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sir pball

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46. In all seriousness, it must be nice
Sun Dec 29, 2013, 01:25 AM
Dec 2013

To engage with people whose psychosexuality is identical. As I understand it, at least casually, there's none of this mess *gestures upthread*. We should all just get along so well.

I refuse to apologize for being male [View all] Harmony Blue Dec 2013 OP
Who asked you to apologize for being male? Cali_Democrat Dec 2013 #1
The imaginary shrill feminists who live in his head. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #3
Indeed, men and straw-men living together! Oh no! arcane1 Dec 2013 #12
Is this a sign of repressed guilt from a prior behaviors? n/t TheBlackAdder Dec 2013 #68
Nobody. Iggo Dec 2013 #175
"Link, please?" nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #200
"If there is please provide a link" NoOneMan Dec 2013 #2
Not much on DU RobertEarl Dec 2013 #4
good. do NOT apologize for being male. that would be so wrong. seabeyond Dec 2013 #5
Yes, no one should apologize for how they were born NoOneMan Dec 2013 #8
nope. seabeyond Dec 2013 #9
Nice to agree on something! NoOneMan Dec 2013 #181
The threads were dying down and you know how some people cannot let go Rex Dec 2013 #208
omg. the DU gender wars rage on. Liberal_in_LA Dec 2013 #6
Trash thread. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #7
"Can't we make a forum for these types of posts?" NoOneMan Dec 2013 #10
That would be for the best, I think. [nt] Jester Messiah Dec 2013 #111
Gosh, only one video to make hurt male feefees Starry Messenger Dec 2013 #11
ya know. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #13
Ain't that something? BainsBane Dec 2013 #20
What video? Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #121
"Feefee" is slang for "feelings". nt Jamaal510 Dec 2013 #189
Thanks Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #193
This^^^^^^ treestar Dec 2013 #132
I am not going to apoligize for something I have done nothing wrong for Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #141
who asked you to? Whisp Dec 2013 #14
No one asked you to. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #15
First provide a link to anyone asking you to apologize for being a male. JaneyVee Dec 2013 #16
:) polichick Dec 2013 #173
Women aren't going to apologize for LumosMaxima Dec 2013 #17
Is DU somehow immune to rape culture? BainsBane Dec 2013 #18
An exerpt... rrneck Dec 2013 #19
In other words it means whatever who is claiming it wants it to mean Major Nikon Dec 2013 #84
Yep. nt rrneck Dec 2013 #98
That's pretty much what I've always thought. NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #109
There is some interesting information that I will have to sit down and read Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #143
How about refusing to excuse maleness? sir pball Dec 2013 #26
I want sex too BainsBane Dec 2013 #29
Because, well, see my direct response sir pball Dec 2013 #33
I see BainsBane Dec 2013 #36
Oh...The Future Mrs. loves and adores, well.. (don't read if you're delicate) sir pball Dec 2013 #40
It's also your choice BainsBane Dec 2013 #45
Oh, of course. sir pball Dec 2013 #50
Pure bullshit Boudica the Lyoness Dec 2013 #127
Next time try reading what I actually write BainsBane Dec 2013 #142
what a bullshit post. lol. you may not want sex, but please do not assign that to all of us. seabeyond Dec 2013 #145
Good post Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #146
It is a currency, sir pall... MrMickeysMom Dec 2013 #95
Well, yeah. sir pball Dec 2013 #96
You associate singular viewvpoints as a collective? Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #148
Multiple people engage in its perpetuation BainsBane Dec 2013 #150
A collective has to be organized cohessively Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #158
You obviously have no idea what the word culture means BainsBane Dec 2013 #169
Here is the defintion of culture Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #183
Rape culture fits within your third definition kwassa Dec 2013 #190
Then provide a link Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #192
"There is more sexism here than in the broader community." Really? Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #160
Yeah DU is like an oasis Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #199
Hmm. Here's what I think, I've pondered OP'ing it but I honestly don't have time to deal with that. sir pball Dec 2013 #21
do women, one way or another, always have to be "selling" sex instead of just simply getting, along seabeyond Dec 2013 #23
Of course not, one way or the other. Poor choice of words. sir pball Dec 2013 #30
here we go. seabeyond Dec 2013 #55
Oy vey. I'm deliberately coming at this from one direction but here goes sir pball Dec 2013 #64
ok. i think the simpler would have been your original first two paragraphs then a simple seabeyond Dec 2013 #70
I did get overly complicated, yeah sir pball Dec 2013 #72
assuming boundaries are respected... seabeyond Dec 2013 #74
