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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Tue Mar 21, 2017, 12:37 PM Mar 2017

Mormon Church releases video about 'accepting' gay children

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS) has produced a video about a heterosexual, Mormon couple accepting their gay son.

The video tells the story of Xian Mackintosh, who came out to his parents via Facebook. His parents reacted negatively – his mother suggested testosterone treatments and his father asked Xian why he chose to be gay. For several years, they say, they continued to have difficulty accepting their son.

Xian’s father also talks about his indoctrination in a homophobic culture. “In my mind, they had chosen this. And if they chose this, then they deserved every bit of negativity I can give them,” he said.

He then began to understand that his son didn’t choose to be gay. “And once that hit me, the pain and the suffering and all the jokes that I had told him, all the mean comments, all the times I said something snide about somebody else and to the whole family and him sitting there in that back seat, sitting there thinking, ‘My dad has no idea he’s talking about me.’ All those times came flooding back to me, all the pain that my son had gone through.”




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Mormon Church releases video about 'accepting' gay children (Original Post) DonViejo Mar 2017 OP
Wow! A great family. To bad all weren't as great. yeoman6987 Mar 2017 #1
The bite of reality is one of the kindest things that can happen to anyone. Tikki Mar 2017 #2
I knew a Mormon guy in the early 70's who struggled with his gayness kimbutgar Mar 2017 #3
My son has a friend...the exact same story.... Tikki Mar 2017 #4

Tikki

(14,549 posts)
2. The bite of reality is one of the kindest things that can happen to anyone.
Tue Mar 21, 2017, 01:11 PM
Mar 2017

If you let it, it can heal without scar.

Tikki

kimbutgar

(21,056 posts)
3. I knew a Mormon guy in the early 70's who struggled with his gayness
Tue Mar 21, 2017, 01:50 PM
Mar 2017

He always had this girlfriend we never saw. Years later I connected with his sisters on Facebook and he had married and his wife left him because he couldn't consummate the marriage. He finally admitted he was gay but still Was strong in his mormon faith.

Tikki

(14,549 posts)
4. My son has a friend...the exact same story....
Tue Mar 21, 2017, 03:39 PM
Mar 2017

The mormon strategy. And painful to the young bride, I am sure...but then it's not about her!!!


Tikki

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