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She is a lucid adult -- why should her paremts decide her fate??? obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #1
That's my reaction too!!! get the red out Oct 2012 #5
The courts had no business giving TWO TROs obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #14
No they did NOT! get the red out Oct 2012 #19
Yes, TWICE the parents and courts have stopped their daughter's legal rights obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #21
Sorry, should have said "No the courts did NOT have the right" get the red out Oct 2012 #29
I read it that way anyway! obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #33
First reply nailed it. slackmaster Oct 2012 #22
Refusing medical treatment is not "suicide". nt. Mariana Oct 2012 #30
Her parents see it as that, and it's a sin to them obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #35
Her parents are control freaks Mariana Oct 2012 #43
Exactly. Pab Sungenis Oct 2012 #76
And torturing her in the process. Mariana Oct 2012 #78
I never said I agreed with them, I have said the opposite obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #82
Refusing food is suicide. slackmaster Oct 2012 #56
How about refusing a respirator? Mariana Oct 2012 #60
I don't want to get into a hair-splitting exercise here slackmaster Oct 2012 #61
She chose to get terminal brain cancer? Cal Carpenter Oct 2012 #66
Did I say she chose to get cancer? slackmaster Oct 2012 #74
You said she made a conscious decision to end her life Cal Carpenter Oct 2012 #75
Thank you for your pedantry. I'm sure it's given with good intentions. slackmaster Oct 2012 #79
There's nothing to decide there. Mariana Oct 2012 #69
shes their daughter. have the decision yourself then judge. i roguevalley Oct 2012 #34
That has nothing to do with the legalities of her case obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #37
It's not just appalling, it is liberalhistorian Oct 2012 #44
Which they have done, TWICE obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #48
the legalities aren't part of what I am saying. I am saying until its your decision, you can't know. roguevalley Oct 2012 #80
Yes, the legalities have everything in the world to do with what you're saying. Care Acutely Oct 2012 #88
if you ignore the human element in situations you will always be pissed and filled with ego based roguevalley Oct 2012 #92
The law protects free human beings from malfeasance cloaked in "concern" Care Acutely Oct 2012 #93
I hear what you're saying. Gormy Cuss Oct 2012 #90
me too. this is a terrible thing for everyone, especially that poor girl My thoughts are for her. roguevalley Oct 2012 #91
An adult has the right to refuse medical treatment. jberryhill Oct 2012 #2
that should be the bottom line here marions ghost Oct 2012 #4
I'm curious about your reluctance Le Taz Hot Oct 2012 #13
Both my father and mother marions ghost Oct 2012 #20
. . . Le Taz Hot Oct 2012 #32
In our case marions ghost Oct 2012 #36
"In an era of for-profit hospitals you can see that this can cause problems." = yes. it will. HiPointDem Oct 2012 #86
Thanks for the corroboration marions ghost Oct 2012 #89
She doesn't want treatment - what's "grey" jberryhill Oct 2012 #58
You're not hearing what I'm saying marions ghost Oct 2012 #59
This obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #15
Bull's eye. hifiguy Oct 2012 #31
I'm sorry about your mother, but I'm glad her wishes were honored liberalhistorian Oct 2012 #46
That was more than three years ago. hifiguy Oct 2012 #49
Yes, I know of two cases in which a person refused treatment for cancer Lydia Leftcoast Oct 2012 #38
My late sweetheart was a devout Catholic; but, she reached a point in her cancer treatment... LongTomH Oct 2012 #57
I work with cancer patients and see this kind of thing every day... tallahasseedem Oct 2012 #64
It sure doesn't make it any easier Mariana Oct 2012 #70
This tragic for everyone involved. Fantastic Anarchist Oct 2012 #3
The supreme entity wants her - keeping her on life support is in opposition to it's design. geckosfeet Oct 2012 #6
Well, that's a slippery slope argument, regarding medical procedures. WinkyDink Oct 2012 #12
The daughter expressed one desire. The parents intervened and imposed theirs. geckosfeet Oct 2012 #77
“The thought of her dying, my heart tremors, everything goes black,” Mariana Oct 2012 #7
And, his daughter WILL die anyway obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #16
I saw this happen with my Uncle HockeyMom Oct 2012 #8
I love that song obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #17
A grown woman has the right to refuse medical treatment. madaboutharry Oct 2012 #9
28. She is well in to being of the age of majority 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #10
Is 28 not legal adulthood? This shouldn't even be allowed in court. WinkyDink Oct 2012 #11
And TWICE the courts have stopped her legal medical wishes obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #18
stupid fucking religous fundies... snooper2 Oct 2012 #23
Those are evil parents malaise Oct 2012 #24
I feel sorry for the parents. It's very hard to lose a child, but, in this case, Arkansas Granny Oct 2012 #25
I don't feel sorry for cruel, stupid, fearful people. nt valerief Oct 2012 #28
The parents should go to her bedside and ask her what she wants to do. yellowcanine Oct 2012 #39
They don't give a fuck what she wants. nt. Mariana Oct 2012 #51
I felt bad for them, too, even though I feel the court ultimately ruled correctly in letting her go. Pithlet Oct 2012 #71
How torturous for the woman. Religion is torture. nt valerief Oct 2012 #26
Damn those parents... This is HER choice. HERs alone. hlthe2b Oct 2012 #27
Like many free-lance fundies, they're ignorant of their own tradition's theology Lydia Leftcoast Oct 2012 #40
You are correct, that is the theology behind it. liberalhistorian Oct 2012 #42
It technically isn't part of doctrine anymore obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #84
Which Christian denominations teach Mariana Oct 2012 #52
I don't know of any, but a lot of fundamentalists kind of make it up as they go along Lydia Leftcoast Oct 2012 #73
Catholic doctrine allows adults to refuse medical treatment for themselves obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #85
Well, as a Christian, I can say liberalhistorian Oct 2012 #41
dumbass kkkonservatives won't let their daughter make the ultimate decision BOG PERSON Oct 2012 #45
Using religious rhetoric sucks Sheepshank Oct 2012 #47
It's certainly a handy tool for manipulating people. Mariana Oct 2012 #54
I've said it before and I'll say it again: the fundies do not give a shit about children!!!!!! Initech Oct 2012 #50
Breaking right now -- HappyMe Oct 2012 #53
Good. hifiguy Oct 2012 #67
GOOD! obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #87
This is so sad. dkf Oct 2012 #55
The overwhelming majority of Christians Mariana Oct 2012 #68
Catholic Hospital my Mom was in HockeyMom Oct 2012 #72
Let her go in peace. tallahasseedem Oct 2012 #62
It's all about suffering and torture. God's plan for you. Duer 157099 Oct 2012 #63
They should allow her to determine her own destiny mrs_p Oct 2012 #65
i don't get it, if these folks believe in the afterlife, what's the big friggin' deal? spanone Oct 2012 #81
She's 28. Let her decide. proud2BlibKansan Oct 2012 #83
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