2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumI think this is GD, but just in case; Hillary...STOP YELLING!
I've heard lots of discussions about this...it's okay for men to yell, but not women, so if we criticize Hillary Clinton's shrill yelling, it's because we're misogynist pigs. But, I promise you, it is nothing of the sort!
Hillary Clinton needs to tone down the yelling!
Trump doesn't yell. Bernie kinda whines, but he doesn't yell. But, when Hillary Clinton gets on a roll she starts YELLING, in a horrible, shrill, unpleasant monotone. Face facts, people. Listen to her. She YELLS where she doesn't need to. Ironically, it was my wife who really pointed this out, listening to a recent speech. As she made her point, Hillary's voice heightened and got louder and she started YELLING. Not speaking, she was yelling at her audience. She didn't/doesn't need to do this. Bernie doesn't yell. Elizabeth doesn't yell. Even Donald doesn't yell. But when Hillary gets cranked up, she YELLS, and it is most obnoxious, and a real down-side for many people.
So there, I said it. So shoot me.
onecaliberal
(32,811 posts)Response to onecaliberal (Reply #1)
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Jack Bone
(2,023 posts)Fast Walker 52
(7,723 posts)Hillary, not so much.
politicaljunkie41910
(3,335 posts)kayakjohnny
(5,235 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)libdem4life
(13,877 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)libdem4life
(13,877 posts)lower her voice in her career? I missed that. So apparently she didn't take the advice.
I'm in her demographic, and was even a school teacher of a bunch of little kids, and never felt the need to raise my voice. There was one time when a kid darted out in the street...the entire school heard me.
So, please don't brush all of us with a sexist, apologist brush. No one needs to yell to get their point across. It does not become either sex...thus, my reference to the career-ending (male) Dean Scream.
jack_krass
(1,009 posts)HRC has a habbit of breaking into a monotonic scowl when she thinks she's making a profound point. Its more annoying than her fame southern drawl
Peachhead22
(1,078 posts)...he had a bunch of people tell him "You know, sometimes when you get a little excited and your voice raises, maybe you let out a little scream or something to show your enthusiasm? Yeah, don't do that."
People who are pointing out things in Hillary's public speaking are offering constructive criticism. If Democrats see it, especially ones invested enough to be on this board, you can be damn sure average voters and the 'Pubs she's trying to attract see it. And you aren't going to be able to shame them into voting for her just by calling them sexist.
You know, if Hillary and her supporters are going to summarily dismiss good intentioned advice and observations, even on little stuff, it doesn't bode well for her's or all of ours future.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)checks or those in her "circle", is pretty short, if not non-existent. She lives to "summarily dismiss". Sorry, but it's the history.
I'll never forget the video of her pointing and literally punching a woman in the chest who deigned to ask her a difficult question. She was smiling, then heard the question, started screaming and poked the woman. That's why she must be in controlled circumstances, IMO. I was shocked.
Atman
(31,464 posts)Even though I tried to explain in my OP, I still get shit like this.
I'm not "mansplaining" anything. I'm making a valid point. I think I stated pretty clearly, none of the other candidates do this, Carly Fiorina didn't do this. Sarah Palin was annoying as hell, but she didn't YELL at her audience. Clinton YELLS. Stuff it into your little men-hate-women bubble all you want, but Hillary Clinton has a horrible, shrill speaking style that is very grating to a lot of people.
But then, what do I know about anything...I'm just a man, so my opinion and observations can't be valid.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)libdem4life
(13,877 posts)Raine1967
(11,589 posts)and in this post you are excusing others with the famous *but* --
This is classic mansplaining.
I will respond no more.
Atman
(31,464 posts)I made NO EXCUSES for Trump or Sanders. None. You are projecting your bullshit onto my post.
Hillary-splaining.
Demit
(11,238 posts)When you say things like stuff it into your "little" bubble, that's you trying to minimize or diminish what other people think. Calling a female speaker's voice "shrill" (twice) is another tell. So many conservative writers have called Paul Krugman "shrill" (in his writing!) as a putdown that, on liberal blogs, it has become an internet meme.
Of course you think your point is valid. You don't like Hillary Clinton. She contradicts your idea of femininity. She says things you don't like and she has the audacity to say them forcefully. Trying to bolster your position by citing that your wife agrees with you (she's a woman so that cinches it!) is a weird kind of arguing from authority. Many women have the idea of how women "should" sound, or act, and amazingly enough it corresponds to what men, particularly their husbands, think.
