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Kalidurga

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63. That is a horrifying thing to say to a child on so many levels.

Mon Jan 7, 2013, 05:10 PM

Jan 2013

I hope that she was exaggerating, but I doubt it. I hope if she said it, that it was a in the heat of the moment kind of thing and her son is understanding of that(some kinds are very understanding) and he doesn't take it personally. It is very likely this woman was abused, not saying it's a fact or makes what she said less horrible, but she need to take care of that issue before she physically hurts someone. No doubt she has left a trail of emotionally abused people in her wake though.

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mom tells 9 yr old, if he ever rapes anyone: “I will cut your penis off, shove it down your throat [View all] Liberal_in_LA Jan 2013 OP

That's child abuse lunatica Jan 2013 #1

You act as though this is "common?" WTF? I have never known anyone to be so deranged & cruel hlthe2b Jan 2013 #8

I've known quite a few mothers of boys who do similar things all the time lunatica Jan 2013 #9

What did the authorities do when you reported them for child abuse? Sheldon Cooper Jan 2013 #10

You take yourself way too seriously lunatica Jan 2013 #15

Irony! Sheldon Cooper Jan 2013 #40

It doesn't rise to the legal level of abuse... LanternWaste Jan 2013 #60

i wouldn't worry as much about rape from that boy datasuspect Jan 2013 #2

Yeah. God damn. AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #46

Sad for that child. nt Skip Intro Jan 2013 #3

Someone needs to call social services. Baitball Blogger Jan 2013 #4

Didn't Ralph Fiennes temporary311 Jan 2013 #5

I think it was grandma... truebrit71 Jan 2013 #17

Child abuse, plain and simple. HappyMe Jan 2013 #6

The mother needs psychiatric help posthaste! BlueCaliDem Jan 2013 #7

Well I bet that alone he will get it. I know I always told my son when a girl says no she means southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #11

So, you are saying that the mom HappyMe Jan 2013 #14

I don't know why she would say that to a 9 year old. I would tell my 15 yr old that. Sometimes southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #21

Holy crap! HappyMe Jan 2013 #22

That is you. That is your right. I remember my son always being late going from southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #30

That would be a disgusting thing to say to a son of any age. pnwmom Jan 2013 #26

Your right and I wouldn't say it. southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #35

I didn't think you would. pnwmom Jan 2013 #53

yep, but sometimes people get way to excited. I can say am guilty of that myself. LOL southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #66

Maybe instead of having to say "NO"...If we don't say "YES" ...it's RAPE! Auntie Bush Jan 2013 #39

No you wouldn't say that to your child. closeupready Jan 2013 #29

Busted, no I wouldn't say it. I would yell. I am a yeller. I did however go to his school southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #33

Yes, of course - we are on the same wavelength, hon. closeupready Jan 2013 #41

Are you a Marylander? southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #42

No, but I've been there quite a few times - closeupready Jan 2013 #43

Oh when you said "Hon". They say that around there. I call Maryland my home. southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #50

That is sad for the child. NCTraveler Jan 2013 #12

It was trumad, I think......n/t AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #48

Yes it was. NCTraveler Jan 2013 #64

The woman seems to be a bit disturbed slackmaster Jan 2013 #13

I would guess the odds of that boy becoming a rapist just went up cthulu2016 Jan 2013 #16

His odds of having a lifetime of castration anxiety or self-image problems certainly went up slackmaster Jan 2013 #28

That mother is truly deranged billbailey19448jj Jan 2013 #18

wow NewJeffCT Jan 2013 #19

That reminds me of the father who killed his son for molesting his sister ecstatic Jan 2013 #20

Disgusting. I hope the state takes that kid away ASAP. white_wolf Jan 2013 #23

I can think of a couple of DU posters who might say that. Last Stand Jan 2013 #24

+1. I no longer open most threads about rape here; I trash closeupready Jan 2013 #27

"Might say that?" Gormy Cuss Jan 2013 #32

"Generalized venom?" And this is a problem for you, how, exactly? n/t MadrasT Jan 2013 #37

i have two sons. i am one of the more vocal on du, with this issue. are you suggesting that i seabeyond Jan 2013 #51

Disgusting Broad Brush post. GObamaGO Jan 2013 #54

I said "a few" Last Stand Jan 2013 #65

Post #21 was clearly a joke, as everybody else seems to understand. yardwork Jan 2013 #67

Yep. 99Forever Jan 2013 #59

While he shouldn't ever rape, one hopes education closeupready Jan 2013 #25

I have never gone for any of that violent talk libodem Jan 2013 #31

Sounds like mother has a mental health issue/fixation on sexual violence. And she's projecting Romulox Jan 2013 #34

That is appalling. MadrasT Jan 2013 #36

I agree that that is a horrible thing to say, BUT s-cubed Jan 2013 #38

no hidden motivation. The line really stood out. I've posted plenty about the horrors of Liberal_in_LA Jan 2013 #45

And this, ladies and gentlemen, is DU is a nutshell cthulu2016 Jan 2013 #52

You got that right. Skip Intro Jan 2013 #68

Ah, parenthood, one can hope that the woman was lying for the hyperbole HereSince1628 Jan 2013 #44

pining for memories of penis amputation . . . datasuspect Jan 2013 #49

She bobbited my brother Dick not me... HereSince1628 Jan 2013 #57

this thread is going to go well. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #47

Just what a boy needs to acquire the female perspective...a lunatic mother. Jefferson23 Jan 2013 #55

Parenting, not just for the verbose Rex Jan 2013 #56

k, well, I have been around some street-culture lately & even allowing for cultural differences... patrice Jan 2013 #58

Nothing like a mother's love... whatchamacallit Jan 2013 #61

"my 9 year old son is a potential rapist". sibelian Jan 2013 #62

That is a horrifying thing to say to a child on so many levels. Kalidurga Jan 2013 #63

What a sicko SpartanDem Jan 2013 #69

No wonder people are so violent these days. RedCappedBandit Jan 2013 #70