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MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
55. To an extent, everything is.
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 09:35 PM
Jan 2013

Let's not exaggerate the circumstances. I have two kids and at no time was my wife's life ever in danger from being pregnant. In fact, I don't know anyone in my entire circle of family, friends or acquaintances that have either. Of course sometimes complications occur but we aren't living in frontier times where every routine pregnancy might result in death. Using that blanket excuse is merely condoning abhorrent behavior.

But, again, women are free to do what they want. Just don't try to tell me that abortion for gender preference is the same as abortion for health reasons. It's insulting.

Safe, legal and rare is the mantra. Rare, as in only when absolutely necessary. Gender selection does not fit the spirit of why I'm pro-choice. I wouldn't do anything to stop it, there's too many people in the world as it is and restricting for this reason just leads to restriction for all reasons, but I can't see an argument that would convince me that this practice isn't morally reprehensible.

My being male is irrelevant to the conversation.

... Fumesucker Jan 2013 #1
Oh, Yeah.... The Magistrate Jan 2013 #2
LOL leftstreet Jan 2013 #13
I have never loved you more, than at this moment. nt msanthrope Jan 2013 #16
... Terra Alta Jan 2013 #22
Oh, Sir! Your wit stings like a rawhide lash Hekate Jan 2013 #62
None of my business. yellerpup Jan 2013 #3
I think it's tacky, but no threat to the species. nt bemildred Jan 2013 #4
it's too bad women/girls aren't valued. Blocking their access to abortions doesn't help anything. Liberal_in_LA Jan 2013 #5
An abortion is a woman's right. eltopomaravilloso Jan 2013 #6
That's a shitty reason to have an abortion. MrSlayer Jan 2013 #7
Well, we really don't know why women make the decisions they make... CTyankee Jan 2013 #9
I'd never ask. MrSlayer Jan 2013 #25
There are reasons someone might prefer one gender over another TexasBushwhacker Jan 2013 #26
I think we need not mix our own personal stuff against what is a public policy CTyankee Jan 2013 #47
The sad part here Freddie Jan 2013 #57
It's up to the woman to decide whether or not to risk her life Warpy Jan 2013 #27
But that's the point. MrSlayer Jan 2013 #32
It's obvious you're male Warpy Jan 2013 #40
To an extent, everything is. MrSlayer Jan 2013 #55
It's really easy to deny what you will never have to face. Warpy Jan 2013 #61
Right, of course. MrSlayer Jan 2013 #65
Oh come on. HappyMe Jan 2013 #58
Well, in a sense it can be life threatening, though not in the medical sense. antigone382 Jan 2013 #64
+20,216 Angry Dragon Jan 2013 #39
Over time imbalances won't remain, but short term can be quite distorting. cthulu2016 Jan 2013 #8
Been some interesting science fiction stories written with this as a background item ProgressiveProfessor Jan 2013 #23
Reproductive rights win gollygee Jan 2013 #10
My view? Unless it's your body, it's none of your goddamned business. AzDar Jan 2013 #11
A nit-pick. The decision to have the child is also gender motivated. cthulu2016 Jan 2013 #12
I'm totally opposed to men having abortions tularetom Jan 2013 #14
Your concern is noted. Please feel free to share more of your concerns, and enjoy your stay. nt msanthrope Jan 2013 #15
her body, her choice. Terra Alta Jan 2013 #17
Can you provide measurable occurances of gender-specific abortions in the US? blogslut Jan 2013 #18
This is a problem in India and China TXDem72 Jan 2013 #30
the problem is the treatment of girls/women, not abortion. look at the recent rape case JI7 Jan 2013 #36
In other words, those governments have taken control of their female citizen's bodies blogslut Jan 2013 #68
Choice is choice, and it's not your decision to make. Quantess Jan 2013 #19
Making windows into souls is easy... Recursion Jan 2013 #20
RW nonsense Viking12 Jan 2013 #21
If you are sincere in your question, Sheldon Cooper Jan 2013 #24
I'm firmly pro choice TXDem72 Jan 2013 #31
If I'm not mistaken, I think gender-specific abortion is forbidden Sheldon Cooper Jan 2013 #34
Damn, out of popcorn obamanut2012 Jan 2013 #28
I find them shallow and pedantic RandiFan1290 Jan 2013 #29
This issue is about treatment of FEmales, even if you ban abortion JI7 Jan 2013 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author slackmaster Jan 2013 #35
oh, good lord. have you even tried to think this through? Read the posts here CTyankee Jan 2013 #48
This message was self-deleted by its author slackmaster Jan 2013 #49
I am not trying to insult you, just asking you to get more information as to why CTyankee Jan 2013 #50
I don't care why women get abortions slackmaster Jan 2013 #66
Sure you do. You've earned it. morningfog Jan 2013 #75
Selfish? Really? cthulu2016 Jan 2013 #51
My political position on abortion is 100% pro-choice slackmaster Jan 2013 #63
Flamebait post. GoneOffShore Jan 2013 #37
Wrong unless for medical reasons like hemophilia LiberalEsto Jan 2013 #38
Why any particular woman has an abortion is none of my business OR YOURS. kestrel91316 Jan 2013 #41
^ Agree with you ^ Mimosa Jan 2013 #45
Abortions motivated by gender or other similar factors are of legitimate concern to society. nt cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #71
Why? morningfog Jan 2013 #74
I suppose on a basic level it makes my common sense go o_O, cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #77
And you think your personal hang up with a how a woman makes a decision is a "legitimate morningfog Jan 2013 #80
Because he needs an excuse to butt in to women's reproductive tracts. (nt) jeff47 Jan 2013 #81
Well, I don't know anyone who's ever had a "gender motivated" abortion, Chorophyll Jan 2013 #42
This doesn't happen in the USA, Canada, UK... Mimosa Jan 2013 #43
Medical issues should be between patient and doctor... Ohio Joe Jan 2013 #44
It doesn't matter how many gender based abortions happen in the US a year, it can be DogPawsBiscuitsNGrav Jan 2013 #46
Doesn't matter why a woman wants an abortion, she gets what she wants. dkf Jan 2013 #52
A non issue that is nobody's business. Warren Stupidity Jan 2013 #53
Her body, her choice. End of discussion. idwiyo Jan 2013 #54
Thank you ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #76
is the women forced to abort the female fetus Fresh_Start Jan 2013 #56
Thoughts on Unicorns? XRubicon Jan 2013 #59
jody? Is that you? 2ndAmForComputers Jan 2013 #60
Complete nonissue. noamnety Jan 2013 #67
I personally find it morally reprehensible and wrong fujiyama Jan 2013 #69
It's wrong. nt cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #70
If one is indeed pro-choice... Llewlladdwr Jan 2013 #72
What if they think, or could prove, that the child would be gay? nt cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #78
Again... Llewlladdwr Jan 2013 #79
Is it looking glass night on DU? WTF? morningfog Jan 2013 #73
The motivation is entirely up to the woman. krispos42 Jan 2013 #82
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