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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsDo you love where you live...
or is it simply a way station to your preferred domicile ?
I can say that I do love where I live. Yes, the mountains, beach, San Francisco, riverfront, etc would all be better, but for my own reasons, this suits me and my budget. I'm quite content here, and hopefully will stay that way.
Do you love where you live ?
eta: I guess I should provide a few details. I'm near Orlando. Condo overlooking a pond, nice trees, nice neighborhood, good neighbors, almost everything within walking distance.
arcane1
(38,613 posts)it's still much more satisfying on the return flight
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)I'm stuck a mere 45 miles -- but 2 1/2 hours by transit! -- from paydirt.
Robert Heinlein, who lived over the hill in Santa Cruz, described San Jose as "a collection of villages in search of a city". He nailed it.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)Especially the area that looks like JAPAN!
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)one of only three authentic ones remaining, along with SF and LA, although the Mo'ili'ili neighborhood of Honolulu comes close.
edit: Also, San Jose Taiko rules!
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)I lived in South Florida most of my life. I have lived for short times in Los Angeles, Birmingham, Alabama and New Jersey. but always ended up back in Miami. Finally, in 1989, I moved up here to North Georgia and have never left. My sisters had moved here and were begging me to come. Finally, I gave in and moved to Georgia.
I love the Southern hospitality and that there are four seasons unlike South Florida which is almost summer year 'round. The weather is perfect here. Most winters are fairly cold, but I love cold weather. And summer only lasts 3 months.
Fortunately, I do not live in Atlanta but just northwest of it in the suburban town of Woodstock. It is in Cherokee County, which is totally Republican, but I can overlook that because it is such a great area.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)I do love where I live, if I moved away, I would purchase a vacation home here...but here is not home and never will be, even if I did grow up here. I'm never not a New Yorker, no matter how long I've been gone.
panader0
(25,816 posts)I intended all those years ago that my 40 acres would be a way station. But things happened. I built a house, started a business, and had kids. I do love it here at 4600 ft in So Az. Great weather and a lot of work until a few years ago. But I'm still on my way to Costa Rica!
elleng
(130,865 posts)Southern Maryland, 60 miles from DC.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Western PA is beautiful and the weather is usually moderate. We are in a rural (red) area, but not very far from the cultural attractions and sports in the city.
Crewleader
(17,005 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)Call me Steve, please
Skittles
(153,150 posts)f*** no
steve2470
(37,457 posts)kairos12
(12,852 posts)TK421
(15,205 posts)It's finally starting to cool off here in PA
:l
I think the highs this week are going to be in the low-mid seventies
Skittles
(153,150 posts)Wilkes-Barre and Philadelphia - I felt very much at home there
TK421
(15,205 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)I wouldn't live anywhere else.
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Arcata: I like how the whole town is slow-paced and quiet. I like HSU, as well. I like the climate up here, where it almost never gets too hot and it rains frequently during the fall and winter. The rent up here for apartments is cheap, and it's easier to learn how to drive since there's less traffic. My only real complaints about Arcata are the humidity and the local Safeway. Many times when I walk around, the weather feels so humid that I sweat even when the temperature is cool. As far as the Safeway goes, it isn't that big, so they don't have everything I want. In fact, I'm not even sure if it has a bakery...
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Oakland: I have a love/hate relationship with it. I don't like the amount of crime here and our crooked police force. I want it to be safe enough here to where I can walk around at night and not be bothered. I also wish there were more things to do here, like in SF. I wish that both the Raiders and A's were better and could go back to their glory days. At the same time, however, I'll always be proud to be from here and am proud of this city's history.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)crime is down, and the many, many people priced out of SF are flooding in and providing things to do, like the First Friday Art Murmur.
As for the A's, they were getting it done, right up until last month.
Callmecrazy
(3,065 posts)I consider this my home now. After living in the desert for nearly 30 years, it was a welcome change. All my extended family lives here as well.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)Even though I grew up in Miami, I'd had enough of the heat, humidity, big bugs and crime.
CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)I don't. I returned to Lexington, KY after living in Miami for ten years, to take care of my elderly parents. As an only child, I had no choice and they wouldn't move to Miami. My mother is gone now and my father in fairly decent health. I hope he lives for many years but once he's no longer here... it's back to the coast for me, somewhere between Charleston, SC and New Orleans.
Lexington is a lovely city, but while I graduated from UK and loved it, the city is very one dimensional... just not for me.
A friend of mine who lives here and LOVES Lexington tells me you can make anywhere a home and be happy if you try. I tried... doesn't work.
To all of you who are happy where you live... that's wonderful! Very glad you've found your place in the sun.
We are the complete opposite. I live near Charleston S.C. and I hate it. I'm looking at moving to Berea or Richmond Kentucky.
My son attends Berea college, but he's having some medical issues. We think it might be time to move closer to him.
CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)First, sorry your son is having some issues... wish the best for him.
I love Berea.... it is a beautiful little town, and Berea College is one of the best colleges anywhere. I make the short trip to Berea as often as I can... for the art and crafts, to eat at Boone Tavern or at that great little pizza place on the corner... it a wonderful, friendly town. It is definitely not Lexington.
Kentucky is a beautiful state... my parents were born here, I was born in Aiken, SC. As a UK grad, I have a ton of affinity for the university but never enjoyed living in this town. I used to joke I would never live anywhere that didn't have a tide report as part of the weather, that is not here!
Good luck, to you and your son. If you do relocate, I hope the move is all that you hoped for.
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)
which is exactly why we renovated recently to grow old here in SW PA.
It's precious enough to fight for (fracking, corrupt governments, labor movement) and the sweet spot of enough water and temperate climate compared to the extreme North Atlantic area. Lots to love here and a nice base to travel to see siblings. Most of all, best place to be with Mr. Mickey's Dad.
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)I live in a cozy little college town with lots of interesting people. I love it here in western Nebraska even more than I did in the Black Hills of South Dakota, and thats saying a lot.
Aerial view of my town: (I can see my house from here!)
A few miles south of town:
hibbing
(10,096 posts)Hey,
I'm in the other side of the state and I like it. Of course it is a bastion of conservatism, which sucks.
Peace
handmade34
(22,756 posts)photo is my back acreage... and I usually love where I am working, as I live on the road for the most part... but I love my Vermont home best of all!!
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blueknight
(2,831 posts)I love my house, and i have good neighbors. but i live in northern ky, right across the ohio river from cincinnati. too conservative, too redneck, too racist, but most of all, too damn cold in the winter! looking forward to our move to south florida in the next couple years
AtomicKitten
(46,585 posts)My son just got a job with Beach Blanket Babylon, the longest running cabaret show in the US.
I feel very lucky indeed.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)I've seen it three times and laughed harder each time I saw it. What a great show!!!!
Hope your son has a long run with the show.... such a fun, fun evening!
I love San Francisco, every time I've been there, I keep trying to figure out where I can scrape up enough money to live there... haven't figured that out.
Great city.
AtomicKitten
(46,585 posts)Last edited Sun Sep 7, 2014, 01:45 PM - Edit history (1)
He's been struggling to finish his degree in Chemistry at SFSU but the school is so impacted it was taking forever. So he threw his hat in the employment ring and lucked out. From what I can tell, the Silver organization is a finely tuned machine that offers employees benefits the likes of which I haven't seen since the 1970s. Plus it's in one of the most breathtaking cities in the world. It makes me very happy to see him so happy with his circumstance.
* edited for correct school acronym
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)I like the four seasons. I like that I am 10 miles from a beach. I like that there's mountains and trails and state parks. I like that I am an hour and a half from NYC. I like that we have train access.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)and the kids are doing well.
marzipanni
(6,011 posts)We used to live in Marin, my husband grew up there. Now we live closer to Sacramento.
