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JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
2. Their parents need to get involved.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 01:15 PM
Feb 2013

I went to a boys high school that had gone co-Ed two years before I attended. Boys to girl ratio in my class was 4:1.

Our parents got ticked that the boys didn't have color restrictions on their uniforms but we did. So our parents got involved along with some of the younger priests and changed our dress color code. We still had to wear dress pants or skirts (knee length) and dress shirts - but we could wear any colors but neons or prints (late 80's).

It's a small victory - but a victory just the same.

If the girls get organized and get their TUITION PAYING parents involved they can make it so the boys have to take the pledge too.

BTW - swearing in my high school resulted in JUG - not a simple detention - but JUG. Don't look left, don't look right, just sit and stare for 45 minutes after school. I'm very familiar with Father' Al's "justice under god"!

And Father Al was the first person the JUG crew went to - and he went to bat for us. Along with the Dean of Men.

You don't ask - you don't get.

I'll second your last statement. enlightenment Feb 2013 #1
My blood boils when religious organizations try to define what a 'lady' is. FUCK them PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #3
Especially one run by celibate men. nt Deep13 Feb 2013 #40
Well, to be fair, they're not ALL celibate. (n/t) Jim Lane Feb 2013 #44
Yes, I quite forgot. Deep13 Feb 2013 #45
Their parents need to get involved. JustAnotherGen Feb 2013 #2
Fucking +1 Gormy Cuss Feb 2013 #4
what-the-fuck-ever justabob Feb 2013 #5
The really good ones cloudbase Feb 2013 #6
Hah, best post of the day Ztolkins Feb 2013 #27
;-) ReRe Feb 2013 #30
Discriminatory in the worst way. bluedigger Feb 2013 #7
Awesome, thanks! I come from a long line of potty mouths. PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #9
Validating, isn't it? bluedigger Feb 2013 #10
Yes, the documentary "Fuck" is also. PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #11
I was going to say, "Well, that won't last long." randome Feb 2013 #8
imagine that, the Catholic church is involved phantom power Feb 2013 #12
Yep. The Catholic Church: Centuries of Fighting to Keep Women as Second-Class Citizens Arugula Latte Feb 2013 #16
Grrrrr! The Catholic Church makes me sick. smirkymonkey Feb 2013 #57
"girls have the foulest language. "... TeeYiYi Feb 2013 #13
One thing I notice is the graffiti in the ladies loo is much more focused, Nika Feb 2013 #43
what the fuck? mopinko Feb 2013 #14
Wow! All the screwed up messages this sends to girls AND boys is just awful. loudsue Feb 2013 #15
Hey. Watch your language. randome Feb 2013 #17
fucking sexist hypocrisy TeamPooka Feb 2013 #18
omigawd barbtries Feb 2013 #19
Your tax dollars at work. Can't find the pie graph on percentage of income from taxpayers, though. freshwest Feb 2013 #20
I must admit, I don't swear when ladies or children are within earshot. Nye Bevan Feb 2013 #21
Maybe? But that's not the point of contention, you know? PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #25
Yes, you are... ljm2002 Feb 2013 #58
This is the same logic as telling young women DebJ Feb 2013 #22
My grandmother was the first person I ever heard say "fuck you". mbperrin Feb 2013 #23
Fuck that shit! Initech Feb 2013 #24
It's all bullshit... WinstonSmith4740 Feb 2013 #26
To Quote My High School Baseball Coach Wolf Frankula Feb 2013 #28
I believe the proer locution is tblue37 Feb 2013 #29
I'll probably get flamed for this... Stonepounder Feb 2013 #31
Tell me about all of the awesome women's rights of the 50's.... PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #32
Please note the last sentence of my post. Stonepounder Feb 2013 #49
My oldest sister reminds us every once in a while life long demo Feb 2013 #56
+1 I'll take the cursing treestar Feb 2013 #59
Well, don't mistake skepticscott Feb 2013 #35
Exactly. You can curse in front of me all day, but fuck with my reproductive autonomy, right PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #37
I can just imagine... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2013 #33
They actually think they're going stop obama2terms Feb 2013 #34
If this were a public school, I'd be fucking pissed. Chorophyll Feb 2013 #36
BE DAINTY, GODDAMNIT!!! Deep13 Feb 2013 #38
Kinda like those vows of abstinence. LWolf Feb 2013 #39
Shit DainBramaged Feb 2013 #41
If it was me and I was asked to take that vow... Kalidurga Feb 2013 #42
Waitaminnit! ... Deep13 Feb 2013 #46
Well it's the most polite company I hang out with nt. Kalidurga Feb 2013 #53
Swearing is an art form The Second Stone Feb 2013 #47
I had that problem with my children. Turbineguy Feb 2013 #48
Someone posted this yesterday, okwmember Feb 2013 #50
Fuck that! eom City Lights Feb 2013 #51
Just another WTF for today! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #52
At my (Catholic) high school, swearing got you an automatic 10 days of detention. NYC Liberal Feb 2013 #54
Up thread JustAnotherGen Feb 2013 #63
Hah...ALL detentions were jugs at my school! NYC Liberal Feb 2013 #64
I actually JustAnotherGen Feb 2013 #65
FUCK THAT SHIT!!! nt Raine Feb 2013 #55
This represents everything wrong with our culture Shankapotomus Feb 2013 #60
Un gruppo di figli da putane!!!! Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2013 #61
Gotta love the mysogyny... Lane1340 Feb 2013 #62
google scholarly articles about "minority dress / control / students" - Schools try to Liberal_in_LA Feb 2013 #66
Fucking bullshit! KamaAina Feb 2013 #67
lol PeaceNikki Feb 2013 #68
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