Atman
(31,464 posts)You are a woman trying to diminish my valid observations about a professional speaker.
There is a dictionary definition of "shrill." Surprise as may be to you, it does not mean "Men who hate Hillary." It is a tone. If many people think Hillary has a shrill tone (I'm certainly not the only one), maybe you should look at that, instead of trying to tell everyone that they shouldn't question Hillary.
Voice coaches exist for a reason.
Demit
(11,238 posts)I'm pointing out the tells in your criticisms. Of course you're not the only one who calls people whom they don't like "shrill." Your fellow critics in earnestly valid helpfulness are all over the internet, as well as in print.
I don't think you hate Hillary. You just would prefer her to hew more closely to your idea of how a woman should act and sound. You want to mold her.
Atman
(31,464 posts)Never. Not once. I think Hillary Clinton is acting just fine. My problem is with her horrible speaking style. Why can the Hillary supporters see the difference? This isn't about "women." This is about one women who is running for president, and who happens to deliver horrible, shrill speeches when she cranks up.
That's all. Why make something more of it?
larkrake
(1,674 posts)mcar
(42,287 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)I'm trying to think of a way to put a positive, non-misogynistic meaning on your statement, but I'm not succeeding.
puffy socks
(1,473 posts)But please continue pretending you have made a good point. Because God knows it soo important.
and I Guess you missed Trump yelling to get protesters out ..
yeah he never yells --His talking is yelling.
Chemisse
(30,806 posts)And yelling is annoying, in general.
But why single out Clinton's yelling? There's where the perceived sexism rolls on in.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)A common theme among the gushing over her speech was that she was not yelling, as she often does.
And this was from people pumping her up and praising the speech...Males and females.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)President Obama talked a lot different than candidate Obama did.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)A number of male pundits put this axiom to the test on Tuesday, offering some totally friendly, not-at-all sexist advice to former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton as she delivered a victory speech following Democratic presidential primary wins in Florida, Ohio and North Carolina.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/hillary-clinton-bernie-sanders-yelling-shouting_us_56b47ebee4b01d80b245d417
The male presidential candidates have not received the same level of scrutiny.
http://time.com/4260665/hillary-clinton-shouting/
A very good suggestion is for men to not publicly police women's voices unless they're judges on a singing competition. Just don't.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)No siree bob
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)as a general rule, policing a woman's voice is something men should steer WELL clear of.
it's one of those "maybe I won't come off as a douchey sexist but why take the risk" type of things.
see also: telling a woman she should smile more
tularetom
(23,664 posts)If you asked her WHY she wants to be president, I doubt that she could give you a coherent answer. So I think she substitutes volume for conviction. If she yells loud enough, some people might think she actually means what she says. And that she stands for something beyond simply "being" president.
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)Hillary deosn't need your campaign advice. I was at one of her rallies last Saturdsy. We enjoyed it.
PepperHarlan
(124 posts)Not looking good for Bernard.
Peachhead22
(1,078 posts)Not just the Democratic candidate in the GE. Don't sprain your shoulder patting yourself on the back if she becomes the presumed nominee or outright nominee. That's one small step in a long, difficult journey.
PepperHarlan
(124 posts)But Sanders fans aren't giving up the fight, so we're still talking primary here! One can't have it both ways
glowing
(12,233 posts)So sad that Dems are going to have 4 yrs where people again are muting he tv.
elleng
(130,825 posts)Anyone recall Governor O'Malley being admonished for daring to try to be heard?
Peacetrain
(22,873 posts)arrffggghhhhhh... they were all verklempt about his speaking style.. it was too soft.. sigh..
elleng
(130,825 posts)GRRR!!!
Peacetrain
(22,873 posts)his positions, the things he had done.. lets get all over him about his speaking style.. God give me strength
Atman
(31,464 posts)Oh, he was a man. And a Republican. Or something.
Tell me you're really going after me because of like, Hillary.
If your hair doesn't stand on end when she reaches the crescendo of her talking points, where she is YELLING, SCREAMING in that shrill, gravely monotone, then you've tune out reality. She is simply not a good orator, especially after hearing President Obama delivering beautiful, eloquent, impassioned speeches without screaming at his audience.
Demit
(11,238 posts)Screaming in a monotone? These descriptions are incoherent, except they say so much about you.