From age 5-18 I lived in the area west of Boston where the environs are fairly rural; sometimes I miss the seasons and weather variations, especially rain in the summer! I wish going back to see my brothers, niece, nephew and their kids didn't entail such a big trip.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)KamaAina
(78,249 posts)It had to be done.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)I am currently living in Rhode Island. I would like to be in Northern VT
I am the fourth generation of my family to live here. It IS the most beautiful place in and the center of the universe.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)i still live where i grew up in northern colorado and love being close to the mountains. it's also pretty liberal here, a wonderful bonus. that said, we are damn near priced out of town. college town, plenty of tech jobs and on every damn top ten list. average rent is close to half our monthly income. we could move to one of the surrounding towns, but the rent savings would be eaten up by gas for the commute.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)This is a special place. I would never expect anyone else to understand.
U4ikLefty
(4,012 posts)mnhtnbb
(31,382 posts)in Santa Monica.
He got divorced from Roswitha in 1985 and moved.
We got married in 1985, sold the house in 1988 and moved.
I don't know where Randy is now...but when we left L.A. we never looked back!
U4ikLefty
(4,012 posts)we are happy when people don't like it here...and leave
glad you like NC...very beautiful scenery
adirondacker
(2,921 posts)U4ikLefty
(4,012 posts)DFW
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These days, I'm in a small medieval (around 1000 years old) town outside of Düsseldorf.
The weather often sucks, and the bureaucracy and corruption always suck.
On the other hand, we have some great friends, the food is amazing, the public transportation goes everywhere (when there are no strikes), and it's an hour's flight to London, Paris, Copenhagen, Berlin, Prague, Vienna, Zürich, Warsaw and Geneva. Three hours by train to Amsterdam, Brussels, Hamburg, you get the idea. A LOT of culture, and only 2 hours by train to Frankfurt, where our younger daughter lives (or 8 hours by plane to New York City, where our other daughter lives).
And not a Republican in sight!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)It's weird, but I am tiring more quickly these days. This Jason Bourne routine gets difficult to maintain at age 62. I was in Bavaria Monday, Belgium Tuesday, France Wednesday and the Netherlands yesterday. Today, I haven't left the house.
I think I'm gonna pay more attention to recharging the batteries until I get over my jet lag.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)but when I did my around-the-world tour in 1997, jet lag was really bad, so I can relate. Hope your family is great !
DFW
(54,349 posts)But just barely, sometimes!
Family is fine, thanks! Daughters good at work and play, and wife still even-tempered and beautiful.
Can't complain about any of that, can I?
steve2470
(37,457 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)But at least I won't die of boredom!
CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)and so civilized to be in a place where good transportation is the norm (strikes excluded) and to be close to all the culture available to you.
However, the best thing about where you live? Your last statement...
"And not a Republican in sight!"
DFW
(54,349 posts)Back in the 1980s, an ex-SS officer, who was not so "ex" in his politics, wanted to start up an extreme right party in Germany. The Nazi Party is forbidden by law here, so he looked around for inspiration for a new name. He found it right in the good old USA, and called his new neo-Nazi Party (I am not making this up) "Die Republikaner."
The Republicans in the States always get upset when I tell them this, and whine, "are you accusing us of being Nazis?" I always politely said, "no, but I find it unfortunate that Nazis find you to be such a great inspiration as to want to use your name." They didn't like that, either, but they couldn't very well deny it, either.
Die Republikaner, by the way, get less than 1% of the vote in Germany. If more Americans had any sense, it would be so back home as well, but alas, 'tis not the case.
Earth_First
(14,910 posts)We live in a semi-rural village suburb of Rochester, NY.
We live along a wonderful trout stream bordered by 60 acres of privately (family held) recreational property that we enjoy regularly.
Rochester for all it's faults, is a great place to raise a family and has wonderful opportunities for those willing to get out and explore.
