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In reply to the discussion: Men should be offended . . . [View all]EOTE
(13,409 posts)243. Like hell I was wrong.
I said that you consider drunk sex to be rape, I PROVED that. Now you're saying that it's only because she wasn't his wife that it was rape and if she HAD been his wife, it wouldn't be rape. Now you're effectively saying that a wife can't be raped by her husband. That's a whole new category of horrific, sexist bullshit, but we won't get into that now. I wonder what all your little followers in the HoF will think when they know that your definition of rape changes when two people get married. Sickening.
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im more offended by people saying that im raping my wife if we have sex after getting drunk
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#1
that's funny no it's not my wife. there was a whole discussion here about this
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#132
what he and others with this line are doing, is dismissing raping drunk, unconscious, unable to give
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#157
post it. you are wrong. you NEVER heard me make the argument. post it. didnt happen
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#160
i have never said it. you threw shit out figuring it would stick. reality is, i didnt say. ever.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#173
ya. i said it was promoting raping an unconscious woman. that this is what our society
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#176
Ha, thanks for the update. And she did, in fact, say that it's a male's wet dream to have sex with
EOTE
Dec 2013
#209
It was movie, for Christ's sake! An idiotic (if mildly amusing) comedy film.
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#328
ha... reading gwenolyn, i realize who she is on the new and improved du3. i know the poster
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#179
Ask myself if a woman saying that it's a man's wet dream to fuck something doesn't move is sexist?
EOTE
Dec 2013
#185
ha, didnt even read that. i dont read his posts. says i say sex with drunk wife is rape.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#186
Well, I have to admit the bottom drugging themselves deliberately is not safe or entirely sane.
moriah
Dec 2013
#231
If I said "It's a woman's wet dream to marry a handsome, wealthy man", would I be speaking of women
EOTE
Dec 2013
#236
you give a thumbs up to raping a woman unconscious? 1000 worth of thumbs up? nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#191
i asked. no answer? then it is saying raping an unconsious woman is saying sex with drunk wife is
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#197
Are you saying that it's a man's wet dream to have sex with something that doesn't move?
EOTE
Dec 2013
#198
Unconscious girls don't tell the people they're having sex with to not stop fucking them.
EOTE
Dec 2013
#199
Just the same old thing eh? I don't play your games. Spin it however you like.
Katashi_itto
Dec 2013
#202
fuck.... give a thumbs up. i ask what the thumbs up is for. you backpedal and blame and
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#208
He/she was giving a thumbs up to your comment about men dreaming of fucking inanimate things.
EOTE
Dec 2013
#211
no. sex with drunk wife is rape. that is what you accused me of. that is what i said i never said
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#223
fucking an unconscious woman is rape. you want to make a blurred line, that is on you.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#227
i am not having a stupid conversation that makes date rape, ok. you posted, i said, it is rape to
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#234
i really do not give a flying fuck what you expect. you accused me of soemthing. you were wrong.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#240
A certain percentage of men, unfortunately, yes. Your meaning is pretty clear to me at least.
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#330
no what im saying is that if my wife and i are at home and are drinking and we have sex that
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#263
no im saying that if my wife And i get drunk and SHE wants to have sex that ( not that i dont )
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#258
is your wife unconsciuos, comes to and slurs, why ya stooo.... and falls back to unconscious? cause
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#278
no my wife was never unconscious. my oringinal post was in reference to the thread in which
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#287
oh i see where u got that let me fix that, not when i got drunk but when we, wife and i,
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#255
"i know to alot of women men are always pigs in any situation so keep hatin"
xulamaude
Dec 2013
#321
yea it was during a disscussion on rape a few days ago but i didnt comment on it so now it cant find
leftyohiolib
Dec 2013
#342
i know both my boys have been offended many times over by this mentality. and they do NOT
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#2
welcome to du. you might want to check out the books listed upthread to have a clearer
niyad
Dec 2013
#195
They are published by the largest American anti-sexual assault organization
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#22
well, it doesn't help at all with much more common acquaintance rape, does it?
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#50
So are you saying it's helpful to ignore the 1/3rd of rapes committed by a non-acquaintance?
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#54
Yep, I am saying it is a bad idea, in that it gives a VERY inaccurate picture of what rape is
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#93
Which was a deft attempt to change the subject from what I had posted.
Common Sense Party
Dec 2013
#75
It wasn't a matter of "got you," it was a matter of you presenting FALSE info.