PepperHarlan
(124 posts)Atman
(31,464 posts)I never said Hillary Clinton should stifle herself. I said her YELLING is very harsh and annoying. It would be harsh and annoying if Trump or Sanders did it, or anyone else. I could give a shit about her gender, and you people trying to make this out to be something it is not. It is NOT about "Hillary" and her gender. It is about a candidate with a horrible, shrill speaking voice.
moriah
(8,311 posts)Atman
(31,464 posts)He is obnoxious all the time, any tone of voice. He yells when he's want people thrown out of his rallies. He doesn't yell in an elevated shrill when he's trying to pump up a talking point, like Hillary does.
moriah
(8,311 posts)She's not allowed to laugh -- everyone hates the "cackle", but she certainly can't cry.
She can't smile -- it's a smirk, or keep a neutral expression (frowning/mad).
How about this. Instead of telling women how to speak or focusing just on tone of voice, focus on what she has to say? I'd have a lot more respect if that was your objection to her, rather than her tone or delivery.
Atman
(31,464 posts)How about this; I'm not telling women how to speak. I'm making the observation that a particular woman running for president has a horrible speaking voice, at least when she starts yelling.
moriah
(8,311 posts)... this argument has been used in the media, here's an example so you understand more what I am referencing.
That's just from 2008, so this argument is old. Extremely.
Also, you might enjoy this article, as it also explains the pressures I was referring to by the media and the public regarding her tone, expressions, body language, and delivery.
Sorry, but when you repeat a talking point used by assholes in the 2008 video, it makes you sound like them, even if you aren't. The later article is from this election and gives more context to my point.
Atman
(31,464 posts)I've seen the Fox bullshit. We're not talking about the same things. I'm talking SPECIFICALLY about her speaking style. When she gets excited and trails off a sentence by raising her voice and SCREAMING and YELLING. This is not at all the same as what the Fox goons are talking about when they say "tone it down." I'm not saying that...I love the passion, the excitement. I hate the delivery. SHE IS A BAD SPEAKER.
Duval
(4,280 posts)But, any time anyone says anything negative about Hillary, he/she gets attacked. It's really too bad we can no longer have discussions without unwarranted misconceptions and comments.
moriah
(8,311 posts)... is saying Hillary and most women sound terrible when we raise our voice.... the irony is dripping there.. and that's from tbe Women's Media Center with far more than just Fox.
Then you aren't going to see your own sexism even if it's shown.
Guess you didn't read the article from Salon, either, but at this point you've lost the argument because you are refusing to consider the evidence I present. At least I'm not automatically assuming you are refusing just because I happen to be female. I think it's more that you realize that you're losing the argument and so gave up.
But that's okay.
Atman
(31,464 posts)I'm I being too impassioned as a man now? This is not about "women raising their voice." Get that straight! I have worked for and with women virtually my entire life, from the fashion industry to politics. Gabby Giffords was a tough one. I'm not talking about women speaking out or raising their voice. Get that through your head! I'm talking about a particular woman running for public office who happens to YELL and SCREAM. It has nothing to do with "women." It has to do with the particular person about which I first posted. Stop playing the universal victim!
moriah
(8,311 posts)... vs speaking passionately and not having proper sound booth personnel fixing things.
And the worst I was potentially implying was you're more being too arrogant to consider other viewpoints.
Here's a website for research if you'd like to present evidence yourself.
https://hillaryspeeches.com/
I submit the Oakland speech as mine.
yellowcanine
(35,698 posts)That must have been someone else I heard then.
Peachhead22
(1,078 posts)We don't want to give Trump helpful advice. We don't want him to get better as a candidate. That's not our job. In fact that's the opposite of our job. KnowwhutImean?
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)You describe Clinton as shrill, unpleasant, obnoxious, monotone, unnecessarily yelling.
In the same breath you say this individual never yells. Just whines a bit. Well, you actually falsely say both men don't yell.
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Atman
(31,464 posts)I'm effectively being denied any voice to criticize Hillary Clinton.
(BTW, I'll vote for her, no prob).
I work in politics. I make suggestions to candidates in regards to design and message. This is not a flippant, unconsidered opinion. Hillary Clinton has a horrible speaking voice, and if I had close access as an advisor, I plead with her to tone it down and stop yelling. It has nothing to do with her gender. Not one thing. I'd say the same thing to Bernie.
