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kestrel91316

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12. Oh, it's almost certainly no about the money, which he certainly won't ever see much of.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 03:30 PM
Feb 2013

It's about ruining her life. He is obviously bound and determined to do that. I am unsure whether or not he is justified in continuing to try to do that, given that 25 years has passed and that she was an idiotic teen when she accused him.

I think I have a problem with what he's doing. He can't let it go. He can't forgive. And maybe he should. Especially if she has proved to be of some value to society.

Because what she accused him of was so absurd, given that she had never even met him, how much could his reputation still be suffering after 25 years?

I am torn between what he has the legal right to do, and how he might have some residual anger (that one could argue IS justified), and what perhaps is the WISEST and most compassionate course of action. He is letting this eat at him even now. That can't be healthy.

While he DID win a huge civil judgment against her, kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #1
Have you ever been falsely accused of rape, especially in a case with so much national attention? jmg257 Feb 2013 #2
Oh, it's almost certainly no about the money, which he certainly won't ever see much of. kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #12
Yet she still hasn't paid ANY damages. Is her moving from job to job jmg257 Feb 2013 #13
I thought she had apologized years ago. Apparently she never has, and continued to kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #37
This wasn't jaywalking in Mayberry. joeunderdog Feb 2013 #31
I thought she had apologized years ago. Apparently she never has. So she has no one to blame kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #38
She owes money?! Zax2me Feb 2013 #3
Hold on FightForMichigan Feb 2013 #4
Some might say "No justice, no peace". n/t hughee99 Feb 2013 #10
She's paid dearly? leftynyc Feb 2013 #19
It's the very least leftynyc Feb 2013 #18
+1. I don't see how a 15-year-old can be held liable. HiPointDem Feb 2013 #21
She's not being held liable for anything she said or did at 15. Xithras Feb 2013 #22
didn't know that. HiPointDem Feb 2013 #25
Your right he was wrongly accused. However, she was 15 yrs old scared to death of southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #30
Again, this isn't about what she said at 15 Xithras Feb 2013 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #43
Wow. For some reason I thought she had long since confessed to the lie and apologized. kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #32
Yeah, it doesn't make any sense. Xithras Feb 2013 #42
You hit the nail on the HEAD! No mercy for her, she could probably have settled this matter a long cecilfirefox Feb 2013 #40
What do you mean by "incident happened"? lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #24
The incident I refer to is when she was found and claimed she had been raped. kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #35
I have no sympathy for her. Boomerproud Feb 2013 #5
Yep...a grand lie to keep her from getting in trouble with her mother/step father. jmg257 Feb 2013 #8
Pagones said he will forgive the payment if she tells the truth and apologizes. Nye Bevan Feb 2013 #6
I hope that's what she does kudzu22 Feb 2013 #14
Let Rev Al pay her part too Go Vols Feb 2013 #7
Why? I am glad back then someone was willing to stick up for a young black woman. KittyWampus Feb 2013 #9
Did you watch the vid? Go Vols Feb 2013 #11
Not so much RZM Feb 2013 #16
If by "go to the mat" you mean "accuse people of rape with no evidence at all, ruining their lives", Nye Bevan Feb 2013 #17
She had all the sympathy in the world leftynyc Feb 2013 #20
Wow. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #23
That's Al Sharpton? Ligyron Feb 2013 #28
When do we get paid back for WMD lies? RandiFan1290 Feb 2013 #15
A $431K judgment against a dumb 15 year old kid? And its being pursued into her 40s? stevenleser Feb 2013 #26
Great point up-thread - the lawsuit was in 1998 when she was +/-25yrs old. nt jmg257 Feb 2013 #29
That does change things a bit. stevenleser Feb 2013 #33
Apparently, that's what Pagones is really asking for BeyondGeography Feb 2013 #34
She needs to pay up. bluestateguy Feb 2013 #27
Good! I hope he collects from the liars. nt cecilfirefox Feb 2013 #39
Message auto-removed JW587 Feb 2013 #41
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