Tue Nov 20, 2012, 04:28 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
A year ago I met my boyfriendLast edited Tue Nov 20, 2012, 04:34 AM USA/ET - Edit history (1)
I met him online and on November 20th 2011 we met for the first time in person after chatting and talking on the phone for hours. I am 37 years old and it took me that long to find love. I am so happy with him. I can't imagine my life without him anymore. Next year in July I am going to move in with him.
Tonight he is going to take me out for a fancy dinner. Here we are (a bit blurry) ![]()
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52 replies, 1793 views
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| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | OP | |
| MiddleFingerMom | Nov 2012 | #1 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #4 | |
| kurtzapril4 | Nov 2012 | #20 | |
| MiddleFingerMom | Nov 2012 | #25 | |
| kurtzapril4 | Nov 2012 | #27 | |
| Scuba | Nov 2012 | #2 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #5 | |
| Tobin S. | Nov 2012 | #3 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #6 | |
| lunatica | Nov 2012 | #7 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #8 | |
| lunatica | Nov 2012 | #11 | |
| Callalily | Nov 2012 | #9 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #10 | |
| zanana1 | Nov 2012 | #12 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #13 | |
| HopeHoops | Nov 2012 | #14 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #30 | |
| HopeHoops | Nov 2012 | #43 | |
| Aristus | Nov 2012 | #15 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #31 | |
| clyrc | Nov 2012 | #16 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #32 | |
| Phentex | Nov 2012 | #17 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #33 | |
| driver8 | Nov 2012 | #18 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #34 | |
| handmade34 | Nov 2012 | #19 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #35 | |
| RebelOne | Nov 2012 | #21 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #36 | |
| In_The_Wind | Nov 2012 | #22 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #37 | |
| elleng | Nov 2012 | #23 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #38 | |
| progressoid | Nov 2012 | #24 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #39 | |
| MrScorpio | Nov 2012 | #26 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #40 | |
| Tuesday Afternoon | Nov 2012 | #28 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #41 | |
| Flaxbee | Nov 2012 | #29 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #42 | |
| Odin2005 | Nov 2012 | #44 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #46 | |
| Bertha Venation | Nov 2012 | #45 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #47 | |
| Rowdyboy | Nov 2012 | #48 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #50 | |
| JohnnyLib2 | Nov 2012 | #49 | |
| MissHoneychurch | Nov 2012 | #51 | |
| NewJeffCT | Nov 2012 | #52 |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 06:24 AM
MiddleFingerMom (22,239 posts)
1. That is VERY good to hear. Congratulations to you both.
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. . That's a GREAT photo of both of you (and I don't find it blurry). You found yourself one handsome dude. . . . Report on what you had to eat, please. . . . You just reminded me of a great Fasching night in Germany (for those who don't know, it USED to be a wild time when many social rules were cast aside -- it has mellowed to a months-long costume party season ending (like Mardi Gras) on Fat Tuesday (though they don't call it that). . My ex was dressed as a Daisy Mae hillbilly girl in Daisy Dukes and pigtails and big freckles drawn on and several teeth blacked out (normally, she was unbelievably stunning). My buddy and I were dressed in nothing but bedsheet diapers, me with combat boots and he with cowboy boots (he was from Oklahoma) and huge pacifiers. My ex had fixed our hair with little baby topknots. This was just fine in the gasthaus we went to that was having its Fasching party that night. . But we got tipsy and in the mood for Italian food and decided to walk to the fine Italian restaurant about a block away. . This is how cool Germany was. The maitre d' didn't blink at all and simply escorted us to our table and everyone treated us as though we HAD worn the formal clothing that was usually required there. . I miss Nurnberg for so many reasons. . . . |
Response to MiddleFingerMom (Reply #1)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:34 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
4. Thank you MFM
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As said, I am very happy with him ... inside and outside Regarding Fasching ... depending on where you are, it is still mainly about drinking. I admit I am not a big fan of the Fasching/Fasnet/Karneval time. |
Response to MiddleFingerMom (Reply #1)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 01:43 PM
kurtzapril4 (1,259 posts)
20. Hey, MFM
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Did you ever have the chance to go around Nurnbergring in a fast car? I've always wanted to do that.