What dives into sexism is saying that as a male, I am not allowed to observe the behavior of a female even if that behavior is blatantly obnoxious. I respect your defense of Hillary Clinton. She is a strong candidate. I'm merely saying she could be much stronger if she stopped yelling. Can I say it one more time?...it has nothing to do with gender, and everything to do with marketing and personality, two pretty big aspects of American politics.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)You didn't even respond to the content of my post. It's your blatantly dishonest depiction of Sanders in comparison that hits on the sexism.
Atman
(31,464 posts)He could have been ordering a plate of nachos. My comments were about actual Clinton speeches, not 1/1000th of a second pictures of someone's facial expressions.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)You really do. I don't expect sticking up for this op to be pretty.
mcar
(42,287 posts)I really have seen it all on DU this primary season.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Playing us.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)The line above where they paint themselves as being oppressed makes me think it's a bad joke.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts).
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)It's straight up blatant sexism. That why I thought it might be a parody. They put the whistle away and are yelling from the rooftop.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)World out there. Clinton is weak and NEVER rises above sexism. The world will make her cry.
It is stupid and in face insulting and a game Batman is enjoying presently.
moriah
(8,311 posts)... I genuinely think he doesn't get it.
It's like the people who thought the Sock Obama was appropriate because they'd also made a "sock McCain".
What happens is that when Hillary is speaking over applause or gets passionate, her vocal register goes up. Some men perceive the higher pitch and a slightly raised volume as "yelling".
https://newrepublic.com/article/121643/why-do-so-many-people-hate-sound-hillary-clintons-voice
mcar
(42,287 posts)Let's get it straight, sea, men are impassioned, women are shrill and shrieking.
And, if you say this smacks of sexism, you are sexist.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)You hear men talk about it often. Mom was the boss. She yelled. Grown men just can't handle a woman yelling. It grates.
mcar
(42,287 posts)KingFlorez
(12,689 posts)It's Sanders who is always yelling until his voice is shot.
davidlynch
(644 posts)Really as a person that knows a lot about vocals and audio recording, Hillary's issue could be fixed. She needs to lower her larynx, a technical trick that opera singers use. She tends to speak with her larynx sky high and because of this she tends to sound like a squealing hyena. The problem can be solved easily.
Atman
(31,464 posts)My points exactly. No, I'm just a misogynist pig, I couldn't have a valid point even though I'm voting for Hillary. Nope...I'm must be an evil Bernie Bro because I question anything Hillary does.
Thank you. Hillary's voice is SHRILL. I don't care how much you love her, she just needs a serious speech coach.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Maru Kitteh
(28,333 posts)http://msmagazine.com/blog/2016/01/19/why-is-bernie-yelling-at-me/
But thanks for today's heapin'-helpin' of mansplaining to us. Don't know what we'd do without it.
MFM008
(19,803 posts)you ought to hear me.
My mother could yell loud enough when I was a kid I could hear her across town yelling to come home.
Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)Mussolini yelled. So did ...... well....you know who.
You're asking people to "face facts".
Whoa. Are YOU in the wrong place, or WHAT?
Atman
(31,464 posts)I'm pretty much as liberal/Democrat as you're gonna get.
Wrong place? Nope. Not me.
Ned_Devine
(3,146 posts)...but saying that asking HRC supporters to face facts may be a fool's errand, hence "the wrong place" comment
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)cannot stand her public speaking voice. It's either a flat monotone with every syllable pronounced as though she's a kindergarten teacher or she becomes a shrill scolding mother of an errant child. It's terribly off putting. And when she's feeling uncomfortable, she cackles. Just all around bad.
And I know she's going to regret the barking. We'll see it more than once in Republican ads for certain.
jehop61
(1,735 posts)Poor baby, she's at a rally with many supporters shouting. Why are you bothered by a strong woman voicing, strongly, her ideas?
Vinca
(50,249 posts)When she gave the Trump speech she was, for the most part, fairly normal in tone and look at the rave reviews. Today she's back to yelling. Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop! It drives people nuts.
Atman
(31,464 posts)At the most boisterous rallies, have you heard Obama going over-the-top shouting? Impassioned, sure? YELLING?
Maybe I was sleeping the eight years. I don't recall this being a common speaking style of one of the best presidential speakers in my lifetime. You can raise your voice...you don't have to be shrill. That's why there is an entire industry dedicated to voice coaching. If you deny some people need voice coaches, then I'll buy your argument. Some people just have bad speaking voices. It doesn't mean that the people who point it out are misogynist Hillary-haters. If you only knew!
mcar
(42,287 posts)When President Obama raises his voice, he's impassioned. When HRC raises hers, she's shrill.
