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Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:20 PM

"My 16 Y/O BF Abuses Me!!!"

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Reply "My 16 Y/O BF Abuses Me!!!" (Original post)
Jamaal510 Jan 2013 OP
Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #1
1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #3
Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #4
1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #10
Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #5
seabeyond Jan 2013 #6
1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #2
grahamhgreen Jan 2013 #7
Plucketeer Jan 2013 #13
RedstDem Jan 2013 #8
cash__whatiwant Jan 2013 #9
1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #11
cash__whatiwant Jan 2013 #12
PDJane Jan 2013 #14
alp227 Jan 2013 #15
RebelOne Jan 2013 #16
JVS Jan 2013 #17

Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:30 PM

1. That little boy needs a spanking. n/t

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Response to Ed Suspicious (Reply #1)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:36 PM

3. No ...

it was probably spankings, observed and received, that got him to where he is. He needs to be taught what love and respect is.

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Response to 1StrongBlackMan (Reply #3)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:40 PM

4. Probably right, but my "dad" instinct (as a dad with a 14yo daughter who now has a boyfriend) is

screaming that he needs some tough love. Makes me seething mad watching him treat that little girl the way he does.

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Response to Ed Suspicious (Reply #4)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 06:04 PM

10. Believe me ...

I know ... being the Dad of a 17 yr old daughter, who at one time patterned her choice in suitors after her "bad boy" uncles.

I've had plenty of "talks" with boys.

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Response to 1StrongBlackMan (Reply #3)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:42 PM

5. In reality, I know you're totally right. I'm working from a place of anger and that's not right. n/t

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Response to 1StrongBlackMan (Reply #3)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:46 PM

6. yes. .... so so sad. nt

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:32 PM

2. I'll be back to comment later ...

but this man-child is a boy without a clue.

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:52 PM

7. Screw the morons who produce this crap. DO NOT WATCH!

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Response to grahamhgreen (Reply #7)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 08:46 PM

13. Exactly

if you spend time watching this past the first few sentences this kid utters, you're as dumb as he is. You can find this exact same shit on the "newspapers" next to the checkout line in your local grocery store.

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 04:55 PM

8. He'll wake up suddenly one morning

missing a big part of his life, if you know what i mean........lol

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 05:51 PM

9. Shes legally an adult dating a 16 year old

something wrong here?

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Response to cash__whatiwant (Reply #9)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 06:06 PM

11. I don't have a son; but ...

there's no where there'd ever be a situation where he woke up and she wasn't laying next to him and he would drag her back to bed. Not in MY house. And he wouldn't be sleep at her house, either.

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Response to 1StrongBlackMan (Reply #11)

Thu Jan 10, 2013, 08:13 PM

12. I would hope not. This girls self esteem must be the lowest of the low

to let this scrawny little kid treat her that way.

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Fri Jan 11, 2013, 12:41 AM

14. Understand something; typically, abusive behaviour destroys the self esteem.

It also leaves you very much without support; been there, done that. However, I have a well-hidden temper that comes out at certain times. This young woman seems to have had that totally beaten out of her, and that's not a good thing. Also understand that when a man like this says "I can't live without you," it's literally true. He needs someone to whom he can feel superior and whom he can control.

Yes, I've seen this kind of thing played out in real life. A relative of mine, when her husband lifted his hand just once too often, grabbed the hunting rifle off the wall and fired. Of course, she's a little thing, and the rifle had one hell of a recoil, so there was a hole blown in the ceiling and not much other damage!

Further violence won't fix what is wrong with this skinny little strutter; frankly, I'm not sure what will fix what's wrong with him. Once the period for developing empathy is gone, I'm not sure it can be repaired.

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Fri Jan 11, 2013, 01:58 AM

15. Hi Jamaal greetings from the 408. Wonder what your point of this video was?

Maury was guilty pleasure for me when I was in high school. Maybe you could tie this into the War on Women/rape culture, a political commentary? Is this boy part of a larger pathology that leads to incidents like in Steubenville or Delhi?

BTW, the boyfriend looks like Robert Griffin III.

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Fri Jan 11, 2013, 05:28 PM

16. Before I even watched this video,

I had a sneaky suspicion that this was from Maury, Steve Wilcos or Jerry Springer.

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Response to Jamaal510 (Original post)

Fri Jan 11, 2013, 05:36 PM

17. Shouldn't that be "My 16 year old statuatory rape victim abuses me"?

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