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Prisoner_Number_Six

(15,676 posts)
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 09:09 PM Nov 2016

There's something I've wanted to say here for a long time.

I can walk again.

All the drugs and the surgeries and the therapies have paid off- eight years after sitting down in a wheelchair I am finally able to rise and step away from it.

Oh, I still have a long way to go- my leg muscles were almost completely atrophied due to the severity of my illness, but little by little I got better and I'm getting ready to leave the prison of that damned chair behind me. Trust me when I tell you that the ability to walk to the bathroom or the kitchen is not an ability to take for granted.

I sincerely hope that none of you ever find out first hand what it's like to find yourself limited in such a fundamental way. It's very hard to mentally assimilate all the changes it forces upon a person, and I know it can leave one angry and bitter. Fortunately for me my personal philosophy helped me to stay hopeful and not end up hating life.

The best of luck to all of you who walk the path with a smile on your face. And if you happen to look down and see strange footprints in the dust at your feet, they may just be mine. You never know!

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There's something I've wanted to say here for a long time. (Original Post) Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 OP
Congratulations! femmocrat Nov 2016 #1
I am so happy to read this news! redwitch Nov 2016 #3
I'm WAY too young to be old Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #36
Fantastic news! Congratulations! petronius Nov 2016 #4
Congrats! FSogol Nov 2016 #5
Wow! Congratulations!!!! brer cat Nov 2016 #6
Congratulations to you, PNS! sheshe2 Nov 2016 #7
Wow that is powerful. Major congrats. rurallib Nov 2016 #9
Not so much relief Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #11
My dear Prisoner_Number_Six! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2016 #14
Always. Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #18
... warrprayer Nov 2016 #16
That is really wonderful! lucca18 Nov 2016 #17
... Historic NY Nov 2016 #19
That's awesome man. Congrats! Downtown Hound Nov 2016 #20
Sounds like a plan to me! Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #41
That is wonderful news, and a testament to your annabanana Nov 2016 #21
Hoo-rah! malthaussen Nov 2016 #22
No longer prisoner, I take it. longship Nov 2016 #23
So far my escape is succeeding. Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #43
Absolutely love it!!! longship Nov 2016 #56
Hot fucking damn! Ellipsis Nov 2016 #25
Several years ago my son was beaten, robbed and left for dead FightingIrish Nov 2016 #26
What a story. I'm so happy for your son and for you. pnwmom Nov 2016 #27
Good for your son. mountain grammy Nov 2016 #39
That kid should have the rest of his life served to him Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #47
Your story really hit close to home because I know FightingIrish Nov 2016 #54
When my son got hurt he was six weeks into his freshman year of college FightingIrish Nov 2016 #64
Thanks for this, FightingIrish. democrank Nov 2016 #93
Wow. I'm so happy for you that all your hard work has brought you to this place. pnwmom Nov 2016 #28
Good for you... awoke_in_2003 Nov 2016 #29
Awww... NICE!!! calimary Nov 2016 #30
Wonderful! DesertRat Nov 2016 #31
Wow. Sometimes I come here and find a little miracle! nolabear Nov 2016 #33
Awesome, 6 Cary Nov 2016 #34
