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In reply to the discussion: Another DU Christmas Present - The ReTHUG Wreck of a Post Shellacking Caribbean Cruise [View all]lunatica
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On the leeward side of the Nieuw Amsterdam, John Yoo stood next to his mother, Sook Hee Yoo, a small, elegant Korean woman in black-framed glasses. She described herself as nonpolitical, an objective observer. And she had a diagnosis.
To protect the ego, you have a defense mechanism: denial and projection, she told me as her son leaned in to hear over the party din. You deny your problem, saying its your fault and not mine. Instead of projection, blaming other people, we have to think of a positive solution. But I didnt hear that yet.
They are still grieving, she concluded as her son winced and began to break in, fearing shed gone too far. I hope not for more than six months. The grieving process should only be six months. If it goes on for more than six months, it could go into a major depression.
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And that shirtless fella feeding the iguana is Ralph Reed.