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Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:03 AM Jan 2016

Danish teen fought off her attacker - now she'll face fine

Danish teen fought off her attacker - now she'll face fine

A 17-year-old girl who was physically and sexually attacked in Sønderborg will herself face charges for using pepper spray to fend off her assailant.

The teenager told police that she was attacked in central Sønderborg on Wednesday at around 10pm by an English-speaking man in dark clothing. She said the man knocked her to the ground and then unbuttoned her pants and attempted to undress her.

The girl was able to save herself from further assault by using pepper spray on the attacker, but now she may be the one who ends up in legal trouble.

“It is illegal to possess and use pepper spray, so she will likely be charged for that,” local police spokesman Knud Kirsten told TV Syd.

http://www.thelocal.dk/20160126/danish-teen-fought-off-her-attacker-with-pepper-spray-now-shell-face-fine


Unjust laws ought to be disobeyed.
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Danish teen fought off her attacker - now she'll face fine (Original Post) Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author CBGLuthier Jan 2016 #1
If the law obligates her to be defenseless to the point of being violently rape the law is unjust. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #2
The law doesn't 'obligate her to be defenseless' Kentonio Jan 2016 #3
So what should she carry, a gun or knife? Flying Squirrel Jan 2016 #7
Exactly. What tool is she allowed to use to defend herself? Helen Borg Jan 2016 #55
Her burqa is about all, which is why this is effed up. Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #60
It's totally effed up, but I would still rather pay the fine than chance smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #70
They didn't even catch him. He was able to run away. LisaL Jan 2016 #98
English speaking attacker, near a migrant center. TexasMommaWithAHat Jan 2016 #112
One of those rape whistles maybe? PersonNumber503602 Jan 2016 #131
If she can't fight off her attacker under her own power whose fault is that? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #17
So everyone should always have a legal right Kentonio Jan 2016 #19
If the law obligates someone to remain defenseless when confronted by a predator the is unjust. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #22
The logical destination of that argument is that possession and carry of all weapons should be legal Kentonio Jan 2016 #24
You're more worried about what people carry. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #26
You don't get rid of predators by allowing them to legally carry weapons. Kentonio Jan 2016 #34
Please show me one place where it is legal to carry a weapon in the commission of a crime. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #38
In Europe carrying most weapons is illegal. You don't need to catch someone in the act. Kentonio Jan 2016 #43
Well, her assailant was unarmed so, yes, I suppose you could say there is less weapon crime. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #50
The Danes have no desire as a society to see people freely carrying weapons. Kentonio Jan 2016 #51
"Please don't try and impose your beliefs onto theirs." Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #52
The western European countries are strongly against public carrying of weapons in public Kentonio Jan 2016 #54
"The expectation in Europe is that society is kept safe by thorough and competent law enforcement" Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #59
Of course they try and deal with rapists Kentonio Jan 2016 #69
You're speaking on behalf of the Danes in contradiction of the facts Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #72
+1 !! exactly. lunasun Jan 2016 #251
More weapons means more crime kcr Jan 2016 #203
Please show where I advocated arming everyone. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #207
Yeah, well in Denmark the penalty for rape is what - two years? Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #62
I literally -- as in *literally* -- gagged over your 2 years comment. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #64
It's not 2 years. Kentonio Jan 2016 #75
Up to 8 years, maybe 12 if sufficiently violent. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #83
Why exactly would you think I'm defending rape? Kentonio Jan 2016 #87
Your opinion and good intentions are meaningless to victims. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #100
So basically you have nothing to say, you just want to lash out. Kentonio Jan 2016 #101
I support the right to self defense. Self defense trumps opinions and hurt feelings. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #105
So never move to Europe. Kentonio Jan 2016 #107
The people seem quite agreeable. It's the morally bankrupt government that is the issue. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #111
The government are chosen by the people. Kentonio Jan 2016 #113
We just got done commemorating Rev. King's birthday because he taught us -- yet again -- Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #124
It is not an unjust law, and frankly I finding you using King here to be quite inappropriate. Kentonio Jan 2016 #127
"It is not an unjust law" Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #138
If I hadn't seen that post with my own eyes... beevul Jan 2016 #152
I'm sure you've seen the exchange throughout the thread. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #169
I have. beevul Jan 2016 #172
This message was self-deleted by its author sl8 Jan 2016 #217
And most offenders get under two years. Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #106
This is why there is such a furor in Europe over immigration. It's two years in Germany also. Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #99
Yet America has far, far worse rape statistics than Denmark does Kentonio Jan 2016 #103
Yes, I would. I am a woman. Of the women I've known who have been raped, the only Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #108
Sorry, but studies into this disagree with your experiences Kentonio Jan 2016 #109
Women in Denmark don't even report rape, because they know the police Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #110
Sorry but you're painting a picture that doesn't reflect reality. Kentonio Jan 2016 #114
Two years?! smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #71
That is not true. Kentonio Jan 2016 #74
That's still not nearly enough. Especially if it was particularly violent. smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #92
Europe base their criminal justice systems more around rehabilitation than punishment. Kentonio Jan 2016 #94
Yes, exactly. Law's function is make us more, not less, equal. n/t Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #56
This is a stupid argument, IMO. If gangs of criminals or individuals with Uzis were Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #65
Yo mama so smart -- she just wrote that post. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #66
Sorry, that argument is sexist Kentonio Jan 2016 #73
Where did anyone say women only? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #78
"Yes, women who are under credible threat of rape should be allowed to carry defensive weaponry" Kentonio Jan 2016 #82
"Which women? How do you define credible thread?" Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #86
Her personally? Kentonio Jan 2016 #88
She is a woman with a credible threat and still you want her prosecuted. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #90
I don't want her to be prosecuted, its not something that gives me any pleasure or happiness Kentonio Jan 2016 #93
You understand why pepper spray is criminalized? Dorian Gray Jan 2016 #193
Yes... ileus Jan 2016 #196
