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In reply to the discussion: I'm a man... [View all]Harmony Blue
(3,978 posts)59. I am not whining and I am not blaming feminists
I share a different view point doesn't mean I assign blame on anyone. Shaming tactics by implying I am whining doesn't work or shut down my perspective as it only reinforces it. And we are not talking male sexual entitlement in this thread. I am addressing the idea that men must shut up and stop whining so they can appear to be more attractive? Why?
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Considering the way so many men treat women, it's a wonder they'll have anything to do with us.
Scuba
Dec 2013
#3
when everything you say is pua mra talk, then people are going to call it. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#53
i told you the pua comment below. and up here a mra comment. hence, pua mra. i am very specific
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#56
3rd tried the inclusive and it failed. 4th is out there, loud, strong, smart and
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#81
thank you for the funniest post I have seen today. you nearly owed me a keyboard.
niyad
Dec 2013
#135
oh bullshit. more of the pua whine that only the bad boys get the hot chick, crap. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#40
you are wrong. it is a bullshit meme that men who can not get women put out. and you added
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#51
and that is what we are doing here. shunning. yet you cry out... foul. cant have it both ways
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#57
oh bullshit. historically, men who behave badly are not punished because
BlancheSplanchnik
Dec 2013
#96
If what they believe is hateful sexist bullshit, then yeah, they should shut the fuck up
YoungDemCA
Dec 2013
#23
Well, first off, no one finds whiners attractive, except maybe other whiners
justiceischeap
Dec 2013
#66
i talked to at least 5 men out and about shopping tonight. it was all fun, play, happy and we all
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#29
on this i agree, its like talking in person and then through a third party.
loli phabay
Dec 2013
#47
lol. throw a rant about the whining as you get all defenisve about "judging" your wife when you put
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#89
thinking. i find it particularly funny he uses his wife to hide behind as he calls women chicks,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#101
cause his woman says so.... dontcha know. now all you wimminz... hush. funny. i gotta wrap some
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#111
SO, failing to come up with a compelling article, or reasoning, you resort to censoring
ryan_cats
Dec 2013
#125
Oh yes, I'm a scoundrel for alerting on a clear rules violation/personal attack post.
AtheistCrusader
Dec 2013
#126
oh... you got me, straight to the heart, stumblin' back. what a hoot you are. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#121
Oh my, with a statement like that, if I was one of those thin skin whiner/ perpetually offended.
ryan_cats
Dec 2013
#109
now you are in trouble. nobody, and i mean nobody, insults our beloved skittles like that
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#113
Well, I guess you're going out to last minute shop for burkhas this holiday, if you haven't already
MrScorpio
Dec 2013
#76
chick.perpetually offended. jealous? so. you slut shame the girls dress, asking for it. you prude
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#87
"Tramp stamp"? My wife has a full back tattoo. If you catch a glimpse of the lower portion of it
AtheistCrusader
Dec 2013
#105
just as a matter of curiosity, are you intentionally misusing "roll"? have to admit, it makes your
niyad
Dec 2013
#139
i was going to ask how far back the poster had to reach. but then, i figured
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#148
"Shut the fuck up" Sorry no, I have every right to discuss issues relating to my gender.
Kurska
Dec 2013
#136
k and r for this excellent post. judging by this, and the one I read just prior, I have missed a
niyad
Dec 2013
#137
There is NOTHING sexier than a man smart, confident and capable enough to communicate
Number23
Dec 2013
#144
he has already been called out on that. how long ago is it? i would much prefer a man that shifted
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#151
he addressed it years ago. and has since shifted position. so no, you would be wrong lumberjack
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#153
What's great about this is that everyone can see that I understand the mindset. I it had then
MrScorpio
Dec 2013
#157
So are you implying that I haven't had a change of mind over the last ten years?
MrScorpio
Dec 2013
#178