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In reply to the discussion: From Jezebel: Sexism Fatigue... [View all]redqueen
(115,103 posts)19. I also love her closing paragraphs:
But. I couldn't quit doing this any more than my cells could "quit" processing oxygen (or whatever cells do! Us girls aren't so good in the sciences!). I'm not a feminist by choice, I'm a feminist because thisis the world. And if my fatigue sounds defeatist, it isn't. It'sthe opposite. It's an internal rallying cry that reminds me how bad things are. If you pay attention to and comment on everyday inequalitiesimmense and tinyif you let all of it filter through you and you hop around and eyeroll and groan and drive your boyfriend crazy because he just wants to watch the IT Crowd but you NEED to talk about what Pat Robertson said today,this is what happens. Seth MacFarlane will go on the televisionand make a joke about George Clooney having sex with a 9-year-old girl who is sitting right there, and your first reaction will be, "Well. At least he didn't literally say she should get raped. Pass the cheese."
That's bad. A famous man making sexist jokes on a primetime awards show watched by millions of people is so banal and status-quo in our culture, that to mea woman professionally committed to detecting and calling bullshit on sexismit just feels like a drop in the bucket. Luckily, there's nothing better than a depressing dose of apathy to remind you to FUCK THE BUCKET. If I'm not fatigued, I'm not caring enough. So fuck that stupid bucket.
That's bad. A famous man making sexist jokes on a primetime awards show watched by millions of people is so banal and status-quo in our culture, that to mea woman professionally committed to detecting and calling bullshit on sexismit just feels like a drop in the bucket. Luckily, there's nothing better than a depressing dose of apathy to remind you to FUCK THE BUCKET. If I'm not fatigued, I'm not caring enough. So fuck that stupid bucket.
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"39 female senators in the nation's entire history, and 20 of them are serving right now"
redqueen
Feb 2013
#3
+ a bajillion. that type of man doesn't see women as having any validity.
BlancheSplanchnik
Feb 2013
#58
I love the excerpts she shared. Not sure how anyone could read this stuff and still think
redqueen
Feb 2013
#15
And a handful of people here are laboring under the delusion that he is being ironic.
redqueen
Feb 2013
#49
I don't think they're saying that everything is ok, but rather, that both are wrong.
OceanEcosystem
Feb 2013
#32
well said. There's an ad about toilet cleaning that is breathtaking....
BlancheSplanchnik
Feb 2013
#56
Yeah, some of those jokes referred to had me gaping, especially the Quvenzhané Wallis one.
KitSileya
Feb 2013
#43
"Asking people to think critically about some hacky jokes from a dancing cartoonist?"
Matariki
Feb 2013
#62