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warrior1

(12,325 posts)
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 05:03 PM Jul 2012

Andy Griffith Already Buried at his request.

http://www.tmz.com/


A rep for Twiford Funeral Homes in Manteo, North Carolina tells us, Andy was buried at 11:30 AM on his family farm on Roanoke Island. We're told Andy had previously requested to be buried immediately after his death ... so that's why it all happened so fast.

We made calls to find out if Andy was embalmed. No one was talking, but we're told it's legal in North Carolina to bury people without embalming them.

We're told Andy's burial followed a small, private service with close friends and family in attendance.
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Andy Griffith Already Buried at his request. (Original Post) warrior1 Jul 2012 OP
I checked into it for a couple of my loved ones and that is the way that is done. patrice Jul 2012 #1
I honestly think that's a great way to do it. Mira Jul 2012 #2
What a beautiful place to be laid to rest obamanut2012 Jul 2012 #3
In many areas embalming is not required. xmas74 Jul 2012 #4
Truly wonderful malaise Jul 2012 #5
Cemeteries are nothing but big toxic dumps. secondwind Jul 2012 #6
+1 nt K8-EEE Jul 2012 #9
That's the way to do it. jimlup Jul 2012 #7
Olde Style Southern tradition no_hypocrisy Jul 2012 #8
CREEPY Skittles Jul 2012 #24
If I could bury my horse on my property, I don't see why human family members magical thyme Jul 2012 #10
id imagine iamthebandfanman Jul 2012 #17
jewish law forbids embalming Danmel Jul 2012 #11
Great man; great actor. kitt6 Jul 2012 #12
RIP - good man. emilyg Jul 2012 #13
Sounds like he wanted to avoid a circus Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2012 #14
Welcome to DU Spitfire underseasurveyor Jul 2012 #23
Thanks Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2012 #26
This greeting is from a long time fellow traveler underseasurveyor Jul 2012 #27
I bet folks here are confused as hell. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2012 #29
HA underseasurveyor Jul 2012 #32
Great,...now everyone is rolling their eyes... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2012 #35
R.I.P., Andy pinboy3niner Jul 2012 #15
Well am a very practical person. A couple of weeks ago my husband and I went to southernyankeebelle Jul 2012 #16
I'm going to miss Andy. I grew up on reruns of his show. craigmatic Jul 2012 #18
If I were going to be buried that fast think I would want a telephone in my casket NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #19
First incoming call would be a telemarketer offering a cruise,...or carpet cleaning.... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2012 #30
He presented "What it Was, Was Football" circa 1954 at my university. I still chuckle at the lyrics. jody Jul 2012 #20
He had great timing as a standup Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2012 #34
I'm happy he got what he wanted. Sounds like a good idea to me. nolabear Jul 2012 #21
Where is it required that you be embalmed Sgent Jul 2012 #22
It seems a very strange question for TMZ to ask, too muriel_volestrangler Jul 2012 #33
To leave condolences..... Dalai_1 Jul 2012 #25
RIP Andy Griffith sarchasm Jul 2012 #28
Sounds like a good plan... richmwill Jul 2012 #31

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
4. In many areas embalming is not required.
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 05:17 PM
Jul 2012

I think it's wonderful that it was done so quickly without too much muss and fuss.

no_hypocrisy

(46,079 posts)
8. Olde Style Southern tradition
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 05:54 PM
Jul 2012

You drive as north as Virginia and you'll see headstones in the front and back yards of some homes about an hour south of D.C.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
10. If I could bury my horse on my property, I don't see why human family members
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:07 PM
Jul 2012

could not also be buried on it.

You don't embalm livestock family members when you bury them, either. Why should humans be different. As long as I was far from anybody's well, there was no problem.

