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opiate69

(10,129 posts)
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:39 AM Aug 2013

RIP, Fizzgig. 2001 - 2013.



Tremendously sad tonight. My dear, beloved best friend took his final exit this evening. He was, all hyperbole aside, the most incredible friend and companion I ever had. I've never seen, before or since, a Pomeranian who would relish in spending hours chasing down his ball, frisbee or squeaky toy and prance his way back to me... only to play the age-old dog game of "drop it? hahaha! not today, old man!" He was freakishly smart (whenever he was asked "Fizzy, where's your toy? He would bound off to one corner of the house or another, and always came back toy in mouth, having known exactly where he had left it. He alao had a knack for opening any doors he wanted to see the other side of.)
Even though I had known the decision was imminent, it still hurt me to the core to tell the vet "I guess it's time." Even though he was very small, all things considered, the house - hell, the family - will feel infinitely more empty without him. Our oldest boy (all of 16 years old) handled Fizzgigs declining years with a grace and patience rarely seen in many adults. I guess that may be the biggest legacy my sweet little buddy could have left me.. the knowledge that, despite our many shortcomings, my wife and I have raised an incredible young man as well.
Rest easy, furball. And know that you were cherished and loved.
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RIP, Fizzgig. 2001 - 2013. (Original Post) opiate69 Aug 2013 OP
. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #1
Thanks, Skip... I won't lie.. this one hurts way more than I expected. opiate69 Aug 2013 #3
I am so very sorry, my dear opiate69... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2013 #2
Thank you, sweet Peggy. You have always been, and remain, my favorite DUer. opiate69 Aug 2013 #4
Aw, to be able to say this lovely sentiment in the midst of your own huge loss... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2013 #5
Sorry for your loss. n/t PoliticAverse Aug 2013 #6
Thanks. like I told Mrs. Opie, "I'll be ok... just not now." opiate69 Aug 2013 #8
So sorry LoveMyCali Aug 2013 #7
Thanks. Rough one, but we'll get through I suppose. opiate69 Aug 2013 #12
Yes, you will LoveMyCali Aug 2013 #14
Sorry to hear of your loss. Behind the Aegis Aug 2013 #9
Thanks, BtA... you aint half-bad for an MRAer ;) opiate69 Aug 2013 #11
One of the hardest things most people have to do... HarveyDarkey Aug 2013 #10
And such good memories they are... opiate69 Aug 2013 #13
I'm very sorry for your loss... MiddleFingerMom Aug 2013 #15
Thanks, MFM. That really does mean a lot coming from a DUer of your stature. opiate69 Aug 2013 #16
Aww shit... LadyHawkAZ Aug 2013 #17
Thanks, LadyH.. so were we, but ya know, sometimes you just "know".. opiate69 Aug 2013 #19
My sincerest condolences. It is NEVER easy. A HERETIC I AM Aug 2013 #18
What an amazing, heart felt response. Thank you. I raise my glass to you, BB and Fizzy. opiate69 Aug 2013 #21
Right back atya. A HERETIC I AM Aug 2013 #23
Fizz is with Duncan in dog heavon olddots Aug 2013 #20
Sorry for your loss! Lady Freedom Returns Aug 2013 #22
Sorry for your loss.. AsahinaKimi Aug 2013 #24
Shit. I'm sorry. I lost my 11-year-old Siamese cat, Bob, almost 4 months ago. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #25
So sorry for your loss. applegrove Aug 2013 #26
rest easy, sweet boy fizzgig Aug 2013 #27
... SammyWinstonJack Aug 2013 #28
I am so sorry. murielm99 Aug 2013 #29
Oh my, I'm so so sorry. a la izquierda Aug 2013 #30
opiate I am so sorry. Your furball had a good life with love and playing and life long demo Aug 2013 #31
Oh, opiate69, I am so sorry. We went through mnhtnbb Aug 2013 #32
I am so sorry for your loss. myrna minx Aug 2013 #33
I'm so sorry. RiffRandell Aug 2013 #34
So many beautiful responses since I went to bed... no way I can reply individually before I go to opiate69 Aug 2013 #35
oh, opiate, I am so sorry Bertha Venation Aug 2013 #36
I'm sorry... Phentex Aug 2013 #37
... LiberalEsto Aug 2013 #38
I'm sorry to hear it. This must be very painful. Aristus Aug 2013 #39
So sorry for your loss. BarbaRosa Aug 2013 #40
Oh no! graywarrior Aug 2013 #41
Aw, what a sweetie...I'm very sorry to hear of this loss... joeybee12 Aug 2013 #42
Sorry about your loss,,, benld74 Aug 2013 #43
Comforting thoughts to you and you family. marzipanni Aug 2013 #44
Aw, Sweetheart. I'm sorry. What a fine little man. nolabear Aug 2013 #45
Very sorry for your loss. AtomicKitten Aug 2013 #46
Sorry for your loss opiate69... bluesbassman Aug 2013 #47
What a loving tribute to your beautiful boy. Boomerproud Aug 2013 #48
I'm sorry for your loss, brother. Warren DeMontague Aug 2013 #49
I'm so sorry. GoCubsGo Aug 2013 #50
I am so sorry for you loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers. hrmjustin Aug 2013 #51
Oh man this just really hit me hard. MuseRider Aug 2013 #52
Once again, thanks everyone, for the beautiful words of condolence. opiate69 Aug 2013 #53
. Liberal_in_LA Aug 2013 #54
Oh, I am so very sorry! Rhiannon12866 Aug 2013 #55
... In_The_Wind Aug 2013 #56

