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cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 06:45 PM Aug 2015

Family Of Toddler Shot Dead By 5-Year-Old Brother: ‘It Was God’s Will’

Besides the tragedy that guns can bring, there is no deadlier combination for moral and legal responsibility than guns and God. Just ask the family of Caroline Sparks, a two-year-old toddler who was shot with a .22 rifle by her brother- who was five years old, and received the gun as a birthday gift.

What is most difficult to comprehend is the family’s response. Little Caroline was described by her family in the video as a “church-going girl who enjoyed singing and playing outdoors,” as if she understood and chose to accept Divine Revelation at 2 – and go to church.

Acknowledging the tragedy, Caroline’s uncle said “It’s just tragic…It’s something that you can’t prepare for,” as if you should ever have to. The family believes that Caroline is in a “better place.”

The grandmother said “It was God’s will. It was her time to go, I guess…I just know she’s in heaven right now and I know she’s in good hands with the Lord.”

http://www.occupydemocrats.com/family-of-toddler-shot-dead-by-5-year-old-brother-it-was-gods-will/



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Family Of Toddler Shot Dead By 5-Year-Old Brother: ‘It Was God’s Will’ (Original Post) cleanhippie Aug 2015 OP
Wait, don't tell me . . . . rug Aug 2015 #1
No, what should be criminal parental negligence did. bvf Aug 2015 #13
Only one of those statements is correct. rug Aug 2015 #14
No, both are quite correct. bvf Aug 2015 #15
If you want to call Christians like Elizabeth Warren "sick and twisted," then by all means go ahead and UrbScotty Aug 2015 #17
Has Elizabeth Warren ever invoked "god's will" bvf Aug 2015 #18
"Thy will be done" is hardly an excuse for individual actions. rug Aug 2015 #19
An excuse is precisely what it is bvf Aug 2015 #20
Speaking of qualifying the hell out of it, "as in this case" fits nicely. rug Aug 2015 #21
Feel free to remove the clause bvf Aug 2015 #22
Warren shot a child? Warren Stupidity Aug 2015 #23
Elizabeth Warren is a Christian. UrbScotty Aug 2015 #25
Does she shit on kids trying to understand their sexuality, like your pal Flame? AtheistCrusader Aug 2015 #29
It doesn't have to be hard to accept that good people are Christians. UrbScotty Aug 2015 #30
Not hard, there are certainly some good people who are also Christians. AtheistCrusader Aug 2015 #31
LOL! I'm spending more time championing Christians like Obama, Biden, and Warren, thankyouverymuch UrbScotty Aug 2015 #32
Perhaps, but not in this venue. AtheistCrusader Aug 2015 #33
I'm actually standing up for them and other Democrats in the real world. UrbScotty Aug 2015 #34
Door belling, phone banking, PCO, lots of stuff. AtheistCrusader Aug 2015 #36
AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service Capt. Obvious Aug 2015 #37
another alert called to the carpet. Warren Stupidity Aug 2015 #40
I just completed jury service on this post where it was voted to LEAVE IT 3 - 4 Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #38
it is called sarcasm. Warren Stupidity Aug 2015 #41
"Some circles" are still awaiting your response upthread, bvf Aug 2015 #35
so Elizabeth Warren gives her kids guns and blames god when the obvious happens? Warren Stupidity Aug 2015 #39
grandma says god let it happen Angry Dragon Aug 2015 #16
And people think I'm wrong to suggest SheilaT Aug 2015 #2
You are wrong to suggest that. cleanhippie Aug 2015 #3
Because giving guns to five year olds who then SheilaT Aug 2015 #6
Not giving guns to 5 year olds is very, very different from confiscating all guns. cleanhippie Aug 2015 #8
People can believe all the happy horse shit they want, but THIS is inexcusable. . . Journeyman Aug 2015 #4
In this case I do question it. Leontius Aug 2015 #5
You question why he holds law enforcement in total contempt? cleanhippie Aug 2015 #7
Yeah, child protective services should have taken any remaining kids out of that nutjob home. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2015 #10
And they'll punch any reporter who sticks their nose into their business muriel_volestrangler Aug 2015 #12
If the mother had given her 5 year old skepticscott May 2016 #48
You may be on to something here. stone space May 2016 #49
God the Heartless Destroyer...that is how they see it and why they see Trump as His re-incarnation. Fred Sanders Aug 2015 #9
When bad things happen people don't like responsibility. Igel Aug 2015 #11
I wonder if the 5 year old KT2000 Aug 2015 #28
Kentucky especially fetishizes guns Brettongarcia May 2016 #45
They're Dorian Gray Aug 2015 #24
Some religionsare heavy on God's will HassleCat Aug 2015 #26
When I read something like this I always try to guess where it happened tularetom Aug 2015 #27
It was the NRA's will. stone space Apr 2016 #42
Oops. Zombie thread. My bad. Iggo Apr 2016 #43
"I blame grieving grandmas, not guns!" struggle4progress May 2016 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author Brettongarcia May 2016 #46
Better link Brettongarcia May 2016 #47
 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
13. No, what should be criminal parental negligence did.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 09:02 AM
Aug 2015

Religion just provided an excuse to deny it.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
15. No, both are quite correct.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 02:41 PM
Aug 2015

"Thy will be done" actually has meaning for a lot of people, as sick and twisted as that may be.

