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La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 03:13 PM Feb 2012

SOP conversation

Our current SOP is: "Discuss all issues affecting women in the U.S. and around the world."

Does it need to be changed?

I think we had mentioned that we would talk about the SOP after hosts were selected.

We would also discuss whether we should be a 'protected group', though I am unclear what that actually means in DU3

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SOP conversation (Original Post) La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 OP
Re: "Protected group." Before we ask to become a protected group, let's talk about what this means. yardwork Feb 2012 #1
really good point La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #2
I'm not sure what it means. You go first. yardwork Feb 2012 #3
i already said i have no idea what that would mean for du3 La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #5
Agreed obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #6
yes, i think once we sort out SOP La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #7
Has anyone EVER been TOS'd or PPRd from DU for sexism or misogyny? Remember Me Feb 2012 #13
You mean since you joined DU last July? yardwork Feb 2012 #14
EVEr is what I said, and what I mean Remember Me Feb 2012 #15
yes, many times on DU2 and quite a few here as well maddezmom Feb 2012 #16
Well that's comforing because I've not seen Remember Me Feb 2012 #28
I know of at least 5 that were PPR'd from DU3 maddezmom Feb 2012 #29
Yes. laconicsax Feb 2012 #38
I am really glad to hear it Remember Me Feb 2012 #45
that looks good to me maddezmom Feb 2012 #17
Thanks! obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #18
That sounds great Irishonly Feb 2012 #47
I suggest that we talk about the SoP now and table the discussion on protected status. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #4
As I said in another thread, I prefer to participate in groups that are open to everybody. yardwork Feb 2012 #8
how about someone who is against abortion in all cases La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #9
Yeah. I think that should be against community standards on DU. I alerted on that post, btw. yardwork Feb 2012 #11
as a host... I think we would just agree to kick them out OKNancy Feb 2012 #23
That would certainly be the best recourse obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #25
hell yes... I told Gormy OKNancy Feb 2012 #26
Uh oh obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #27
note to self--retrieve spiked heels from closet, to be used as needed niyad Feb 2012 #53
agree and hope all the hosts feel the same way maddezmom Feb 2012 #30
I agree. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #40
No and that should probably be spelled out in the SOP n/t kdmorris Feb 2012 #32
Somebody who calls prochoice people pro-deathers is inherently not interested in women's rights. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #41
This obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #44
Mind meld! obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #10
That's because we're socks. /nt yardwork Feb 2012 #12
do you match? my socks almost never do La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #19
LOL! Where do those socks go???! yardwork Feb 2012 #20
I hope so obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #21
I don't think we need to be "protected" OKNancy Feb 2012 #22
I say yes to anything that is a woman's/women's issue obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #24
EVERY issue is a women's issue niyad Feb 2012 #54
I agree with Nancy about everything she said in that post. yardwork Feb 2012 #49
The SOP could always use clarification kdmorris Feb 2012 #31
Good post, kd obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #33
I agree with you about each of those issues, but I don't think it's possible to spell it all out. yardwork Feb 2012 #50
Oh, I agree with that... kdmorris Feb 2012 #52
what I'd like to see added along with all the other great suggestions maddezmom Feb 2012 #34
Cosign with the maddez on this obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #36
Two thumbs up... Yep kdmorris Feb 2012 #39
I like the idea of a bullet-point list of do's and don'ts justiceischeap Feb 2012 #35
Great idea. Lisa D Feb 2012 #37
Again, I would prefer to leave this to the discretion of the hosts within a broad, simple SoP. yardwork Feb 2012 #51
My 2 cents: laconicsax Feb 2012 #42
Thanks laconicsax - great point. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #43
yes, i would like to add that to the SOP La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #46
As far as "protected" I think we already are kdmorris Feb 2012 #48
My 2 cents. A little clarification / specificity. MH1 Feb 2012 #55
I have a question Lisa D Feb 2012 #56
Sure, let me put it another way. MH1 Feb 2012 #57
I think I understand what you're getting at, and here's how I feel about it. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #61
Thank you for elaborating. Lisa D Feb 2012 #62
i completely and absolutely disagree La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #58
Thank you, Lioness obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #59
sorry, I think my post was not clear enough, if that's how you read it. MH1 Feb 2012 #60
I'm going to lock this and direct people to post comments and suggestion in the Current SoP thread. Gormy Cuss Feb 2012 #63

