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kpete

(71,965 posts)
Tue Feb 9, 2016, 09:28 AM Feb 2016

There is a reason big girls don’t cry. We haven’t the time.

People like Hillary Clinton helped to create a world where young women today can actually believe it will happen soon enough if it doesn’t have to happen this time. Fair enough. But please remember that my generation grew up in a world where that possibility was far from sure.

If it is a revolution you want, I can sympathize. I been fighting a revolution too. I just thought you should know that while a revolution might start in your lifetime, it doesn’t necessarily end before you die. I am ready for my revolution… no OUR revolution to come to an end if for no other reason than opening the way for yours to begin. I expect greatness from the women of your generation even if I won’t be around to experience it.

Personally, I don’t think the Democratic Party running so far to the left is helpful when the Republican Party has gone so far to the right. I might be wrong but I fear Bernie’s revolution won’t even make it to the White House much less through Congress. But if you insist on Sanders and he gets the nomination, I will join you in your revolution. And if Hillary gets the nomination, and I believe she will, I hope you will join me in finishing mine. You might be surprised, however, that Hillary could very well be the one you were looking for all along. She’s been fighting for the underdog all of her career.

Regardless of how you feel now, we all can agree on one thing: a Republican in the White House would be the end of both of our revolutions.

Feel free to ignore me. Vote for Bernie or vote for Hillary. I won’t get my feelings hurt. I haven’t the time. A woman of my age got over having her opinion ignored a long time ago. I hope you never do. I mean it. Really.


MORE (I wish I could post the whole thing):
http://margaretandhelen.com/2016/02/08/there-is-a-reason-big-girls-dont-cry-we-havent-the-time/

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There is a reason big girls don’t cry. We haven’t the time. (Original Post) kpete Feb 2016 OP
K&R! stonecutter357 Feb 2016 #1
And this is where she undercuts herself... Erich Bloodaxe BSN Feb 2016 #2
+10,000 n/t Triana Feb 2016 #6
Fear. That's the motivation for her and so many just like her. Avalux Feb 2016 #10
K&R..... quickesst Feb 2016 #3
Big girls do cry NobodyHere Feb 2016 #4
This was a really good OP. boston bean Feb 2016 #5
People like Hillary? With her 'Can't Do' attitude? I don't thinks so. Live and Learn Feb 2016 #7
k&r Little Star Feb 2016 #8
Yet, cry at being picked on is precisely what Hillary does, time after time. closeupready Feb 2016 #9
"I don’t think the Democratic Party running so far to the left" MisterP Feb 2016 #11
I thought what you said was nice and non-threatening. The Bernie supporters seem to have their politicaljunkie41910 Feb 2016 #12

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
2. And this is where she undercuts herself...
Tue Feb 9, 2016, 09:35 AM
Feb 2016
Personally, I don’t think the Democratic Party running so far to the left is helpful when the Republican Party has gone so far to the right. I might be wrong but I fear Bernie’s revolution won’t even make it to the White House


'When the Republican Party has gone so far to the right' is EXACTLY when the Democratic Party CAN safely run farther to the left. If the Republicans had been running back to the left, then yes, Dems would have to fight them for 'center' voters. But it is BECAUSE the Republicans have gone so batshit far to the right that Dems no longer 'have to keep their powder dry' and keep voting for a centrist. Now's the time to pull the trigger, and to pull the country solidly back to the left. For decades, we've been told we can't afford to elect more left candidates. But if now's not the time that we can return the party to the left, well, then there never will again be such a time, and we might as well simply give up and let the insane people run the asylum, because we've completely given up on holding any principles other than 'chase the Republicans ever further right'.

quickesst

(6,280 posts)
3. K&R.....
Tue Feb 9, 2016, 09:50 AM
Feb 2016

"Regardless of how you feel now, we all can agree on one thing: a Republican in the White House would be the end of both of our revolutions."

That's the one thing people should ask themselves. Is my pride, my ego, my scruples, and my morals worth the price when the fate of those who are here now, those who will come, and the fate of this country hang in the balance? My answer is an unequivocal no, it is not worth it for one simple reason. It's not all about me.

boston bean

(36,219 posts)
5. This was a really good OP.
Tue Feb 9, 2016, 10:09 AM
Feb 2016

People should read it to get an understanding from whence they came. And possibly stop trying to make it seem like older women are your enemy.

Know the history. Understand it. The revolution has already started. It was started by you gggrandmother's.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
7. People like Hillary? With her 'Can't Do' attitude? I don't thinks so.
Tue Feb 9, 2016, 10:35 AM
Feb 2016

If Hillary HAD led the women's movement, woman would be far behind where they are now.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
11. "I don’t think the Democratic Party running so far to the left"
Wed Feb 10, 2016, 01:33 AM
Feb 2016

good thing generations of feminists never thought that way

politicaljunkie41910

(3,335 posts)
12. I thought what you said was nice and non-threatening. The Bernie supporters seem to have their
Wed Feb 10, 2016, 01:54 AM
Feb 2016

attack mode on autopilot.

I've mentioned the following in a couple of posts today, and I'll continue to do so. If there is only ONE opinion allowed on this website, then maybe it should be renamed just "Underground" since only allowing ONE opinion doesn't seem very Democratic to me.

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