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My sister called me this afternoon, and told me that she had called 911 because my mom wasn't looking very good when she woke her up and something seemed wrong.
Paramedics took her to the hospital, and the hospital determined she had had a stroke last night. I have to wait on news because she was in the ER after tests, but I guess they're working on getting her a bed and treating her.
She's 83 now. She hasn't been in the best health for a long time, and she has been getting progressively worse. I saw her just about a month and a week ago, and I was shocked at how frail she has gotten. Still, she's a stubborn Scots woman, and I think that has helped her!
But good thoughts are always welcomed.
Thanks!
kentauros
(29,414 posts)and that she makes a speedy recovery!
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)At least she's in the right place at the right time -- she'll get the help she needs.
mdmc
(29,048 posts)peace and low stress
Suich
(10,642 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)MiddleFingerMom
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denbot
(9,898 posts)Peace to you and your family.
KT2000
(20,568 posts)looks like she is in good hands now.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)her way
barbtries
(28,774 posts)and your entire family hyphenate.
beac
(9,992 posts)Hope she's feeling better today.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)siligut
(12,272 posts)It is so hard to watch as our mothers deteriorate. She is where she needs to be right now, but boy hospitals can be so hard on older people. I hope your sister can visit often and that your mom gets the good nurses.
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)frogmarch
(12,153 posts)I hope she recovers fully and quickly.
emilyg
(22,742 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,534 posts)I hope she will get better and go home soon!
I hope her doctor and the nurses have good advice for her, and that she'll follow it.
Phentex
(16,330 posts)Keep us updated when you hear anything.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)hyphenate
(12,496 posts)The hospital called my sister early this morning. Mom's breathing has slowed down quite drastically. They asked Deb if they should take Mom off her meds and let her go. I knew it was coming, as I couldn't sleep much at all and was sick to my stomach. I told Debby to have them keep Mom's meds going for just today, and then let her go. She will likely be gone today.
I finally got to see her again just last month, and knew it was going to happen soon, but I'm heartbroken. My mom and I shared so many adventures together, going everywhere. When my brother and I went last month, my nephew, Ryan, took some photos. This is the last photo of my mom with my brother Chris and I:
I have had a difficult time coming to terms with her mortality. I know it's a rite of passage for most of us that our parents are going to die before we do in most cases. Intellectually, I understand that. But I've spent a lifetime with her, and it's tearing me into a million pieces to cope with this.
Mom is 83, which I guess by all standards is a good age. I will miss her desperately.
hyphenate
(12,496 posts)Mom has passed away. She went peacefully about 6:50 am, Pacific time.
I want to thank everyone for all your good wishes and thoughts. I miss her terribly already.
marzipanni
(6,011 posts)I can feel your sadness, and empathize because my mother died a year and a half ago. Some relief comes from realizing that she didn't suffer for long periods, and was not "out of it" mentally, and I sense it was the same for your mom.
I lived across the country from my mom, but we talked a lot on the phone. I am grateful that we were such good friends, as well as mother and daughter. You and your mom were very close and had great adventures, that is wonderful!
ellisonz
(27,711 posts)...to you and your family.
LaurenG
(24,841 posts)I will hold you in my thoughts. Losing your mother is very difficult. <3
Phentex
(16,330 posts)my thoughts are with you and your family.
Tikki
(14,549 posts)Hugs to the hyphenate family
RIP Mother...
Tikki
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)hyphenate
(12,496 posts)I just wanted to thank everyone for your good thoughts. The day my mom died, I also had an eye procedure done, which got slightly infected, and so has complicated that as well. As a result, I'm not seeing very well, so find typing difficult, and spelling a nightmare.
Regardless, I would have gotten back to you all sooner if I could see properly and could stay awake long rnough to be functional.
Thanks again--the family and I are managing--it's going to be hard for awhile, but we'll get through it all eventually.
auntAgonist
(17,252 posts)Please take care of yourself and don't over do it.
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CaliforniaPeggy
(149,534 posts)I'm so sorry about your mom.
I hope that your good memories of all the great times you two had will sustain you during this time of grief...