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ismnotwasm

(41,975 posts)
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:04 PM Apr 2015

Sad news, white ladies: Some dude on the internet won’t date you any more

But let’s let that slide, because, aside from these six white gals, and “Bille” Holiday, we still don’t know what sorts of ladies he would date.

The answer? Foreign ladies who are all “receptive” and shit.

Compared to white women, women from other parts of the world offer genuine substance. I was lucky enough to date someone from another culture for several years. She was from India, and had in abundance what most women in the West have lost: what the philosopher Dietrich von Hildebrand called “receptivity to values.”

And it helps if they’ve never seen an ocean before.

Dating someone from India brought me into contact with a culture that is still receptive to values as von Hildebrand understood them. My girlfriend clutched my hand in delight at dance concerts and wept when she saw the Atlantic Ocean for the first time.

Also, fans of 2 Broke Girls are definitely OUT. Total dealbreaker!

India — like Africa and Japan and other non-Western cultures — still sees with open eyes. They have dance that flatters rather than degrades the female body, colorful and embodied religious ritual (hands folded, my girlfriend would greet the sun morning at the beach), and food as soulful restitution and not just bodily nourishment. We have cupcakes and 2 Broke Girls.


http://wehuntedthemammoth.com/2015/04/09/sad-news-white-ladies-some-dude-on-the-internet-wont-date-you-any-more/


I'll bet a thousand dollars this guy doesn't realize what a racist fuck he really is. And not toward white women.
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Sad news, white ladies: Some dude on the internet won’t date you any more (Original Post) ismnotwasm Apr 2015 OP
Misogyny takes many forms. NoJusticeNoPeace Apr 2015 #1
Whatever shall I do? shenmue Apr 2015 #2
Which is his underlying complaint ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2015 #9
You nailed it! JustAnotherGen Apr 2015 #14
and ....shall we say, "socially awkward." n/t 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2015 #16
He's also going to be horribly disappointed when she fully acclimates to the US Warpy Apr 2015 #3
Well, ya know, if dating women doesn't work out for him, he can always go fuck himself. Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #4
Sounds... 3catwoman3 Apr 2015 #7
Bwahahaha! ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #11
Dingdingding shenmue Apr 2015 #15
You came this close to owing me a new phone. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #17
Would it surprise anyone that ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2015 #5
I knew he was conservative ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #12
I have a friend who describes himself as an "ultra liberal" and is a diehard Democratic partisan. Maedhros Apr 2015 #6
love these losers who claim "other women" are so much better Skittles Apr 2015 #8
They don't like American born women. Manifestor_of_Light Apr 2015 #10
I don't even know where to start with this JustAnotherGen Apr 2015 #13
Yeah and you know with that attitude he's just another asshole. ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #19
Oh god I love wehuntedthemanboobz. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #18
He Facebook friended me ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #20
nothing new sadly DonCoquixote Apr 2015 #21

Warpy

(111,243 posts)
3. He's also going to be horribly disappointed when she fully acclimates to the US
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:15 PM
Apr 2015

and starts picking up enough slang to realize everybody else in town thinks her new husband is a total wanker.

I know a lot of marriages that broke up when the mail order bride learned enough English to know she had a way out.

I wish they'd start making Real Dolls a little cheaper. There are a lot of men out there for whom they would be perfect. Just hire a cleaning service once a week and they'd be in heaven.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
4. Well, ya know, if dating women doesn't work out for him, he can always go fuck himself.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:16 PM
Apr 2015

That's my suggestion for him. I hope he takes it.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
5. Would it surprise anyone that ...
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:29 PM
Apr 2015

the philosopher Hildebrand was a raving misogynist and racist, conservative?

ismnotwasm

(41,975 posts)
12. I knew he was conservative
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 08:00 PM
Apr 2015

But I don't know enough about his philosophy--but this surprises me not at all.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
6. I have a friend who describes himself as an "ultra liberal" and is a diehard Democratic partisan.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:33 PM
Apr 2015

He married a woman from Birkina Faso nine years ago (fantastic woman, by the way) who shares this same sentiment, more or less.

For the last few years he has been pestering me to find a "mail order bride" from overseas, with the idea that I would be "rescuing" such a woman from a life of poverty. I kindly tell him I'm not interested in such a thing, but he persists.

He also thinks that arranged marriages are the "natural" way of finding a mate, and that our current dalliance with romantic love as a basis for marriage is a "fad."

Amazing where one can find these types of attitudes.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
8. love these losers who claim "other women" are so much better
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:41 PM
Apr 2015

after they have been royally rejected as a creep by the ones they're tearing down

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
10. They don't like American born women.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 07:48 PM
Apr 2015

The right wing types want a personal slave that waits on them constantly. They don't want a woman that is an equal partner. They don't like uppity American women who go to college, work, and have their own opinions.

I have met several who married women from the Phillipines, Russia, and China. And some of these guys get taken for thousands of dollars from the woman, when the woman is a con artist.

"genuine substance" must be a dog whistle for "personal cook and maid".

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
13. I don't even know where to start with this
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 08:50 PM
Apr 2015

The quality and extent of butt hurt he has from being rejected is astounding. And you are right - he's playing into racial stereotypes and prejudice - yikes.

Yuyoishida (sp?) has written about some of what she has experienced as an Asian woman. I think - I think I feel worse for the woman in Asia, India, etc etc that gets sucked in by this dirtbag. Yuck.

ismnotwasm

(41,975 posts)
19. Yeah and you know with that attitude he's just another asshole.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 11:41 PM
Apr 2015

Tries to hide behind religion--but at root, that's not the real problem. He wants someone he thinks is compliant, someone he can feel stronger than. This kind of racism isn't all that uncommon, and the Pan-Asian women bear the burden of stereo-types from assholes like this.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
21. nothing new sadly
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 01:19 AM
Apr 2015

Russian mail order brides, post WW2Japanese war brides, all 'favored" by some American male who thinks modern wimmin have lost their way...a sad, old tale that refuses to die.

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