Of course. sir pball Dec 2013 #78
this assessment is really pitiful Skittles Dec 2013 #28
So sex isn't fun? sir pball Dec 2013 #31
ugh Skittles Dec 2013 #32
*chuckles* never should have mentioned third-wave. sir pball Dec 2013 #37
The concept of a male having an "enlightened attitude" is beyond the immagination of a number Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #73
No - it was the gender stereotypes embeddeded in at least two descriptions Ms. Toad Dec 2013 #97
So by acknowledging, and even insisting, that a woman has a choice... TroglodyteScholar Dec 2013 #105
No. What he said was that it was his responsibility to Ms. Toad Dec 2013 #115
Perfect. Thank you. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #139
And another one bites the dust, Soundman Dec 2013 #119
lol. our simple disagreeing, which you advocate the right, allows you to then say we seabeyond Dec 2013 #155
Not what I am saying at all. Soundman Dec 2013 #170
lol. too many are really all over dismissing what i say with transparency page. very transparent. seabeyond Dec 2013 #171
Hard to say, Soundman Dec 2013 #172
soundman.... seabeyond Dec 2013 #177
Thank you Soundman Dec 2013 #179
This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond Dec 2013 #77
LOL... trumad Dec 2013 #117
i am so glad to hear that. the portrayal of who a woman is, is as foreign to me, as the seabeyond Dec 2013 #157
Are you not man enough? RobertEarl Dec 2013 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author one_voice Dec 2013 #24
Instead of towing a line that is perpetuated without solid basis lets examine what culture is first Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #124
Hey, don't strain yourself RobertEarl Dec 2013 #214
Could you apologize for being intentionally dense, then? Scootaloo Dec 2013 #25
+1 Egalitarian Thug Dec 2013 #213
I just don't get male defensiveness at all pinboy3niner Dec 2013 #27
It's reactionary RobertEarl Dec 2013 #35
It doesn't take much for some to feel attacked either BainsBane Dec 2013 #49
Entitlement RobertEarl Dec 2013 #51
You'd be even more amazed BainsBane Dec 2013 #54
I struggle mightily to find what is supposed to be offensive there Scootaloo Dec 2013 #83
Thank you. Ms. Toad Dec 2013 #99
Wow, that is so well-stated Scootaloo. I totally agree. I just don't see the problem here. Vattel Dec 2013 #114
It's the mirror. PassingFair Dec 2013 #152
And it turned into the feminists of DU hate men. It's still being discussed how awful we are. kcr Dec 2013 #101
I looked in that thread briefly BainsBane Dec 2013 #104
I honestly don't know how this video sparked such howls of persecution. myrna minx Dec 2013 #113
Great video, thanks. Nika Dec 2013 #212
It is not a challenge to masculinity Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #153
"Some DU women are quite effective at rubbing men's faces in the dirt." NoOneMan Dec 2013 #180
I'm gay... Just putting that out there. Agschmid Dec 2013 #34
I'm not gay, but we seem to be in the same boat pinboy3niner Dec 2013 #38
I'm straight... one_voice Dec 2013 #39
totally agree DustyJoe Dec 2013 #133
Oh, I've seen how you degenerates behave! sir pball Dec 2013 #41
Yah well we certainly queen it up sometimes... Agschmid Dec 2013 #42
In all seriousness, it must be nice sir pball Dec 2013 #46
No there certainly are... Agschmid Dec 2013 #56
I know, but with the weather in this discussion sir pball Dec 2013 #67
Oh sorry... I get all holier than Francis sometimes! Agschmid Dec 2013 #81
are you a woman ? because many of these issues affect lgbt women also JI7 Dec 2013 #43
Only on Thursday nights at tilt. Agschmid Dec 2013 #44
Heh! pinboy3niner Dec 2013 #47
lol lol seabeyond Dec 2013 #63
you know what they say BainsBane Dec 2013 #76
I'm sure I'll regret this later when someone uses it for DU blackmail... Agschmid Dec 2013 #80
Awesome! BainsBane Dec 2013 #82
Wigs make anything possible. Agschmid Dec 2013 #88
Simply gorgeous! In_The_Wind Dec 2013 #90
that is fun Agschmid seabeyond Dec 2013 #92
I used the blur effectively, better than any anti aging lotion! Agschmid Dec 2013 #93
Gorgeous! cinnabonbon Dec 2013 #106
Agreed! Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #197
cheesecake! bench scientist Dec 2013 #211
Oh fer fucksake alcibiades_mystery Dec 2013 #48
My sentiments exactly. TDale313 Dec 2013 #53
While I consider it a foregone conclusion that no one should need to apologize... Shandris Dec 2013 #52
Too bad no one is MODERATING it Matariki Dec 2013 #57
Or they are reticent to touch it for some reason. Shandris Dec 2013 #58
It would be helpful if you felt an OP did not meet the SOP that you'd alert. Agschmid Dec 2013 #71
Yup. Agschmid Dec 2013 #62
But at least the Home Depot thread was locked right away kcr Dec 2013 #66
You don't have to. Raine1967 Dec 2013 #59
+1 demmiblue Dec 2013 #61
+1000 smirkymonkey Dec 2013 #116
+ 1,000,000 nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #201
Okay. Deep13 Dec 2013 #60
Hit and run shit stirring - nt Ohio Joe Dec 2013 #65
This thread most likely has your example... Agschmid Dec 2013 #69
