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BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:25 PM Nov 2015

Why are so many voting for Bernie simply because he is male?

Last edited Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:27 PM - Edit history (3)

Read the whole thread The first paragraph is meant as a parody of the crap posted over and over again about Clinton's candidacy. I would have thought that was obvious, but evidently people like to comment just based on titles.
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Why do so many "liberals" insist on voting exclusively for male presidents? Why are they supporting a candidate only because of his chromosomes, when his experience and qualifications doesn't come close to the far superior, woman candidate?

I am FED UP with people announcing that we are voting for Clinton exclusively because she is woman.
We see one of these posts every day, and what it tells me is that too many who pass themselves off as progressives assume women to be so inferior to themselves that we can't make rational decisions. It tells me that their opposition to Clinton is inexorably linked to her gender, but that it isn't enough for them to decline to vote for her. They need to insult millions of women across this country who have the audacity to support someone whose qualifications, fortitude, and substantive approach to policy make her infinitely more qualified than the male candidate that members here assume we owe are votes to. They are so certain that men own our votes that the failure to automatically deliver them on command makes us somehow deviant or errant--irrational.

It is no different from the right calling Obama the "Affirmative Action" president. Throughout this country's history, we have had politicians, and presidents in particular, who came exclusively from a narrow, white male demographic. And yet when African Americans and women seek to enter than exclusive white male club, we are told they get some sort of special consideration based on race and gender, because it's so easy for black men and women to be president. Can't you tell by the scores of women and black presidents?

Such arguments are ludicrous, entirely divorced from reality and counter to all evidence. If people were so anxious to vote for women simply because they were women, we wouldn't be in 2015 without ever having had a woman president. Clearly they are upset that society is moving forward, that men are losing their exclusive grip on power, so in order to try to cling to it they invoke reactionary, right-wing arguments about special treatment.

This is 2015. Start acting like it, and quit treating women as though we are less with you because many of us don't support who you tell us to. It is insulting, reactionary, and sexist. I don't give a shit who you vote for, but you have NO RIGHT to announce that women are supporting a candidate simply because she is a woman.

If Hillary Clinton becomes president, it will be in spite of her being a woman, not because of it.
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Why are so many voting for Bernie simply because he is male? (Original Post) BainsBane Nov 2015 OP
Most have no idea how 'ist' they are. bravenak Nov 2015 #1
say what? wendylaroux Nov 2015 #5
Click the link in my sigline bravenak Nov 2015 #15
Holding yourself out... DemocratSinceBirth Nov 2015 #55
So when someone posts they are voting for Clinton because they want a woman president jeff47 Nov 2015 #2
Bullshit BainsBane Nov 2015 #6
So your answer is.....? jeff47 Nov 2015 #20
Btw, on "doubt anyone has said that" jeff47 Nov 2015 #64
Sorry ... not buying it jimlup Nov 2015 #3
You're missing the point BainsBane Nov 2015 #11
Personally TeddyR Nov 2015 #4
+1000 Hydra Nov 2015 #7
A persons knowledge and priorities BootinUp Nov 2015 #9
"If you think race and gender are important than you shouldn't be voting" BainsBane Nov 2015 #13
You have a lot of work to do explaining to most firms that diversity is not a worthwhile thing to stevenleser Nov 2015 #24
Did the poster say anything about firms hiring for diversity? Seems he was talking about voting. JonLeibowitz Nov 2015 #27
Voting for someone is hiring someone for office. Did you really not understand that? nt stevenleser Nov 2015 #28
Electing leaders is a tad bit different than telling others how to run their firms. JonLeibowitz Nov 2015 #30
No it is not. cui bono Nov 2015 #34
How can you possibly think the two are different? nt stevenleser Nov 2015 #35
I asked you first. :p You made the assertion. cui bono Nov 2015 #37
Did I vote for you for your job? neverforget Nov 2015 #38
complete rubbish DianeK Nov 2015 #8
Attempt at political judo - FAIL earthside Nov 2015 #10
Try reading more than the title BainsBane Nov 2015 #14
I understood the point entirely. earthside Nov 2015 #45
So sorry that she didn't pay the GOP Benghazi witchhunt panel the BainsBane Nov 2015 #47
I'm not voting for Hillary because she's a war hawk, and a whole bunch of other reasons anti partisan Nov 2015 #12
I guess you're not going to be able to vote at all then BainsBane Nov 2015 #16
I said "war HAWK", way to take that out of context. anti partisan Nov 2015 #18
"People like you don't care" Agschmid Nov 2015 #23
Alert or quit whining. nt Logical Nov 2015 #32
I'm good. Thanks. Agschmid Nov 2015 #33
Yes, it is no different than putting blood on Hillary for the Iraq War BainsBane Nov 2015 #25
Female candidates are third way triangulators. immoderate Nov 2015 #17
Is that somehow embedded in the female genetic make up? BainsBane Nov 2015 #22
Appears embedded in female CANDIDATES genetic makeup. immoderate Nov 2015 #26
I don't normally get involved in the back-and-forth Dem2 Nov 2015 #19
Thank you! BainsBane Nov 2015 #21
This Citizen Will Vote For Bernie Sanders Based On Policy And Position cantbeserious Nov 2015 #29
Yes and her warhawkness Rosa Luxemburg Nov 2015 #48
I'm going to call Bullshit. JonLeibowitz Nov 2015 #31
That wasn't my point BainsBane Nov 2015 #39
Doesn't bother me. What would bother me is if people are voting not on the issues. JonLeibowitz Nov 2015 #40
People vote for a variety of reasons BainsBane Nov 2015 #49
Bernie is the best candidate running regardless of gender. cui bono Nov 2015 #36
+100000000000000 Initech Nov 2015 #57
Neither gender nor race decide anything for me AgingAmerican Nov 2015 #41
They are called the "BernieBros" Tarc Nov 2015 #42
If only they existed! AgingAmerican Nov 2015 #43
I didn't think BernieBro sounded so bad BainsBane Nov 2015 #46
K&R. Found myself cheering at parts, especially the last two paragraphs. nt MeNMyVolt Nov 2015 #44
More useless crap. Not surprised, given the author. Comrade Grumpy Nov 2015 #50
Same goes for your reply. n/t JTFrog Nov 2015 #51
I'm fed up with her supporters announcing that too Android3.14 Nov 2015 #52
A straw man jumping a shark MannyGoldstein Nov 2015 #53
Are you saying you haven't seen the threads claiming BainsBane Nov 2015 #59
Bullshit.And no.... 99Forever Nov 2015 #54
Why comment then? BainsBane Nov 2015 #58
I know exactly what "the point" is. 99Forever Nov 2015 #60
Who needs some butter? I got plenty of it! Initech Nov 2015 #56
Why all of the silliness? Owl Nov 2015 #61
I know of no one voting for Bernie because he's male. Fawke Em Nov 2015 #62
If you note the gender gap in Clinton's support, it is clear lots of men DO want a man. McCamy Taylor Nov 2015 #63
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
1. Most have no idea how 'ist' they are.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:27 PM
Nov 2015