If a man is trying to rape me Aerows Jan 2016 #276
You speak as if the genders were generally equal in siz whathehell Jan 2016 #45
People who use it in assaults or robberies can be prosecuted for using it inappropriately. pnwmom Jan 2016 #144
It's a potentially dangerous weapon. Kentonio Jan 2016 #148
It shouldn't be banned for defensive purposes. It's insane for any of our states pnwmom Jan 2016 #180
I think you're confusing Dorian Gray Jan 2016 #194
Not defenseless but sarisataka Jan 2016 #157
Laws regarding pepper spray vary and there are many types and strengths of pepper spray azurnoir Jan 2016 #5
I do not care. She defended herself from a criminal. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #18
would you restrict the sale to women only? what's to stop an assailant from purchasing it and using azurnoir Jan 2016 #20
"what's to stop an assailant from purchasing it and using it on a victim" Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #23
No the law does not prevent that and I edited my original comment to add azurnoir Jan 2016 #25
So what of her age? Does her age somehow obligate her to remain defenseless? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #28
Taking a gun from an assailant is quite a bit different from possessing a gun yourself azurnoir Jan 2016 #32
The authorities failed to protect. The people are not obligated to remain defenseless. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #39
and it may we do not yet know she will be fined azurnoir Jan 2016 #40
No person who defends themelves from a criminal predaor should also have to Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #44
Well, if it went to a jury and I were on that jury, the girl would walk. Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #58
I'd vote the same way. hobbit709 Jan 2016 #63
She is facing a fine, per the article, not jail time. LisaL Jan 2016 #84
Well, she wouldn't if I had anything to say about it, and if she does get fined, Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #102
She should be getting a medal and the key to the city. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #211
+1000 n/t. whathehell Jan 2016 #46
+1000 smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #41
Pepper Spray is a very effective defensive tool for women. NutmegYankee Jan 2016 #4
A-fucking-men n/t Flying Squirrel Jan 2016 #8
That seems a rather harsh and broadbush indictment. CBGLuthier Jan 2016 #9
You probably don't want to compare sexual equality between the US and Denmark.. Kentonio Jan 2016 #10
ah yaaa Sweden, Norway, the UK , Iceland are all known for their misogyny-rrrright azurnoir Jan 2016 #13
Given the high rates of sexual assault in much of Europe, branford Jan 2016 #27
In fact, it should be mandatory. smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #42
Now we're getting weird, using xenophobia as a defense against misogyny. A Simple Game Jan 2016 #57
Are you saying discussing rape statistics is xenophobia just because the statistics are for another PersonNumber503602 Jan 2016 #133
Looks to me like you are blaming much of it on the migrants. And what statistics are in your post? A Simple Game Jan 2016 #139
That actually wasn't my post. PersonNumber503602 Jan 2016 #145
Well yeah they are. Some of the highest sexual assault rates in the industrialized world Recursion Jan 2016 #80
and according to reported stats India has one of the lowest azurnoir Jan 2016 #118
Oh no, even by the official stats it's quite high in India Recursion Jan 2016 #121
Of course!!! The law should forbid misuse, and allow self-defensive use. Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #104
Exactly. Some of the comments here are shameful. LittleBlue Jan 2016 #182
Dude Flying Squirrel Jan 2016 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author CBGLuthier Jan 2016 #11
Ok, to answer your original question Flying Squirrel Jan 2016 #14
Forget it. Let me take a wild guess. Everyone who is defending this decision is male. smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #89
Europe is not like America. Kentonio Jan 2016 #12
Even in the US pepper spray is not across the board legal for anyone to carry azurnoir Jan 2016 #16
What's the rate of sexual assault in Europe? LisaL Jan 2016 #79
Hope this helps. Kentonio Jan 2016 #91
Lets just put it this way: LisaL Jan 2016 #96
You are romanticizing and generalizing about Europe Cal Carpenter Jan 2016 #223
I'm writing this from Europe where I'm currently living, so I feel quite qualified to do so. Kentonio Jan 2016 #225
Rosa Parks packed. A gun. Eleanors38 Jan 2016 #134
And what is this, "Women should appeal to their government to change the law" crap? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #15
+1 betsuni Jan 2016 #36
*This* smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #47
This message was self-deleted by its author CBGLuthier Jan 2016 #48
Pardon not granted as I am disinclined to seek favor with those having obvious control issues. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #49
This message was self-deleted by its author CBGLuthier Jan 2016 #76
I never saw whatever it was you self-deleted Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #81
Thank you for this thread. sibelian Jan 2016 #129
Yes, they should, but the law is still unjust. Yo_Mama Jan 2016 #53
Given the options ejbr Jan 2016 #21
Huh. Danes sound like they are taking lessons from ISIS on how to treat women. n/t jtuck004 Jan 2016 #29
The top 5 gender equal nations are.. Kentonio Jan 2016 #116
lol. That will comfort her as she pays a fine for having to use pepper spray on a creep. I'll jtuck004 Jan 2016 #141
It's a shame it was applicable in this case Kentonio Jan 2016 #147
Lol. Sure, slavery and subjugation and assault mean equality, the right to be attacked jtuck004 Jan 2016 #149
And yet despite all your huffing and puffing Kentonio Jan 2016 #151
Danes other than the victim in this case. beevul Jan 2016 #153
Because obviously we make laws based on individual outlier cases like this one.. Kentonio Jan 2016 #156
We certainly seem to try where guns are concerned. beevul Jan 2016 #158
Remind me of the single gun crime incident which caused everyone to suddenly try and regulate Kentonio Jan 2016 #161
See sandy hook. beevul Jan 2016 #164
Sandy Hook and the other mass shootings Kentonio Jan 2016 #166
Another misrepresentation. beevul Jan 2016 #171
Not a lot? Damn right it's a lot! Kentonio Jan 2016 #173
In your own words, a statistical OUTLIER. beevul Jan 2016 #174
No not a statistic outlier Kentonio Jan 2016 #177
10,000 incidents in a nation of 300,000,000 is the textbook definition... beevul Jan 2016 #181
Twisting in the wind? Kentonio Jan 2016 #192
So opposition to rape is being "emotionally caught up" Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #198
You want to throw away rules designed to protect public safety Kentonio Jan 2016 #200
1. There is no correlation between weapons and crime Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #206
Societal dangers of allowing people to carry dangerous weapons? branford Jan 2016 #199
"totally non-lethal, non-damaging pepper spray"? Kentonio Jan 2016 #201
Of course pepper spray, and virtually all realistic self-defense tools, branford Jan 2016 #205
I'm not missing anything Kentonio Jan 2016 #214
Flawed way to run the legal system? branford Jan 2016 #218
Rapists don't use pepper spray to rape girls. Boudica the Lyoness Jan 2016 #256
If a woman pulls a can of pepper spray to defend herself Kentonio Jan 2016 #261
Knock off the 'women can be easily overpowered' shit. Boudica the Lyoness Jan 2016 #263
Hey, I was the one saying Kentonio Jan 2016 #268
You can walk around unprotected Boudica the Lyoness Jan 2016 #271
I'm ok with christx30 Jan 2016 #267
I don't give a damn if it's a rapist being hurt Kentonio Jan 2016 #269
How do you suggest a smaller woman christx30 Jan 2016 #272
Far less attacks. Overall it's safer Kentonio Jan 2016 #273
And for the outliers like the woman in the OP, christx30 Jan 2016 #275
