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dballance

(5,756 posts)
51. You are rude, uncivil and misquoting me
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 09:41 PM
Dec 2012

You are free to disagree with my opinion. But I find it insulting that you have to call me an asshole in doing so.

The article says they were told not to pick up the paper plates. Obviously Sea World knew what they were talking about with those instructions. My mother once told me not to touch the burner on the stove because it was hot. I was young and touched the burner anyway. It was hot and it burned my hand. There are consequences for one's actions when one does not follow instructions. This little girl found that out.

I don't see anywhere in my post that I said she "got what was coming to her" or that she "deserved" to get bitten. No one deserves to be bitten. You're putting words in my mouth. Yes, she's 8 years old. So she's old enough to follow directions. If her parents tell her not to run out into the street are you going to blame the driver of the car that hits her because she didn't follow instructions and the driver couldn't stop in time?

In the body of my post I simply stated what my parents response would have been to the incident in contrast to the obvious response of her parents wanting to film her bite marks so they can most likely hire a personal injury attorney and milk Sea World for as much as they can get. There was a time when parents used these sorts of incidents to teach personal responsibility rather than an opportunity for a cash settlement. If her parents were all that concerned they should have been finding one of those ubiquitous Purell hand-sanitizing stations that seem to be everywhere these days and applying some of that goop to the bites since I believe one of its main ingredients is isopropyl alcohol.

I don't have children and never will. I do have a dog that is treated very well though. He gets premium food, treats, walks and trips to the off-leash park. He's only an 18-lb terrier but still gets to take up as much of the couch as he wants. He took the road trip with me and my friend from Dallas to Toronto just as if he were my kid.

By the way it would be grammatically correct to say "get bitten." Just like I want to tell you to get screwed rather than get screw.

