to room and only comes to me when she wants food or treats. Today she was taken downstairs to another room as they sprayed for roaches today. I got there just as the caregiver was trying to coax her out from under the bed. All I had to do was call her name and she was all over me - genuinely happy to see me. She willingly let me pick her up and 'talked' to me the whole way up to the apartment. I got her when she was 5 months old and was disappointed she didn't like to be touched. But today was a good day. Underneath all that cat aloofness - she loves me. I'm more cuddly myself these days. Maybe she senses that in me.