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
1. Re: "Protected group." Before we ask to become a protected group, let's talk about what this means.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 03:39 PM
Feb 2012
 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
2. really good point
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 03:50 PM
Feb 2012

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
3. I'm not sure what it means. You go first.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:00 PM
Feb 2012
 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
5. i already said i have no idea what that would mean for du3
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:02 PM
Feb 2012


but its a convo we said we'd have, so i thought we should have whether or not i understood it

to me, all protected status means is that we can block people from this forum, which we should be able to do anyway

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
6. Agreed
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:02 PM
Feb 2012

To me, it means the ability to block someone who is blatantly against women's rights. ie abortion should be illegal in all cases. Most posters like this will be PRRed anyway, but maybe not right away. I don't mind people disagreeing with me about things, as long as that disagreement doesn't advocate the removal of civil rights.

I also know some posters will disagree and think protected means the discourse can be more tightly controlled.

If we include a disclaimer in the SOP saying posters are expected to advocate for civil rights for women, and must also recognize the inherent equality of women, then adhering to the SOP would cover all of this.

I'm just spitballing here. I'm open to anything.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
7. yes, i think once we sort out SOP
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:08 PM
Feb 2012

then protected vs. not protected can be decided

 

Remember Me

(1,532 posts)
13. Has anyone EVER been TOS'd or PPRd from DU for sexism or misogyny?
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:32 PM
Feb 2012

EVER? If so, please -- tell me who, because I'm utterly unaware of it.

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
14. You mean since you joined DU last July?
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:37 PM
Feb 2012
 

Remember Me

(1,532 posts)
15. EVEr is what I said, and what I mean
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:06 PM
Feb 2012

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
16. yes, many times on DU2 and quite a few here as well
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:12 PM
Feb 2012
 

Remember Me

(1,532 posts)
28. Well that's comforing because I've not seen
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:05 PM
Feb 2012

much evidence that sexism and misogyny are even frowned upon here, let alone a TOS-able, now PPR-able offense. Glad to hear I'm just ill-informed or "not in the know."

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
29. I know of at least 5 that were PPR'd from DU3
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:17 PM
Feb 2012

and many more from DU2.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
38. Yes.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 08:33 PM
Feb 2012

The first that comes to mind is working guy who seemed to join DU just to say that all women are whores.

There have been others as well.

 

Remember Me

(1,532 posts)
45. I am really glad to hear it
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:56 PM
Feb 2012

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
17. that looks good to me
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:17 PM
Feb 2012

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
18. Thanks!
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:29 PM
Feb 2012

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
47. That sounds great
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 10:24 PM
Feb 2012

In a perfect world trolls would be banned before any harm is done. We do not live in a perfect world.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
4. I suggest that we talk about the SoP now and table the discussion on protected status.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:00 PM
Feb 2012

This group was a forum under DU2 and as such couldn't be a safe haven. Forums were open to all posters, not just those with stars. It seems to have functioned just fine that way.

However, this is an open thread so please take the above as a suggestion only.
I'll be back later with some ideas on the SoP.

Pri, I'm pinning this thread.


yardwork

(61,585 posts)
8. As I said in another thread, I prefer to participate in groups that are open to everybody.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:10 PM
Feb 2012

I am not comfortable with two-tier systems in which some people are excluded because they can't afford a star, for example.

If this group is going to be open to everybody on DU to read and discuss issues of importance to women, as long as community standards are observed, then it is the right place for me. I don't think that it's necessary to exclude people on the basis of litmus tests about their opinions of this or that, or their personal characteristics. The community standards of DU are quite clear - progressive points of view are welcomed. Right-wing points of view are not. If a person's opinions and behavior fall within the community standards of DU, then they are likely to fall within the SoP of this and any discussion group.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
9. how about someone who is against abortion in all cases
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:12 PM
Feb 2012

and calls prochoice people, pro-deathers? thats not necessarily enough to get you PPR'd from DU, but should it be ok in this group?