If you are bored in Rochester, you aren't trying hard enough...
TBF
(32,047 posts)but the climate is probably the best thing. A major city in the south is better than rural areas, but I find myself withdrawing because the majority of these people are truly nuts.
If I could be anywhere it would probably be near a beach in Europe.
DFW
(54,349 posts)Sardine cans have more room for the individual.
We always make the trek to the USA (Cape Cod) for the summer precisely because the European beaches are awful (unless you are a multi-gazillionaire and own your own stretch, which we do not, and they're STILL polluted even for the rich folks on the Riviera or Algarve).
hermetic
(8,308 posts)Only been here for 2 months and I wasn't sure I was going to like it. But, I had to move somewhere and there's family close by so I decided to give Southern Idaho a chance. I'm in a very small town where I can walk to library, bank, grocery. It's very quiet here and people are super friendly. It's the kind of place you say "hi" to people on the street. And I love the weather.
Plus, just a few miles away are places like this...
I guess I'll stay for a while.
Number9Dream
(1,561 posts)Developers have bullied zoning boards into allowing them to cover the once nice Lehigh Valley with warehouses and housing developments. What were once farms are now covered with macadam. Traffic is horrendous. PennDOT is the worst run organization on the planet. Property taxes are astronomical. I'm presently living outside of Nazareth, with remaining woods behind my house (for now).
Winters mean freezing rain, ice, and much snow to battle with. Summers are hot and humid with lots of mosquitoes and bugs. We don't get much Spring or Fall anymore.
The Lehigh Valley was gerrymandered, with Dem leaning Easton cut out of the 15th district for the first time ever. The Allentown Morning Call and WFMZ-TV are very Republican leaning.
If I live long enough to retire in a few years, we're thinking about moving to the Southeast or Southwest, but I'm definitely out of PA... Maybe living in an RV or cabin cruiser and moving with the seasons.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Number9Dream
(1,561 posts)I'd drown it out with my music.
Care to say if you're a present or former Lehigh Valley resident?
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)alarimer
(16,245 posts)I moved here for the job. I do not plan on staying. I'm looking for other work closer to where my boyfriend lives or in some other location where we can both find jobs.
I think where I live will largely depend on where the jobs are. It will of necessity be a compromise and not the ideal location where we would both like to live.
For example, I love Austin, TX, but will be unlikely to find a job. But Houston, for example, is a likely candidate. I don't love Houston, but, having lived in Texas for years, can tolerate most of it fairly well.
I currently live in NC, in what to me is a very small town. This town lacks all small-town charm and is instead filled with the right-wing and overly religious. I honestly prefer a place with more tattoo parlors than churches. At least that's evidence of a counter-culture of sorts. Here there are many, many more churches than anything fun. And judgey right-wingers.
When I moved here the job started out promising but has turned sour, so I'm looking for greener pastures no matter what.
Of course my ideal place to live is someplace like St. Thomas, or possibly Belize. Guess I can dream?
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)but I love living in the Central Valley. I love the diversity and I love buying my food directly from the farmers who grow my food.
I love that 3 National parks are no more than an hour-and-a-half drive to any of them.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)but let's just say our Big Fair starts on October 1st. neighbor (I think).
mackerel
(4,412 posts)We've had a very mild summer for the valley.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)I've not really spent any time there. Good to know.
sarge43
(28,941 posts)denbot
(9,899 posts)With friends last Monday. The Miss's and me are in the background.
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Myrina
(12,296 posts)Central Indiana ... Right Wing Bible Thumping Gun Humping Xenophobic Basketball Idolizing Hillbilly Morons with no 'real' water (we have reservoirs), horrendous humidity and perpetual road construction from hell.
As soon as my 401k is stable & the opportunity to work remote presents itself, I am gone.
Only substitute "western South Carolina" for "Central Indiana", and "Football-idolizing" for "Basketball idolizing". Also, no perpetual road construction, because people here hate paying a sufficient gas tax more than they do paying for road repairs--or car repairs from the shitty roads we have here. I fucking hate this place with the white hot heat of a thousand suns.
