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http://www.edmondsun.com/local/x1447689103/Edmond-15-year-old-accused-of-raping-his-grandmotherShe said she takes medication at night for medical reasons and it puts her to sleep, according to the affidavit. When she awoke on July 12 her private parts were hurting and she noticed her panties were missing, police said. She said she found them under the bed and they had been cut, police said.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)PDJane
(10,103 posts)Whether the child did it or not, the whole rape thing is power.
RC
(25,592 posts)A grandmother? "Old" can't be attractive? "Old" is repugnant to you? That grandmother could have been as young 55.
This rape seemed more like it was an act of opportunity and may very well had something to do with attractiveness. Not all rapes have to do with power.
Courtesy Flush
(4,558 posts)And I can tell you, 55 year old women are not attractive to teenagers. They're attractive to me now, but I'm almost 53 now.
PDJane
(10,103 posts)Rape has not one damn thing to do with attractiveness, no matter how attractive you are. It has to do with the ability to force someone to do what you want them to do. That is the reason that teachers, no matter how attractive or personable, have been considered to have raped students; the position of power makes it much harder to refuse. Please note that I didn't say the woman wasn't attractive; that's ridiculous. But rape is a crime of opportunity and power.
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)All. Of. Them.
Sure, it's possible that the grandmother is attractive. Irrelevant, though.
Rape is a violent crime in which the weapon is sex, but rape is not sex.
REP
(21,691 posts)There's a myth that only coventionally attractive young women are raped - that the victims were "asking for it" by being too attractive. Yet children, disabled, mentally impaired, elderly and even fat women (and men) are raped. It's not about 'opportunity sex' with an unwilling partner; Richard Pryor summed it up neatly in a throw away line following a joke in one of his performances, "How can somebody just take someone else's humanity like that?"
GeorgeGist
(25,319 posts)The ones (rapes) that don't happen aren't about power.
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)Wtf.