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
11. Yeah. I think that should be against community standards on DU. I alerted on that post, btw.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:15 PM
Feb 2012

And I checked the TOS box.

That said, I believe that we could handle any poster who came in here and said that. We would have that poster for lunch.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
23. as a host... I think we would just agree to kick them out
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 06:05 PM
Feb 2012

If a person was outrageous and used nasty language, I'd give them the boot, wouldn't you?

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
25. That would certainly be the best recourse
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 06:21 PM
Feb 2012

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
26. hell yes... I told Gormy
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 06:23 PM
Feb 2012

that I was a hardass about this kind of thing.

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
27. Uh oh
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 06:24 PM
Feb 2012



niyad

(113,210 posts)
53. note to self--retrieve spiked heels from closet, to be used as needed
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 01:54 AM
Feb 2012

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
30. agree and hope all the hosts feel the same way
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:19 PM
Feb 2012

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
40. I agree.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:17 PM
Feb 2012

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
32. No and that should probably be spelled out in the SOP n/t
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:29 PM
Feb 2012

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
41. Somebody who calls prochoice people pro-deathers is inherently not interested in women's rights.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:22 PM
Feb 2012

I do welcome people who are ambivalent or against abortion personally but who accept that the issue is choice and that other women have the right to choose differently.

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
44. This
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:55 PM
Feb 2012

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
10. Mind meld!
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:12 PM
Feb 2012

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
12. That's because we're socks. /nt
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:16 PM
Feb 2012
 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
19. do you match? my socks almost never do
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:32 PM
Feb 2012

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
20. LOL! Where do those socks go???!
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:33 PM
Feb 2012

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
21. I hope so
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:50 PM
Feb 2012

Because half of mine don't.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
22. I don't think we need to be "protected"
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 06:03 PM
Feb 2012

Things seen to be humming along fine. Just as long as everyone is civil, I think we will do fine.
Now, if someone is causing trouble, I won't have any problem giving them the boot.

SOP - I did ask earlier if we could talk about ANY women's issue, no matter how trivial. Theory and waves are fine, and I'm sure we all could use some education, but I would like to also talk about work, society, crappy fashion, chin hairs, and partner problems.
In that way, I think the group won't be too stale. I think we could also attract new blood.

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
24. I say yes to anything that is a woman's/women's issue
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 06:10 PM
Feb 2012

Gormy, etal may think differently.

niyad

(113,210 posts)
54. EVERY issue is a women's issue
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 01:55 AM
Feb 2012

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
49. I agree with Nancy about everything she said in that post.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:17 AM
Feb 2012

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
31. The SOP could always use clarification
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:26 PM
Feb 2012

It helps to kind of set the tone on what really isn't allowed. I could give you an example of what happened at the Health group...Our original SOP was "Discuss all aspects of health and health care policy." Very broad and kind of vague. It certainly describes at a high level what the forum is going to be, but if we ever had to block someone for posting advertisements or lock a post that was seeking medical advice, we would have been hard pressed to say "Hey, you had all the knowledge at your fingertips to know that we were going to lock that post (or block you)".

What we (the hosts maybe, if it becomes way too complicated for 100 people to determine an SOP) need to determine is: "What don't we want to see in our group?"

Would you lock a post or give someone a time out for using misogynist language? That should be spelled out. Will you block two people for having a all out flame war? (even for a short period of time?) If so, that should be spelled out.

From my perspective (and I am not a host of this group), I would not be happy with personal attacks on other members (you should spell out the exact actions you will take - warning, then time out, then you are out of here).

I would like the group to not allow people to come in and use misogynistic language. You can include that you would warn them to edit it first (maybe someone doesn't realize that it's hurtful to others), but then it will be locked (unfortunately, only for OPs) or there will be some other consequence.