I'm out of here as soon as I sell my house, work or no work.
mnhtnbb
(31,382 posts)but ever since the Republicans took over the state government two years ago, I haven't been
too happy with the rest of the state.
Still, Chapel Hill is an oasis of blue in an otherwise purple state that has been driven red
by low Dem turnout in 2010 and over the top $$$ poured in by our very own Koch brother--Art Pope--
and his like. Republicans hadn't controlled the state for 100 years. What was once considered a
progressive southern state has been driven decades backwards by these Republicans. Hopefully, the Moral
Monday protests over the last year will raise enough awareness to get people to come out in the next several
elections and VOTE the Repubs out.
Chapel Hill, home to the flagship campus of the University of North Carolina--also under attack by the Republicans--
is a sleepy town of 50,000 when the students aren't in residence. But, oh, my, the advantages of
living near excellent medical care, world class entertainment that is booked in to Memorial Hall on campus,
a vibrant Repertory Company on campus, college basketball, baseball, football, soccer games to attend...lots of walking/bike trails, excellent restaurants...I could go on and on. Only 25 minutes to an international airport (Raleigh/Durham) which will take you
non-stop to New York or London or Toronto...or anywhere else. And the entire Research Triangle area is loaded with science/technology companies offering good paying jobs.
So...here are a couple views of "the southern part of heaven" as Chapel Hill is called:
A winter sunrise view from the back deck of our house:
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Azaleas in bloom in spring on the steps down to our house:
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Only a 3 1/2 hour drive to the beach for this view on a morning walk:
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The Old Well on the UNC campus with the azaleas in bloom:
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The Kenan Bell Tower on the way to Kenan Stadium:
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Throd
(7,208 posts)I'll move elsewhere someday, but for now it is a great place to raise my children.
aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)in Orange County, California. There are just too many people. There is square mile after square mile of urban sprawl. There are few actual cities with discernible downtowns but rather a monotonous sameness to it all, mile after mile of suburban developments with strip malls interspersed. When you drive around, you can't tell if you've crossed into a town from another unless there's a signpost. Everywhere the developers have used the same few house models that give neighborhoods the same general boring look. And there's the southern California architecture that I find absolutely hideous, the same stucco crap that looks like it was built from wooden match sticks. There's so much traffic that red lights are placed at virtually every block and it often takes one or two cycles of lights to get through intersections because of the numbers of cars in line. I hate it compared to other places I've lived when I was young (my dad was a career Air Force Officer and we moved all over the country when I was a kid).
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)about L.A. Too many damn people. Gridlock every day. Pasadena is crazy busy. Hoping to leave SoCal one of these years.
Raven
(13,889 posts)I have a great view of Mt. Monadnock from my deck and take a beautiful winding back country road to work while listening to the WBZ Boston traffic reports.
Raine1967
(11,589 posts)I can see the Washington Monument by walking up the hill on my Street. Love living in this city and love the the other city (DC) is a minute ride on the Metro.
After leaving my home state of NY to Atlanta I always felt that I was missing NY, for all of it's rivers, parks oceanfronts Mountains and country -- and true City -- I stopped missing that when I moved to Del Ray.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)Beautiful, livable city; access to mountains, ocean, great forests; good people; good food and drink.
Yep, it rains, and is gray much of the year, but I've come to appreciate living in a temperate rain forest (I love the moss, ferns, streams, giant trees, oh, and the giant slugs as well.). Sure there are a few weeks in March when I might stab somebody, but, hey, that's the price I pay.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)geardaddy
(24,926 posts)In the heart of Minneapolis. Beautiful lakes near my house. Biking trails all around the city. Fairly decent politically.
But there are drawbacks...the older I get, the less I like the winters (especially last winter).
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)And I have lived in and near Minneapolis all my life save for three years in Cambridge MA for school.