A teenage girl has a duty to be raped because you fear her pepper spray will lead to another SH? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #197
Complete bullshit, and I already said I have no interest in talking to you. Kentonio Jan 2016 #202
When the decision came between the law or stopping a rapist you chose the law as higher importance. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #208
Keep on babbling crap if you like. Kentonio Jan 2016 #212
It's not crap if it's what you've been saying the entire thread: law > rape victims Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #213
The right to self defense does not give you a right to carry illegal weapons Kentonio Jan 2016 #215
Yep. law > rape victims -- authortarianism > human rights Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #216
PLEASE!! sarisataka Jan 2016 #220
Yes the individual is less important than the society Kentonio Jan 2016 #224
Societies vary. beevul Jan 2016 #230
Ok you are fine with using a single case Kentonio Jan 2016 #234
Excuse me? beevul Jan 2016 #236
Bullshit Kentonio Jan 2016 #238
Not bullshit at all-you've produced no evidence. What you promote is the ethos of Inspector Javert friendly_iconoclast Jan 2016 #240
Not once have you provided anything to back up your assertions. beevul Jan 2016 #241
Conscience? Oh my conscience is just fine Kentonio Jan 2016 #242
Oh, I completely believe that. beevul Jan 2016 #243
I think this says it all.. Kentonio Jan 2016 #248
Yes, you would. beevul Jan 2016 #252
No evidence? Kentonio Jan 2016 #259
Round and round we go... beevul Jan 2016 #266
You have the evidence Kentonio Jan 2016 #270
Where it stops, nobody knows... beevul Jan 2016 #274
I just wanted to note that pepper spray is hardly banned anywhere in the USA, branford Jan 2016 #277
Thats not 'babbling crap'... beevul Jan 2016 #227
In some twisted way you think assaulting defenseless women represents equality. jtuck004 Jan 2016 #162
What an utterly ridiculous twisting of what I've said Kentonio Jan 2016 #163
Equality is not what is needed here. Equity is what is needed NickB79 Jan 2016 #228
You really think gender equality has fuck-all to do with defending yourself from a rape? NickB79 Jan 2016 #229
It's a society with far less sexism and misogyny than America Kentonio Jan 2016 #235
Except for the occasional rape of defenseless women christx30 Jan 2016 #253
No society has (or sadly probably ever will) Kentonio Jan 2016 #260
What should happen is the christx30 Jan 2016 #262
The attacker was described as an "English-speaking man in dark clothing". surrealAmerican Jan 2016 #125
Yet the ones fining her for defending against this attack are. Keep up. n/t jtuck004 Jan 2016 #137
Not really. English, while not the official language, is the most common second language... Lancero Jan 2016 #168
I can't believe some of the responses. JonathanRackham Jan 2016 #30
From your relatively low post count you appear to be new. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #31
Ain't that the truth Mbrow Jan 2016 #35
I had forgotten about that bit of nasty. beevul Jan 2016 #165
That's fucking sick, right there. X_Digger Jan 2016 #189
Ugh ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2016 #195
I doubt it'll get that far azurnoir Jan 2016 #33
Never underestimate stupidity. JonathanRackham Jan 2016 #37
Been Here A Long Time, And I Can't Either ProfessorGAC Jan 2016 #68
Nor can I. potone Jan 2016 #226
Jesus Christ, this place sometimes. Brickbat Jan 2016 #61
+1 n/t X_Digger Jan 2016 #190
Wow, the comments here suck. Odin2005 Jan 2016 #67
Peruse the Gun forums sometime, branford Jan 2016 #95
Ah, the dogmatic pacifist crowd. Odin2005 Jan 2016 #97
I'm not a fan of guns, but FFS this is pepper spray gollygee Jan 2016 #117
It's exasperating. smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #142
the real issue is the conflict between their laws not allowing treestar Jan 2016 #122
That law is wrong. The charges need to be dropped steve2470 Jan 2016 #77
Is there anything like a "go fund me" link for her? Motown_Johnny Jan 2016 #85
If they go ahead and charge her with a fine, Quantess Jan 2016 #115
Pepper spray is illegal? treestar Jan 2016 #119
Urinating on yourself to make yourself christx30 Jan 2016 #254
It's outlawed in England as well. Boudica the Lyoness Jan 2016 #257
And you will be jailed sarisataka Jan 2016 #264
Yep. Boudica the Lyoness Jan 2016 #265
This is such BS. NaturalHigh Jan 2016 #120
Sounds reasonable to me...i agree. Deuce Jan 2016 #132
+100000000 CharlotteVale Jan 2016 #140
Small price to pay for saving yourself from rape or worse. smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #143
OK. Sounds fine to me. Hortensis Jan 2016 #123
Pay the fine, buy more pepper spray Dems to Win Jan 2016 #126
A very nice female LEO once suggested... katsy Jan 2016 #128
Problem is, hair spray isn't rated for self-defense. Oneironaut Jan 2016 #154
The LEOs exact words, and one can't forget these words, were: katsy Jan 2016 #176
Excellent suggestion! Thanks. nt Fla Dem Jan 2016 #170
Lots of anti- sarisataka Jan 2016 #130
self-defense examples do infuriate the vulgar pascifists... Eleanors38 Jan 2016 #136
I have a feeling that they are mostly just anti-self defense when it comes to women. smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #146
I have never met a victim sarisataka Jan 2016 #155
Exactly. beevul Jan 2016 #160
Plus ten DashOneBravo Jan 2016 #175
Write off the fine as money well spent. backscatter712 Jan 2016 #135
I'd love to be on the jury. Nye Bevan Jan 2016 #150
Something is rotten in the state of Denmark. KamaAina Jan 2016 #159
Replace the moronic politicians and get some common sense laws LittleBlue Jan 2016 #167
.^that 840high Jan 2016 #178
This has been a general tendency in Europe DFW Jan 2016 #179
Unreal. It seems to me, from reading the comments of Europeans in both the smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #183
Maybe romanic Jan 2016 #184
Yes, exactly, but it seems like the Governments and LEO's haven't quite caught up yet with the smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #185
Correct, unfortunately. The RW Nationalists are gaining popularity, wildly Quantess Jan 2016 #186
The law enforcement / self-defense far leftward tilt is separate from and predates branford Jan 2016 #188
It's more nuanced than that DFW Jan 2016 #191
Thank you for your perspective on the issue. I always appreciate getting smirkymonkey Jan 2016 #204
Has Europe lost it's fucking mind? Amaya Jan 2016 #187
Yes it has. Boudica the Lyoness Jan 2016 #258
Congrats on sneaking a gungeon thread into GD. redgreenandblue Jan 2016 #209
Congrats on picking politics over rape victims. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2016 #210
It would appear that a number of DUers regard Inspector Javert as a role model... friendly_iconoclast Jan 2016 #233
My comment was not meant as a snark. nt redgreenandblue Jan 2016 #246
Sneaking? branford Jan 2016 #219
Glad I wasn't taking a drink... beevul Jan 2016 #231
It wasn't meant as a snark at all. redgreenandblue Jan 2016 #244
If by saying "gungeon thread" sarisataka Jan 2016 #221
+10^10. The authoritarian nature of the 'self-defense prohibitionists' has been revealed friendly_iconoclast Jan 2016 #232
Yep. This discussion is typically not GD material. redgreenandblue Jan 2016 #247
How is this a gungeon thread? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2016 #239
Because the tool which was used for self-defense is entirely irrelevant to the discussion. redgreenandblue Jan 2016 #245
The tool is relevant because it demonstrates that some self-proclaimed liberals branford Jan 2016 #249
A lot of anti-gun people are also against self-defence. Odin2005 Jan 2016 #255
Well they shouldn't fine her but if they do maybe people will chip in to pay it and yellowcanine Jan 2016 #222
Welcome to 2016 Europe Kurska Jan 2016 #237
"Better to be tried by 12 than carried by 6". GOLGO 13 Jan 2016 #250