They think the victims of oppression are their oppressors merely by the act of wanting the same opportunities. Their jealousy shows too.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,708 posts)
55. Holding yourself out...
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 06:23 PM
Nov 2015

Holding yourself out as a member of a race that you aren't a member of to score political points is deplorable.




>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> white guy

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
2. So when someone posts they are voting for Clinton because they want a woman president
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:28 PM
Nov 2015

what would you like us to take away from that statement?

Not a laundry list followed with that statement. That is the entire reasoning provided.

Apparently, thinking that particular DUer is voting for Clinton because of her gender is wrong. So what's the correct answer, according to you?

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
6. Bullshit
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:46 PM
Nov 2015

Firstly, I seriously doubt anyone has said that, or that in another post they might not have given other reasons for supporting her. If they only wanted a woman they would have voted for Palin or they could just as easily vote for Fiorina. It's not like Clinton is the only woman on the planet.

The people who speak most about Clinton's gender are those who oppose her. In doing so, they reveal far more about themselves than her or her supporters.

And don't even pretend you haven't seen multiple threads insisting support for Clinton is because she is a woman. This isn't about one DUer. It's about thread after thread where men insist women are supporting Clinton exclusively because of her gender. It is hostile to women and treats us as less. I will add that those who make such comments never display any signs of the intellectual superiority they are so certain they possess.

The correct answer is to cast your own vote and mind your business. Work on GOTV activities for your candidate. It's not up to you to decide the basis for which others are voting. You get one vote only. Your vote is no more equal than anyone else's, even if you default for male candidates in every single election. Of course, you can set about insulting the women of America, just as some Sanders supporters have already done to African Americans, to ensure your candidate continues to lose support. The fact is most Americans do not maintain 19th or mid-20th century notions of gender relations. The argument is a losing one, in addition to being idiotic.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
20. So your answer is.....?
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:06 PM
Nov 2015
Firstly, I seriously doubt anyone has said that, or that in another post they might not have given other reasons for supporting her.

While I do not keep track of what every poster says in every thread, there's plenty of posts where the only cited reason in that thread is gender.

If they only wanted a woman they would have voted for Palin or they could just as easily vote for Fiorina. It's not like Clinton is the only woman on the planet.