The night before I left for the Consumer Electronics Show it was a brisk and snappy -26, as I am sure you remember. By the time I ran from my home to my cab it had warmed up to -17. Never so happy to be headed to Vegas in my life. I am getting too old for crap like that and the bitterly cold early-April snowstorm we had.
LibertyLover
(4,788 posts)I truly hope it's just a way station because if the house and neighborhood I live in now is it, I'd prefer to kill myself. Most cars have anti-Obama, pro-Republican or Teabagger bumper stickers on them. I can't let my internationally adopted daughter go out trick-or-treating or even to do the stupid selling that schools now require them to do because I'm afraid some gun nut will decide that my 12 year old child is an immediate threat to his life, limb and/or property and shoot her. I badly want to get out of the area.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)Everything is good. Neighbors, transportation, culture, family proximity -- all good.
The last flood was 1996. That's my only worry.
And I have lived in other beautiful places! Northern Virginia, Rocky Mountains, Sonoma County, etc.
But this is my home turf. The best.
P.S. that's an early summer view out my LR window.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)fizzgig
(24,146 posts)love both the pics
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I'm in Santa Fe, New Mexico. I've lived a lot of different places in the past. When I found this area, it felt like home. And it has ever since I decided to live here. We have a 'desert mountain' climate. We have four seasons and they're all fairly mild. The people here are liberal and tolerant for the most part. I have no problem telling people I'm a democratic socialist. Most of my friends are from the northeast, New York area. Mainly because I get along really well with people from that area. There's a lot of art, a railyard park where there's public performances like music and dance. We have a strong mix of people from Native American, Hispanic, Mexican, and other backgrounds. Big skies, fresh clean air, sun. It's also one of the oldest cities in North America, so there's beautiful architecture dating back to the 16th century. In syles that are Spanish, Native American, Pueblo, Mexican, etc.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)from a trip to Santa Fe today. I've been there several times. Love that new Railyard park. So lovely. I love the historic eastside. So shady and nice for walking. Had a great dinner at La Choza, my favorite restaurant there.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I'm going to a progressive arts festival there next weekend. La Choza is one of my favorite restaurants here too. Glad you had a good time. Next time you visit feel free to contact me to meet for coffee.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)I visit every couple years or so. I'll be in ABQ for a few days in Nov. for the Breaking Bad Fan Fest, lol, can't miss that! This visit to SF was tough on me; the intense sun and high elevation really got to me. I'm very fair skinned and even with a hat, sunscreen, sunglasses and water, I suffered. I've always wanted to move there someday, but now I don't know if I could handle it. Saturday morning it was cool enough for me to get out and take a short walk. I parked over on W. Alameda and walked by that little "stream." That was nice! I took a drive up Bishop's Lodge Rd. to Tesuque for lunch. Very pretty up there too. I think those must be 2 of the most $$$ parts of SF. Wow, those houses are something else! I would be a renter if I moved there, that's for sure....
mvd
(65,173 posts)You are near a big city and the shore. 4 pro sports teams. Climate is decent. The people could be more personable though and there's not much of a town environment in the Montgomery County suburbs. The way the roads were built in the past also aggravates the traffic.
Joe Shlabotnik
(5,604 posts)I live in a rust belt city that has never recovered from the 80's and 90's. And even worse, it's Canada; so its bloody cold 7 months of the year, and damp/humid the other 5. I'd much rather have a little grass shack in Tahiti.
mopinko
(70,078 posts)greatest city in the world. srsly.
getting a little tired of bs on many levels these days, tho, and costa rica sounds downright heavenly some days,
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Lots of guns and churches and Abbott for Governor signs (put up by the sore losers who didn't take down their Romney/Whoever that was sign for MONTHS after our President was re-elected. Lots of conformist people who are terrified of anyone who is not exactly like them. They don't want anyone to have any fun. The only allowed form of spirituality is certain flavors of Protestantism, mainly Baptist and Methodist and Church of Christ or similar Bible-thumpers.