UrbScotty

(23,980 posts)
17. If you want to call Christians like Elizabeth Warren "sick and twisted," then by all means go ahead and
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:09 PM
Aug 2015

embarrass yourself on a progressive site.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
18. Has Elizabeth Warren ever invoked "god's will"
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:22 PM
Aug 2015

to excuse herself or a family member from responsibility for a major fuck-up?

I'll bet you're just bursting with examples. I'll wait here.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
19. "Thy will be done" is hardly an excuse for individual actions.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:38 PM
Aug 2015

If anything, it's an acknowledgement of how far from God's will humans in general, and Christians in particular, behave.

Now, I don't know if, or how often, Sen. Warren prays, but whenever she says the "Our Father" she says those words.

It's much more fun to poke holes through cardboard, isn't it?

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
20. An excuse is precisely what it is
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 07:13 PM
Aug 2015

any time someone uses it as in this case. Nothing more than an existential shrug, and it's truly sad to see.

Nice of you to run interference for Scotty here, btw, but I'm still waiting for an answer from him.

Your own falls way short of the mark, especially given your obvious need to qualify the hell out of it.

Poking holes in cardboard is a challenge in comparison to showing how patently ridiculous is faith in imaginary beings.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
22. Feel free to remove the clause
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 07:32 PM
Aug 2015

and kindly provide an example of even one instance in which the use of the unqualified phrase rings truer for you.

Just trying to help, mind you, but I doubt you'll see it that way.

UrbScotty

(23,980 posts)
25. Elizabeth Warren is a Christian.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 09:19 PM
Aug 2015

Which in some circles is sick and twisted.

Me? I'm a fan of hers. So are many of us on DU.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
29. Does she shit on kids trying to understand their sexuality, like your pal Flame?
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 10:33 PM
Aug 2015
http://www.themusic-world.com/artist/flame/lyrics/desires_in_conflict

No, Warren doesn't.

Fuck your religion. If you think you can excuse that shit you post by holding up Elizabeth Warren as a human shield in absentia you've got a big fucking surprise coming.

UrbScotty

(23,980 posts)
30. It doesn't have to be hard to accept that good people are Christians.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 11:04 PM
Aug 2015

And for most nonreligious people, it isn't!

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
31. Not hard, there are certainly some good people who are also Christians.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 11:13 PM
Aug 2015

And then there are people like 'Flame' you're so desperate to champion, who are horrible bigoted monsters.

UrbScotty

(23,980 posts)
34. I'm actually standing up for them and other Democrats in the real world.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 11:25 PM
Aug 2015

So what are you doing in the real world?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
36. Door belling, phone banking, PCO, lots of stuff.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 12:09 AM
Aug 2015

Is that the best you've got? Make it about my personal life now?

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
37. AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 07:22 AM
Aug 2015
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Does she shit on kids trying to understand their sexuality, like your pal Flame?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=210790

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This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

> "Fuck your religion."

This is a forum to discuss religion, not a forum in which to engage in unwanted sexual acts with the religions of your fellow posters.



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Nuclear Unicorn

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38. I just completed jury service on this post where it was voted to LEAVE IT 3 - 4
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 07:34 AM
Aug 2015

I was one of the votes to LEAVE IT even though I personally found it rather hurtful.

Surprisingly, what shocked me more was Juror #4, who I think didn't vote on principle but rather animosity towards religion --

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I hope I'm mistaken otherwise this is all rather sad.
 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
35. "Some circles" are still awaiting your response upthread,
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 12:03 AM
Aug 2015

but aren't the least bit surprised by your inability to provide one.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
39. so Elizabeth Warren gives her kids guns and blames god when the obvious happens?
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 07:34 AM
Aug 2015

You keep claiming she is a christian just like the ones in the article. I'm just trying to understand if it is your claim that all christians are as fucked up as these christians. I didn't think they were, but now we have this claim of yours and it seems that perhaps they are.

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
16. grandma says god let it happen
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 03:31 PM
Aug 2015

glenn beck says the end times are coming and we should be afraid
I say if it is god's will then why are the Christians so upset about it??

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
6. Because giving guns to five year olds who then
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 07:33 PM
Aug 2015

kill their two year old sister is perfectly okay.

Oh, I understand that confiscation won't happen, but so long as we arm little kids, or anyone at all can get a gun because the gun show loopholes and such make real gun laws a joke, then we can't begin to be surprised at the daily carnage.

I guess this particular incident counts as 45 or so people who are shot and killed every day by accident, not the thirty or so who are murdered by guns every day.

I personally find those numbers unacceptable, and anyone who defends gun ownership clearly thinks those numbers are just fine. At least the family is falling back on their faith. I don't happen to agree with them, but if it comforts them to think that God wanted their son to murder their daughter, who am I to suggest they should believe any differently.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
8. Not giving guns to 5 year olds is very, very different from confiscating all guns.
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 07:34 PM
Aug 2015

Which is what you suggested. Which is absurd.