Well, Palin was running for VP. As for Fiorina, the same reasoning would apply, but they did not state they would cross party lines to vote for a woman. And I'm not going to assume they would.

And don't even pretend you haven't seen multiple threads insisting support for Clinton is because she is a woman.

I didn't. I asked what we are supposed to take away from the ones listing it as the reason they want to vote for her.

The correct answer is to cast your own vote and mind your business. Work on GOTV activities for your candidate. It's not up to you to decide the basis for which others are voting.

I'm not deciding the basis. I'm taking posters at their word.

Your vote is no more equal than anyone else's, even if you default for male candidates in every single election. Of course, you can set about insulting the women of America, just as some Sanders supporters have already done to African Americans, to ensure your candidate continues to lose support. The fact is most Americans do not maintain 19th or mid-20th century notions of gender relations. The argument is a losing one, in addition to being idiotic.

Good thing I never claimed I was supposed to decide how other people are allowed to decide who to vote for then.

Of course, that still leaves the question unanswered. Instead, you are attacking a post I did not make and have not made elsewhere.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
3. Sorry ... not buying it
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:40 PM
Nov 2015

I would prefer a woman presidential candidate. That is why I am a strong supporter of Elizabeth Warren and was hoping she would run this cycle. But I will not vote for Hillary Clinton just because she is XX and not XY. I don't discriminate on the basis of chromosomes. An attack post assuming that supporters of Bernie Sanders do is ridiculous, especially here. Get a grip.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
11. You're missing the point
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:51 PM
Nov 2015

Read past the first paragraph, which is meant sarcastically. The rest is the point.

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
4. Personally
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:42 PM
Nov 2015

Don't care about gender or race. If that's a quality you think is important then you shouldn't be voting. Sarah Palin is female and Ben Carson is African American, and neither is qualified to be president. Nor for that matter is the white guy, Donald Trump. So instead of focusing on a trait the candidate can't change, let's focus on their policies.

BootinUp

(47,077 posts)
9. A persons knowledge and priorities
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:50 PM
Nov 2015

may be partially shaped by their ethnic or religion or gender or orientation. I am not suggesting it should be a major factor, but I do not think there is anything wrong about it being factored in to someones decision.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
13. "If you think race and gender are important than you shouldn't be voting"
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:52 PM
Nov 2015

That's exactly what the GOP's position is, which is why they are working to restrict the franchise.
We all get to vote, and what you think about why or how others vote is completely irrelevant.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
24. You have a lot of work to do explaining to most firms that diversity is not a worthwhile thing to
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:15 PM
Nov 2015

pursue.

Keep in mind that while doing so, you will be undoing a lot of efforts to promote fair hiring and promotions of women and minorities.

JonLeibowitz

(6,282 posts)
27. Did the poster say anything about firms hiring for diversity? Seems he was talking about voting.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:27 PM
Nov 2015

Nice strawman, though.

JonLeibowitz

(6,282 posts)
30. Electing leaders is a tad bit different than telling others how to run their firms.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:34 PM
Nov 2015

But since you asked: if I were running a firm I would be looking for the most qualified (based on experiences, education, recommendations) candidate that applied. I would encourage underrepresented minorities to apply, and then pick the best applicant for the position.

That's also my strategy for the election. I only wish Warren had entered the fray, I might be supporting her instead of Bernie.

earthside

(6,960 posts)
10. Attempt at political judo - FAIL
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:50 PM
Nov 2015

I would aver that 90 percent of supporters of Sen. Sanders would instead be enthused supporters of Elizabeth Warren if she had run.

Guess what? It is about issues, ability and experience.



earthside

(6,960 posts)
45. I understood the point entirely.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 11:13 AM
Nov 2015

Just like I understand the meaning of the little 'Hillary being arrogant and dismissive' gif in your (and others) signature line.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
47. So sorry that she didn't pay the GOP Benghazi witchhunt panel the
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 05:27 PM
Nov 2015

difference you think they deserve.

anti partisan

(429 posts)
12. I'm not voting for Hillary because she's a war hawk, and a whole bunch of other reasons
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:52 PM
Nov 2015

Not sure about you, but I don't easily forgive people whose decisions lead to unnecessary people getting killed.