Family is outraged Lasher Dec 2012 #1
That's obviously all these assholes are after. n/t Egalitarian Thug Dec 2012 #68
Whiney little brat dballance Dec 2012 #2
everyone knows - don't mess with an animal's food. Anyone ever try to remove food from a kitten? Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #7
I have lost a lot more blood to kittens angry about me touching their food than that kid lost. nt Quixote1818 Dec 2012 #11
cat protecting her food Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #39
Yep, same with many animals. Don't F with animals when eating, the kid's own fault IMO. n/t RKP5637 Dec 2012 #104
Really? She's a little fucking kid. MrSlayer Dec 2012 #13
A little fucking kid with shitty fucking 'parents'. DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #17
Yeah because you've always done exactly what you're told right? abelenkpe Dec 2012 #19
Oh, I have kids. DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #33
"But they always did what they were told. " ohheckyeah Dec 2012 #59
I misspoke DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #71
I don't think you are deliberately telling ohheckyeah Dec 2012 #93
I took a different route. DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #98
Just knock the breath out of them. morningfog Dec 2012 #132
An adult should not have to resort to physical violence to control a child. Michigan Alum Dec 2012 #183
You call the girl her told her mom she was out of fish morningfog Dec 2012 #130
Who needs school? DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #138
Yeah, I don't believe you. morningfog Dec 2012 #140
Well, that's that, then... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #154
I assume they paid their fair share on all of those AlexSatan Dec 2012 #192
Well... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #172
I keep screwing this up... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #173
OK DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #174
OK DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #175
OK, I keep screwing this up.... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #180
OK DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #182
Yeh, who needs school? AlexSatan Dec 2012 #191
Fuck, I didn't realize it was all about wintering in Belize. wtmusic Dec 2012 #201
Your comments are ridiculous dballance Dec 2012 #233
LOL! morningfog Dec 2012 #236
Do we know exactly what they were told? Here is another video at the same Sea World Quixote1818 Dec 2012 #20
Precisely how does one control the free will of others? LanternWaste Dec 2012 #50
Well, as a first step, slutticus Dec 2012 #60
How do you keep a dog from biting or a horse from bucking? DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #61
Cool story Bill. Son of Gob Dec 2012 #107
the truth Go Vols Dec 2012 #164
I don't think I've heard a truer, more genuine story in my life. Son of Gob Dec 2012 #170
Thank you, Son of Gob... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #184
LOL "Today, they are wildly successful purveyors of pot." wtmusic Dec 2012 #211
The kid's action was instinctive. She was having fun feeding the fish and ran out of food bluestate10 Dec 2012 #69
Very true. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #117
The only part with which I have a bit of a problem... Atman Dec 2012 #227
What "it" is told. Yeah. MrSlayer Dec 2012 #94
Would you think it would be cool.. DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #99
I don't see what one has to do with the other. MrSlayer Dec 2012 #108
I think you're way off dballance Dec 2012 #114
Forget I said anything at all. MrSlayer Dec 2012 #123
I never said she deserved to get bitten for not following the rules. NEVER dballance Dec 2012 #135
Well enough. MrSlayer Dec 2012 #163
Perhaps so, but it didn't quite come off that way to me. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #168
You refer to a kid as an "it." What is wrong with you. morningfog Dec 2012 #109
"It" is a product... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #127
The kid picked up a plate. morningfog Dec 2012 #128
Especially true when around wild animals. n/t AngryOldDem Dec 2012 #188
Yep, she is IDoMath Dec 2012 #27
I can understand learning a lesson, but a 'whiny brat'? AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #43
Maybe not yet IDoMath Dec 2012 #55
She's a whiny brat because dballance Dec 2012 #56
And that's your excuse? AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #64
My Excuse? I'm seeking no excuse and no pardon dballance Dec 2012 #70
Get off your high horse. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #74
Right after you do. /eom dballance Dec 2012 #88
How many kids were there that didn't get bitten? Atman Dec 2012 #229
When ships leave port they love to see dolphins swimming and diving around their bow dballance Dec 2012 #234
You are rude, uncivil and misquoting me dballance Dec 2012 #51
+1 treestar Dec 2012 #223
Post removed Post removed Dec 2012 #73
"The spawn of stupid fucking breeders." Even to the point here of letting RKP5637 Dec 2012 #105
My ire is for the parents Warpy Dec 2012 #89
A jury will never see this. It will settle before that and the family will get money. morningfog Dec 2012 #133
Excellent, Warpy... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #160
It was simply a good set of lessons for the kid AlexSatan Dec 2012 #190
Sorry, but before I was 5 I learned about feeding animals. From a dog. Eleanors38 Aug 2013 #252
It's not her fault. Just a kid. The parents don't seem TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #25
