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Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:11 AM

Its 9 AM and im having a beer

Because im sad and pretty much tired of pretending to be happy

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Reply Its 9 AM and im having a beer (Original post)
darkangel218 Oct 2012 OP
seabeyond Oct 2012 #1
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #6
myshofer Oct 2012 #21
Bertha Venation Oct 2012 #2
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #4
Bertha Venation Oct 2012 #5
rurallib Oct 2012 #3
HopeHoops Oct 2012 #7
davsand Oct 2012 #8
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #9
OriginalGeek Oct 2012 #10
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #11
OriginalGeek Oct 2012 #16
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #24
OriginalGeek Oct 2012 #26
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #27
OriginalGeek Oct 2012 #29
backscatter712 Oct 2012 #12
Rambis Oct 2012 #13
fizzgig Oct 2012 #14
geardaddy Oct 2012 #15
blueamy66 Oct 2012 #17
rrneck Oct 2012 #18
JoeyT Oct 2012 #19
myshofer Oct 2012 #20
HappyMe Oct 2012 #22
darkangel218 Oct 2012 #23
jonpaulprime Oct 2012 #30
riderinthestorm Oct 2012 #25
Lady Freedom Returns Oct 2012 #28

Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:15 AM

1. i am sorry you are sad. nt

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Response to seabeyond (Reply #1)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:00 AM

6. Thank you seabeyond x This too shall pass, time heals everything

one way or another.

But thank you for replying. Im so lost and alone at the moment

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Response to darkangel218 (Reply #6)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 02:07 PM

21. time never remains the same

this is my motto of life whenever i am sad "this too shall pass" and really this helps me to heal.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:21 AM

2. darkangel

I'm sorry you're low. Is there any way that I can help?

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Response to Bertha Venation (Reply #2)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:58 AM

4. Dear Bertha, thank you..

Maybe you could help by giving your input. I know this is the Lounge and i really dont want to get anyone else down with my problems.. but Im so lost at the moment

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Response to darkangel218 (Reply #4)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:00 AM

5. If you don't feel like posting it here, you could PM me.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:45 AM

3. may as well have a smoke, too

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:03 AM

7. What did your mother tell you? "If you can't bring enough for everyone, don't get it out!"

 


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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:10 AM

8. I'm sorry you are feeling blue!

Can't be there in person, but how 'bout a few of these?




Please know that you are not alone and that there are people who care about you--ok?



Laura

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Response to davsand (Reply #8)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:25 AM

9. Ok..

Thanks Laura x

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:36 AM

10. Napalm Death is coming December 1st

Possessed is coming the night before that. (both in Tampa)

Also I saw where Pig Destroyer is doing a one-off show in Miami in mid-December..

Maybe something to look forward to will help get you past your current feelings?

Here's to feeling better.

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Response to OriginalGeek (Reply #10)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:46 AM

11. Thats the last place i went with my ex

To see Watain

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Response to darkangel218 (Reply #11)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 12:15 PM

16. In Tampa? With Behemoth?

I was at that show!

He's already made you feel bad and done a shitty thing to you. Don't let him take music away from you. I don't wanna sound preachy or naggy..I know you know all this stuff...it WILL get better. I know it sucks now but it WILL.

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Response to OriginalGeek (Reply #16)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:41 PM

24. I will go see Napalm. Do you know the venue where theyre going to play?

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I know it will get better , its just that at times its really hard. Thank you for your kind words x

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Response to darkangel218 (Reply #24)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:17 PM

26. The Orpheum

http://www.ticketfly.com/event/148079/
Saturday Dec 1
along with Municipal Waste, Exhumed and Speedwolf.


I wish it were somewhere else if only to spare your feelings but maybe knowing now will give you time to get it out of your system.

Possessed the night before is at the Brass Mug.

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Response to OriginalGeek (Reply #26)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:22 PM

27. Okay thanks for the link

Its no big deal, ill be fine ( as far as the venue). Iven never seen ND live, although i grew up listening to them. Possesed i think ive seen them before down in Ft Lauderdale.

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Response to darkangel218 (Reply #27)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:44 PM

29. I first saw ND on their Harmony Corruption tour

And I've seen them a couple times since then. They are one of my top 3 favorite metal bands. Great music and I love Barney's politics.

I saw Possessed a year and a half ago at the Maryland Death Fest but I don't even know how many original members were in the band. They were good though. But I am most excited for ND.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:49 AM

12. Beer and corn flakes! Everything a growing boy needs! n/t

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 11:21 AM

13. Rejoice that it isn't a gluten free beer

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 11:33 AM

14. i'm sorry you're so sad

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 11:41 AM

15. Sorry you're feeling blue.

We're all pulling for you.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 12:37 PM

17. I'm sorry that you are sad.

It really sucks to be in "that" place.

Sending good vibes and hugs.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 12:39 PM

18. I'm sorry you're feeling down.

Here's something that helps me: move around. Really. Get up and walk around. Go out and take a stroll. Clean house. Organize your stuff. Any physical interaction with the world that you enjoyed, do it. Dance. Sing. Jump up and down. Whatever. Just do it for you. If you enjoyed it with another, reclaim it for your own. Do it for the joy of doing it. Just keep moving. That's what I try to do.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 01:23 PM

19. Sorry you're feeling down.

If there's anything I can do to help, let me know.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 02:05 PM

20. sorry to know that you are feeling blue.

this feeling to pretend to be happy is the world's most difficult task.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 02:28 PM

22. I don't have any profound words

of wisdom. Just know that you aren't alone. People here care about you.

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:38 PM

23. I want to thank everyone who wrote me

for your kind words and thoughts x

Im feeling a bit better tonite, not alot, but enough to think clearly.

Hopefully i can be there for you all too, whenever you need me.



D.

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Response to darkangel218 (Reply #23)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:48 PM

30. am new here but i hope you feel better too!

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 09:51 PM

25. Almost 9 pm now (where I am) and just saw this post. I usually take a nap

sometimes when I'm really blue, its a very, very long nap.

Do you have something to snuggle with? Dog, cat, soft blankie?

Be kind to yourself. Hope tomorrow dawns with some answers. Or at least an inspiring sunrise....

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Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

Wed Oct 24, 2012, 10:25 PM

28. I have been there and done that!

Trying to keep up the appearance of happy so others are happy is a killer.

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