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In reply to the discussion: My hubby & I made approx same salary for 17 years [View all]Michigan Alum
(335 posts)40. During a crisis, sometimes you find out how strong your relationship is. I hope things work out.
Whatever the result is. maybe he doesn't realize how hard you are looking for a job. It must be very hurtful to see someone you thought you knew act that way. So sorry. Sometimes things have a way of working out for the best.
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People can say awful things they don't mean, when they are under duress. He loves you.
WinkyDink
Nov 2012
#4
I have no answers to your specific problems but hope that after 18 yrs its not solely about the $$
riderinthestorm
Nov 2012
#8
We have not had a huge arguement like this for over a decade. We love & appreciate each other.
peacebird
Nov 2012
#27
Yes, it's difficult to determine without knowing the details or the people involved.
Beacool
Nov 2012
#38
During a crisis, sometimes you find out how strong your relationship is. I hope things work out.
Michigan Alum
Nov 2012
#40
You know the man better than we do. Is this remotely expected from him? He could be under some
bluestate10
Nov 2012
#58