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Response to kurtzapril4 (Reply #20)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 04:46 PM
MiddleFingerMom (22,239 posts)
25. No, although a good friend of mine (introduced me to my ex) had his Dodge Daytona 500...
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. . ...shipped over from the States. THAT would have been FUN!!! . . . . .
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Response to MiddleFingerMom (Reply #25)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 06:50 PM
kurtzapril4 (1,259 posts)
27. Beautiful Superbird!
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I went to high school in the mid-late '70's. A friend of mine had one of these, it was green. One day, after smoking a lot of weed, he decided he didn't like the wing, so he cut it off. I protested, to no avail. What a dumb ass he was.
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 06:33 AM
Scuba (26,778 posts)
2. Looks like he did pretty well too!
Response to Scuba (Reply #2)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:36 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
5. Thanks Scuba
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I think he agrees with you if I may say so
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:30 AM
Tobin S. (5,561 posts)
3. I'm happy for you, Miss H
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You two met a few weeks after my wife and I got married on November 5, 2011. It was the anniversary of our first date, so although we've been married a year we've been together for two years. And we were about the same age as you when we met. I'm 40 and she's 41 now.
I'm so glad you found someone. I remember you having difficulty in finding the right person and I kept thinking to myself that shouldn't be right! You're such a sweet person. |
Response to Tobin S. (Reply #3)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:38 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
6. Hey Tobin
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Wow, you are already married a year? I still remember when you posted about meeting Jen and when you posted the wedding pics. I am happy for both of you as well.
Thanks Tobin, I am happy day by day that I met my bf. He is the best that has happened to me. Regarding why I took so long ... I sometimes joke that I decided to skip the first divorce |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:51 AM
lunatica (28,852 posts)
7. What a beautiful couple you make!
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You know his leaning his body and head into you is body language for love. It would never happen if he wasn't in love with you. And you're body language shows you certainly are accepting that love. You're leaning back.
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Response to lunatica (Reply #7)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:03 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
8. Thanks lunatica
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for the insight in the body language. I am more than accepting his love. I am returning it.
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Reply #8)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:46 AM
lunatica (28,852 posts)
11. Yes. You are returning it which I think is
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the best way to accept it. It's obviously mutual.
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:27 AM
Callalily (10,347 posts)
9. I am just bursting with joy
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for the two of you! Wishing you and your beau all the best!
Hmmmm . . . makes me think that there's still hope four me? |
Response to Callalily (Reply #9)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:36 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
10. Hey there Callalily
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Thank you!!!! I am romantic enough to say there is always hope. |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:50 AM
zanana1 (1,808 posts)
12. awwwwwwww......
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You look like you're made for each other. I'm so happy for both of you.
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Response to zanana1 (Reply #12)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:55 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
13. Thanks
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I like to think so. He is calming me when I get too hectically and I am pushing him when he is getting too lazy. It just fits.
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 11:10 AM
HopeHoops (47,675 posts)
14. Awe. You two look great together! Enjoy the dinner (merlot? - hint)
Response to HopeHoops (Reply #14)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 05:32 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
30. Thanks HopeHoops
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We had Riesling with the dinner |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Reply #30)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 07:41 AM
HopeHoops (47,675 posts)
43. D'OH! I have to pick up merlot today! Forgot.
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 11:23 AM
Aristus (29,409 posts)
15. And a lucky man he is, Miss Honeychurch!
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I'm happy for you both!
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Response to Aristus (Reply #15)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 05:37 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
31. Thanks Aristus
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:08 PM
clyrc (2,272 posts)
16. Congratulations MissHoneychurch!
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I'm thrilled to hear that things are working out for you!
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Response to clyrc (Reply #16)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 05:38 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
32. Hey clyrc
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I am very happy with my bf. Best man I ever met. For me at least |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:25 PM
Phentex (7,925 posts)
17. I am happy for you!
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Still, I wish you were around more. I miss your pictures and reports of your adventures.
