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democrattotheend

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54. I can't help but feel bad for them
Sat Nov 10, 2012, 02:02 AM
Nov 2012

Not the rich Romney donors who lost money or the bloviating talking heads who predicted a Romney landslide. But on a human level, I can't help but feel bad for the activists who supported him, the people in those pictures. While I think their fears about Obama are completely unfounded, I remember what it was like to have a president who I felt was destroying the country and feeling powerless to stop it after 2004, and that all of my efforts to stop it had been for naught. Obviously I disagree with these people who think Obama is destroying the country, but I have no doubt that they believe it as sincerely as I believed Bush was. I was driving past Exit 89 on I-95 in Maryland when my mom called and told me Kerry conceded, and to this day I still get a nauseous feeling whenever I pass that exit. So on a human level, I have to feel sorry for the people who believed in Romney and worked hard for his campaign. I guess maybe I am too soft that way...I discovered in 2002 and 2004 that I can be a very sore loser, but not so much of a sore winner.

Great analysis, Dirk.. Permanut Nov 2012 #1
+1 nashville_brook Nov 2012 #4
We've doubled back.. Permanut Nov 2012 #6
It's like they were determined not to TRY DirkGently Nov 2012 #8
all i can say is holy crap -- you nailed it. nashville_brook Nov 2012 #2
Beautifully said! liberalmuse Nov 2012 #3
Great post! My cousin posted this on her facebook ... Bryn Nov 2012 #5
what "freedom of speech" rights did Obama take from her? Blue_Tires Nov 2012 #12
I have a feeling asking her would not clarify anything... meeshrox Nov 2012 #16
"formerly known as a Christian nation"-huh? oh is THAT what the treaty of tripoli was about leftyohiolib Nov 2012 #24
In their heads. WinkyDink Nov 2012 #28
My cousin un-friended my on election night. We were close as kids but never lived near each other, myrna minx Nov 2012 #56
well done...a good read n/t Sheepshank Nov 2012 #7
In some cases it's like a sporting event. Blanks Nov 2012 #9
I'm not laughing. I'm appalled and angry. DirkGently Nov 2012 #10
maybe not for Romney folks, nashville_brook Nov 2012 #18
Harder to be circumspect when he won't even concede. DirkGently Nov 2012 #36
If they want to understand how this could happen... Blanks Nov 2012 #52
They relied on not just whites, males & Christians ... DirkGently Nov 2012 #62
I think that is where I'm at Xyzse Nov 2012 #11
You've got the RW mom too? DCKit Nov 2012 #15
I'm an Independent Xyzse Nov 2012 #22
You aren't alone. It's not a tragedy for us. nt DCKit Nov 2012 #13
I don't wanna understand how they think, cuz if I did then I'd be crazy too struggle4progress Nov 2012 #14
That's what I say too. DCKit Nov 2012 #17
Thank you, Dirk. 99Forever Nov 2012 #19
I have a tough time feeling sad for a many who got wealthy putting working class people out of jobs LynneSin Nov 2012 #20
Smart Democrats consistently try to understand Ignorant / Brainwashed Republicans sally5050 Nov 2012 #21
I guess I'm hoping they'll be shocked into DirkGently Nov 2012 #33
And poor Old Clint Eastwood. Fuddnik Nov 2012 #23
Ms Jackson is a very strange person. She comes from the planet Kolab. Not a nice person. southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #25
I really liked her on SNL. Thought the wide-eyed nitwit thing was her act. DirkGently Nov 2012 #45
Well I have to say I don't watch SNL much and I don't remember her. She really is a wacko southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #47
She used to do little songs & perform handstands on DirkGently Nov 2012 #48
Well maybe she fell on her head when doing the hand stand. Bless her little heart. southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #55
both her and Dennis Miller have been abducted by aliens and replaced with reptiles. nashville_brook Nov 2012 #57
Have you ever noticed how comedians on the right aren't as funny as the ones on the left. southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #59
*cough* Foxworthy *cough cough* DirkGently Nov 2012 #61
he is ok. But you can only say "Only a redneck"............. southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #65
He & Miller were both funnier pre-politics. DirkGently Nov 2012 #66
I still like Foxworthy. He isn't mean spirited so I will watch him. But I never like Miller even southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #67
When I look at those photos and tweets, I see an insane level of entitlement gollygee Nov 2012 #26
at heaven05 Nov 2012 #27
Superb!!! As a mom, all I see when I watch groups of teabaggers acting up - calimary Nov 2012 #29
Excellent piece! ailsagirl Nov 2012 #30
this is among the best of the best posts evar! BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2012 #31
+1 nashville_brook Nov 2012 #34
Elephantine stages of grief: Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2012 #32
Blahahahha! DirkGently Nov 2012 #51
+1 nt ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #63
Awesome post! n/t Digital Puppy Nov 2012 #35
I will gloat all I like... ellisonz Nov 2012 #37
I don't think gloating helps anyone. DirkGently Nov 2012 #38
I don't think being polite about it helps anyone either. ellisonz Nov 2012 #39
I don't think we win playing it their way. We're smarter. Less childish. DirkGently Nov 2012 #40
only thing I care to side on is some of the abortion issue PatrynXX Nov 2012 #41
Those pictures made me very sad, especially the ones of children... truebluegreen Nov 2012 #42
hopefully the Mourning White People will be soon forgotten...irrelevant. nashville_brook Nov 2012 #43
When I see those pictures of children, looking devastated DirkGently Nov 2012 #44
Romney never apologized to the gay student in his private college he viciously attacked with his rustydog Nov 2012 #46
Romney himself? Nope. Just "contempt" there. DirkGently Nov 2012 #50
Excellent. Rec. yardwork Nov 2012 #49
You have to remember these are not rational people, they are motivated by fear. Avalux Nov 2012 #53
I can't help but feel bad for them democrattotheend Nov 2012 #54
Excellent post. sibelian Nov 2012 #58
k&r Starry Messenger Nov 2012 #60
Wonderful post. ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #64
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