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Aristus

(66,293 posts)
Thu Aug 2, 2012, 10:40 PM Aug 2012

We had to put my mother's dog down today... :-(

She was only the third dog our family has ever owned since I was 7 or so. We had Meggie for 17 years. A long life-span for a dachshund. I had never been present for this sort of thing before. I was there for my mother, for whom Meggie was her constant companion, and for my brother, who adopts rescue dogs (Meggie was an AKC-bred dachshund, though...). Tough day.

I love you all...

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We had to put my mother's dog down today... :-( (Original Post) Aristus Aug 2012 OP
Awwwww....I'm sorry. GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #1
Bless your heart for being there for your mom kimi Aug 2012 #2
I am sorry Aristus Pool Hall Ace Aug 2012 #3
I'm sorry Aristus. Been there many times. It's always sad and astonishing to me. nolabear Aug 2012 #4
So sorry TuxedoKat Aug 2012 #5
rest easy, meggie fizzgig Aug 2012 #6
My heart goes out to your family. You're never prepared, even tho you think you are. Honeycombe8 Aug 2012 #7
I am so sorry. RiffRandell Aug 2012 #8
I'm so sorry Aristus livetohike Aug 2012 #9
Aye Meggie, peace. turtlerescue1 Aug 2012 #10
I'm sorry, Aristus. Bertha Venation Aug 2012 #11
She'll be there for you in your thoughts for always. applegrove Aug 2012 #12
My sympathy to your mother. RebelOne Aug 2012 #13
Thank you, everyone, for your kindness and thoughtfulness. Aristus Aug 2012 #14

kimi

(2,441 posts)
2. Bless your heart for being there for your mom
Thu Aug 2, 2012, 10:45 PM
Aug 2012

It is an incredibly tough thing to go through. I'm sure it was so traumatic for your mom - 17 years, wow.

I'm so sorry. I've only experienced it once, with my old Tabitha cat - but yes, it makes for a very tough day. I'm glad that your mom & brother had you there. Shared comfort & grief really makes a difference, is what I found.

Peace to you all, & safe passage to Meggie. She's very fortunate to have had your family to love her so much. Take care.

nolabear

(41,933 posts)
4. I'm sorry Aristus. Been there many times. It's always sad and astonishing to me.
Thu Aug 2, 2012, 11:32 PM
Aug 2012

There's something about holding that sweet head and saying what they always long to hear, "You're a good dog" as they go.

You did what she needed. And it's so hard. Thinking of you all.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
5. So sorry
Fri Aug 3, 2012, 01:34 AM
Aug 2012

for the loss of your beloved Meggie. How lucky you had her so long, but it's never long enough though is it? (((HUGS)))

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
6. rest easy, meggie
Fri Aug 3, 2012, 02:27 AM
Aug 2012

it's never easy to help them cross, but it's our final act of love for them.

my dad, sister and i sat with out big guy three years ago, i found it to be a calming and enlightening experience.

peace to you all

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
7. My heart goes out to your family. You're never prepared, even tho you think you are.
Fri Aug 3, 2012, 07:02 AM
Aug 2012

It's heartbreaking. I have always comforted myself by hoping there really is a Rainbow Bridge.

livetohike

(22,123 posts)
9. I'm so sorry Aristus
Fri Aug 3, 2012, 09:12 AM
Aug 2012
My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of Meggie. I hope all the funny and good memories of her long life help everyone in this sad time.

“ Blessed is the person who has earned the love of an old dog.”
- Sydney Jeanne Seward

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
13. My sympathy to your mother.
Fri Aug 3, 2012, 07:06 PM
Aug 2012

I know the pain she must have felt after having to send her beloved companion to doggie heaven after so many years.

I had to put my Rottweiler down after 10 years. She had cancer and was just short of her 13th birthday. I still grieve every time I think of her, which is often, since I have her ashes.

Aristus

(66,293 posts)
14. Thank you, everyone, for your kindness and thoughtfulness.
Sat Aug 4, 2012, 01:27 AM
Aug 2012


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