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Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 07:40 PM Jan 2014

Is it just me?

Let me start by saying that I'm a woman.

I had a conversation with my husband not too long ago about female comediennes. Why is it I don't realize how attractive (or downright gorgeous) they are until I see them out of their element (like in a hair dye commercial)?

I've noticed this mostly with Saturday Night Live women. It took me years to realize that Tina Fey was freakin' beautiful. I'd name more, but I'm horrible with names and will only remember them when I see their pictures.

To make it more 'interesting', I don't do this with male comedians. If a male is attractive, I see it right away. Do guys do this, but reversed? Am I a bigot? Sexist? A horrible person?

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Is it just me? (Original Post) Wait Wut Jan 2014 OP
Amy Schumer usually looks like someone from a hair dye commercial jakeXT Jan 2014 #1
Commercial makeup and styling is a lot different than SNL makeup and styling Boom Sound 416 Jan 2014 #2

jakeXT

(10,575 posts)
1. Amy Schumer usually looks like someone from a hair dye commercial
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 08:19 PM
Jan 2014

A lot of the press who reported on the event and were invited say with resounding agreement that Amy Schumer’s speech was the most intense and thought-provoking. After talking about her experiences with boys in college, she goes on to talk more about body image and how important it is to a woman. How words can affect a woman so deeply it will affect the rest of her life, for good or bad.

“I was not what the guys wanted. They wanted thinner, blonder, dumber” she laments about her school days. Her self esteem wasn’t helped by her intelligence or jokes either: “My wit and charisma didn’t mean sh*t”.

During her performance Schumer mentioned how a single comment can do so much damage to a woman’s self esteem even if they are the ‘strong confident type’. Despite the fact that she “feels beautiful and strong, when a DJ recently asked if she’d gained weight and when Men’s Health magazine used a photo of a teenage model instead of a photo of her next to an article she had penned, that confidence evaporated.

http://girltalkhq.com/the-second-you-insult-a-womans-appearance-youre-taking-away-all-her-power/


http://www.comedycentral.com/comedians/amy-schumer
 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
2. Commercial makeup and styling is a lot different than SNL makeup and styling
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 08:22 PM
Jan 2014

Not to say they aren't already attractive though.

But, no it's you it's the production: makeup, styling, lighting, filters, edit filters, music. The whole bit

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