Nobody to talk to and no culture. Have to go to the city to feel like I'm alive.
I like having some peace and quiet even though I had to put a fence around the place to get some peace and quiet. Too many people bothering me wanting money or work for money when they won't even show up. Or they want me to give them an old car. ARGGHH!
I like my gardening and my cats and my two acres. BOOM-THUMPY-THUMPY cars go by the house at all hours and I am waiting for them to shake the engine off the motor mounts in their beaters with subwoofers. I call them thunderfuckers. Because they make me mad.
I'm taking a night class. The teacher has a baby about a year and a half old. I asked him how the house ape was doing and he said, "She's learned her momma's favorite word--shit. Drops a toy, she says 'shit'".
Sounds like she'll be a true Texan. Molly Ivins said that the goal of a Texas public school education was to teach children how to write a simple declarative sentence without the word "bullshit" in it. That sounds about right.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)Even though a huge portion of DU would never willingly set foot here (Houston)
BainsBane
(53,031 posts)because I'm moving into a house I'm buying!
Yeah, I love my home town. That's why I moved back here. It's not for everyone, but it's home.
eppur_se_muova
(36,259 posts)I grew up very near here and loved the outdoor part; it's the indoor parts that drive me nuts. I'd need to spend the rest of my life in a thoroughly blue state to compensate -- not much chance of that happening anytime soon.
nirvana555
(448 posts)someone tell me how to post a picture?
mnhtnbb
(31,382 posts)the IMG URL and paste here.
If you have facebook, and you've previously uploaded a photo there, you can try
copying the image location and then pasting here. Sometimes that works, sometimes not--
I haven't figured out why.
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Initech
(100,063 posts)I like my neighbors but not when they mindlessly spew Fux News talking points or when they talk about professional golf (blech). And there's absolutely nothing within walking distance - no bars, restaurants, or shops. I would much rather live in the Bay Area or San Diego.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)I can't give away the precise location for obvious reasons, but it is my dream come true.
It came into my life after years of saving and shopping, and I could only afford it because I bought at auction.
But before this place, I also loved my little 1000 sf place that, for similar reasons, I won't describe.
It's a shame that people at other sites, and a handful of members here, would love to be able to identify some of us for nefarious purposes.
Suffice it to say that I worked hard and earned the place I have, and it wasn't easy.
One of my bucket list items is a little DU meetup at my place, but I need about a year before I can make that happen!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)CTyankee
(63,903 posts)I love the energy and culture of a college town, and an Ivy League one at that. I'm close to Boston and NYC where my kids and grandkids live...
mnhtnbb
(31,382 posts)at YSD!
I'm looking forward to a visit there. Don't know if we'll get up this fall.
Maybe next spring.
CTyankee
(63,903 posts)I have a very good friend who got her Master's at the Div School...she's brilliant so I have a favorable view of that school...
mnhtnbb
(31,382 posts)MFA in Dramaturgy and Dramatic Criticism.
CTyankee
(63,903 posts)we always felt competition with Yale Drama...
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)It has some very definite quirks, but it is a great city.
ETA who could possibly not love a view like this?
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)It is a way station but I'm working on it.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Where I live now, I think I'm paying for my sins.
GoCubsGo
(32,079 posts)I think I must have been a really horrible person in a previous life to get myself stuck in the hellhole where I am now.
MountainMama
(237 posts)Me three!! I met a great guy and moved to the Valley of the Sun.
The guy is great (we got married) but I hate it here.
I think I'm stuck here to pay for my sins or something.
God, I hate it here. The weather (the relentless sun), the horrid, corrupt politics, the brown everywhere.....
MountainMama
(237 posts)I mean the brown homes, ground color, mountains.....not the people.....I apologize if anyone took it that way.