Enjoy this fabulous time! I wish you all the best. |
Response to Phentex (Reply #17)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 05:57 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
33. Hey Phentex
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I enjoy every day with my bf, believe me I have to admit, I am around, but mostly lurking. |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:31 PM
driver8 (12,710 posts)
18. Very sweet -- Congratulations!! n/t
Response to driver8 (Reply #18)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 05:59 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
34. Thanks driver8
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:47 PM
handmade34 (9,491 posts)
19. Happy Anniversary!!!
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Bon Appétit
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Response to handmade34 (Reply #19)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:02 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
35. Thanks handmade34
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we had a fantastic dinner. Main course was lamb with parmesan potatoes.
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 01:54 PM
RebelOne (26,843 posts)
21. You two are a handsome couple.
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So when is the wedding?
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Response to RebelOne (Reply #21)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:03 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
36. Thanks
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No plans for a wedding yet. But we do want to get married. First we move together though and then we will see how it continues. |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 02:06 PM
In_The_Wind (42,945 posts)
22. Congratulations on your anniversary.
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Enjoy your dinner.
Hurray! July isn't too far off in the future. ![]() |
Response to In_The_Wind (Reply #22)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:07 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
37. Thanks Joani
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We had a wonderful and very delicious dinner. And I know July will be here before I know it. It will be the first time that I will live together with a man since I moved out from my parents. So it will be very interesting for me to see how that will work out. I look forward to it though. |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 02:27 PM
elleng (40,548 posts)
23. Great news, MissHoneychurch!
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We've been thinking of you.
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Response to elleng (Reply #23)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:16 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
38. Thanks elleng
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I wanted to share this with my online friends |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 03:56 PM
progressoid (27,335 posts)
24. We're ALL a bit blurry at times!
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Congrats!
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Response to progressoid (Reply #24)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:16 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
39. Blurry is good in between
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Thanks!!! |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 05:12 PM
MrScorpio (55,317 posts)
26. You two look so very happy together
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Nothing beats true love
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Response to MrScorpio (Reply #26)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:18 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
40. Thanks MrScorpio
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I remember you giving me good advice years ago when I found out that my back then bf cheated on me. I've come a long way since then. My now bf is THE man for me. And I love him dearly |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:04 PM
Tuesday Afternoon (43,914 posts)
28. so happy for you two
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what will you do with your condo?
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Response to Tuesday Afternoon (Reply #28)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:20 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
41. Thank you Tuesday
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I will rent out my condo. So if you know someone who looks for a place to live in Frankfurt starting next August .... |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:07 PM
Flaxbee (12,528 posts)
29. So very happy for you, MissHoneyChurch... though that does explain why the
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Lounge doesn't see you as often as we'd like! I miss your daily photos.
Have a lovely dinner tonight, and a happy lifetime together. |
Response to Flaxbee (Reply #29)
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:22 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
42. Thanks Flaxbee
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Yeah, I am more outside these days than in front of the PC. Seems like I have a life suddenly But I am not forgetting about you guys The dinner was fantastic. |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:55 AM
Odin2005 (48,255 posts)
44. You 2 are a cute couple!
Response to Odin2005 (Reply #44)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:17 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
46. Thanks Odin
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:08 AM
Bertha Venation (20,057 posts)
45. I'm so happy for you!
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:joy:
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Response to Bertha Venation (Reply #45)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 11:17 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
47. Thank you Bertha
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I am very happy with him |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 08:39 PM
Rowdyboy (20,675 posts)
48. I met mine when I was 35 and he was 39-he is my first love and living together has only
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drawn us closer. 23 1/2 years later and I still adore him. Wishing the very same for you.
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Response to Rowdyboy (Reply #48)
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:44 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
50. Thanks Rowdyboy
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It is good to hear that I am not the only "late bloomer"
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Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:59 PM
JohnnyLib2 (9,408 posts)
49. This post made my day!
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Happy for you. Miss the travel reports, too. |
Response to JohnnyLib2 (Reply #49)
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:44 AM
MissHoneychurch (33,453 posts)
51. Thanks Johnny
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No travel reports these days. Been "only" visiting a friend in the U.S. this year. |
Response to MissHoneychurch (Original post)
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:36 AM
NewJeffCT (35,932 posts)
52. Congratulations on your anniversary
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best wishes to many more years of happiness together.
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