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bettyellen

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80. I'm not sure you caught the odd threat of sterotyping women in the post I was responding to?
Thu Apr 25, 2013, 08:13 PM
Apr 2013

Kind of hard to miss. But what it has to do with women assesing the looks of someone who is EMPLOYED to look good....

Is that somehow the same as a coworker or strange man offering up their assessment of a strangers looks to THEM, unsolicited? Becasue maybe it flew over your head- but that is what women at DU have complained about.

looking at a professional image of a MODEL and discussing it online is kind of huge, isn't it?

Also, there's a huge difference between judging a model's looks VS an attorney general, isn't there?

If you were both in the entertainment business, it would be okay to say how smoking hot a person is- because it's their job. They actually do work really hard and spend a lot of time and money to maintain their weight, muscle, skin, everything. But no one should ever assume the average coworker really wants your unsolicited opinion of their face or body- it's too personal, rude, and invites others to gaze a bit too hard as if it's some kind of contest.

It's not so difficult to understand the difference- so why do you pretend these situations are in any way similar?

Why when you see someone here type some DUMB SHIT sterotyping women, do you immediately jump to their defense by straying so far off topic?

"Could it be Low-T?" jberryhill Apr 2013 #1
That reply is pure win. LostOne4Ever Apr 2013 #4
LMAO Cali_Democrat Apr 2013 #17
Simple solution LondonReign2 Apr 2013 #37
Can't wait to hear that commercial! flamingdem Apr 2013 #38
I'm masculine... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #2
did you fail logic in school? bettyellen Apr 2013 #3
He said he was masculine, so... jberryhill Apr 2013 #5
Frustrated you can't say "why are they muslim?" you can always say "why are they men?" lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #6
Men do comit more crimes of all kinds. They are more violent than women. Why can't we talk about applegrove Apr 2013 #7
That's right. "We" can't. You don't have any experience being a man. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #10
We as a society need to look into how applegrove Apr 2013 #14
but men actually are more violent than women JI7 Apr 2013 #15
Oh, details, details. TDale313 Apr 2013 #16
do we not discuss crimes because we are not the perpetrators? Perhaps we should ask criminals bettyellen Apr 2013 #30
LOL! whathehell Apr 2013 #76
The facts have a pronounced anti-man bias, apparently. geek tragedy Apr 2013 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #41
"you lack even that tiny bit of influence over the issue." geek tragedy Apr 2013 #42
Dictionaries are cheap. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #44
What about me disqualifies me from having the influence you claim you geek tragedy Apr 2013 #45
If you are a man, then I apologize. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #46
Yes, male born and gendered. geek tragedy Apr 2013 #47
I apologize. lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #48
we don't need an explanation, we need to see the issue being taken seriously. bettyellen Apr 2013 #86
Exactly! This is why ONLY gun crime victims & gun owners can legitimately discuss gun regulation n/t TygrBright Apr 2013 #52
Exactly what kind of regulation of men do you suggest? lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #59
Putting down the toilet seat lid, definitely. We need a Constitutional amendment on that. n/t TygrBright Apr 2013 #60
We'll take that under advisement. n/t lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #62
No- are you projecting a bit with this racist shit, Jeff? Horrible thing to say. bettyellen Apr 2013 #25
are you two trying to provoke me... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #11
no, I'm asking where you got the stupid idea that ALL men had a problem with violence. bettyellen Apr 2013 #29
it's lazy writing, and any halfway decent wtiter... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #73
I know it's off limits to write about... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #74
oh, please enlighten me about what "women regularly do".... bettyellen Apr 2013 #75
Well, did you check out the post about the young Arab who was ejected from Saudi Arabia ... 11 Bravo Apr 2013 #79
I'm not sure you caught the odd threat of sterotyping women in the post I was responding to? bettyellen Apr 2013 #80
FOCUS ladies! This thread. This writer, Meredith Melnick, and my comments... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #83
You don't seem to realize I was not replying to you here. Focus yourself. bettyellen Apr 2013 #84
you don't know what it means to "prove your femininity?" WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #81
I think you are the only one promoting these stupid sexist notions about "proving" things.... bettyellen Apr 2013 #82
OK bitterellen. You can't help yourself. I'll know where to find you... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #85
4---3---2---1 olddots Apr 2013 #8
I think for similar reasons young men might make good soldiers or true believers in any cause Douglas Carpenter Apr 2013 #9
I'm 32, transgender, take female hormones, and still find myself very aggressive, hypervigilant, MillennialDem Apr 2013 #12
I know one thing I remember about puberty Warpy Apr 2013 #13
what were you angry about ? JI7 Apr 2013 #18
we're all much more angry when we are young 4 t 4 Apr 2013 #19
I've seen this phenom... marions ghost Apr 2013 #67
That's the least relevant question bhikkhu Apr 2013 #36
Read it again and find out. Warpy Apr 2013 #53
Here is another good article demonstrating the point. Live and Learn Apr 2013 #20
Have to admit, at my age my hands aren't as steady as they were once. I shouldn't be dimbear Apr 2013 #21
For similar reasons that most criminals, soldiers, athletes and accident victims are, I suspect. Donald Ian Rankin Apr 2013 #22
I'm sure physical ability is a major component. Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #34
Testosterone makes men aggressive LittleBlue Apr 2013 #23
Because the Y chromosome is evolutionarily expendable? Recursion Apr 2013 #24
48-ounce big gulp sodas with 780 calories and a helleva lot of sugar. graham4anything Apr 2013 #26
You really are just a troll, aren't you? Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #32
search for meaning datasuspect Apr 2013 #27
For the same reason, I'd gather, why the military like recruiting 18-year-olds . . . BlueCaliDem Apr 2013 #28
Darwin killed of all the dumb ones? Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #31
Testosterone, it's a hell of a drug. nt geek tragedy Apr 2013 #35
ban testosterone ! flamingdem Apr 2013 #39
When I worked in criminal law and corrections, Blue_In_AK Apr 2013 #40
when I worked in juvenile corrections Mosby Apr 2013 #63
I worked in a men's prison, medium security, Blue_In_AK Apr 2013 #65
I worked at the adobe mt facility in phoenix for 5 years Mosby Apr 2013 #68
I hear ya. Blue_In_AK Apr 2013 #70
Why are the first responders and rescuers almost always men? n/t lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #43
Young, dumb, and full of... aikoaiko Apr 2013 #49
It's a very impressionable time for many... Blue_Roses Apr 2013 #50
Statistically speaking cvoogt Apr 2013 #51
Explosive vests are in fact not conducive to aging. nt bike man Apr 2013 #55
There is a direct correlation there/nt cvoogt Apr 2013 #58
Because old men are slower and have less energy? :silly: nt raccoon Apr 2013 #54
Religion and economics? Earth_First Apr 2013 #56
Not touching this topic with a ten foot pole Marrah_G Apr 2013 #57
I'm guessing it's because they scored low on the TMI index. Initech Apr 2013 #61
LOL! smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #66
Yes and evolution made it so that more men would be born than females. Because applegrove Apr 2013 #64
Pshaw, there's more male babies because male sperm swim faster Bucky Apr 2013 #69
You're profiling! kentuck Apr 2013 #71
Because Women Find Other Ways To Get In Trouble AnnieBW Apr 2013 #72
NO JOBS. WinkyDink Apr 2013 #77
I call BS. darkangel218 Apr 2013 #78
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