I trust all of you to use your judgement on locking an OP that has turned into a destructive flamewar (even if the OP does not violate the SOP). I think all of you know a flame war vs a heated discussion. When people are just trying to hurt each other - it's not fun being part of that and I would support locking such OPs (even if it were mine and I didn't participate in the flame war).

Above all, I'm just going to use Skinner's words - it's supposed to be fun. Don't allow anyone to make it suck for rest of us.

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
33. Good post, kd
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:42 PM
Feb 2012

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
50. I agree with you about each of those issues, but I don't think it's possible to spell it all out.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:24 AM
Feb 2012

A short, simple SoP is best, imo. If we try to spell out every possible problem, it gets very unwieldy very quickly, we'll argue about wording, we'll never have a complete list of everything we don't want people to say or do, and in the end trolls will just wriggle through loopholes.

A short, simple, robust SoP, accompanied by our experienced hosts who know how to recognize and deal with troublemakers, plus the commitment of our members to be civil, thoughtful, and kind to one another, will give us the environment we seek, I believe.

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
52. Oh, I agree with that...
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:40 AM
Feb 2012

My trend toward being REALLY talkative probably make it sound like I thought a 70 page SOP was in order.

No, I meant something like this:

The Women's Rights and Issues group is for discussing all issues affecting women in the U.S. and around the world. Sexist/hate speech and questioning whether there is a problem will not be tolerated. Flaming has not place here. If found to be in violation of these rules, you will be given one warning and then your post will be locked or you may be blocked from the forum.

I'm sure someone can wordsmith something WAY nicer than that, but that was more what I was thinking.

Meh, I'm tired

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
34. what I'd like to see added along with all the other great suggestions
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 07:46 PM
Feb 2012

Is for members to stay on topic of the OP, be respectful of others opinions and don't belittle them if their views may be different. In other words no bigotry. No sexism, misogyny, racism, homophobia, etc. no matter how slight the slur may be perceived.

obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
36. Cosign with the maddez on this
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 08:01 PM
Feb 2012

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
39. Two thumbs up... Yep
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:01 PM
Feb 2012

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
35. I like the idea of a bullet-point list of do's and don'ts
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 08:01 PM
Feb 2012

The more specific the better. That way if someone does break the SOP/rules you can direct them to said bullet point. I also think it's very important to outline consequences of breaking the rules.

Just curious, should the amount of posts hidden play into the SOP/rules?

For example, if you get X posts hidden in a matter of X time, you get a time out? If after that time out, you get X number of posts hidden, you're blocked. People can say things without breaking specific rules/sop and still be a trouble maker.

Lisa D

(1,532 posts)
37. Great idea.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 08:23 PM
Feb 2012

I especially like your idea in the last paragraph. People can stay just inside the lines of an SOP and still be vicious or insulting.

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
51. Again, I would prefer to leave this to the discretion of the hosts within a broad, simple SoP.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:28 AM
Feb 2012

I speak from experience raising two children.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
42. My 2 cents:
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:38 PM
Feb 2012

I think that some sort of provision stating that this group isn't for debating whether certain issues exist of whether there's a need for women's rights advocacy could be useful.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
43. Thanks laconicsax - great point.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 09:45 PM
Feb 2012

The need for Women's Rights shouldn't be up for debate here.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
46. yes, i would like to add that to the SOP
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 10:05 PM
Feb 2012

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
48. As far as "protected" I think we already are
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 11:20 PM
Feb 2012

Once Women's Rights and Issues became a group and not a forum, the hosts are now the ones that determine the rules. At the top of the group it says:

This is a group, not a forum. Groups often serve as safe havens for members who share similar interests and viewpoints. Individuals who post messages contrary to a particular group's stated purpose can be excluded from posting in that group. For detailed information about this group and its purpose, click here.

So, really... what we come up with for the SOP will determine how "protected" we are. At that is my understanding of it.

MH1

(17,595 posts)
55. My 2 cents. A little clarification / specificity.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 11:14 AM
Feb 2012

Ok I don't post here very much, but I am very interested in seeing this group remain a functional, worthwhile place for discussion of the topic of women's rights. That means avoiding some of the issues that have seemed to plague *cough* other groups in DU.