Journeyman

(15,031 posts)
4. People can believe all the happy horse shit they want, but THIS is inexcusable. . .
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 07:21 PM
Aug 2015
The authorities are not holding little Caroline’s mother legally responsible.

Pick and choose the laws you wish to live by, folks. In Kentucky, everything's a gamble, especially justice.

A Kentucky State Police trooper said the shooting had been ruled an accident, stating: “It’s just one of those nightmares…a quick thing that happens when you turn your back.”

And still, there are some who question why I hold so much of law enforcement in total contempt.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
7. You question why he holds law enforcement in total contempt?
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 07:33 PM
Aug 2015

Seriously?


Wait, yeah, you probably are quite serious.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
10. Yeah, child protective services should have taken any remaining kids out of that nutjob home.
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 08:49 PM
Aug 2015

And put them where they can't get ahold of guns til they're legally adults.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,307 posts)
12. And they'll punch any reporter who sticks their nose into their business
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 07:49 AM
Aug 2015

If they want to leave loaded guns around for children to kill toddlers with, well, that's just up to the 'community' and no-one else, isn't it?

Girl’s Death by Gunshot Is Rejected as Symbol

...
Ms. Beall, a 64-year-old retiree, said she had not heard anyone in town call the parents irresponsible for giving a gun to a 5-year-old or for leaving it unlocked. “Pointing fingers doesn’t really accomplish anything,” she said. “Terrible mistakes happen, and I think that’s what happened here.”
...
“I think it’s nobody else’s business but our town’s,” said a woman leaving a store, who like many people here declined to be interviewed. A woman who answered the phone at the office of John A. Phelps Jr., the chief executive of Cumberland County, whose seat is Burkesville, said, “No, I’m sorry — no more statements,” and hung up.

After the funeral service, two men advanced across North Main Street toward a single television crew present, from the German network RTL, and punched the cameraman, bloodying his face and knocking him down.

Two other men told a newspaper reporter, “If you had any sense, you’d get out of here. You’re next, buddy.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/06/us/kentucky-town-rejects-girls-gun-death-as-a-symbol.html?_r=0



http://www.motherjones.com/mojo/2013/05/crickett-rifle-marketing-kids
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
48. If the mother had given her 5 year old
Mon May 2, 2016, 06:55 AM
May 2016

a live grenade for his birthday, and he had pulled the pin and tossed it at his little brother like a ball, and killed him, would this brainless trooper have called it as an accident? I doubt it...but what happened is no different in principle. The only reason it is treated differently is the irrational worship of guns and the gun culture. But there are no "accidents" with guns. Only gross negligence and disregard for the basic rules of gun safety.

 

stone space

(6,498 posts)
49. You may be on to something here.
Mon May 2, 2016, 10:09 AM
May 2016
The only reason it is treated differently is the irrational worship of guns and the gun culture.


Igel

(35,300 posts)
11. When bad things happen people don't like responsibility.
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 10:17 PM
Aug 2015

They have trouble with random accidents.

That death over there has to be part of a pattern. It must be somebody's fault. But you don't want to blame those you sympathize or empathize with, and when you think it was an accident or you can't/shouldn't be held responsible you have to find some other person.

Parents of ASD kids have to find somebody to blame. It can't be their fault. It can't be random. It has to be somebody else's fault. I mean, just bearing genes that predispose a kid to ASD is more than many can bear--and that's a guiltless kind of responsibility.

The ultimate buck stops with God. If you can't find somebody else to blame and can't accept that you have responsibility (this statement made without judgment as to whether these parents should or shouldn't bear responsibility), that leaves random chance or God. Since we humans don't handle random chance very well, that leaves God for those who believe in God.

Or we find enemies to blame with the same blind fervor.

KT2000

(20,576 posts)
28. I wonder if the 5 year old
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 09:58 PM
Aug 2015

had killed one of your children - let's say in their own yard and the bullet traversed from the 5 y/o's house - if you would have felt there was definitely someone to blame?

The likelihood of a 5 year old with a rifle unsupervised shooting someone is very high. This was not a random accident. The person responsible for supervising the child is responsible for that child's behavior. If the 5 y/o walked into the street and was killed by a car, wouldn't the one responsible for supervising be responsible? That would be a no-brainer case of neglect.

Unfortunately, the worship of guns in our culture has come with a lack of responsibility for the damage they cause. That is not an act of god but a willful effort on the part of the NRA.

Brettongarcia

(2,262 posts)
45. Kentucky especially fetishizes guns
Mon May 2, 2016, 05:33 AM
May 2016

Daniel Boone and moonshiners and warring hillbillies, with guns, are folk heroes. Mich McConnell and libertarian Rand Paul are our senators.

Dorian Gray

(13,493 posts)
24. They're
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 08:47 PM
Aug 2015

trying desperately to wrap their minds around the horrible event. To understand the understandable.

 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
26. Some religionsare heavy on God's will
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 09:42 PM
Aug 2015

The Amish, for example, feel that it's God's will they have so many babies with disabilities. They know it's a result of inbreeding, a shrinking gene pool, but they refuse to take corrective action, claiming it's God's will their babies have birth defects.

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