Response to Nuclear Unicorn (Original post)

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
3. The law doesn't 'obligate her to be defenseless'
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:54 AM
Jan 2016

It says she can't carry pepper spray. In this instance it helped, but if it was legal then what about the other instances where people carried it to use in assaults or robberies?

 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
7. So what should she carry, a gun or knife?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:58 AM
Jan 2016

I am just amazed at the things I see posted on DU sometimes.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
60. Her burqa is about all, which is why this is effed up.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:52 AM
Jan 2016

Laws that enforce inequalities are not just laws.

In this case, the law is flat-out misogynistic.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
70. It's totally effed up, but I would still rather pay the fine than chance
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:16 AM
Jan 2016

being raped or murdered. Of course, Europe being the way it is, if they caught the would be rapist and he was a migrant, he would probably get off with a slap on the wrist because they don't want to appear "racist".

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
112. English speaking attacker, near a migrant center.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:15 AM
Jan 2016

He might not be a migrant, but I wouldn't be against it. Women everywhere are always at some risk against these attacks, but stick a bunch of misogynist men in your town, and the risk goes up.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
17. If she can't fight off her attacker under her own power whose fault is that?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:12 AM
Jan 2016

I'll give you a free hint -- not hers.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
19. So everyone should always have a legal right
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:19 AM
Jan 2016

To carry weapons that allow them to level the playing field in any hypothetical combat against any other attacker? What if there are multiple attackers? Should packing an uzi be legal?

