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SHRED

(28,136 posts)
Tue Feb 2, 2016, 08:39 PM Feb 2016

Disabled?

Okay I know I should not judge. I don't know their circumstances but I just can't let go.

I'm talking about those who abuse disabled parking privileges.

There is a surfer where I live who parks for free in a state park. He then hikes down to the beach and surfs. He hangs a disabled banner on his rear view mirror.
Another guy I see frequently at a local lake backs his boat down the ramp, launches, and parks his truck in handicapped parking to avoid a little walking.

I get offended by this. Yeah it's a pet peeve but c'mon.

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Disabled? (Original Post) SHRED Feb 2016 OP
What they're doing is wrong. It's selfish. LiberalElite Feb 2016 #1
They have a placard and/or license insignia SHRED Feb 2016 #2
Hmmm. Maybe they LiberalElite Feb 2016 #3
Yeah but surfing? SHRED Feb 2016 #4
Yeah, the surfer I'm pretty skeptical about. nt LiberalElite Feb 2016 #5
I may say something next time I see him SHRED Feb 2016 #6
He may have gotten the disabled tag when he was TexasBushwhacker Feb 2016 #10
He has a tag that needs renewal SHRED Feb 2016 #12
People use them who are not disabled but acquired them because of a spouse or child. Fla Dem Feb 2016 #13
It's also illegal. n/t Mr.Bill Feb 2016 #18
Did you ever consider the fisherman might be walking close to his limit? Enthusiast Feb 2016 #14
I considered that SHRED Feb 2016 #15
I have a disabled license plate......... mrmpa Feb 2016 #7
I hear ya SHRED Feb 2016 #8
You should flag a cop. At least on the surfer dude. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2016 #11
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2016 #9
All you need is a friendly docter. trof Feb 2016 #16
About the mirror cards... trof Feb 2016 #17
My wife has a disabled placard and disabled plates on her car. Mr.Bill Feb 2016 #19
I have a back issue earthbot1 Feb 2016 #20

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
1. What they're doing is wrong. It's selfish.
Tue Feb 2, 2016, 08:53 PM
Feb 2016

They should be ashamed of themselves. Isn't it against the law to park in a disabled parking spot?

 

SHRED

(28,136 posts)
6. I may say something next time I see him
Tue Feb 2, 2016, 09:29 PM
Feb 2016

He's in his 60's and has veteran stickers also.

He parks in a very expensive and coveted state parking lot for free.

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TexasBushwhacker

(20,171 posts)
10. He may have gotten the disabled tag when he was
Tue Feb 2, 2016, 11:29 PM
Feb 2016

disabled, but now he isn't. Of course, an honorable person would not continue to use the tag if they weren't still disabled.

Fla Dem

(23,645 posts)
13. People use them who are not disabled but acquired them because of a spouse or child.
Wed Feb 3, 2016, 05:59 PM
Feb 2016

No objection to them using the tags when they are with the disabled person, but it is disingenuous, selfish and wrong to use them for their own benefit when the disabled person is not with them.

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
14. Did you ever consider the fisherman might be walking close to his limit?
Thu Feb 4, 2016, 04:46 PM
Feb 2016

Some people do not have an apparent disability but are disabled or have limitations that aren't readily apparent.

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
7. I have a disabled license plate.........
Tue Feb 2, 2016, 09:30 PM
Feb 2016

I own the car & it is my disabilities that allowed me to get the plate. I know that too often people borrow a placard from a relative or friend to use. I once asked our Police Chief if they could find out who a placard was issued to, he said that the state did not have a data base for that, only for plates.

I get awkward looks from people sometimes when I get out of my car, as I do not use any aid(s). If someone were to ask or confront me about my disabilities, my answer would be "what scar do you want to see first."

It's a pet peeve for us "disabled'" too.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,324 posts)
11. You should flag a cop. At least on the surfer dude.
Wed Feb 3, 2016, 12:10 AM
Feb 2016

California has some huge fines. $900 plus.

It seems like there are more spots these days. When my mom was still alive, we used to have a hard time in some places with not enough spots. It was hard to drop her off and have her wait.





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Response to SHRED (Original post)

trof

(54,256 posts)
17. About the mirror cards...
Thu Feb 4, 2016, 09:13 PM
Feb 2016

RTFC!
Read The F***ing Card!
"REMOVE BEFORE DRIVING"

I have one. It's NOT a badge of 'specialness'.
It goes in the glove compartment between stops.
Every time I see someone driving with this hazard to their field of vision and safe driving I think "IDIOT!"

Mr.Bill

(24,278 posts)
19. My wife has a disabled placard and disabled plates on her car.
Thu Feb 4, 2016, 10:50 PM
Feb 2016

Her disabilities are not readily visible or apparent. She has Asthma and Arthritis. Some days she feels better than others. Medication can make a difference in her mobility ability. When she feels good, she sometimes will still use a handicap space. The reason is even though she feels good when she parks, she may be in a great deal of pain by the time she has walked around the grocery store or the mall. It can't really always be predicted.

Certainly there are doctors and patients who abuse this system. But don't judge someone strictly by the appearance of how they look when they get out of their car. Not even a doctor can make a proper diagnosis on this alone.

earthbot1

(77 posts)
20. I have a back issue
Fri Feb 5, 2016, 05:29 PM
Feb 2016

called Spondylolisthesis. I still work and do stuff, but sometimes it is really painful. I look pretty fit, but sometimes am in agony just standing or walking. Maybe the ocean is good for his pain? Or he could be a jerk? I sometimes test myself on long walks. Sometimes I am limping home. At least I can ride a bike without too much pain. In fact, It would be nice to have a tag for my bike so it can be used as an aide for my walking problem. It would be nice in a large park where bikes are not allowed.

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