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DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 10:25 AM Nov 2016

Trumps natl security pick outed gay brother dying of AIDS



One of Donald Trump’s latest picks for his administration outed her gay brother to her parents before he died of AIDS in 1995, refusing to see him in his dying days and blaming his condition on paternal abuse her family said never happened.

On Friday, President-elect Trump announced he has selected as his deputy national security adviser Kathleen Troia “KT” McFarland, who works as a Fox News commentator and unsuccessfully sought the Republican nomination in New York to challenge Hillary Clinton for her U.S. Senate seat in 2006.

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A profile piece for New York Times Magazine in 2006, however, reported she “couldn’t abide” her brother being gay. The article unearthed a 1992 letter to her parents in which she reportedly outed her brother, Michael Troia, shortly after she discovered he had AIDS, blamed her family’s troubles as a result of childhood abuse.

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“Have you ever wondered why I have never had anything to do with Mike and have never let my daughters see him although we live only fifteen minutes away from each other?” McFarland reportedly wrote. “He has been a lifelong homosexual, most of his relationships brief, fleeting one-night stands.”

Pressed about her brother by New York Magazine for the 2006 profile piece, all McFarland would reportedly say about him was “Ummmm. He was sick and then he died.” According to the article, McFarland said her memory of her father’s behavior toward her family surfaced as a recovered memory and a therapist put her up to writing the letter.
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http://www.washingtonblade.com/2016/11/28/trump-natl-security-team-outed-gay-brother-dying-aids/
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Trumps natl security pick outed gay brother dying of AIDS (Original Post) DesertRat Nov 2016 OP
I have a gay great-nephew. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2016 #1
And ditto to Trump for picking her! DesertRat Nov 2016 #2
Yup. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2016 #3
That is one nasty, evil GWC58 Nov 2016 #4
Please, haven't we had enough misogyny? Don't sink to their level and use sexist slurs Maru Kitteh Nov 2016 #12
"fathers behavior toward her family surfaced as a recovered memory" Lochloosa Nov 2016 #5
exactly right. nt DesertRat Nov 2016 #6
Which speaks to her judgement and discernment. Maru Kitteh Nov 2016 #13
Heartless. Loryn Nov 2016 #7
Typically evil Trumpette! BlueMTexpat Nov 2016 #8
I know someone kicked out of his family for being gay left-of-center2012 Nov 2016 #9
Also guilty of voter fraud, per Maddow last night Retrograde Nov 2016 #10
Ugh DesertRat Nov 2016 #11
She needs to be arrested and jailed or deported. NT Ilsa Nov 2016 #16
Trump just lifts up one rock after another. And look at what he finds! LuckyLib Nov 2016 #14
She never sees or has anything to do with her brother, but she knows Ilsa Nov 2016 #15
1000 views and under 20 recs? Demonstates beyond callous to hateful behavior salin Nov 2016 #17
good judgement and moral values...NOT. nt TheFrenchRazor Nov 2016 #18
Definitely worthy of the New Trump Swamp radhika Nov 2016 #19
Fox News commentator qualifies her for just about anything NoMoreRepugs Nov 2016 #20
This story is not true, according to Snopes. ginnyinWI Nov 2016 #21
Beat me to it rpannier Nov 2016 #22
I get snopes in my Facebook feed. ginnyinWI Nov 2016 #24
Every post I see that I find mildly questionable I turn there rpannier Nov 2016 #25
She can rot in hell. YOHABLO Nov 2016 #23
Great...another "recovered memory" thing. Ken Burch Nov 2016 #26
brewer enid602 Nov 2016 #27

greatauntoftriplets

(175,731 posts)
1. I have a gay great-nephew.
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 10:44 AM
Nov 2016

He is 18, a senior in high school, and just came out a few months ago. I love him too much to EVER do such a nasty thing on him.

Damn this woman to hell.

Maru Kitteh

(28,333 posts)
12. Please, haven't we had enough misogyny? Don't sink to their level and use sexist slurs
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 07:51 PM
Nov 2016

to describe this vile piece of shit.

Maru Kitteh

(28,333 posts)
13. Which speaks to her judgement and discernment.
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 08:06 PM
Nov 2016

Just another "only the best people" appointment brought to you by all those who supported DJT, in word or deed, action or lack thereof.

And a hale and hearty "fuck you" to all of them.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
9. I know someone kicked out of his family for being gay
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 07:40 PM
Nov 2016

The right wing, evangelical family members feared the gay one would molest their children,
'cause you know all gays are child molesters.

Retrograde

(10,132 posts)
10. Also guilty of voter fraud, per Maddow last night
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 07:46 PM
Nov 2016

She registered and voted at two addresses, then claimed she didn't realize it was a felony.

Ilsa

(61,692 posts)
15. She never sees or has anything to do with her brother, but she knows
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 09:50 PM
Nov 2016

The nature of his relationships? She's another bullshitter.

salin

(48,955 posts)
17. 1000 views and under 20 recs? Demonstates beyond callous to hateful behavior
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 09:56 PM
Nov 2016

towards members of her own family. What does this suggest about her ability to demonstrate/act on any concern for American people?

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
25. Every post I see that I find mildly questionable I turn there
Wed Nov 30, 2016, 07:23 PM
Nov 2016

I usually find what I am looking for

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