I love the mother's tone of voice when she says "we're not going to show it to anybody" KurtNYC Dec 2012 #48
Yep, and yet it's going viral on the internet now dballance Dec 2012 #58
Maybe not brat. But my Mom would've said, "See? What did I tell you?" Kid should've been supervised Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #72
My thoughts exactly. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #76
Yes, especially since the bite treestar Dec 2012 #221
Responses like this no longer surprise me in the old DU nadinbrzezinski Dec 2012 #112
Thank You. Totally agree with that statement. dballance Dec 2012 #116
You have your right nadinbrzezinski Dec 2012 #120
Seriously. What the fuck is wrong with this place? morningfog Dec 2012 #137
I gave up trying to figure it our a while ago nadinbrzezinski Dec 2012 #141
and these posters pulled the same shit on another thread Maine-ah Dec 2012 #215
she didn't 'whine' at all, she cried after being bitten, which 99% of kids would. And she HiPointDem Dec 2012 #161
we're talking about a 7 year old. Maine-ah Dec 2012 #214
Whiney? SHe is a little girl and she got bit Marrah_G Dec 2012 #216
Well, there seems to be an issue with making comments about a kid dballance Dec 2012 #230
I feel sorry for the little girl but would like to avebury Dec 2012 #3
Yeah, I don't think SeaWorld should be sued, either. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #44
Dolphins don't ask a lot of us humans htuttle Dec 2012 #4
lol Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #5
LOL ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2012 #9
can I like this post? n/t brokechris Dec 2012 #14
! Kali Dec 2012 #31
Yeah, but check it out: that dolphin is smiling. Squinch Dec 2012 #53
LOL! Poll_Blind Dec 2012 #65
DUZY! lol Evasporque Dec 2012 #197
Running it through the ole translator ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2012 #6
I live in the Atlanta area and this video has been shown RebelOne Dec 2012 #23
+1 mfcorey1 Dec 2012 #186
+1,000,0000 IDoMath Dec 2012 #29
Exactamundo! If I were SeaWorld, I'd sue them in perpetuity for traumatizing my sea mammals. n/t Egalitarian Thug Dec 2012 #75
Or, better still a rule 11 sanction against them IDoMath Dec 2012 #86
I think I like it, despite the fact that our legal system is far too skewed in Egalitarian Thug Dec 2012 #92
With wild animals the owners creeksneakers2 Dec 2012 #145
And that is entirely stupid. n/t PavePusher Dec 2012 #219
Frivolous is a very low standard. morningfog Dec 2012 #146
+1 wtmusic Dec 2012 #212
Like the lady at Costco told me... DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #8
I feel your pain REP Dec 2012 #16
Oh, you shouldn't have mentioned handprints. DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #21
You should follow one of these families Lasher Dec 2012 #30
Funny you should mention that.. DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #47
Mine is a coupe ... If I found a li'l screamer IN my car ... REP Dec 2012 #42
Well. That Indian motorcycle with an original sidecar IS an attractive nuisance. nt bluestate10 Dec 2012 #84
Many parents IMO have no F'ing idea how to raise kids. I see them all the time in grocery stores, RKP5637 Dec 2012 #111
Yep DollarBillHines Dec 2012 #115
Comeback Warpy Dec 2012 #176
Better yet. "Where's your car?" Barack_America Dec 2012 #194
If they're tourists, it's probably a rental Warpy Dec 2012 #225
Kids get bitten all the time at petting zoos with a single, tiny drop of blood emerging like here Quixote1818 Dec 2012 #10
My local Aquarium has a tide pool petting area - 4 kids to reach in and touch star fish, urchin, Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #37
So long and thanks for all the fish. ( n/t ) Make7 Dec 2012 #12
Damn!! Beat me to it!!! nt msanthrope Dec 2012 #38
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Safety should not depend on an eight year old following instructions jberryhill Dec 2012 #15
Then these experiences will have to go away IDoMath Dec 2012 #32
b/c dolphins ain't amazing unless you're throwing squid at 'em in a tank elehhhhna Dec 2012 #46
Yep IDoMath Dec 2012 #54
Saving the habitats is what we need. Seaworld should go. morningfog Dec 2012 #144
So we can all just go visit those habitats, then? IDoMath Dec 2012 #156
What in the world makes you think they exist for our viewing pleasure? Scootaloo Dec 2012 #177
When did I say that? IDoMath Dec 2012 #204
"All" would not go on such visits, nor should they. morningfog Dec 2012 #193
that's what national geographic is for elehhhhna Dec 2012 #237
They SHOULD go away jberryhill Dec 2012 #118
I'm not just talking about Dolphins. IDoMath Dec 2012 #122
These things have nothing to do with nature jberryhill Dec 2012 #126
Huh kwolf68 Dec 2012 #198
It's a vicious cycle IDoMath Dec 2012 #202
No, common sense should depend on parents not being too stupid to live. Egalitarian Thug Dec 2012 #79
Cetacean behavior has nothing to do with "common sense" jberryhill Dec 2012 #131
Good post. yardwork Dec 2012 #158
I agree with this gollygee Dec 2012 #199
I agree. nt ecstatic Dec 2012 #207
I don't think the kid was being a brat, she just forgot the rule when she ran out of fish. HiPointDem Dec 2012 #18
Exactly. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #77
agreed. sea world would be well advised to reexamine this arrangement though, because HiPointDem Dec 2012 #157
Yeah. If they know it's a problem when they raise the plates, maybe the sea world people could Squinch Dec 2012 #83
I can't imagine anyone thinking children hand feeding doplhins to be a good idea! hedgehog Dec 2012 #22
Why not? I did IDoMath Dec 2012 #34
