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Bertha Venation

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Hometown: Huntington Beach, CA
Current location: Charles County, MD
Member since: Wed Oct 15, 2003, 09:30 PM
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Welfare fraud discussion w/ RW'er on FB: "a lot more than gov't stats show"

This is what Lena said in response to a statistic I linked to (8.1% fraud in improper welfare payments in 2013): "There are the legitimate needy and there are abusers, a lot more than the Gov. statistics show. I worked for the Fed. Government so I know a little about waste, fraud and abuse. Let it go."

Let it go? Let it go? Oh, I don't think so. Now I'm pissed.

Off to surf for more stats. Meantime, anyone have any handy links at their fingertips?
Posted by Bertha Venation | Wed May 20, 2015, 10:25 AM (2 replies)

My wife sees a therapist for (not revealing confidentialities)

She is learning how to live with, to deal with, someone with borderline personality disorder.

Me.

This is a new diagnosis. It goes with major depression, generalized anxiety, and bipolar II. I take four psych drugs.

Now borderline personality disorder. Even though I've read a lot about it, I don't really understand it. Anyone else with this particular affliction?

I really feel bad for my wife. She didn't know what she was signing on for 15 years ago.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Tue May 19, 2015, 10:45 PM (8 replies)

What do you think of this?

I'm a member of the Maryland Choral Society, a wonderfully talented chorus. It humbles me to think that I passed an audition and was accepted into this group.

It seems to be assumed that everyone in this group sings in a church choir and is a Christian. The president of the chorus is a Baptist pastor. I'm an atheist.

I can deal with this. I can sing sacred texts and standard religious carols and such. I see myself as an actor when I do this. The words mean nothing to me.

I'm facing something unique in my life. I'm somewhat apprehensive about coming out as an atheist. I wouldn't make an announcement, but I would come out in one-on-one conversation. I have already been asked twice what church I sing with. I just said "none right now" once and "this is my only group right now" to the other.

It is not important to me to flatly set the record straight. I don't have any notions that I must be true to myself, to be out fully so that I can sleep at night.

I just don't like dodging questions, and am apprehensive about how/when to answer fully.

Your thoughts?

Oh - just got an email from the president. A member's toddler grandson died today, and he's asked us to remember the family in prayer. This is an email to a secular chorus.

Cross-posted from the Lounge
Posted by Bertha Venation | Wed May 13, 2015, 11:46 AM (10 replies)

What do you think of this?

I'm a member of the Maryland Choral Society, a wonderfully talented chorus. It humbles me to think that I passed an audition and was accepted into this group.

It seems to be assumed that everyone in this group sings in a church choir and is a Christian. The president of the chorus is a Baptist pastor. I'm an atheist.

I can deal with this. I can sing sacred texts and standard religious carols and such. I see myself as an actor when I do this. The words mean nothing to me.

I'm facing something unique in my life. I'm somewhat apprehensive about coming out as an atheist. I wouldn't make an announcement, but I would come out in one-on-one conversation. I have already been asked twice what church I sing with. I just said "none right now" once and "this is my only group right now" to the other.

It is not important to me to flatly set the record straight. I don't have any notions that I must be true to myself, to be out fully so that I can sleep at night.

I just don't like dodging questions, and am apprehensive about how/when to answer fully.

Your thoughts?

Oh - just got an email from the president. A member's toddler grandson died today, and he's asked us to remember the family in prayer. This is an email to a secular chorus.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Wed May 13, 2015, 11:16 AM (23 replies)

a very bad night

I guess becoming unhinged because I scared my cat is a good sign of a bad night. Could use some helpful vibes. I just want to be happy again.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Sun Apr 26, 2015, 10:55 PM (11 replies)

Disturbing dream. Graphic. Don't read if squeamish or easily offended. Had to tell someone.

I dreamed about my best friend. I adore him and he adores me.

I was in a large open work area, surrounded by a much larger open work area. It seemed like an office in a warehouse. There were other people there.

There was a bed in the office, with beige sheets and a beige blanket (colors of linens I'd never have in my house. Yuck).

My friend walked through the door and headed for the bed. He looked miserable. I knew somehow that he was very sick and had a fever.

As he laid down and covered himself up, I said, "You got what everyone else has, huh?" He asked me angrily, "what?" I said, "the creeping crud around here. Seems you got it."

Suddenly he was uncovered -- and nude. He grabbed my head between his knees and pulled me on top of him. He said, "why don't you go fuck yourself!" He threw me across the room with his knees.

I woke up shaking.

I had to tell someone. I don't feel comfortable telling my friend (yet), or my wife, or even my sister, to whom I tell everything.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Tue Apr 21, 2015, 03:58 PM (9 replies)

Anyone know anything about something strange happening on Facebook?

Mrs. V.'s feed was inundated with broadcast sports pages, I mean just flooded. My page won't open at all. Curious.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Tue Apr 21, 2015, 01:45 PM (7 replies)

What is this called?

There is a name for this question and I can't remember what it is. (It's "Somebody's Something.") It's driving me nuts!

A Christian asks: Wouldn't you rather believe in God and discover that he doesn't exist, or not believe in him and find that he does exist - when it's too late?

Anyone? I'm grasping at straws.

Thanks.

Cross-posted to the Christian Liberals etc. group.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Sat Apr 18, 2015, 05:35 PM (8 replies)

What is this called?

There is a name for this question and I can't remember what it is. (It's "Somebody's Something.") It's driving me nuts!

A Christian asks: Wouldn't you rather believe in God and discover that he doesn't exist, or not believe in him and find that he does exist - when it's too late?

Anyone? I'm grasping at straws.

Thanks.

Cross-posted to the Atheism group.
Posted by Bertha Venation | Sat Apr 18, 2015, 05:33 PM (3 replies)

Holy shit!

For the first time in months, my postprandial blood glucose is within the limit.

It's probably because my doctor increased my insulin yesterday, but I'll take it.

Posted by Bertha Venation | Fri Apr 17, 2015, 12:12 PM (1 replies)
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