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redqueen

(115,103 posts)
3. Using privilege to improve the world.
Thu Feb 27, 2014, 09:28 AM
Feb 2014
In the early 60's, I did private checks for the student housing bureau at a large northern state university. If a minority was turned down for an apartment, I'd go to see if the listing was still available to me, a white student.


This is how allies with privilege can help - not by trying to prove said privilege doesn't exist, not by asking to be absolved of any responsibility for the unfair way society bestows privilege, or complaining about how unfair it is that they feel targeted in discussions of privilege.
Truth spoken here. Off to the Greatest Page with you. riqster Feb 2014 #1
Greatest Page? An OP discussing W/P? ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #15
To the GP! riqster Feb 2014 #24
Huge rec gollygee Feb 2014 #2
RE: running red lights/stop signs - raven mad Feb 2014 #36
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #69
I take it ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #75
Wow!!! cui bono Feb 2014 #87
Using privilege to improve the world. redqueen Feb 2014 #3
Yes and when we notice we're being treated preferentially gollygee Feb 2014 #4
+1 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #17
Exactly, say something. Call it out. Or better yet do something. redqueen Feb 2014 #27
Yes. Thank you. The person quoted in that part of the OP made a huge fan of me Number23 Feb 2014 #97
I'm disgusted that the denial of it boston bean Feb 2014 #5
I don't understand how any white person HappyMe Feb 2014 #6
300 years and still counting heaven05 Feb 2014 #7
Just last week I wore old clothes and shoes to work BBR Esq Feb 2014 #8
Welcome to DU wryter2000 Feb 2014 #39
Thank you. BBR Esq Feb 2014 #46
"If I'm in a long checkout line, more often than not, another line will open to accommodate me." Romulox Feb 2014 #9
Read this thread to find out Harmony Blue Feb 2014 #10
yeah it happens to me all the time d_r Feb 2014 #12
Sure, because it happens. MineralMan Feb 2014 #14
Absolutely, it happens. eggplant Feb 2014 #16
Where have you been? MO_Moderate Feb 2014 #21
you mean not everyone gets their groceries free??!! Bacchus4.0 Feb 2014 #26
I still think the Eddie Murphy SNL skit on that business was the best ever. MADem Feb 2014 #29
Hilarious! NT tea and oranges Feb 2014 #40
never had that happen to me, but if they want to open another line Bacchus4.0 Feb 2014 #25
The question is, are supermarket employees managing the checkouts specifically instructed Nye Bevan Feb 2014 #33
Good point here. AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #38
And non-white DUers ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #76
So what is your theory for what is going on? Nye Bevan Feb 2014 #78
No ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #81
my first job -in NYC- I was told I shld call out the code word "cappuchino" when any black customer bettyellen Feb 2014 #99
It doesn't have to be a conscious thing or a rule passed down. cui bono Feb 2014 #89
I doubt it is explicit training. Warren Stupidity Feb 2014 #115
Really. I need to go to different stores. Most of the other stuff, yes, I've seen. 7962 Feb 2014 #57
I'm not sure why it wouldn't be believable... onpatrol98 Feb 2014 #82
Yeah, no shit AgingAmerican Feb 2014 #113
I went to college in Alabama d_r Feb 2014 #11
I had two women that recently told me that I looked "trustworthy" NewJeffCT Feb 2014 #13
day to day real life incidents treestar Feb 2014 #18
No ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #77
lol treestar Feb 2014 #108
when I arrived in Philadelphia for a TDY Skittles Feb 2014 #107
White hair treestar Feb 2014 #109
when some soldiers requested I send "black hair products" Skittles Feb 2014 #117
Stop LiberalAndProud Feb 2014 #19
A side issue here - but some of these comments touch on something hedgehog Feb 2014 #20
65 year old white woman here SheilaT Feb 2014 #22
Some years ago a black former student if mine, Tony Sands, sued tblue37 Feb 2014 #23
63 year old, white woman here. justgamma Feb 2014 #30
I'm glad Mr. Sands was able to successfully fight that back. AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #74
I've done Fair Housing research and Gormy Cuss Feb 2014 #28
Maybe we know one another ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #79
Maybe we do. Gormy Cuss Feb 2014 #85
I don't understand why it's so important sufrommich Feb 2014 #31