Behind the Aegis
Dec 2013
#116
i have long before you called out the woman teachers raping their boy students along to the chides
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#279
99% of rape by men and gender is not a factor? rape by other women? new porn fad? cause i know,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#126
and then tell me nikon, when women do implement this men are outraged that a woman dared to
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#141
you address women as a whole accepting this. you do not address the men as a whole who are both,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#145
be careful what you wear to prevent your rape is not to offend women. thru out the thread, look at
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#146
which was EXACTLY my point like... last night. no shit. yet it is what is in the Op and what
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#154
and STILL you do not address the men offended on this thread, men offended when PSA is addressed
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#155
people have told you why it is offensive to talk about womens clothes, which rainne never did. yes.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#131
76 yr old nun in her home. now, granted, probably didnt have a shot gun so ya... her fault
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#97
because major, every one of us women that have been raped know this "guidence" is bullshit and not
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#133
i do tell my niece to be aware and i KNOW that will likely have NOTHING to do with her rape.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#149
how many posts have i ASKED about the contradiction and STILL you do not address it. only how a
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#170
so. again. the contradictions i have stated in a number of posts are ignored. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#200
you want women to be hypervigilent at all times to protect themselves from rape. you KNOW
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#151
Anyone who blames the victim for being victimized probably meets the criteria of being an asshole
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#256
then you will tell your daughter to be wary of the stranger in elevator at 4 and when asked
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#257
I'm not going to accept what any libelous poster tells me what I will or won't do
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#259
you want to give it to the woman, and stay well away form men even having a part. yet....you
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#264
no. it will contradict all you have been proclaiming. what would the question be. bring it to me
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#281
he wants to give daughter only what does not encroach on male entitlement yet feel secure he
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#266
yes saying i said a a drunk married couple a man was raping due to a movie of raping
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#283
will you tell her to preceive each date as a possible rapist and to be wary. will you tell your
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#262
Well... I think when someone says this they are positing that *some* men are incapable of control,
Nye Bevan
Dec 2013
#21
"On college campuses, repeat predators account for 9 out of every 10 rapes"
Major Nikon
Dec 2013
#24
They are. Advice on how to avoid evil people does not make one responsible for the evil...
Demo_Chris
Dec 2013
#41
if only this 73 yr old woman had not dressed so sexy, she wouldnt have been raped.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#62
how to prevent/avoid rape. so a woman is raped, she simply did not do enough. and NO, statistically
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#139
It doesn't offend me; it cracks me up with it's asinine assumptions. It's not foolish, it's idiotic.
cherokeeprogressive
Dec 2013
#35
because it is rape prevention advice that is worth more than that list, but it's missing from it.
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#112
i think it's because lists like this leave women unaware for the more common dangers- and also keep
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#314
I've been seeing women dress in very sexy and tantalizing ways for almost all of my 58 years.
MarianJack
Dec 2013
#55
this is what i say. i say i am defending men all the friggin time. yet i am the man hater.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#64
we have had too many people declare they will never vote to hide a post. for different reasons.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#98
So if I think that a woman should not go certain places, because of what happens there, then my
flvegan
Dec 2013
#68
Isn't this the essence of the strict Islamic dress code for women. Men cannot control themselves
pampango
Dec 2013
#161
and the republicans. and the men that pornify all women for their entertainment. no,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#163
read post 201, with quotes blaming jyoti singh pandey for the horrific gang-rape that ended her life
niyad
Dec 2013
#213
Presuming all men are rapists in a culture is advantageous for misogynists and the patriarchy.
Dash87
Dec 2013
#167
perfectly said. thank you. post 151. no one would dare address. but it is the reality we give
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#172
one would think they would be, but it never seems to dawn on them, as they defend this kind of
niyad
Dec 2013
#203
totally amazing. demand the woman accept how not to be raped. dont address the contradiction of
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#207
and, of course, the usual derailment of the discussion to make us forget the woman-hating that
niyad
Dec 2013
#218
i do not think mens natural state is rapists. so we disagree. now, some would say me thinking men
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#229
or. women should not be offended when told how to prevent their rape. yet, men are offended
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#237
it offends you that we have to keep posting about the way patriarchy treats rapists and their
niyad
Dec 2013
#247
I find it intriguing when I'm told what I should and should not be offended by.
lumberjack_jeff
Dec 2013
#273
and yet, we are told what we may or may not post because it offends you. funny how that works.
niyad
Dec 2013
#323
It seems as though the point of this graphic went well above many people's heads.
Vashta Nerada
Dec 2013
#225
Oh I think a lot of people get it... I just don't think they feel obliged to respond to it
sibelian
Dec 2013
#246
ya. first you were for until you decided you were suppose to be against. i saw. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#249
It takes a certain degree of empathy, self-awareness, and ability to project for
Zorra
Dec 2013
#245
a thread women are told we must not be offended taking responsibility preventing our rape. yet, men
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#252
there have been threads both in gd and mens group saying how unfair it is women treat men like this.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#269
this is how my 78 yr old father in laws dismisses rape and womens issue. you should be thankful
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#358
Females (and to a lesser extent, males) of all ages, from infancy to advanced old age, are potential
nomorenomore08
Dec 2013
#332