That's wonderful! The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2016 #35
Thank you for sharing your good news. mountain grammy Nov 2016 #37
Inspiring! hamsterjill Nov 2016 #38
Wonderful news! Prisoner_Number_6, yours is the best post I've read anywhere today! And I WinkyDink Nov 2016 #40
Great news grantcart Nov 2016 #42
That's amazing! And after all these years, not to lose hope question everything Nov 2016 #44
Been arguing with my legs for eight years. Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #49
Splendid! As someone who knows about those limitations, I commend your fortitude to stay hopeful and FailureToCommunicate Nov 2016 #46
I want to hug you Rorey Nov 2016 #48
I'm always up for a good hug. Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #51
What wonderful news Ms.Lib Nov 2016 #50
Congratulations and may good health attend you always Hekate Nov 2016 #52
Brought a smile to my face for all you have achieved and will achieve in the future ... slipslidingaway Nov 2016 #53
Incredible post, thanks n/t hibbing Nov 2016 #55
Well done. n/t sl8 Nov 2016 #57
Wow!!! And a good writer, too! BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2016 #58
A lot of the day-to-day stuff is gone. Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #59
Well, it depends more on how you write it. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2016 #60
So happy for you nt lillypaddle Nov 2016 #62
The best post I've ever read on DU. So happy for you!!! C Moon Nov 2016 #63
You are Great! burrowowl Nov 2016 #65
That is wonderful! Granny M Nov 2016 #66
Where is the one place you wanted to walk to the most? Just think you can be getting to that. The Wielding Truth Nov 2016 #67
My best friend broke his neck in high school. He was in a chair 'till he died recently in his 60's. NBachers Nov 2016 #68
Wonderful news. Solly Mack Nov 2016 #69
SUCH Huge congratulations to you!! LibraLiz1973 Nov 2016 #70
What wonderful news. mnhtnbb Nov 2016 #71
Good News, Good News, Good News! GreydeeThos Nov 2016 #72
What wonderful news to start out my day. May you always live life to the fullest! Fla Dem Nov 2016 #74
So happy for you!! Ligyron Nov 2016 #75
Keep up that amazing progress! Congrats, and now build those leg muscles. I'm so glad. downeastdaniel Nov 2016 #76
Way to go! sellitman Nov 2016 #77
Congratulations! yardwork Nov 2016 #78
Nice! Turbineguy Nov 2016 #79
Congratulations om recovering your mobility homegirl Nov 2016 #80
K&R nt ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2016 #81
best of luck to you heaven05 Nov 2016 #82
Awesome post. Well done SIX (Prisoner, no more) SaveOurDemocracy Nov 2016 #83
Well done! Liber toujours Nov 2016 #84
Wonderful news! True_Blue Nov 2016 #85
Congrats. benld74 Nov 2016 #86
smiles and tears of joy for you, number_six. congratulations!!! niyad Nov 2016 #87
congratulations! and well done! renate Nov 2016 #88
Congratulations, and may you be blessed with ever more improvement PatrickforO Nov 2016 #89
How wonderful! Mad_Dem_X Nov 2016 #90
Very happy to know your happiness. It's good for the soul. ancianita Nov 2016 #91
Wonderful, inspiring news. democrank Nov 2016 #92
... Scurrilous Nov 2016 #94
Inspiring insight into someone who must certainly be a wonderful Enoki33 Nov 2016 #95
Glad to be of soivice! Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #98
Wonderful news! gademocrat7 Nov 2016 #96
Great news! LeftishBrit Nov 2016 #97
That is such wonderful news P_N_S! denbot Nov 2016 #99
So inspiring! Congratulations! riderinthestorm Nov 2016 #100
What a wonderful post! CrispyQ Nov 2016 #101
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redwitch