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,517 posts)
5. Aw, to be able to say this lovely sentiment in the midst of your own huge loss...
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:45 AM
Aug 2013

I am deeply touched...

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
14. Yes, you will
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:58 AM
Aug 2013

I've been through it a couple of times with beloved kitties and I wonder each time why I put myself through it but then I someone else who needs to be rescued. I know how tough it is but hopefully before long happy memories will replace the pain.

Behind the Aegis

(53,919 posts)
9. Sorry to hear of your loss.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:50 AM
Aug 2013

I usually don't come in these threads because I am wimp and end up crying, but I kinda know you, so I wanted to express my sympathy. It is difficult to lose a loved one, of any species. He got to live in love and that is the best thing for him and your family.

Condolences.

 

HarveyDarkey

(9,077 posts)
10. One of the hardest things most people have to do...
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 12:51 AM
Aug 2013

My heart goes out to you. Cherish the memories, they are precious.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
15. I'm very sorry for your loss...
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 01:06 AM
Aug 2013

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...but what a wonderful tribute to such a wonderful friend.
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opiate69

(10,129 posts)
19. Thanks, LadyH.. so were we, but ya know, sometimes you just "know"..
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 01:27 AM
Aug 2013

Work sucked ass all day knowing what was coming, and it'll suck tomorrow when the slack time hits and I'm sitting around with nothing to do... but I know it'll be better, and to be honest, it's kinda comforting to know that I can still feel this, ya know?

A HERETIC I AM

(24,360 posts)
18. My sincerest condolences. It is NEVER easy.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 01:20 AM
Aug 2013

My family has owned a couple dozen animals, when all the pets owned by us kids as grownups and all the dogs we had as children are counted, it has to be well over 20.. Currently only my oldest brother and my mom have dogs - 4 Vizslas owned by my brother and a Dachshund owning my mom (!).

So that is roughly 17 or 18 family pets that have been put down or passed away, in one fashion or another in my 54 years.

It's never easy.

I dug the grave for Mr. BB before I took him to the vet. Needless to say the bottom of it was wet when I took him on his final "bye bye" (as in "wanna go bye bye?&quot

You cry. And then you laugh as you remember the look in his eye as he says to you, now from a wonderful place - your mind and memory - "NOT TODAY, OLD MAN!"

And then you cry some more. And soon it will be less and the smiles and laughter and chuckles from the memories become the norm.


And that's how Mr. BB would want it.

And that's how Fizzy would want it.

And that's how it will be with you.

It's been 9 years since I last saw my bestest bud. I still miss him every day. And I still tear up thinking about him ( I am right now, fer cryin' out loud!) but that changes so quickly to a smile because I have so many fond memories of him, from him falling asleep on my lap riding my Harley Softail through the Poconos to him tearing to shreds any cardboard box you would let him have, to his wonderful yodeling he would do when he was happy to see someone - anyone.

Fizzy will never leave you. Just as BB is right here. I just can't touch him anymore.


THAT'S the hardest part.

All my best for you in this difficult time.

RIP Fizzy and BB. May you both find that eternal sunbeam to snooze in.


And yes, he has his wrist in his mouth. I called it 'sucking his thumb'. He did it since he was a pup. That shot was taken about a year before he passed away.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
21. What an amazing, heart felt response. Thank you. I raise my glass to you, BB and Fizzy.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 01:30 AM
Aug 2013

With love and cherished memory.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
25. Shit. I'm sorry. I lost my 11-year-old Siamese cat, Bob, almost 4 months ago.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 02:01 AM
Aug 2013

He just keeled over and died one day, had a heart attack is our best guess...