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
22. If the law obligates someone to remain defenseless when confronted by a predator the is unjust.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:28 AM
Jan 2016

There is no moral obligation to remain defenseless in obedience to words on paper.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
24. The logical destination of that argument is that possession and carry of all weapons should be legal
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:30 AM
Jan 2016

I can't support that. Society should be finding new ways to increase public safety, not just giving people a free rein to carry weapons.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
26. You're more worried about what people carry.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:33 AM
Jan 2016

Meanwhile the predators in society have been not stopped from preying on the innocent.

Stop the predators first, then maybe I'll entertain your concerns.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
38. Please show me one place where it is legal to carry a weapon in the commission of a crime.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:56 AM
Jan 2016

And then explain how forbidding the innocent from defending themselves prevents crime.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
43. In Europe carrying most weapons is illegal. You don't need to catch someone in the act.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:05 AM
Jan 2016

If they have the weapon, that is the crime. It works, there is vastly less weapon crime.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
50. Well, her assailant was unarmed so, yes, I suppose you could say there is less weapon crime.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:29 AM
Jan 2016

She had a weapon but was committing no crime accept the one the authorities unjustly imposed upon her along the way to failing to protect her.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
51. The Danes have no desire as a society to see people freely carrying weapons.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:31 AM
Jan 2016

Please don't try and impose your beliefs onto theirs.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
52. "Please don't try and impose your beliefs onto theirs."
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:39 AM
Jan 2016

And you say this speaking on behalf of the Danes, do you? Is yours an elected position? How about the Danes engaged in what the article describes as a "backlash"?

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
54. The western European countries are strongly against public carrying of weapons in public
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:41 AM
Jan 2016

It gets more blurry when it comes to home defense, but even then their views are vastly more constrained than America. The expectation in Europe is that society is kept safe by thorough and competent law enforcement, not by citizens having to defend themselves against the possibility of random attack.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
59. "The expectation in Europe is that society is kept safe by thorough and competent law enforcement"
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:48 AM
Jan 2016

ipso facto not so as a teenaged girl felt a need to acquire and carry pepper spray due to a lack of confidence in the authorities and her fears proved to be justified.

Unfortunately, the reason she had her fears in the first place is because of all the other rapes the authorities -- not being thorough and apparently incompetent -- failed to prevent or prosecute.

Deal with the rapists and the pepper spray would be a non-issue. Deal with the rapists and she probably never would have bothered to spend the time or money buying pepper spray.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
69. Of course they try and deal with rapists
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:15 AM
Jan 2016

Just saying 'well everyone can have weapons until they do' isn't a solution anyone there will accept.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
72. You're speaking on behalf of the Danes in contradiction of the facts
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:20 AM
Jan 2016

some of them are choosing to defend themselves and others are staging a backlash against the authorities.

What is the nature of your appeal, anyways? That, somehow per argumentum ad populum, if 50.1% or more of the population disagrees with someone exercising a basic human right that right is somehow abrogated?

Congratulations, you just won a lifetime supply of Jim Crowe.

kcr

(15,315 posts)
203. More weapons means more crime
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 09:40 AM
Jan 2016

Your solution to arm everyone is like throwing fuel on a fire and insisting it's the only option that will work.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
62. Yeah, well in Denmark the penalty for rape is what - two years?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:02 AM
Jan 2016

I know they are discussing increasing it.

You maximize predation by penalizing it very lightly and forbidding potential victims to defend themselves. Nor has law enforcement been very vigilant about pursuing rape reports.

In Denmark, they've got the wacky imam who chased a woman in a park with his penis out giving speeches to student groups. He maintains that a woman who does not cover deserves it.

Denmark is, right now, a very, very misogynistic society. That's the truth. The law structure that may have been justified earlier (note I said "may&quot is not justified now.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
64. I literally -- as in *literally* -- gagged over your 2 years comment.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:08 AM
Jan 2016

I absolutely believe you are telling the truth, which is what makes it so vile.

2 years -- that is all the soul of a woman is worth?

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
75. It's not 2 years.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:28 AM
Jan 2016
Under Denmark’s Criminal Code, the punishment for rape is “any term not exceeding eight years” in prison, but if the act “has been of a particularly dangerous nature,” or occurs “in particularly aggravating circumstances,” the perpetrator may be sentenced to up to 12 years.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
83. Up to 8 years, maybe 12 if sufficiently violent.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:39 AM
Jan 2016

What's the average sentence and average time served?

And then, if you would, tell us how long does the victim have to live with the terror? How many years is that average sentence?

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
87. Why exactly would you think I'm defending rape?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:41 AM
Jan 2016

Have you stopped for more than a second to consider that perhaps all of us hate that vile and abhorrent crime and would love nothing more than to stamp it out? Perhaps if you stop attacking for a moment and actually have a conversation you might discover that we share more opinions than you think.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
113. The government are chosen by the people.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:16 AM
Jan 2016

I don't know why you'd call them morally bankrupt, as a country they are much happier and safer than America.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
124. We just got done commemorating Rev. King's birthday because he taught us -- yet again --
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 11:29 AM
Jan 2016

that even elected governments can be morally bankrupt.

