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NickB79

(19,224 posts)
66. We grew up poor, on WIC and foodstamps
Sat Jan 5, 2013, 08:15 PM
Jan 2013

And there was NO FUCKING WAY we could have lived on that alone. We were poor family farmers, working our asses off to grow YOUR food and living below the poverty line doing so.

The only thing that got us through was growing a huge vegetable garden, raising a flock of chickens, and occasionally having one of our pigs and cattle butchered and frozen every year.

Even today, now that I have a good job, a nice house, and disposable income, I can't let food go to waste. I stockpile our pantry with canned and dried goods, "just in case". I grow a vegetable garden that gets a little bigger every year. I've planted fruit and nut trees instead of shade trees. I built my own chicken coop for fresh eggs.

We rarely had nothing when I was a kid; there was usually a pot of vegetable stew to eat, even if we'd had it for dinner the past 5 days straight. However, just the knowledge that we were so close to the edge had a profound impact on me. It scared me. Nothing has ever scared me more than the thought that one day there might not be food.

Now I look at my 3-yr old daughter, hold her tight, and sometimes burst into tears at the thought of her not having food one day.

Where are their parents? NEG Jan 2013 #1
Not making enough to feed them lunch Tien1985 Jan 2013 #2
"NEG" has been shown the door, served the pizza, left the building. (nt) NYC_SKP Jan 2013 #74
Hope they don't come back Tien1985 Jan 2013 #82
They're working poor, also doing without lunch. Scuba Jan 2013 #3
Working a minimum-wage job. n/t gkhouston Jan 2013 #4
or more likely, working at several part-time minimum wage or under-the-table jobs Gormy Cuss Jan 2013 #29
And not getting any benefits. n/t gkhouston Jan 2013 #51
Is this a serious question? LonePirate Jan 2013 #5
Um, maybe they're not economically able Tab Jan 2013 #18
The poster seemed to be suggesting the parents could feed the kids on snow days. LonePirate Jan 2013 #21
They aren't able to afford it tavalon Jan 2013 #69
Yes, it's a serious question Scootaloo Jan 2013 #71
Are you serious? alcibiades_mystery Jan 2013 #6
THEY ARE WORKING! Odin2005 Jan 2013 #9
Busy being poor n/t Nevernose Jan 2013 #11
Starving In Another Part Of Town WillyT Jan 2013 #14
+1 proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #34
probably hungry at THEIR min wage jobs. piratefish08 Jan 2013 #17
Where are the parents of hungry children? alphafemale Jan 2013 #20
They're working at WalMart on minimum wage.. Playinghardball Jan 2013 #22
wtf? heaven05 Jan 2013 #23
This dipshit is dining on pizza now. lpbk2713 Jan 2013 #24
Sailing on their yachts... Wind Dancer Jan 2013 #27
Some are in prison. Some are working 2 or 3 jobs. proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #33
Working. NOLALady Jan 2013 #54
Going hungry alongside their kids gollygee Jan 2013 #63
Are there no work houses? ljm2002 Jan 2013 #72
Where's your humanity? Lars39 Jan 2013 #7
I never thought of that. Nye Bevan Jan 2013 #8
That's a good point DollarBillHines Jan 2013 #15
Free lunches aren't any different than regular lunches TexasBushwhacker Jan 2013 #42
It would be tough. Igel Jan 2013 #16
The largest district in my state, liberalhistorian Jan 2013 #77
Excellent. I suspected that someone, somewhere would have this figured out (nt) Nye Bevan Jan 2013 #83
Now that's a good solution. historylovr Jan 2013 #85
This makes me want to cry! Odin2005 Jan 2013 #10
raise minimum wage. start paying LIVING WAGES. pansypoo53219 Jan 2013 #12
They probably go home to a cold house too. lpbk2713 Jan 2013 #13
america! fuck yea! KG Jan 2013 #19
Shame on us. cer7711 Jan 2013 #25
Deceptive picture. Every Friday has the same effect, little food 'til Monday for many. n/t jtuck004 Jan 2013 #26
Not with the Back Snack Program proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #35
Yes, those are good programs, but they serve one small area, while there are 47 million jtuck004 Jan 2013 #39
I believe it's an active program in several states. proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #40
Sorry, I just got that off their web site. Still, I think the parents would do better to jtuck004 Jan 2013 #44
This is some sort of joke, sad joke BigD_95 Jan 2013 #28
Wow. proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #31
Ur missing the point BigD_95 Jan 2013 #45
Have you ever tried to live on food stamps? proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #46
We grew up poor, on WIC and foodstamps NickB79 Jan 2013 #66
It's amazing how that sense of food insecurity never leaves most of us. Gormy Cuss Jan 2013 #89
Food stamps don't pay enough to feed a whole family for a whole month gollygee Jan 2013 #73
Your empathy is noted. RC Jan 2013 #32
Wow. ellie Jan 2013 #37
So the parents are lazy, shiftless, irresponsible pieces of shit so take it out on those kids? nc4bo Jan 2013 #38
Are there no workhouses .... (n/t) bread_and_roses Jan 2013 #41
You obviously don't know a thing about teaching, kids, and food. MadHound Jan 2013 #76
Please proceed... Iggo Jan 2013 #79
Don't take this the wrong way Capt. Obvious Jan 2013 #88
We feed our kids on early dismissal days. proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #30
same here dsc Jan 2013 #60
If there is an early out at my daughter's school xmas74 Jan 2013 #64
We do that as well. Sack lunch, too. Ishoutandscream2 Jan 2013 #81
That there are hungry people in this country ellie Jan 2013 #36
Did the bus to Crazytown let off at this thread? Earth_First Jan 2013 #43
I'm from cray town BigD_95 Jan 2013 #47
No, you're a fucking heartless jackass. n/t Earth_First Jan 2013 #48
Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #49
The average per person benefit in the US is $133.85 per month Earth_First Jan 2013 #50
Do u not hear a fucking thing! BigD_95 Jan 2013 #56
I agree. Snow days are to be expected and prepared for TexasBushwhacker Jan 2013 #65
Don't Forget The Dysfunctional "Family" grilled onions Jan 2013 #52
this is so heartbreaking billbailey19448jj Jan 2013 #53
How much does anyone want to bet, those "pull your bootstraps" trolls in this thread Quantess Jan 2013 #55
Bingo! cer7711 Jan 2013 #59
Thanks for reminding me: Quantess Jan 2013 #62
+1 proud2BlibKansan Jan 2013 #61
I believe something like one in five US children got to bed without food every night... Demo_Chris Jan 2013 #57
If a snow day (or around here a hurricane day) Island Blue Jan 2013 #58
Think that's bad? Consider Christmas break NickB79 Jan 2013 #67
Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #68
Kick! Heidi Jan 2013 #70
Kicking your kick. And this OP is really just part of the story. NYC_SKP Jan 2013 #75
Heartbreaking and inexcusable. yardwork Jan 2013 #78
So true. LisaLynne Jan 2013 #80
The U.S. spends more on "defense" than all the other countries combined! yardwork Jan 2013 #84
K & R historylovr Jan 2013 #86
This country shouldn't have children going hungry. Starry Messenger Jan 2013 #87
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