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
27. rest easy, sweet boy
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 02:55 AM
Aug 2013

thank you for giving him the most selfless act of love we can give them, i know how hard it is and how badly it hurts.

here's a from this fizzgig.

murielm99

(30,715 posts)
29. I am so sorry.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 03:45 AM
Aug 2013

He looks and sounds like a wonderful friend. We had to put our cat down last week. It is never easy, but we have to do it. It is part of loving and caring for them.

life long demo

(1,113 posts)
31. opiate I am so sorry. Your furball had a good life with love and playing and
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 05:40 AM
Aug 2013

with caring. We are all better humans for having loved and taken care of our furballs. They make us better. I am so very sorry for you and your family.

mnhtnbb

(31,373 posts)
32. Oh, opiate69, I am so sorry. We went through
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 05:51 AM
Aug 2013

the last trip to the vet with our 17 year old Simba kitty this spring.

Fizz will forever be in your heart.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
35. So many beautiful responses since I went to bed... no way I can reply individually before I go to
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:21 AM
Aug 2013

work, but thank you all... it really does mean a lot to me.

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
36. oh, opiate, I am so sorry
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:35 AM
Aug 2013

Rest in peace, Fizzgig, and look up Harry and Richard at the Rainbow Bridge -- they love to play.

Phentex

(16,330 posts)
37. I'm sorry...
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 10:32 AM
Aug 2013

I know how much it hurts!

We are lucky to have them for the short time we do. My heart goes out to you and your family!

Aristus

(66,285 posts)
39. I'm sorry to hear it. This must be very painful.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 10:49 AM
Aug 2013

At first I thought something had happened to our Fizzgig, the Lounge Fizzgig. I'm relieved that that's not the case, but you have my sympathy for your lost friend...

benld74

(9,901 posts)
43. Sorry about your loss,,,
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 04:20 PM
Aug 2013

my family lost one of our cats, going on two weeks now. I decided to creamate her,a d now she is sitting on the fireplace mantle, and during Christmas under the tree where she ALWAYS was during CHristmas season.
Try this link to leave a rememberance of him
www.rainbowbridge.com

The donation goes towards shelter pets. Which is where we got our Tigger 15 1/2 years ago.

marzipanni

(6,011 posts)
44. Comforting thoughts to you and you family.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 04:51 PM
Aug 2013

What an intelligent look he had in his eyes! Isn't it wonderful that we humans can share our lives with such great animals?
The dear border collie heeler that graces us with her presence turned 13 this month, and I slump at the thought of how fast they can go downhill as they get older.

You'll always remember how great a friend Fizzgig was, but don't forget this, at some point in the future~ 'cause Fizzy's spirit wants his family to pay... nay, play! all that love forward.





http://www.petfinder.com/

nolabear

(41,932 posts)
45. Aw, Sweetheart. I'm sorry. What a fine little man.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 05:01 PM
Aug 2013

Being cherished, cared for, and having a houseful of loving people and wonderful toys. Maybe there's a dog heaven, maybe not, but it sounds like he had heaven on earth.

Boomerproud

(7,940 posts)
48. What a loving tribute to your beautiful boy.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 06:10 PM
Aug 2013

My heartfelt condolences. I have been grieving over my Madison for a month now.

GoCubsGo

(32,074 posts)
50. I'm so sorry.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:16 PM
Aug 2013

I am sure he is hanging out and having a great time in the afterlife with my next door neighbor, who was another sweet Pom. I used to dog-sit her when her people would go out of town. Sweet doggies.

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
52. Oh man this just really hit me hard.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 09:56 PM
Aug 2013

I am so sorry. What a wonderful tribute. It is amazing how much of our hearts they own and how much we just willingly give them knowing this day will come.

I am so sorry. It sounds like he knew how loved and cherished he was. You did it the right way and he was the lucky owner of your love and kindness.

An adorable little guy.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
53. Once again, thanks everyone, for the beautiful words of condolence.
Wed Aug 28, 2013, 11:22 PM
Aug 2013

I would try to respond individually, but as yet, just opening this thread is still kinda painful. You are all beautiful people, and I'm better for our kinship.

Rhiannon12866

(204,714 posts)
55. Oh, I am so very sorry!
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:32 AM
Aug 2013

What an adorable little friend! I've been there and know how much it hurts. Sounds like an amazing dog and he was so very fortunate to have found you...

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