(14,944 posts)
3. I am so happy to read this news!
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 09:19 PM
Nov 2016

Congratulations! More hard work to come in building back those muscles but I can imagine you are seriously motivated!

Prisoner_Number_Six

(15,676 posts)
36. I'm WAY too young to be old
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:14 PM
Nov 2016

I'm only 61. I still have too much to do to sit back and just watch it all go by.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,574 posts)
14. My dear Prisoner_Number_Six!
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 09:55 PM
Nov 2016

I am beyond thrilled to hear your fantastic news!

So much effort. And now it's paying off.

Keep on trucking!

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
21. That is wonderful news, and a testament to your
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 10:10 PM
Nov 2016

determination.

I have seen first hand what is lost. I have had rooms full of lifts and hoyers and all the accouterments that go with the lack of mobility.

I know the road is long, but i also know you are up to the challenge.

malthaussen

(17,184 posts)
22. Hoo-rah!
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 10:13 PM
Nov 2016

I had a minor stroke two years ago and had to learn to walk again. One of those things which we do take for granted, and miss it sorely when we don't have it. My felicitations on the happy event!



-- Mal

FightingIrish

(2,716 posts)
26. Several years ago my son was beaten, robbed and left for dead
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 10:17 PM
Nov 2016

He had multiple fractures including a severe vertebral burst fracture. We were told he would never walk again. He wasn't having anything to do with it and went from several wheelchairs, to a walker, to crutches to walking without them. He spent six months Italy and finished his stay hiking in the alps. He just began his teaching career. Once he got on his feet, he returned to the spinal cord rehab center where he was treated to encourage others.

Thanks for sharing your inspirational story. Sharing it can help others.

Prisoner_Number_Six

(15,676 posts)
47. That kid should have the rest of his life served to him
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:27 PM
Nov 2016

on a platter for all the injustice he's suffered along with the pain and indignity of the crime.

Glad he's so strong. I guess he has to be to not stay there pouring his blood out onto the sidewalk inside his mind.

FightingIrish

(2,716 posts)
54. Your story really hit close to home because I know
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:49 PM
Nov 2016

things you have dealt with even though you didn't mention them. A turning point was when he rebelled against occupational therapists trying to show him how to spend the rest of his life in a chair. I also know that one of the indicators for overcoming a spinal cord injury is intelligence. My son has been an inspiration to me and I applaud and celebrate what you have done.

FightingIrish

(2,716 posts)
64. When my son got hurt he was six weeks into his freshman year of college
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 01:13 AM
Nov 2016

He was majoring in engineering. He was determined that this horrible event was not going to change his life. My late wife and I learned a lot of medical information and terminology we never thought we would need as we helped him get well enough to even start rehabilitation. While we hovered around the hospital bed that was moved into his room at home, he started studying anatomy and physiology to learn why his body didn't work anymore. He had been an all-state soccer player on a championship team.

He returned to school for spring term and changed his major to physics. We hid behind a tree in the pouring rain to watch him wheel himself to his first class. He dealt with his new circumstances like the athlete he is. I watched him do amazing things in a chair he never wanted to be in. We got to watch him walk up to get his diploma. My wife didn't live to see him get his masters degree and become the teacher he was meant to be.

He lost some things that had been important to him but he gained incredible empathy and understanding. Through all of this, he was never bitter which is more than I can say for his parents.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
30. Awww... NICE!!!
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 10:24 PM
Nov 2016

Little by little! That is terrific news, Prisoner_Number_Six!

Thank you so much for keeping us all posted!!!

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
33. Wow. Sometimes I come here and find a little miracle!
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 10:59 PM
Nov 2016

Congratulations. I'm so happy for you. What a great testament to just plain persistence.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
38. Inspiring!
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:16 PM
Nov 2016

Your grit and your outlook made this happen. Those same qualities will take you the rest of the way.

Congratulations!!!

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
40. Wonderful news! Prisoner_Number_6, yours is the best post I've read anywhere today! And I
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:17 PM
Nov 2016

do not take walking for granted; indeed, I have been known to say that it's a good day when one is still ambulatory.

question everything

(47,465 posts)
44. That's amazing! And after all these years, not to lose hope
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:22 PM
Nov 2016

to keep trying and pushing.

Hope you are not rushing, too. Take your time getting re-acquainted with your legs.

Cheers!


FailureToCommunicate

(14,012 posts)
46. Splendid! As someone who knows about those limitations, I commend your fortitude to stay hopeful and
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:23 PM
Nov 2016

keep a smile on your face.

When we are gone, all that any of us have left behind is footprints - or wheel tracks- in the dust.

May you continue to stride into your brighter future (without Rover!)

-FTC

Ms.Lib

(131 posts)
50. What wonderful news
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:31 PM
Nov 2016

& such a heartwarming testament of your struggle.
Best of luck to you in your continued recovery &
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story.

slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
53. Brought a smile to my face for all you have achieved and will achieve in the future ...
Fri Nov 4, 2016, 11:48 PM
Nov 2016

your hopeful attitude will serve you, and those around you, well.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
58. Wow!!! And a good writer, too!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 12:13 AM
Nov 2016

YAY!! Seriously HAPPY for you!


I work with Deaf people...many of my friends are Deaf...and I think because we're all separate, we can't know what someone else's path is. Even though I surely do wish I could. Like, full-on empathy.