Nothing sexist there, nope, nothing at all.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Duval
(4,280 posts)I really cannot stand her shrill yelling.
choie
(4,107 posts)Response to choie (Reply #55)
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snagglepuss
(12,704 posts)apcalc
(4,463 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)lunamagica
(9,967 posts)Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)Being told that your "tone" is annoying or you 'yell' by a mansplaining guy who wags his finger in your face and only wants to help you. I love guys...have a great hubs and wonderful son...but I despise the misogynist types who use dog whistle speech to put women down.
renate
(13,776 posts)When she made her speech last Thursday that everyone has agreed took Trump down many, many, many notches--a speech that was almost universally praised from the left, including by most of Bernie's supporters because it was so damn effective at attacking Trump--she spoke calmly and at a normal speaking volume. It was so much more impressive that way... much more like a president and less like a candidate, I guess.
It's unfortunate but true that, for most people, a higher tone of voice is just more irritating; I'm a woman with a high tone of voice and even I can acknowledge that. It's not sexist. Who would you rather listen to, or who sounds more serious--Victoria Jackson or Kathleen Turner? When Dick Cheney spoke, it was nauseating but it was almost mesmerizing because he spoke in such a low voice and was so quiet and so sure of what he was saying. It's so much more effective to force people to focus and listen to you than to make them want to cover their ears.
I want her to win (since I can see it won't be Bernie), and that yelling and nodding is off-putting. The first woman president is just going to have to put up with unfair criticisms, but I'm pretty sure that after 30+ years in politics she can handle them.
Atman
(31,464 posts)I thought I was going down in flames!
renate
(13,776 posts)It's something her campaign needs to hear, I believe.
I think because it sounds sexist, people haven't been saying it... but I know for a fact that at least some people are thinking it. Members of my own family, who are all feminists to the bone, have said it to me, and I've agreed with them. (And other members have disagreed, of course. )
You weren't saying that women's normal speaking voices are annoying, after all, and here's research saying that women's and men's voices are equally effective in political advertising in voiceovers, and in fact they're sometimes preferable:
http://phys.org/news/2016-03-male-voice-overs-dominate-political-ads.html
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)And anyone who says stuff like that is not a feminist. Hillary should be who she is...and you all should leave her alone.
renate
(13,776 posts)I really am. It wasn't my intent to upset anybody. I want Hillary to win the general election, and I would like her campaign to be aware of certain things that might turn people off, to maximize the chances of that happening.
I can only say that my opinion about her delivery is my opinion about her delivery. (Please note that I praised her for her speech the other day, and I did here on DU at the time as well.) I'm not saying she should shut up; I'm not saying she should change if she doesn't want to. I was raised by two feminists and I have been a feminist for 50 years. Please do not tell me what I am and am not.
Her yelling--not her speaking--voice gets on my nerves. That's just the way it is; my own voice would get on my nerves if I yelled. I don't like yelling. Maybe it's just me.
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Annoying as hell.
The worst offenders are men, so I don't get the sexism aspect.
Chris Matthews yells at people seated inches away from him. Utterly unwatchable.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)But I kinda like that. It makes me laugh.
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)She barks (she's a dog guys) and she is amusing and makes me laugh ( not to be taken seriously like a man). Honestly, Grasswire we are on opposite sides in terms of the nomination, but I would have expected better of you.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)feels strongly about the issue?
As to the vocal issues, she is not a trained actor. Ronald Reagan sounded Presidential, but he was a puppet.
grossproffit
(5,591 posts)Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)I would have expected better of liberals.
Atman
(31,464 posts)I've been here for decades. I've worked for Obama, for Gabby Giffords, for DWS (okay, so not so proud of that now), for many of the Democrats' best and brightest. Don't you dare call me a misogynist. I'm making a point related to her speaking style, nothing else. It is YOU that are totally missing the point. Would you like Gilbert Godfried or Fran Drescher officiating your wedding ceremony, or delivery your eulogy? It has nothing to do with what is between their legs. That is YOUR hang up, not mine. I'm just saying...Hillary has a HORRIBLE speaking voice, but she might damned well be a great president. Except for her speeches.
frazzled
(18,402 posts)Why don't you find that grating? And when he yells it's an angry yell, with waving arms and finger wags and lots of underbite. I'm fine with Clinton raising her voice to be heard. Deal with it. She will be your next president.
