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LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
23. Hate can be unlearned
Tue Aug 7, 2012, 08:23 PM
Aug 2012

Even though I was around 8-9 years old when I realized what the kids said about minorities was a load of crap, it took me longer to understand homosexuality and that it was not some 'creepy thing that pervs do'.

One of the things that Harvey Milk believed that if people knew gay people that they wouldn't vote for Prop 6 and he wanted people to come out of the closet and let their families know that gay people are normal just like everyone else. I have to say that it took me working with 2 gay men to finally realize that homosexuals weren't the deviant freaks that the kids where I went to school claimed them to be. They were just like everyone else and honestly, 1000% nicer than those kids who told said bad things about homosexuals. Not proud that at one time I bought into the gay-hating memes out there but I'm glad that my mind was opened up to the fact that it was all bullshit. That was almost 30 years ago.

BTW welcome to DU

I'm mid 50s, when I was a teenager I would have sworn we'd be united by now. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #1
I know I keep hoping these shits will just die out of old age LynneSin Aug 2012 #2
There's a whole generation of Young Republicans to replace them. Hoyt Aug 2012 #3
their kids will be the problem then.. ELI BOY 1950 Aug 2012 #6
Things are improving. Lone_Star_Dem Aug 2012 #7
Same here madokie Aug 2012 #16
"Your life sucks? Blame the someone not white or not American or not Christian or not Straight." pampango Aug 2012 #4
I grew up in a poor white family in a poor white neighborhood. African Americans live on the west upaloopa Aug 2012 #5
wish I could rec a response - well said. rurallib Aug 2012 #9
worthy of its own thread Skittles Aug 2012 #10
Great post, thanks. Scuba Aug 2012 #17
"I had nothing to do about that other than how I treated other people. " Amen!!! uponit7771 Aug 2012 #18
Upbringing is an important contribtion... however, Useless in FL Aug 2012 #8
I must say, you are certainly not useless at all Care Acutely Aug 2012 #11
I can only agree with the first premise. qwlauren35 Aug 2012 #12
Really? LynneSin Aug 2012 #14
The 1% "Look down, not up" ErikJ Aug 2012 #13
My grandparents on both sides were racists. UnrepentantLiberal Aug 2012 #15
Why did they have to correct you deaniac21 Aug 2012 #19
No I repeated some things LynneSin Aug 2012 #22
Excellent post...I was from a wealthy family in Texas...saw a lot 1st hand. Boxerfan Aug 2012 #20
Most of my family is racist Sick of the GOP Aug 2012 #21
Hate can be unlearned LynneSin Aug 2012 #23
Thanks for the welcome Sick of the GOP Aug 2012 #28
I am 73 now and grew up in Miami, FL. RebelOne Aug 2012 #24
The neonazi was easily manipulated Jack Sprat Aug 2012 #25
angry white male.. Historic NY Aug 2012 #26
Congrats, this is one of the BEST threads I've ever ever read. turtlerescue1 Aug 2012 #27
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