I can't imagine! WOW! You should write about it--the day to day experience.... ❤️

Prisoner_Number_Six

(15,676 posts)
59. A lot of the day-to-day stuff is gone.
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 12:40 AM
Nov 2016

The first three years I was in agony, and that tends to blur the mind. A lot of the chronology is simply not there any more. Once in a while I flash on something that had gone away, but the details are missing.

Such is life when you're flat on your back and stoned to the gills on pain pills 24 hours a day.

I may one day attempt to write about the personal philosophy I've developed over my lifetime. But OTOH who would want to read it?

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
60. Well, it depends more on how you write it.
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 12:45 AM
Nov 2016

I just saw-- you write good. It was good reading.

I *wish* I could write my stuff in a way people could read.

I think everyone wants to somehow *know* another's experience. I guess that's why we like stories in the first place.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
66. That is wonderful!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 03:16 AM
Nov 2016

I'm so glad you shared your good news with us! Your strength and your philosophy of hope are truly inspirational. I wish you continued steady improvement and a great future.

The Wielding Truth

(11,415 posts)
67. Where is the one place you wanted to walk to the most? Just think you can be getting to that.
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 03:16 AM
Nov 2016


So happy for you. I bet it took a lot of work. You really are a DUer.

NBachers

(17,098 posts)
68. My best friend broke his neck in high school. He was in a chair 'till he died recently in his 60's.
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 03:17 AM
Nov 2016

We piloted him around in that chair in every state of mind you could imagine- straight, drunk, high, and tripping. His will, his extraordinary attitude, and the love that surrounded him is what kept him going all those years.

I know what it is to dream and long for a day when the miracle of walking will allow you to leave that chair behind.

And, I was a prisoner of a different kind myself, for years. I know the dreams and images of freedom that overtake your mind, your soul, your spirit, and your determination.

Keep walking - keep working - keep being grateful for every small miracle - I've been reading you here for a long time - you are part of the solution, and we need you - Thank you for being on our side, and pulling us along with you.

Ligyron

(7,624 posts)
75. So happy for you!!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 09:13 AM
Nov 2016

Can't even imagine what it must have been like.

Good advise given in this thread too.

It's weird, while I can't relate to your personal struggle in the particular, one thing I have noticed is that - often when you lose one ability you often gain in another area, sometimes dramatically so.

Loss and the struggle it ignites can often uncover hidden talents.

The trick is keeping the new ability while working to recover the other.

In the end, if you play your cards right, you come out a more powerful person then you ever were.

Best of luck in your recovery!

sellitman

(11,606 posts)
77. Way to go!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 09:32 AM
Nov 2016

You are a role model.

By telling us about it you never know who you have helped already.

😗👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

homegirl

(1,428 posts)
80. Congratulations om recovering your mobility
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 09:34 AM
Nov 2016

Having fought a similar fight, fortunately it took eight months, not eight years, I know what hard work you put into your recovery. Enjoy life and and my deepest wishes for happiness for you.




niyad

(113,229 posts)
87. smiles and tears of joy for you, number_six. congratulations!!!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 12:43 PM
Nov 2016

will be happy to see your footprints alongside mine.

renate

(13,776 posts)
88. congratulations! and well done!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 01:26 PM
Nov 2016

It must have been tough to keep hoping and working for eight long years, but you did it!

Mad_Dem_X

(9,553 posts)
90. How wonderful!
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 02:54 PM
Nov 2016

I've been away from DU for quite some time, so I am not entirely familiar with your situation, but the news that you can walk again brought tears to my eyes. Congratulations!

Enoki33

(1,587 posts)
95. Inspiring insight into someone who must certainly be a wonderful
Sat Nov 5, 2016, 04:11 PM
Nov 2016

person. Best wishes for the future. I came for politics and found much more. Thanks.

CrispyQ

(36,446 posts)
101. What a wonderful post!
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 12:06 PM
Nov 2016

I'm so happy for you!

I spent three months in a wheel chair once, due to an unusual illness. I lived in the second story of an historic home & if it hadn't been for friends who helped me, including many super nice taxi drivers!, it would have been much more difficult than it was.

Congratulations & may you continue to make progress!

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