gordianot Aug 2014 #19
Yes, indeed! In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #22
Yup. Nobel_Twaddle_III Aug 2014 #55
F*ck Fillis. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #20
Now I get it *slaps forehead* procon Aug 2014 #21
And marriage, obviously according to the Fillis - raven mad Aug 2014 #39
Well, she's only be saying that sort of thing for 50 years. malthaussen Aug 2014 #24
I can't believe that putrid old fossil is still consuming oxygen that could be used to Doctor_J Aug 2014 #25
Ha great post! AndreaCG Aug 2014 #54
LOL Punkingal Aug 2014 #71
don't forget to nominate me for a coveted duzy Doctor_J Aug 2014 #73
Jumpin' Jehosophat on a pogo stick, she is one ignorant piece of shit. shenmue Aug 2014 #26
If women just never left their bedroom, their chances of being raped would decrease! Drunken Irishman Aug 2014 #27
Many women have and will be raped in their own beds. Please rethink your comment. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #30
Baby Girls and Grandmas get raped HockeyMom Aug 2014 #29
Men are raped, is it possible Fillis is coming out For Same Sex Marriage??? littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #31
Headline should read "Women should stay home" says sufrommich Aug 2014 #32
While I'm not one to recommend a woman stay at home, unless it's her choice mythology Aug 2014 #45
Why is anyone here surprised by her stupidity? Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #33
I guess because there are people that have been believing her for over forty years littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #35
yeah, after what happened earlier today in GD ... I am looking more closely at who posts what. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #38
Agreed. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #62
Ya know, I'm adding her to my "gonna have a party when she finally bites it" list, Arugula Latte Aug 2014 #34
I will gladly pay the caterers for that event. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #36
I'll bring the beer. And the full bladder. raven mad Aug 2014 #40
I see what you did here. Brigid Aug 2014 #70
it is depressing to think that she is still around, still spewing her poison, her hatred, her niyad Aug 2014 #37
That is why my primary focus is exboyfil Aug 2014 #41
DV crosses every socio-economic line and isn't related to a woman's salary unfortunately riderinthestorm Aug 2014 #75
It moves along social economic exboyfil Aug 2014 #78
She is very likely the biggest reason ERA didn't pass davidn3600 Aug 2014 #42
She was definitely a strong influence. Her big thing was "women in combat" Wella Aug 2014 #48
Not really. DURHAM D Aug 2014 #63
The draft had already ended, although I imagine it was still strong in people's memories back then Wella Aug 2014 #64
Did you not realize that I said the draft had ended? nt DURHAM D Aug 2014 #65
Of course. I was just adding to the discussion Wella Aug 2014 #66
What I have to say isn't very nice Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Aug 2014 #43
She's way past time for her dirt nap. dballance Aug 2014 #44
OMGOSH....my thoughts exactly....die ya old bag.....just die... a kennedy Aug 2014 #56
That does not compute. Owl Aug 2014 #58
For crying out loud, sadoldgirl Aug 2014 #68
Why are you sad, old girl? KamaAina Aug 2014 #77
Phyllis was 90 on August 15. PADemD Aug 2014 #69
STFU, Phyllis, area51 Aug 2014 #72
Um, kinda no they actually can't. quaker bill Aug 2014 #74
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