I always find it amusing that people take Bernie's worst traits and turn them around to project onto Hillary. It's the oldest Rovian trick in the book.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)but you would likely tell me that's ageism....and I'm here to tell you, no it's not.
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)DU has archives after all.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)so is the saucer eyes and the nodding head. I'm a woman, and what she does is not normal or tolerable. You'd think she would've realized this by now, but apparently not.
At least when Bernie shouts he's in a big open space. When HRC does it, she's in a much smaller venue with a mic. It's ridiculous, and super annoying. But proceed, I'm sure everybody is wrong except her.
larkrake
(1,674 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)WHAT KINDA BULLASS TALE ARE YOU TRYING TO SELL? THEY DONT YELL? ARE YOU SERIOUSLY TRYING TO TELL ME THAT DONALD AND BERNIES LOUD ASSES AINT YELLING CONSTANTLY? THAT HILLARY IS LOUDER AND SOMEHOW MORE OBNOXIOUS? THIS IS THE SAME BULLSHIT ASS STORY ABOUT HOW A WOMAN DOING THE EXACT SAME THING AS A MAN IS SOMEHOW MORE OFF PUTTING THAN WHEN A LOUD ASS MAN DOES IT. I CALL THAT ARGUMENT BULLSHIT #WHITEMALEPATRIARCHYBULLSHIT.
Atman
(31,464 posts)Bernie and Drumpf have a certain cadence that can be incredibly annoying, too. But it rarely involves YELLING. Hillary, when she gets excited, when she anticipates an applause line, begins YELLING at the top of her lungs. It is not at all the same as the other assholes. Hillary YELLS. If can watch any of her speeches (except her evenly tempered "foreign policy" speech) and say otherwise, you are the one delusional, certainly not me. She YELLS AT THE TOP OF HER LUNGS when she reaches the end of an applause line. It is gross, and her voice is shrill. It has nothing to do with her gender, and everything to do with her speaking style. Accept it.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)baldguy
(36,649 posts)"And it wouldn't hurt to show off some of your assets, if yaknowhatImean."
Sure there's no sexism in the Not Hillary Party.
Atman
(31,464 posts)But thanks for playing.
baldguy
(36,649 posts)When men yell, misogynist sexists see them as being forceful and forthright. It shows their inherent strength. It's a positive attribute.
When women yell, misogynist sexists see them as being shrill, whiny & annoying. For misogynist sexists it shows their inherent weakness. It's a negative attribute.
And rational adults listen to the words the speaker uses and don't use the speakers' gender to judge them.
We know which side you fall on.
Atman
(31,464 posts)You are making up your own bullshit. When men yell, if they sound annoying and have a shrill voice, it annoys me. I could give a shit about anything else they're saying. Mitch McConnell doesn't yell, but his voice is still grating and annoying. Ted Cruz kinda yelled, and his voice was grating and annoying. Hillary Clinton yells, and her voice is grating and annoying. See past your own sexist blinders. I can be a feminist and a Hillary supporter and still criticize her harsh speaking style. I'm a rational adult who clearly understands her words, but I wish she'd stop feeling she needs to SHOUT them at me. Obama did just fine without shouting, right?
Lay off the sexist, misogynist bullshit. I'm on your side, I just can't stand the shrieking voice. How is that so difficult to understand?
Squinch
(50,934 posts)BootinUp
(47,135 posts)guess you just don't like her and her supporters, and decided this was a good way to show it.
Atman
(31,464 posts)I don't like her delivery when she YELLS. Why can't you disconnect that from the delivery of what she is actually saying? I don't have a problem with Hillary Clinton at all. Unless we're talking about her horrible delivery.
BootinUp
(47,135 posts)by most people? Who really gives a flying fuck anyway.
Atman
(31,464 posts)Who really gives a flying fuck anyway?
Oh, and BTW...given other post in this thread, my perception IS shared. So is yours. Funny how that works, huh?
jack_krass
(1,009 posts)When she thinks she's saying something profound. Its not an uncommon style and makes do it too.
robbedvoter
(28,290 posts)is closed? Just checking Interesting how you are OK with Trump's delivery. Must be a 🍆 thing then.
Hiraeth
(4,805 posts)my pleasure.
dumbest OP for the day.
Welcome to Ignore.