And much of his methodology revolved around not obeying unjust laws.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
127. It is not an unjust law, and frankly I finding you using King here to be quite inappropriate.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 11:48 AM
Jan 2016

We're done here.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
138. "It is not an unjust law"
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:08 PM
Jan 2016

It subordinates a person's right to self-defense to violent predators. You chose the law but that does little more than protect the violent sexual predator.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
152. If I hadn't seen that post with my own eyes...
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:43 PM
Jan 2016

If I hadn't seen that post with my own eyes, I might not have believed it.

How completely disgusting.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
172. I have.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 03:52 PM
Jan 2016

The arguments I've seen in this thread are thoroughly disgusting.

They amount to "sorry there was a rape, but the conditions that make it harder to defend against rape are for the greater good".

Yes, thoroughly disgusting indeed.

Response to Nuclear Unicorn (Reply #83)

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
99. This is why there is such a furor in Europe over immigration. It's two years in Germany also.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:01 AM
Jan 2016

Rape conviction rates have been plummeting as rape rates rise, and it is forbidden to discuss why.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_Germany

Denmark, most first offenders get under two years:
http://www.loc.gov/law/foreign-news/article/denmark-higher-penalties-for-rape-and-other-violent-crimes-contemplated/

The maximum is eight. So you could be a serial rapist and get 8 years on your fourth rape, although the chance of being convicted for multiple rapes is so low in Denmark that it's almost unthinkable. The chance of being convicted on a simple rape charge is incredibly low. If you beat your victim into a pulp the police will usually try to investigate, but that's about it.

Sometimes first offenders get parole.

Many women in Denmark don't even report a rape - unless the victim is badly injured, the police are unlikely to pursue it:
http://cphpost.dk/news/denmarks-shockingly-low-rape-conviction-rate.html

According to a study by the Justice Ministry, 3,600 women are raped every year. But since 2010, just 60 of their attackers have been found guilty of the crime every year.

Ulla Thornemand, the head of woman’s group Dansk Kvindesamfund, believes the conviction rate is far too low.

“Too few are being convicted of rape,” Thornemand told Metroxpress. “Over 98 percent of all rapists are never convicted. There is virtually no risk if you rape a woman.”


By badly injured I don't mean all bruised up, either.

There are virtues to the US system. We do not have this problem mostly because women wouldn't stand for it, and in many states, if a rape wave started, offenders would promptly start getting their 'nads blown off, which would deal with the problem.

The situation is not all that different in Germany. There is currently a Russian/German diplomatic scuffle. A 13 year-old German resident girl of Russian extraction disappeared for more than a day. She had been in sexual contact with at least two men. The police did nothing, saying that her story had discrepancies and that the contact was "consensual". In fact, the police first said it didn't happen at all when the story broke on social media in Germany.

The Russians got into the fray and retained the girl's family a lawyer, and now police are investigating the crime, because it is a crime in Germany. Even in Germany, 13 year-olds can't legally consent to group sex with adult men. But the police were doing nothing before Lavrov raised Cain except they put out a statement saying it never happened.

This is the best English-language story I can find on BBC, but FAZ has had more detailed coverage. The German police were doing exactly nothing until the Russian Foreign Minister got involved and they did deny to the press that any rape did happen:
http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-eu-35413134

Note that reporter who wrote about the story and got the Russians involved is having charges laid against him in Germany for "incitement"!

But that's how seriously rape is taken in many countries. Admittedly, the cultural ethos in those countries has been strongly against rape. Then import a large group of men from cultures in which rape or sexual assault against "bad" women is not culturally disfavored, and you have the perfect storm. Then add social pressures not to say anything that might cause anger or distaste against this group, and you have the perfect burqa hurricane.

And I speak of cultures like this:
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2011/nov/04/turkish-court-reduces-rape-sentences

For decades - since I was in college - I have had good Muslim friends. It is not really a problem with Muslim culture, but with cultures with very misogynistic social structures. Islam probably actually teaches against this, but there has a been a warping of those teachings, and it is probably strongest in some Muslim enclaves in Europe and some Muslim enclaves in the midEast and in Africa. It also exists in some countries in Africa that are more Christian, and in rural areas in India, Pakistan and south Asia.

Women in the US have forgotten how fragile our current situation is, and how unique. If the position of women in our culture is not vigilantly defended, we will find out just how real the monster under the bed is.
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
103. Yet America has far, far worse rape statistics than Denmark does
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:04 AM
Jan 2016

And would anyone really disagree that a huge number of rapes in America also go unreported?

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
108. Yes, I would. I am a woman. Of the women I've known who have been raped, the only
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:08 AM
Jan 2016

one who did not report was raped while drunk by a BATF agent who she had known for years and trusted. Obviously I can't prove this story, but I believe the woman who told me. She had an abortion. It wasn't provable, obviously.

Read the links I provided. Think about what they reveal.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
110. Women in Denmark don't even report rape, because they know the police
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:12 AM
Jan 2016

won't pursue it.

Are you going to deny the recent incident in Copenhagen? The police realized they had at least one violent rapist on the loose. They put out a call for information. They promptly got reports of nearly a hundred more assaults.

Scandinavian crime statistics as a whole are way low, because in many cases the police don't investigate. Especially property crime - people will report to get a police report if they are going to make an insurance claim, but otherwise, there is no point really in many areas.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
114. Sorry but you're painting a picture that doesn't reflect reality.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:19 AM
Jan 2016

Yes, they have unreported rapes, but so do every other country. Its a horrific problem that no-one has yet found an adequate way to solve.

