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Mon Feb 18, 2013, 11:14 PM

Why You Should Stop Playing Hard To Get With Men. (Lesson about putting value on yourself)

I am not sure how political this is but I think it's a very well done video and has an important message to women about how they should value themselves. So, I hope moderators understand why it should stay. How we value ourselves sometimes has to do with what society is teaching us and that is political.

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Reply Why You Should Stop Playing Hard To Get With Men. (Lesson about putting value on yourself) (Original post)
Quixote1818 Feb 2013 OP
RC Feb 2013 #1
Quixote1818 Feb 2013 #2
Quantess Feb 2013 #3
seabeyond Feb 2013 #4

Response to Quixote1818 (Original post)

Mon Feb 18, 2013, 11:48 PM

1. Be honest. Both with yourself and the people you date.

 

Do NOT play games. That will come back to haunt you. This is where people get hurt. If you like the other person on a date, let them know. If not, be nice with the rejection. Who knows, you may change your mind sometime later.

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Response to RC (Reply #1)

Mon Feb 18, 2013, 11:57 PM

2. Well put. nt

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Response to Quixote1818 (Original post)

Tue Feb 19, 2013, 04:45 AM

3. Playing hard to get may attract a certain type,

but do you want that type?

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Response to Quixote1818 (Original post)

Tue Feb 19, 2013, 09:24 AM

4. i am all into not PLAYing hard to get. but, there is playing in high value, also.

to have those 5 guys chasing her, while with a guy she likes, she would have to do an amount of playing to have those five guys chasing. and that would be wrong, also. and the guy inevitably would not like that either. there would be a certain amount of lack of integrity that he values.

but, i do like a man saying, do not play hard to get.

i found "not playing" the easiest and most true attraction.

interesting.

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