Great, how about kids hand-feeding raw meat to the big cats next. eShirl Dec 2012 #178
OK, sounds good. IDoMath Dec 2012 #205
Dog fights are impressive too jberryhill Dec 2012 #203
80% of captive dolphins are now born in captivity IDoMath Dec 2012 #206
Well that's good to know jberryhill Dec 2012 #218
Zack: They also said dolphins might be smarter than people. TheManInTheMac Dec 2012 #24
They wanted $100,000 for that incident. Quantess Dec 2012 #26
What damages have occured that total 100K? Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #28
Hopefully they will fight. IDoMath Dec 2012 #35
They won't and the slimy parents will settle for $10,000.00 former-republican Dec 2012 #81
No, they will pay the lesser of the settlement or the cost to fight IDoMath Dec 2012 #87
Free the slaves and this won't happen! MoonRiver Dec 2012 #36
Bravo!!! UtahLib Dec 2012 #80
This is a tough one. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #40
I wonder if CPS is involved yet? Kali Dec 2012 #41
you poor thang Skittles Dec 2012 #45
I just want you to kick my ass! Kali Dec 2012 #82
OMG! Look at that injury! Whovian Dec 2012 #49
The dolphin should have been killed immediately. former-republican Dec 2012 #52
That's sarcasm, right? IDoMath Dec 2012 #57
why do you think it's sarcasm? slutticus Dec 2012 #62
. former-republican Dec 2012 #63
Because underneath my many layers of misanthropy lies and optimist? IDoMath Dec 2012 #66
What rule did she break? It looks like she was holding something up AWAY from the water while bluestate10 Dec 2012 #67
That might have been helpful, IMO. AverageJoe90 Dec 2012 #78
"How many 8 year old kids follow instructions. " and we lower the bar another notch. n/t IDoMath Dec 2012 #91
Not lowering the notch. An normal 8 year old does not rationalize as well as a normal 9 or 10 bluestate10 Dec 2012 #97
Rationalizing was not necessary. kiva Dec 2012 #100
I'm sure she was okay in the morning.. snooper2 Dec 2012 #134
This is a public amusement, open to any jberryhill Dec 2012 #150
My guess is that she will follow instructions next time AlexSatan Dec 2012 #195
Team Dolphin MotherPetrie Dec 2012 #85
+1 Agschmid Dec 2012 #103
The Poor Dolphin was Probably More Traumatized than the Kid Iggy Dec 2012 #90
She's lucky she didn't get Politicalboi Dec 2012 #95
I attempted to remove my chihuahua's Helen Reddy Dec 2012 #96
Gee, I walked in front of a car and it hit me, who wouldah thought ... no sympathy RKP5637 Dec 2012 #101
That dolphin belongs in the ocean, and these dolphin encounter things are fucking stupid. LeftyMom Dec 2012 #102
Exactly!!! And well said!!! RKP5637 Dec 2012 #106
+1 n/t Chan790 Dec 2012 #119
*applause* A-fucking-men. flvegan Dec 2012 #124
So far none. LeftyMom Dec 2012 #129
Definitely hating kids. flvegan Dec 2012 #136
Agreed. Animals are not here for our entertainment. morningfog Dec 2012 #139
Brava! yardwork Dec 2012 #159
+1 eShirl Dec 2012 #185
Touche! Carolina Dec 2012 #224
Wow! And you're a mom? Pool Hall Ace Dec 2012 #235
The parents and child were told the safety rules. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #110
just so you all know this thread has gone meta Dems50State Dec 2012 #113
The way I look at it.... Nolimit Dec 2012 #121
I think the father planned to have this happen. He wanted to video tape the hand Dems50State Dec 2012 #125
Post removed Post removed Dec 2012 #142
Good! People shouldn't get near dolphins trapped in tanks. morningfog Dec 2012 #143
Come on , don't blame the kid former-republican Dec 2012 #151
I don't blame the kid at all. morningfog Dec 2012 #152
Child feeds wild animal, makes CC Dec 2012 #147
Heres an idea don't keep animals in captivity that were never meant to be kept in captivity Arcanetrance Dec 2012 #148
Yes, and they should be given freedom. Cleita Dec 2012 #166
All dolphins and pitbulls should be killed. Like, right now. flvegan Dec 2012 #149
Squirrels ALSO former-republican Dec 2012 #153
Also children. Ever had one of those little shits bite you? LeftyMom Dec 2012 #155
Although I am sympathetic, this is kind of an assumed risk when feeding wild animals, and she did cecilfirefox Dec 2012 #162
Stupid fucking parents... MrMickeysMom Dec 2012 #165
Post removed Post removed Dec 2012 #167
What part of "wild" don't people get, even in domesticated animals? lonestarnot Dec 2012 #169
Meh frostfern Dec 2012 #171
So long and thanks for all the fish AldoLeopold Dec 2012 #179
Theyshouldn't have kids under 16 in those situations. I don't know if the girl was scared or teasing Michigan Alum Dec 2012 #181
Family to Seaworld: "It's YOUR fault we didn't follow the rules." AngryOldDem Dec 2012 #187
Nothing more reliable on DU than a little child hate. Glad to see we have not lost our way. CBGLuthier Dec 2012 #189
Nah, let's just excuse them when the break safety rules AlexSatan Dec 2012 #196
Young children move extremely fast and ecstatic Dec 2012 #209
It it was as bad as you describe AlexSatan Dec 2012 #231
Or we can call them names and insult their intelligence the good ol way CBGLuthier Dec 2012 #213
Using that logic AlexSatan Dec 2012 #232
Dolphin needs to be trained to eat in the wild... NCTraveler Dec 2012 #200
The food mainstreetonce Dec 2012 #208
This entire process is cruel to dolphins and should be banned. geek tragedy Dec 2012 #210
+ 1. Excellent point. nt Zorra Dec 2012 #217
Going on vacation to Sea World makes one "over privileged?" Atman Dec 2012 #228
People are stupid.... PavePusher Dec 2012 #220
What bugs me more about this kid is the way she addressed treestar Dec 2012 #222
It would be funnier if her name was Trillian instead of Jillian. Ian David Dec 2012 #226
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