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moriah

(8,311 posts)
38. No, it's not. Far from it. It CAN be done, though.
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 03:20 AM
Feb 2012

A few tips that helped me:

1) Before starting a diet, log your calories that you're currently consuming normally and your regular amount of exercise, and if you gained or maintained during that time. A two week window was a good idea for me to figure out where my metabolism was. If you believe part of the problem for you is compulsive overeating, log your mood and level of hunger when you ate as well -- were you happy? Sad? Bored? (That came from my therapist.) Yo-yo dieting and low calorie diets really screw up your metabolism, so the standard guidelines for calories for your height may not be right for you... they weren't for me.

2) I then went over that food log and tried to see places where I could cut calories without feeling like I was stinting myself. Honestly, just writing down everything I put in my mouth helped me to start cutting them subconsciously -- I noticed the calories I consumed during the 2nd week were lower than the first, but as I said, I have an issue with compulsive overeating, and the act of keeping the log helped me see when I was eating for emotional reasons or eating because my body needed food. The very first thing I did was cut out sodas and replace them with Crystal Light Energy, but you'll see patterns in your own eating.

3) Don't make all the changes all at once. It's harder to stick with a dramatic change. I found other little things I could do, but implemented them one new change a month, giving each enough time to become a habit.

4) Don't go too low-calorie. If you're only eating 1600 calories and maintaining, a 500 calorie a day cut is going to be too much (that's a pound a week by the math). I lost faster at 1350 calories a day than I did at 1200 or 1000, even though the math would say otherwise. (The 1350 came from adding an extra Greek yogurt in when I hit a plateau when I was eating 1200). Our bodies aren't meant to starve, and actively fight against it.

5) Look for small ways to increase your daily activity level, but start slow and be mindful of your body. If you hurt yourself -- it's HARD on the body to exercise when you're carrying around an extra 100 lbs like I was when I started -- you'll just set yourself back. Look for things you can make into habits. When I'd finally lost enough to handle walking a distance on concrete without giving my bum knee too much pain, I found a buddy and walked the path around my office on my breaks. It helped a lot, even if it was just 10 minutes three times a day.

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I could go on, but I don't want this to be a novel or seem like I'm preaching. But I qualified for gastric bypass surgery three years ago, and I'm 110 lbs lighter today. If it's to the point you've researched surgery... I don't want anyone to have it that doesn't absolutely have to. My mom had it, and while she doesn't regret it, complications from it nearly killed her twice.

If you want, PM me.

Eat less and exercise. CAPHAVOC Feb 2012 #1
It's not that easy. Initech Feb 2012 #27
Not just that laundry_queen Feb 2012 #29
Too much Rum? CAPHAVOC Feb 2012 #42
I have a relative that has to be Gluten Free. But I don't know what it is. CAPHAVOC Feb 2012 #30
Try this CAPHAVOC Feb 2012 #31
No, it's not. Far from it. It CAN be done, though. moriah Feb 2012 #38
A friend of mine got a small group of fatties together Yupster Feb 2012 #35
Oh goodness, I wish I could lose on 2000 calories! ;) moriah Feb 2012 #40
Congrats on your progress Yupster Feb 2012 #47
Thanks! And yeah, I'm more on the midget end of the scale... moriah Feb 2012 #48
Here are the top 10 NJCher Feb 2012 #2
Your Govenor is a good role model Ichingcarpenter Feb 2012 #3
that list is not of the most obese states hfojvt Feb 2012 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Feb 2012 #4
Red states tend to be fatter get the red out Feb 2012 #6
Many of the Southern states tend to be more rural, too. GoCubsGo Feb 2012 #9
Not to mention hot. nt Snake Alchemist Feb 2012 #13
Good point get the red out Feb 2012 #14
We have the same issues with public transportation--what there is of it--here, too. GoCubsGo Feb 2012 #33
I think the driving has an influence, but to me the rural obesity seems more cultural in origin Arugula Latte Feb 2012 #22
You're right. ParkieDem Feb 2012 #49
Southern food also tends to be really fattening. Odin2005 Feb 2012 #10
How can you say that? izquierdista Feb 2012 #11
And probably double the amount of dairy product joeybee12 Feb 2012 #18
Another goddamned South-bashing opportunity. nt Dreamer Tatum Feb 2012 #19
Just observing statistic get the red out Feb 2012 #32
I think the key variable is income abowsh Feb 2012 #45
Not so much lack of education, but continuation of cooking that Fawke Em Feb 2012 #36
Yeah, just the gameday food consumption in the SEC states alone... jumptheshadow Feb 2012 #41
You've got that right! get the red out Feb 2012 #46
City planning also plays a role. surrealAmerican Feb 2012 #8
Typical MSM stuff KurtNYC Feb 2012 #16
Education plays into both of those factors. Arugula Latte Feb 2012 #23
Eat mo' carbs geckosfeet Feb 2012 #5
I eat a huge amount of carbs obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #26
Good luck with that. geckosfeet Feb 2012 #43
carbs = sugar shanti Feb 2012 #50
My fiancee lost over fifty pounds in the last four months. Codeine Feb 2012 #7
The definition of "obesity" was changed in 1998. Romulox Feb 2012 #12
But if people aren't "sick" why should they dole out money to get better? TalkingDog Feb 2012 #15
Also BMI index has changed... Javaman Feb 2012 #17
So to be obese now you need to weigh more? Ichingcarpenter Feb 2012 #20
No, you weigh less. Javaman Feb 2012 #24
Interesting how conservative politics in a state and obesity JDPriestly Feb 2012 #21
Sugar and High Fructose Corn Syrup and Estrogen... Bigmack Feb 2012 #25
I've been trying to eliminate sodium and HFCS as much as possible. Initech Feb 2012 #28
Believe it or not pecwae Feb 2012 #34
Have they compared the states with fast-growing obesity rates... jumptheshadow Feb 2012 #39
Highly dishonest not to mention the change in the definition of obesity eridani Feb 2012 #44
We need to be careful. This topic could lead to offensive comments. Stinky The Clown Feb 2012 #51
That comment was completely inappropriate. Bruce Wayne Feb 2012 #54
People were much thinner when everyone smoked 20 years ago. Mumble Feb 2012 #52
Public health problem. Time for someone to write The Jungle II Bruce Wayne Feb 2012 #53
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