The idea that Scandinavia is some hotbed of crime that doesn't get reported though is just complete fantasy, and I say that as someone who lived there for a year. The Scandinavian countries are some of the safest, most prosperous and liberal places on the planet.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
71. Two years?!
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:20 AM
Jan 2016

You have got to be kidding me? That's an outrage! Their prisons are probably cushier than where the migrants are staying now. That's practically an incentive.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
74. That is not true.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:28 AM
Jan 2016
Under Denmark’s Criminal Code, the punishment for rape is “any term not exceeding eight years” in prison, but if the act “has been of a particularly dangerous nature,” or occurs “in particularly aggravating circumstances,” the perpetrator may be sentenced to up to 12 years.
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
92. That's still not nearly enough. Especially if it was particularly violent.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:46 AM
Jan 2016

Rape destroys people's lives. It should be a minimum of at least 25 years.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
94. Europe base their criminal justice systems more around rehabilitation than punishment.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:49 AM
Jan 2016

In cases like rape that can be extremely hard to accept, but the result is that they have far lower prison populations and recidivism.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
65. This is a stupid argument, IMO. If gangs of criminals or individuals with Uzis were
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:08 AM
Jan 2016

wandering the streets of Copenhagen, the police would be dealing with that.

But the police cannot deal with men just walking the streets. Yes, women who are under credible threat of rape should be allowed to carry defensive weaponry, especially when that weaponry is as non-lethal as pepper spray.

To maintain anything else is to show an absolute disregard of a woman's right to use the public spaces, which is in fact the issue here.

Of course no woman would find the threat of a fine more intimidating than the prospect of being violently raped. The net effect of this law is to fine this woman for the right to defend herself, which is inherently bad on two ground:

1) Every human being has the right to basic freedom, which cannot exist if that human being doesn't have the right of self-defense.
2) Fines are higher penalties to the poor, and no penalty at all to the criminal. Thus the law imposes a vicious class structure.
3) Those who can't understand points 1 and 2 are not on the side of virtue, human rights and basic decency.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
73. Sorry, that argument is sexist
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:25 AM
Jan 2016

Saying women should have the legal right to carry weapons but men shouldn't is completely unacceptable. You're branding all women as vulnerable but trustworthy and all men as strong but untrustworthy.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
78. Where did anyone say women only?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:34 AM
Jan 2016

The argument is -- women cannot compete with men on a strength and body weight level, ergo disarming women favors men.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
82. "Yes, women who are under credible threat of rape should be allowed to carry defensive weaponry"
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:38 AM
Jan 2016

Which women? How do you define credible thread? Are men who also consider themselves under credible threat of assault or rape also offered the same rights?

Also what you said is untrue. Men as a group have a higher strength/body weight average, but this is by no means true on an individual basis. There are countless numbers of men who suffer physical domestic abuse from women much larger and stronger. Trying to solve any of these problems purely by drawing gender lines is doomed to failure.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
93. I don't want her to be prosecuted, its not something that gives me any pleasure or happiness
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:47 AM
Jan 2016

But at the same time I can understand why that law is in place, and the fact that breaking that law has in this extremely rare example led to a good outcome doesn't make the law a bad one.

Women in Denmark are far less at risk of rape than in America, yet they have stricter weapon laws.

Dorian Gray

(13,493 posts)
193. You understand why pepper spray is criminalized?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 07:47 AM
Jan 2016

Womp womp.

It's a stupid law.

This woman should not be fined.

And people should be able to carry pepper spray (it's not mace!) to defend themselves.

I do.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
276. If a man is trying to rape me
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 06:12 PM
Jan 2016

and has already gotten to the point of unbuttoning my pants, if an Uzi happens to be at my disposal, the would-be rapist would be full of holes.

If I were in that country with the issues they are having, I would carry a can of wasp and hornet spray. Claim you bought it for your home, fill an attackers face full of it. You just happened to be bringing it home from the store.

Wasp and hornet spray is highly effective at killing wasps, yellow jackets, hornets and convincing muggers, rapists and murderers that you are not the target they are looking for.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
45. You speak as if the genders were generally equal in siz
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:08 AM
Jan 2016

Most men don't need a weapon to attack a woman -- they just use their greater size & strength.... When a group, on average, is 3 inches shorter and 60 lbs lighter thsn their attackers, they need something (like pepper spray) to offset the imbalance.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
144. People who use it in assaults or robberies can be prosecuted for using it inappropriately.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:12 PM
Jan 2016

Women should be able to use it to stop a rape. Pepper spray is not a gun.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
148. It's a potentially dangerous weapon.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:16 PM
Jan 2016

It's also banned in various American states for that same reason.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
180. It shouldn't be banned for defensive purposes. It's insane for any of our states
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 05:41 PM
Jan 2016

Last edited Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:38 PM - Edit history (1)

to allow people to carry guns or knives but not pepper spray.

ON EDIT: It turns out you're wrong about that. With various restrictions based on quantity and strength, pepper spray is legal for defensive purposes in all 50 states.

http://www.pepper-spray-store.com/pages/states

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
157. Not defenseless but
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:59 PM
Jan 2016

No guns, no knives, no pepper spray...

What do you recommend a rape victim use to defend herself? A stern tone of voice or should she pee herself?

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
5. Laws regarding pepper spray vary and there are many types and strengths of pepper spray
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:55 AM
Jan 2016

most places even in the US require one to over 18 to possess pepper although laws vary by state

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pepper_spray

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
18. I do not care. She defended herself from a criminal.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:15 AM
Jan 2016

That should be all that is required to exempt her from prosecution. If the law cannot account for that simple fact then the law is unworthy of obedience.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
20. would you restrict the sale to women only? what's to stop an assailant from purchasing it and using
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:20 AM
Jan 2016

it on a victim? also pepper spray is serious stuff it can blind and potentially kill if sprayed into the nose/mouteta even in most places where pepper spray is legal to carry it's restricted to those over 18, which this girl was not

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
25. No the law does not prevent that and I edited my original comment to add
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:33 AM
Jan 2016

that even in most places where pepper spray is legal the sale and use is restricted to people over 18, this girl was 17

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
28. So what of her age? Does her age somehow obligate her to remain defenseless?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:39 AM
Jan 2016

If she had been attacked by a gun wielding assailant but managed to wrest the gun from him and send him running would you have her charged for being a minor in possession of a firearm?

