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Courtesy Flush

(4,558 posts)
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 02:07 PM Jul 2012

15-year-old accused of raping his grandmother

http://www.edmondsun.com/local/x1447689103/Edmond-15-year-old-accused-of-raping-his-grandmother

Saturday afternoon the victim called the Edmond Police Department to report that her 15-year-old grandson had raped her in her home, according to the affidavit. The victim told an Edmond officer that the suspect lives in another state, but has been staying with her since July 2, according to the affidavit.

She said she takes medication at night for medical reasons and it puts her to sleep, according to the affidavit. When she awoke on July 12 her private parts were hurting and she noticed her panties were missing, police said. She said she found them under the bed and they had been cut, police said.
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15-year-old accused of raping his grandmother (Original Post) Courtesy Flush Jul 2012 OP
.......... Marrah_G Jul 2012 #1
Which is yet another proof that rape has nothing to do with attractiveness, but power. PDJane Jul 2012 #2
Really? "...yet another proof that rape has nothing to do with attractiveness..." RC Jul 2012 #4
Well, I used to be a 15 year old boy Courtesy Flush Jul 2012 #5
All rapes are linked to power. All of them. PDJane Jul 2012 #6
All rapes are about power. Chorophyll Jul 2012 #7
Not all rapes have to do with power ... The ones that don't happen aren't about power. REP Jul 2012 #10
Good God, Sherlock, I believe you've nailed it. GeorgeGist Jul 2012 #11
.... HappyMe Jul 2012 #3
+1000 Liberal_in_LA Jul 2012 #8
WTF!!!!! Initech Jul 2012 #9

PDJane

(10,103 posts)
2. Which is yet another proof that rape has nothing to do with attractiveness, but power.
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 02:09 PM
Jul 2012

Whether the child did it or not, the whole rape thing is power.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
4. Really? "...yet another proof that rape has nothing to do with attractiveness..."
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 02:32 PM
Jul 2012

A grandmother? "Old" can't be attractive? "Old" is repugnant to you? That grandmother could have been as young 55.
This rape seemed more like it was an act of opportunity and may very well had something to do with attractiveness. Not all rapes have to do with power.

Courtesy Flush

(4,558 posts)
5. Well, I used to be a 15 year old boy
Reply to RC (Reply #4)
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 02:55 PM
Jul 2012

And I can tell you, 55 year old women are not attractive to teenagers. They're attractive to me now, but I'm almost 53 now.

PDJane

(10,103 posts)
6. All rapes are linked to power. All of them.
Reply to RC (Reply #4)
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 03:15 PM
Jul 2012

Rape has not one damn thing to do with attractiveness, no matter how attractive you are. It has to do with the ability to force someone to do what you want them to do. That is the reason that teachers, no matter how attractive or personable, have been considered to have raped students; the position of power makes it much harder to refuse. Please note that I didn't say the woman wasn't attractive; that's ridiculous. But rape is a crime of opportunity and power.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
7. All rapes are about power.
Reply to RC (Reply #4)
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 03:21 PM
Jul 2012

All. Of. Them.

Sure, it's possible that the grandmother is attractive. Irrelevant, though.

Rape is a violent crime in which the weapon is sex, but rape is not sex.

REP

(21,691 posts)
10. Not all rapes have to do with power ... The ones that don't happen aren't about power.
Reply to RC (Reply #4)
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 03:41 PM
Jul 2012

There's a myth that only coventionally attractive young women are raped - that the victims were "asking for it" by being too attractive. Yet children, disabled, mentally impaired, elderly and even fat women (and men) are raped. It's not about 'opportunity sex' with an unwilling partner; Richard Pryor summed it up neatly in a throw away line following a joke in one of his performances, "How can somebody just take someone else's humanity like that?"

GeorgeGist

(25,319 posts)
11. Good God, Sherlock, I believe you've nailed it.
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 03:45 PM
Jul 2012

The ones (rapes) that don't happen aren't about power.

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