For one thing, this group (in my view and preference), should be primarily about women's RIGHTS, which are under assault pretty much everywhere, and which have never, in most places and certainly not in the U.S., reached parity with the rights of men (men as in male human beings, not the allegedly generalized 'men' which arguably doesn't really include women when rights are the topic).

The U.S. never ratified the Equal Rights Amendment, remember? That matters. That it matters has been driven home full force this week with the sordid spectacles we've seen, on Capitol Hill with the hearing farce about birth control, and the VA law that a raped woman will be raped yet again by the state, or bear her rapist's child. Most here probably remember the Catholic nun who was disciplined for (if I remember the details correctly) allowing a woman who was dying with the dying fetus inside her to have an abortion, when there was nearly 0 (and doctors will never say absolutely 0) chance of the fetus surviving; both would surely die if the fetus were not aborted. But in the Catholic Church's view, A WOMAN HAS NO RIGHT TO LIFE. How stark is that?

There are tons of issues out there that affect women. Many can be tied in to a political discussion of women's rights. For example, the failure to protect women from environmental toxins that they are exposed to at a higher rate than men, or the failure of health care system to adequately differentiate appropriate treatments for women vs. men.

There's a lot of issues that might be highly contentious, where "freedom" might potentially conflict with exploitation. (Porn, anyone?)

Then there are issues of overlap with other groups. There are the rights of women as opposed to the rights of men in our patriarchal society. Then what about the issues of lesbian or trans-gendered women?

What I would hope to see from this group is an emphasis on discussion of women's rights that are relevant to any woman walking down the street. Rights that impact her ability to live her life to its fullest, but which might be threatened because she is a woman. NOT issues that might come up because she is a lesbian or transgendered woman (if those need a group, it should be a different group, imo. But those women will also suffer for the rights issues that I'm saying DO belong here.) And not things that are really not political issues, such as "why did Clairol discontinue my shade of hair color" or stuff like that. Well I hope that last example isn't too bizarre, but just trying to give an example of a non-political, non rights-based issue that probably wouldn't belong in this group.

Also, I would request that it be considered 'protected' in the sense that speech decrying the abuse of women - even if poorly stated and possibly insensitive to other cultures - should be protected. Sure, if I make a broad brush accusation in a way that unfairly tars a particular culture, call me on it and explain why I'm wrong. But I think if we are going to discuss the abuse of women, the attitudes against women that result in women being treated as property, sometimes an inartful, 'culturally insensitive' thing might slip out. But you know what? After this last week in the war on women, I'm a little less interested in being "culturally sensitive", and a lot more interested in what the f*** do we do to stop these assholes?

Well I guess that about covers it. I expect my voice to be small here because I don't post much, but thought I'd throw it out there for consideration. It's just my opinion. Overall I think this group has been doing a pretty good job, so maybe you don't need to change anything anyway.

Lisa D

(1,532 posts)
56. I have a question
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 11:27 AM
Feb 2012

And I wish I knew how excerpt a post. You stated:

"What I would hope to see from this group is an emphasis on discussion of women's rights that are relevant to any woman walking down the street. Rights that impact her ability to live her life to its fullest, but which might be threatened because she is a woman. NOT issues that might come up because she is a lesbian or transgendered woman (if those need a group, it should be a different group, imo. But those women will also suffer for the rights issues that I'm saying DO belong here.)"

Do you also believe a poster shouldn't bring up issues because she's a black woman or a poor woman or a disabled woman? Because I think it would enhance discussions of womens' rights if posters were able to disclose all the discrimination they encounter, which could be more (or even possibly less) because of an additional minority status.

And I also want to add that I hope you will participate a lot in this group. I think you'd be a great addition!

MH1

(17,595 posts)
57. Sure, let me put it another way.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:20 PM
Feb 2012

If a lesbian is mistreated or subject to unequal treatment because she is gay, then that is an issue for GLBT, I think. (Not being an active member of that group, I'm not sure how they're broken out, and I'm also afraid I might not use the right terms to express my meaning. But I'll try.). If she is subject to unequal treatment in the gay community because she is a woman, again, I would see that as an issue for GLBT, or maybe a separate group. If she is subject to unequal treatment in overall society - hiring , education, walking down the street - because she is recognized as a woman and therefore (to the person treating her this way) as less than or 'different' than a man - THAT belongs in this group.