I have the same problem hfojvt Feb 2014 #50
Sadly ... 1StrongBlackMan Feb 2014 #84
you assume right there that I have some sort of control hfojvt Feb 2014 #96
You're looking at this as individual people rather than a societal/systemic issue. cui bono Feb 2014 #92
ah, the "real progressives" eh? hfojvt Feb 2014 #100
I don't care if you are a democratic precinctperson or not. cui bono Feb 2014 #112
again, people do NOT live "as a whole" hfojvt Feb 2014 #114
yes, people live surrounded by assholes CreekDog Feb 2014 #116
Again, this is NOT about individual people. cui bono Feb 2014 #118
I just watched a documentary and learned about Sundown Towns Butterbean Feb 2014 #32
I live across the river from a former "Sundown" town. The whole town was white. Dustlawyer Feb 2014 #34
I find it miraculous that they survived. After watching that documentary Butterbean Feb 2014 #70
Me neither. AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #73
What's the name of that doc? n/t cui bono Feb 2014 #93
Link follows in post Butterbean Feb 2014 #110
Thanks! cui bono Feb 2014 #111
K&R! This post should have hundreds of recommendations! Enthusiast Feb 2014 #35
I myself am perfectly aware of the realities of societal inequity..... AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author redqueen Feb 2014 #41
y-y-y-you-you hfojvt Feb 2014 #45
Heh heh, LOL. AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #48
You get the honor of throwing the first stone. kwassa Feb 2014 #53
I feel so all alone hfojvt Feb 2014 #55
Silly Scorpio. There is no such thing as white privilege. KamaAina Feb 2014 #42
K&R n/t myrna minx Feb 2014 #43
so we agree then hfojvt Feb 2014 #44
It is the ultimate convenience tea and oranges Feb 2014 #47
What's your answer about those of us who used to believe in "White Privilege" theory....... AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #49
I'm uncertain tea and oranges Feb 2014 #56
..... AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #65
I'm not sure we disagree tea and oranges Feb 2014 #71
I believe its more about class now than race. Remember the story about the minister.. 7962 Feb 2014 #58
I think that is definitely true to some extent. AverageJoe90 Feb 2014 #66
Yes, because it's all about individual attitudes and behaviors. El_Johns Feb 2014 #83
Yes, but within the context tea and oranges Feb 2014 #88
Yes, but notice how the acts of official power created both those realities. El_Johns Feb 2014 #90
White privilege is air for white America. Surrounded by it, it becomes invisible. tea and oranges Feb 2014 #103
rich white privilege to boot! Hamlette Feb 2014 #51
There's also a class angle: When I was driving a more beat-up car, I got stopped by the LAPD much villager Feb 2014 #52
it is true justabob Feb 2014 #60
It's like two overlapping targeted demographics. When I vibed "poor," I was stopped more often. villager Feb 2014 #61
Did you ever smash bottles on their cruiser & curse at them while doing donuts & firing handguns ? Bonx Feb 2014 #67
Yes. Thanks for these posts that make us think. JDPriestly Feb 2014 #54
in another thread noiretextatique Feb 2014 #59
K&R Solly Mack Feb 2014 #62
That's the gift all privilege gives to everyone... nt MellowDem Feb 2014 #63
K&R HipChick Feb 2014 #64
K&R LostOne4Ever Feb 2014 #68
"If I'm in a long checkout line, more often than not, another line will open to accommodate me." lol El_Johns Feb 2014 #72
Maybe he is whiter than you are (nt) Nye Bevan Feb 2014 #80
Rudyard Kipling would be proud. White Man's Burden and White Privilege are alive and well Nanjing to Seoul Feb 2014 #86
Why does Japanese cabbies refusing to pick up white people show us what white privilege is? If El_Johns Feb 2014 #91
Umm. . .not talking Japan. I don't live in Japan Nanjing to Seoul Feb 2014 #101
Sorry. For some reason I thought you did. Korean cabbies then. El_Johns Feb 2014 #102
I live in China. . .and it's the same in Korea when I lived there too Nanjing to Seoul Feb 2014 #104
The example you gave was -- I thought -- that cabbies in Asia won't pick up whites in the same way El_Johns Feb 2014 #105
happens to Asians too daybranch Feb 2014 #94
Oh, how I love love Love this OP! Number23 Feb 2014 #95
Dave Matthews Band is the EPITOME of White Privilege. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #98
I dated/went out with a man of color a few times xfundy Feb 2014 #106
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