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In reply to the discussion: On Being Disabled [View all]OnionPatch
(6,169 posts)I don't know how many people I've heard saying something derogatory about a person they've learned was collecting disability because that person didn't appear to be disabled. I personally know how ridiculous that assertion is. I suffer from numerous issues; migraines up to twice a week, a degenerated disc, arthritis, TMJ disorder and a different painful condition in each of my feet. Outwardly I look like a perfectly healthy person. But I'm usually in some level of pain every single day. And yes, I try hard not to look like it.
I'm not officially "disabled" as in collecting any type of benefit. I can still carry on and work full time though some days it feels like torture just to get out of bed. I can't imagine being truly disabled (and it sounds like you are and having people try to shame you for receiving help.
Hope things improve for you.