To your question

Do you also believe a poster shouldn't bring up issues because she's a black woman or a poor woman or a disabled woman?

- not at all! But maybe the wording is tripping me. To me it is irrelevant whether a poster is a minority, gay, different in some other way, or even a man rather than a woman - if the ISSUE being discussed is about women's rights as relative to men's rights.

If an issue arises primarily because of someone's minority status, I would think that would belong in Race & Ethnicity. If it arises primarily because she's a woman, and is perhaps exacerbated by her minority status, that certainly would belong here, including the ways that the general inequity to women is magnified by other factors such as race or ethnicity.

If this all sounds maybe too specific and even pedantic: I saw a post upthread by niyad that helps explain why I recommend these lines be drawn. Her post was basically "all issues are women's issues". I agree with that!!! So what would be the point of having a separate forum for "women's rights and issues" if it's about EVERYTHING that affects women in any way? So I think the emphasis on RIGHTS is key, to differentiate this forum and keep it focused on a coherent set of topics. By RIGHTS we are talking about cultural and legal barriers to living a full life, or in other words, the ways women are put down and held back from achieving their aspirations due to being born female.

Does that answer your question?

(oh and to excerpt a post: copy and paste the piece you want into your post. Then highlight the pasted bit in your post, then click the "excerpt" button. The "excerpt" button is located in the row of buttons between the post title and the message text area of the post you're writing. Hope that helps!)

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
61. I think I understand what you're getting at, and here's how I feel about it.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:51 PM
Feb 2012

It is fundamentally impossible to segregate which oppression is greater in most cases. I'll construct a hypothetical for you. A political candidate says African-Americans cause their own problem because they won't get jobs. The same blowhard also says that women are the core of the family and need to step aside and let men make the money to care for the family. This politician is elected and his party has majority status in both houses.

If I'm an African-American woman, both of those political positions have the potential to affect me. The second part is a women's rights issue directly. The first part is also a women's rights issue because a subset of African-Americans are women. It seems to me that discussing one without the other is ignoring the synergistic effect of dealing with multiple assaults on women's rights by this politician.

Lisa D

(1,532 posts)
62. Thank you for elaborating.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 01:40 PM
Feb 2012

I see the point you're making, but I don't agree. Using your example, if a lesbian is experiencing unequal treatment in the gay community because she's a woman, that still seems to be a womens' rights issues. Especially if it relates to unequal treatment in overall society.

Plus, I think it might be impossible (not to mention exhausting) for hosts to decide which issues are womens' rights for overall society and which belong to some subset of rights that shouldn't be discussed in this forum.

BTW, thank you SO much for explaining how to excerpt a post. I was doing it all wrong

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
58. i completely and absolutely disagree
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:28 PM
Feb 2012

this is an area we can talk about intersectionality and we will. if something is relevant to my being gay, an ethnic minority or something else, it belongs in here because I as a woman suffer from it or experience it.

i dont want this to end up being the place that it's only ok to speak about women's rights as long as the women has no other oppression.



obamanut2012

(26,050 posts)
59. Thank you, Lioness
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:44 PM
Feb 2012

You beat me to it.

You cannot carve out a woman's gender from the rest of her identity and life experiences. Intersectionality is a very real thing.

MH1

(17,595 posts)
60. sorry, I think my post was not clear enough, if that's how you read it.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 12:49 PM
Feb 2012

unfortunately I have to go do other things now ... in fact I'm way overdue ... so I'll address it later if it appears that I need to.

It is just my opinion, and if it isn't shared by the group's regulars, that's fine, and I don't expect anyone to change anything for my view. I was just trying to put into words how I think this group could be differentiated and focused. If that's not what you want, that's not what you want.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
63. I'm going to lock this and direct people to post comments and suggestion in the Current SoP thread.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 09:20 PM
Feb 2012

Thanks.

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