Wow. That thread is pretty unbelievable. Ms. Toad Dec 2013 #102
Nope he's gone for good I believe. Agschmid Dec 2013 #123
There were references in the thread Ms. Toad Dec 2013 #184
Ok, to restate my other post - SEX IS FUN sir pball Dec 2013 #75
Juror 5 wins... Another reason late night juries (and Pat Benetar) rule... Agschmid Dec 2013 #85
That's the first jury I know I've survived. sir pball Dec 2013 #86
. Agschmid Dec 2013 #87
I wouldn't say "highly". sir pball Dec 2013 #89
2nd jimlup Dec 2013 #79
Not only do I refuse to apologize, but I am very happy to be a man. quinnox Dec 2013 #91
I refuse not to put you on full ignore ZRT2209 Dec 2013 #94
Believe it or not Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #203
A link to a culture? How? intaglio Dec 2013 #100
How about some links. Honestly. DanTex Dec 2013 #136
I am waiting for the proof that Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #154
I've certainly seen posts which, at the very least, edged toward those sentiments. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #202
Can't you guys keep these asinine posts in the mens group and history of feminism? last1standing Dec 2013 #103
I wrote this for someone else, I think that you can use it too... MrScorpio Dec 2013 #107
I hear you... NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #108
Not to single out anyone (against DU rules) Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #130
Oh good gravy - this is like Christians wailing about persecution myrna minx Dec 2013 #110
At what point were you asked to apologize? etherealtruth Dec 2013 #112
Start a flame thread---check trumad Dec 2013 #118
How are you still posting with 8 locked posts in the last 90 days? n-t Logical Dec 2013 #128
Why are you obsessed with my transparency sheet. trumad Dec 2013 #129
No, just wondering how you can get away with be so disruptive. I thought the rules changed. nt Logical Dec 2013 #131
I posted about an obvious hit and run thread in that Op trumad Dec 2013 #134
LOL, looked at your profile to see what your deal was. Said 0% on the jury. Simple. Make sense now? Logical Dec 2013 #135
From what I can see, both of you have been acting pretty weird lately. n/t ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2013 #137
Weird--- trumad Dec 2013 #151
I agree you are. Getting that many posted locked is unusual. Temper issues. n-t Logical Dec 2013 #162
No---douchebag issues. trumad Dec 2013 #163
Hey! How the hell are you getting away xulamaude Dec 2013 #164
You are weird and a douchebag? Wow, at least you admit it. n-t Logical Dec 2013 #167
I'm the first to admit that... trumad Dec 2013 #174
I don't think they get posting privileges suspended until Jan 7 or 8. NaturalHigh Dec 2013 #138
I did not know this beccause I thought it was in effect already Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #198
Were you asked to apologize? If so, I haven't seen any MineralMan Dec 2013 #120
You can be whatever you want to be in cyberspace marshall Dec 2013 #122
This is true Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #194
LOL, dramatic much? n-t Logical Dec 2013 #125
please provide a link for anyone on DU demanding you apologize for your gender. cali Dec 2013 #126
I just got a ridiculous hide, quinnox Dec 2013 #140
Yeah, I got a ridiculous hide yesterday as well. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #144
We obviously have a small group who are furiously using the alert button on any duers whom quinnox Dec 2013 #147
prove it. oh wait, you cannot. just an unprovoked attack on fellow duers. seabeyond Dec 2013 #168
SOLIDARITY, BROTHER! pinboy3niner Dec 2013 #149
Hi sign! Iggo Dec 2013 #206
Way to take a stand, bro. Impressive. Brickbat Dec 2013 #156
Thank you Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #159
. Brickbat Dec 2013 #161
i love will. the is a purity in his expression. blunt, straight, sincere. so cute. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #166
I'm blue-eyed and left-handed, I'm pissed off, and I vote!!! DisgustipatedinCA Dec 2013 #165
I thought that we eradicated you lefty swine decades ago Orrex Dec 2013 #188
Jeez. Iggo Dec 2013 #176
lol... seabeyond Dec 2013 #178
Refusing to apologize for being white when no one asked them to is a central tenet JoeyT Dec 2013 #182
Yes I am white, male and christian Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #186
What about "no one asked you to apologize" didn't you get? You're still going with the same nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #205
Whoosh! JoeyT Dec 2013 #210
I'm glad I don't live in the vicinity of any MREs... cherokeeprogressive Dec 2013 #191
Damn right. Bobbie Jo Dec 2013 #185
my son told me he was feelin' his manhood being challenged. seabeyond Dec 2013 #187
Is that your stripper name? itsrobert Dec 2013 #195
Actually no Harmony Blue Dec 2013 #204
And the jury allows personal attacks like this to stand darkangel218 Dec 2013 #209
No one asked you to. YoungDemCA Dec 2013 #196
Yes it is important for you to make a scene, the topic was dying down. Rex Dec 2013 #207
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