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AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 03:52 PM Aug 2014

How do ya'll decompress after a long period discussing political issues related to Religion?

I feel my bitterness levels rising, getting increasingly difficult to manage. I don't like taking vacations, so I'm curious what anyone else might suggest.

Yoga is helping a bit I guess.

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How do ya'll decompress after a long period discussing political issues related to Religion? (Original Post) AtheistCrusader Aug 2014 OP
Discuss? You can't discuss things with people whose only wish is that you think Warpy Aug 2014 #1
not scotch Lordquinton Aug 2014 #2
Yeah, I stick to bourbon... marginlized Aug 2014 #11
Do you have children in your life? kdmorris Aug 2014 #3
Laughing at people who are too obssessed with judging others... trotsky Aug 2014 #4
We have secret meetings where we get together and practise hating god, mr blur Aug 2014 #5
You promised you wouldn't mention the babies. Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #10
But it's just too much fun not to share! mr blur Aug 2014 #17
Mmmmmm.... Early Black Sabbath.... on vinyl. ... PoutrageFatigue Aug 2014 #20
I eat a big fat baby AlbertCat Aug 2014 #6
I avoid "long periods discussing" anything here. Curmudgeoness Aug 2014 #7
Read a good book. Rainforestgoddess Aug 2014 #8
Non-fiction works better for me. onager Aug 2014 #16
History can be more bizarre than fiction Rainforestgoddess Aug 2014 #18
I went for a 20k bike ride this evening. It was a beautiful night. I just got into the groove Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #9
I smoke a lot of weed. Stryst Aug 2014 #12
I smoke a lot of weed. AlbertCat Aug 2014 #25
I'm partial to the old in and out. Goblinmonger Aug 2014 #13
I'm just here to read the meter, luv.... PoutrageFatigue Aug 2014 #21
I go for a walk... NeoGreen Aug 2014 #14
#1...Don't let the Zombies bother you amuse bouche Aug 2014 #15
Scotch, cigarettes and video games. Act_of_Reparation Aug 2014 #19
Scotch? Wow, just wow. Lordquinton Aug 2014 #22
Good Lord! mr blur Aug 2014 #23
Mostly this: OriginalGeek Aug 2014 #24
Going to the stores on Sunday mornings and embarassing people works for me. edgineered Aug 2014 #26
Petting my favorite cat and talking to him. Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2014 #27
Yeah, I give up for the day. AtheistCrusader Aug 2014 #28
Nintendo 3DS or PS3 LostOne4Ever Aug 2014 #29
I participate in fibre arts Heddi Aug 2014 #30

Warpy

(111,237 posts)
1. Discuss? You can't discuss things with people whose only wish is that you think
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 04:00 PM
Aug 2014

the way they want you to.

I make the one reasoned post and only go back for a second when I'm really bored.

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
3. Do you have children in your life?
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 04:50 PM
Aug 2014

chasing them around and growling like a dragon while they run and giggle like mad is very decompressing.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
4. Laughing at people who are too obssessed with judging others...
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 05:31 PM
Aug 2014

to enjoy their one-percenter 90-day holiday overseas.

 

mr blur

(7,753 posts)
5. We have secret meetings where we get together and practise hating god,
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 05:47 PM
Aug 2014

while listening to early Black Sabbath records (on vinyl, of course) and eating babies.

You can't take it personally even though they mean it personally.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
6. I eat a big fat baby
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 05:48 PM
Aug 2014

or a couple of puppies.

While watching the OLD "Cosmos"...because I'm racist and I heard Carl was more a misogynist than Neil.


That or

I listen to a Bach cantata...knowing it was written with devout religiosity that I totally lack, but can still derive extreme pleasure from it (hell, I don't even understand German!)....knowing it came from 100% human effort with no "god-given" talent or anything.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
7. I avoid "long periods discussing" anything here.
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 07:27 PM
Aug 2014

It just isn't worth it to get blood pressure up by continuing to do a back-and-forth for hours.

And if I get disgusted with what I am reading here, I go play video games, take a walk, or clean the bathroom. Anything to break the hypnotic addiction I have to the intertubes.

onager

(9,356 posts)
16. Non-fiction works better for me.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 01:49 PM
Aug 2014

Though I have no idea why. You're right, fiction should be better for escapism.

And I'll probably need some escapism after I finish the latest tome of bedtime reading - "Bloody Streets - The Soviet Assault on Berlin April 1945."

Huge, intensely detailed book, every bit as apocalyptic as anything in the Buy-bull. Gunfire blasting thru streets filled with panicked fleeing civilians. Hitler sitting in his bunker like a mini-Jehovah, issuing orders that made no sense in the real world outside. German and Russian soldiers fighting each other inside the same buildings, which sometimes collapsed and wiped out both sides simultaneously.

So I have some lighter (than air) reading next in the queue: "The Zeppelin In Combat: A History of the German Naval Aviation Division 1912-1918."

Yeah, I know...

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
9. I went for a 20k bike ride this evening. It was a beautiful night. I just got into the groove
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 08:20 PM
Aug 2014

of riding and zoned completely out of the rest of my day. Then as I got back near my house I ran over a chipmunk who misjudged my speed. That sucked, I felt really bad about it . Life is weird.

amuse bouche

(3,657 posts)
15. #1...Don't let the Zombies bother you
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 08:32 AM
Aug 2014

After interacting with that bunch, I just shake it off and remind myself, how great it is not to
believe any of the bullshit

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
24. Mostly this:
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 01:31 AM
Aug 2014





went to the Southern Darkness Fest yesterday. Lots of great metal featuring:






Needless to say, none of this works right unless it's really loud.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
26. Going to the stores on Sunday mornings and embarassing people works for me.
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 12:19 PM
Aug 2014

Its very simple - look for the parents with their kids, ask the kids while looking directly at the parent, "why aren't you in school?"

The parents almost always answer that there is no school on Sunday.

"What? You've never heard of Sunday school?"

Ah, such sweet relief, gets 'em every time!

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
27. Petting my favorite cat and talking to him.
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 02:42 PM
Aug 2014

He likes to get his head and neck rubbed. He's doesn't climb all over me, which is good. I'm allergic to cats, and less allergic to this cat than some others, either because of breed or having fairly short hair.

DH is an atheist too. We have no friends because we are in a town with a church on every corner and the nearest Unitarian Fellowship is over an hour's drive away. We met at a large urban UU church. It's still the only one we'll set foot in, because it's not Christian. And UUs love discussion groups instead of Sunday School indoctrination.

And we both have read Hinduism and Buddhism for a more sensible outlook on dealing with yourself and the rest of the world.

The Buddha was asked about gods and he said gods were irrelevant. He wanted to teach people how to deal with their lives and all the issues that were around 2500 years ago are still part of human nature.

Your morality should give you practical rules on how to treat people, not nonsensical and idiotically criminal ideas like killing your son if he disagrees with you, or killing your neighbor if he works on the Sabbath (Saturday or Sunday?), or if he wears a cotton & polyester blend shirt.

Now what book with that wonderful morality was that in?

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