GoCubsGo
(32,079 posts)Chances are, when I escape this hellhole, I will probably wind up in the Valley of the Sun, or Chicago West, as I call it. That's where the bulk of my family is. I actually mostly like it there, despite the politics. I love the desert. Hot and dry is much better than hot and humid, which is what I have here. Not crazy about northern winters, either, although, if the situation was right, I'd go back to Chicago in a heartbeat. But, if I'm going to be in the Southwest, I'd much rather be in Santa Fe or Taos. Or, even Albuquerque. The politics are a bit better there.
If you're tired of brown, you need to head to the mountains. But, after all the rain you just got, I suspect it will green up where you are soon.
MountainMama
(237 posts)I'm no fan of humidity, but I hate not having four seasons. This is usually my favorite time of year and now I hate it. It could still be 100 degrees everyday from now until about Halloween and I hate, hate, hate it.
I miss weather so very badly.
liberal N proud
(60,334 posts)Out of here for better weather and people.
roody
(10,849 posts)LWolf
(46,179 posts)There are trees, mountains, rivers, lakes, the air is clean, it's not too crowded, and when it gets hot, it's thankfully brief, and it's dry heat. And that heat is relative to the area, not to the rest of the nation. It rarely reaches 3 digits. I don't think it ever got above the 90s the last few summers, and we don't stay in the 90s all summer long.
I love where I live.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Xipe Totec
(43,890 posts)cliffordu
(30,994 posts)I love it. One of the great cities of the world for riding a bike and being weird.
raven mad
(4,940 posts)But we're thinking of retiring "south". Like Talkeetna, or Trapper Creek..............
It would take way more than being owned by the Repuke party to move me outta here!
pink-o
(4,056 posts)with the exception of spending 5 years in the UK--which I adored! But San Francisco is my fave place in the US, so I'm happy to put up with not owning a house, and the other things that go with an expensive city. Gas costs too much? Ride a bike, it's always pleasant enough weather. Can't find parking? See the last answer! I'm old now, but I still live like a student and I love it. This city keeps me young and healthy, far more so than if I'd moved to a burb and embraced Car Culture.
I just know SF too well to want to leave it now. It's like a long-term relationship where you've hit the comfort stage and can forgive the flaws cuz there's so much good.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)festivals; a casino; concert venues of every size, including a stadium where Dylan performed and a new arena where Cher will be 9/15 (and me in row 3!); art museums; etc.
Alas, no ocean. And even though my family would go to the not-far Jersey Shore ("down the shore," as we say), I feel no affinity for it. I'd rather be on the coast of Maine!
Burma Jones
(11,760 posts)But I hate working here........
nolabear
(41,959 posts)I can't really afford the kind of house I'd like in the location I'd like (which is pretty much where I am) but the climate is temperate (except the lack of sun in the water makes me crazy) and it's liberal and reasonable, and educated and unbelievably gorgeous. We're in the right fields of work for the place, which helps.
But it's so new and changing so fast and has so little history in the arts and such "nice" people that it makes me want to run screaming for funky, dramatic, half out of its mind, incredibly artistic New Orleans pretty often.
But my sons are here and I'll give up a hundred New Orleanses to be near them.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)I have a love/hate relationship with it now.
Its a beautiful farm. Ideally located within an hour of a world class city and beaches. Trust me Chicago beaches are world class - even better they're not saltwater! I can drive in 45 minutes, commute by train 50 minutes. LOVE that access to a world class city and all it offers.
But the workload is starting to drag which makes me resent it. I drive along my street towards my place, and I love the sprawling vista, and miles of three board fence until I realize the work on my plate. I go to the grocery store and as soon as I drive home I fret about the fence lines needing weed whacking....
For me "loving where I live" has become entangled with the overwhelming work associated with where I live and so I love it a bit less.
I'm pretty sure my next life involves a condo, and zero plants or animals!
rustydog
(9,186 posts)Puget sound (Everett) two decent lakes in the neighborhood. No: Monroe correctional facility is literally a 10-minute walk from my front door.