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(110,159 posts)it is innate. it is biological. how can they help themselves. you know what laelth as men abuse, and excuse is made, i want to know all the shit women get away with cause girls are just being girls.
and a clue in. i cannot see a single one.
that there should tell you there is a problem.
so, men are conditioned they are privileged and entitled to ALL space. hence sittin spread out, to ensure as much room as possible, and fuck the person sittin next to them. being claustrophobic myself, i say fuck that shit. i am spreading out to own my space. oooops, didnt meet the girls will be girls of constricting self as small as possible (to not be heared or seen and appear timid) because i will be damn if i will see myself in that manner and allow.
i am totally clueless how spoiled men of society that has been guaranteed such rights of ownership of all space can equate "my space" with women hate men. but. regardless. if the brain is gonnna say, society promises me my entitlement to all space, and a woman does not allow it, she hates men. then that is his stupid, in so much of the stupid of this world. and no way do i have to coddle the ego cause he refuses or is unable to do a little self reflecting addressing his issues. call me a man hater, and fuck that person. i do not own it. a man wants to see me as a man hater in his own petulance, that is his, not mine.
and no. because men have had power, control and dominance, and has been taught that is his masculinity, ergo his right does not mean it is for a purpose, but they always had the control and it works for them. so tell me laelth....
men forever have had the control, dominance and power. yet.... they are so so so damn fearful of women. so damn fearful of even a little equality. because what? they no longer have the dominance? they truly feel inadaquit? society has assured them forever they are superior so they must always prove it out? just simple spoiled children syndrome? because the world is telling them from birth they are superior yet mom has control and dominance, that would make their young brains see the whole world of women being wrong?
what would that be?
there are all kinds of gender roles society teaches us. some of us have well moved past them. i have no patience for those that refuse cause it behooves them and ultimately hurts them. i will not be part of that game.
men feel it is their entitled right to shut up women, invade their space, dominate conversation. it starts very young. (we see it in studies in classrooms, in a work environment). and the more women do not allow it, MOST men get it.