No headstone for my boy, but a wild garden...

iamthebandfanman

(8,127 posts)
17. id imagine
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:48 PM
Jul 2012

most places prefer organised cemetaries as it makes sure the graves wont be disturbed... i know in my area (in kentucky) there are tons of small family graves, typically on the edge of a family property or near a home..
I also know that some of these sites have been dug up on accident because of new buildings and overall population increases ..
when i was a child, some friends and i discovered a 19th century gravesite near where a road was being rebuilt (hadnt been used in a while, had gone into disrepair... so they dug it up, repaved)... from what we could tell, half of the cemetary was under the road... and that road had been there (the old one) since the 1920s. the city definitely acted suprised when we showed them our terrible drawing of the layout (we figured) based on the graves we could see

id imagine there are alot of buildings all over this country that are unknowingly on top of family graves...
lol

i see nothing wrong with it, but do believe you should be required to let county/state officials know of the location so that its protected

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
14. Sounds like he wanted to avoid a circus
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:31 PM
Jul 2012

It's sickening when people use the death of someone famous for self promotion.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
26. Thanks
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 07:21 PM
Jul 2012

When I get these greets I can never tell if it's generic or a long time fellow traveler.

That's the problem with having 10s of thousands of posts all over hell.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
29. I bet folks here are confused as hell.
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 08:25 PM
Jul 2012

I tried to warn them the Neil Munro thing wasn't the first thing I've done that's legendary.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
15. R.I.P., Andy
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:34 PM
Jul 2012

CNN just showed a clip of their last interview with him, in which he said, "The theme of our show was love."

He was a good man.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
16. Well am a very practical person. A couple of weeks ago my husband and I went to
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:38 PM
Jul 2012

our funeral home in town that has done funerals for my husband's family for many year. We both made a decision that we wanted to be cremated as soon as we die and buried ASAP. Neither one of us want a funeral service. I even have our lot already (free) and the funeral director is going to dig the hole. I told them not to put it on the radio or the local newspaper. I don't know many people. I called all my relatives that are important to me and told them so there weren't going to be any surprises. Now I will be able to rest in peace. Really funerals are for the living. I think Andy did it the right way.

 

jody

(26,624 posts)
20. He presented "What it Was, Was Football" circa 1954 at my university. I still chuckle at the lyrics.
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:55 PM
Jul 2012
 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
34. He had great timing as a standup
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 08:57 PM
Jul 2012

The whole "naive hillbilly" bit would be taken as an insult to the Right these days.

I picture him doing this act in bib overalls.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
21. I'm happy he got what he wanted. Sounds like a good idea to me.
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 06:55 PM
Jul 2012

Rest in Peace, Andy. I for one will never forget you.

Sgent

(5,857 posts)
22. Where is it required that you be embalmed
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 07:09 PM
Jul 2012

funeral directors might try to sell it to you, and I could see it if your not doing a fairly immediate burial, but I don't know of anywhere its actually illegal to not embalm.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,300 posts)
33. It seems a very strange question for TMZ to ask, too
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 08:43 PM
Jul 2012

I can't really imagine what went through their heads to think it was something anyone would want to know. If you really wanted to pry into a private funeral, there's all kinds of other things that might possibly be of vague interest - what music was played, who spoke, what, if any, religious denomination carried out the ceremony, who attended - but "were some chemicals added to the body?" is just bizarre.

richmwill

(1,326 posts)
31. Sounds like a good plan...
Tue Jul 3, 2012, 08:33 PM
Jul 2012

My Grandfather's funeral was extremely short. We gathered at the grave site, a Catholic Priest gave a short (3 minutes, if even) prayer, we said our goodbyes, and we left. No wake beforehand, no church service. It was his wishes, and honestly- after experiencing it, I found it a much better way to have a funeral and I have already told my family that it is my wish to have a similar service (minus the Priest, as I am not Catholic). The only person it miffed off was the director of the funeral home who prepared him for burial- he refused to allow my sister to see our Grandfather before burial, since we weren't holding an actual visitation/wake for him. Guess he was mad that he wasn't making the big bucks he usually gets out of grieving families.

In Mr. Griffith's case, for him and his family- with his celebrity status and being a beloved figure, I wonder if worry about a WBC announcement that they were going to "protest the funeral" was a factor in this very quick burial too.

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