This applies to both capital punishment (which Hillary is for by the way) and war.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
16. I guess you're not going to be able to vote at all then
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:55 PM
Nov 2015

because Bernie has supported plenty of wars, voted against gun control, and for immunity for gun corporations. He's also voted to allow loaded guns in public places like national parks. More Americans die from gun violence than war.

anti partisan

(429 posts)
18. I said "war HAWK", way to take that out of context.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:58 PM
Nov 2015

Are you really trying to put the blood on Bernie's hands for gun violence? That is just shameful, and a lot of more people are dying from war (overseas gun violence) than American gun violence. They just aren't Americans so people like you don't care.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
25. Yes, it is no different than putting blood on Hillary for the Iraq War
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:20 PM
Nov 2015

Last edited Sun Nov 22, 2015, 05:24 PM - Edit history (1)

You said you don't forgive people who vote for War. Bernie voted against the Iraq War, which is fantastic. He has supported and continues to support many more wars, including against ISIS.

As for my being shameful by blaming Bernie for the consequences of his votes, it is no different from your blaming Clinton for the consequences of hers.

To claim I do not care about non-American lives is malicious and false. What I don't do is pretend deaths from gun violence don't exist or don't count. And while I actively protested the Iraq War, frankly I do care more about gun violence because it affects my life. I live in a community that has a great deal of gun violence. It sucks having gun fire right outside your front door, destroying your property and threatening your life. It sucks having bullets fly through your windows into your building, barely missing people sleeping. And it especially sucks to be killed by gun fire, as happens all too often here.

This, however, is not the point of this OP, which is about so-called liberals insulting women for failing to vote as we are told.

Dem2

(8,166 posts)
19. I don't normally get involved in the back-and-forth
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:00 PM
Nov 2015

But you've hit on an issue I've noticed here and your post does a good job of making the point with a clever headline to boot.

The reaction you've received thus far is verification that your point was indeed well made.

cantbeserious

(13,039 posts)
29. This Citizen Will Vote For Bernie Sanders Based On Policy And Position
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:29 PM
Nov 2015

This citizen will not vote for HRC because one never knows where that candidate stands on policy and position.

JonLeibowitz

(6,282 posts)
31. I'm going to call Bullshit.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:37 PM
Nov 2015

I read the whole post. Then I went to youtube and did two searches:

1) "Men for Hillary"

2) "Women for Hillary"

Only (2) returned this video:



Candidates don't use lines that they don't think will help them win votes. And Hillary keeps saying how she would be a change candidate because she is a woman.

As someone who votes on issues, I am unpersuaded. And yes, I might easily have supported Warren over Bernie. issues are what matters.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
39. That wasn't my point
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:36 AM
Nov 2015

It was about people who insist the only reason women are voting for Hillary is because of her gender.
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BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
49. People vote for a variety of reasons
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 05:32 PM
Nov 2015

Issues, qualifications, experience, whether they think the person is a good fit for the presidency. I myself approach it like I'm interviewing someone for a job. Others look for a candidate to reflect back their own views. I suspect very few people, if anyone, votes based entirely on gender, though it likely influences votes for both candidates. Yet we have seen a series of posts insisting that Hillary is supported exclusively because she is a woman. It is illogical, counterfactual, and insulting to women voters.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
36. Bernie is the best candidate running regardless of gender.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 12:27 AM
Nov 2015

What a bunch of hooey. If you want people to read the whole thing change your headline. If they don't read past bullshit then it's your own fault.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
46. I didn't think BernieBro sounded so bad
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 05:26 PM
Nov 2015

compared to some.

I've seen some well meaning Bernie supporters on reddit trying to clamp down on bad behavior toward women in particular. They rightly argue it hurts their candidate.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
52. I'm fed up with her supporters announcing that too
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 06:14 PM
Nov 2015

Glad we can agree on something. Now why would you support her over Bernie, who obviously has the voting record, integrity and independence from Wall Street that she lacks?

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
59. Are you saying you haven't seen the threads claiming
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 07:35 PM
Nov 2015

women are voting for Clinton solely because of her gender?

It's not a strawman when it responds to specific arguments.
I don't think you actually know what that term means, Manny.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
60. I know exactly what "the point" is.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 07:43 PM
Nov 2015

Same as always. Same same same. And I'll comment anywhere and anytime I please. If you don't like it, that would be your personal problem. Deal with it.

Owl

(3,639 posts)
61. Why all of the silliness?
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 07:58 PM
Nov 2015

I as many here will certainly back Ms. Clinton and obviously vote for her if she is our candidate.

Fawke Em

(11,366 posts)
62. I know of no one voting for Bernie because he's male.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 08:01 PM
Nov 2015

They're voting for him because he's not bought-and-paid-for by the 1 percent.

If Hillary becomes president, it will be because of the 1 percent.

McCamy Taylor

(19,240 posts)
63. If you note the gender gap in Clinton's support, it is clear lots of men DO want a man.
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 10:57 PM
Nov 2015

Meaning that Sanders will clean up the "Lord no! Not a woman!" vote. That does not make him sexist. It makes some of the folks who will vote for him sexist.

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