She felt the need to defend herself because sexual assaults in her area have increased with no relief from the authorities. Her prudence was obviously justified. Had they not shown themselves to be such failures she never would have been carrying the pepper spray in the first place.

If the law and order crowd is so damned concerned about law and order they should do something about the rapists before charging a girl for having the temerity to embarrass them in public over their failures to protect the citizenry.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
32. Taking a gun from an assailant is quite a bit different from possessing a gun yourself
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:50 AM
Jan 2016

and the rest of you know this as a fact? you think teenagers should be running around with potentially lethal weapons-just in case? I pointed the facts surrounding pepper spray, nothing else, now you try to make me out as some sort of cop booster?, nothing could be further from the truth

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
39. The authorities failed to protect. The people are not obligated to remain defenseless.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:00 AM
Jan 2016

Had she been caught committing a crime while possessing pepper spray or any other weapon then I would not protest the law coming down on her but all she did -- all she ever intended to do -- was defend herself. The fact she had to defend herself should exempt her from prosecution.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
44. No person who defends themelves from a criminal predaor should also have to
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:08 AM
Jan 2016

defend themselves from the civil authorities who failed to protect them in the first place. Governments are not self-existing, people institute governments for protection. The government is supposed to protect/facilitate the protection of the people not prosecute the people for daring to protect themselves.

When the government fails in its duty, or worse, becomes a threat itself it loses its claim to the obedience of the people.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
58. Well, if it went to a jury and I were on that jury, the girl would walk.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:45 AM
Jan 2016

Pepper spray is a pretty non-lethal choice, and pretty effective. It's a reasonable option in such an instance.

The Danes have knives in their kitchens. If a predator wants a weapon, they are all over. Outlawing pepper spray hurts the defenders more than the predators.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
84. She is facing a fine, per the article, not jail time.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:39 AM
Jan 2016

That said, she shouldn't have to pay any fines for defending herself.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
102. Well, she wouldn't if I had anything to say about it, and if she does get fined,
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:03 AM
Jan 2016

Danish women's groups should band together and pay the fine, and announce that they will do so in all such future cases.

Because this is not law, but organized, legal injustice.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
41. +1000
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:03 AM
Jan 2016

That's total bullshit! I can't believe what people are posting. What the hell is she supposed to do?

NutmegYankee

(16,199 posts)
4. Pepper Spray is a very effective defensive tool for women.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:54 AM
Jan 2016

Any society that bans this tool is misogynistic, preferring to leave women defenseless against a stronger male attacker.

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
9. That seems a rather harsh and broadbush indictment.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:59 AM
Jan 2016

Do you really believe they banned pepper spray because they hate women? A quick check shows many countries around the world ban them. Oddly enough Saudi Arabia and India, two rather misogynistic countries don't ban pepper spray.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
13. ah yaaa Sweden, Norway, the UK , Iceland are all known for their misogyny-rrrright
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:08 AM
Jan 2016

checkout the list of places where pepper spray is legal for anyone to carry

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pepper_spray

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
27. Given the high rates of sexual assault in much of Europe,
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:39 AM
Jan 2016

pepper spray and other forms of defense, including firearms, may indeed be both appropriate and necessary, particularly in countries like Sweden and Denmark, to say nothing of the effects of increased fears and worsening crime resulting from the influx of migrants.

http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/mar/05/violence-against-women-eu
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_Sweden
https://www.google.com/#q=sexual+crimes+statistics+europe&safe=off&start=0
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
42. In fact, it should be mandatory.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:05 AM
Jan 2016

Women are under very high threat and defenseless in those countries.

PersonNumber503602

(1,134 posts)
133. Are you saying discussing rape statistics is xenophobia just because the statistics are for another
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 12:47 PM
Jan 2016

country? I hope I am misunderstanding your post.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
139. Looks to me like you are blaming much of it on the migrants. And what statistics are in your post?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:09 PM
Jan 2016
Given the high rates of sexual assault in much of Europe, pepper spray and other forms of defense, including firearms, may indeed be both appropriate and necessary, particularly in countries like Sweden and Denmark, to say nothing of the effects of increased fears and worsening crime resulting from the influx of migrants.
bold is mine.

Is crime against migrants, especially sexual crimes, unheard of in Europe? Do migrants even have a voice to be heard? Which is the most vulnerable population in your estimation? How many crimes against migrants go unreported? Do you have no curiosity for the migrants side of the story?

Do you just want to blame it on the "others"?

PersonNumber503602

(1,134 posts)
145. That actually wasn't my post.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:14 PM
Jan 2016

I can't speak for the person who wrote it. However, I can put my thoughts out there.

The police in those countries are saying there has been a marked upswing in reported sexual assaults since the migrants came. That's just a fact. Now the exact cause of that can be debated and discussed tell everyone is blue in the face, but that doesn't change the fact that there has been an increase in sexual assaults. Whether this is because the migrants are committing the assaults, or something like the natives of those countries are taking advantage of the situation to go out and assault women thinking it would get blamed on migrants, is irrelevant to the topic at hand. Which is that women in these countries are facing higher chances of sexual assault at this time.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
80. Well yeah they are. Some of the highest sexual assault rates in the industrialized world
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:35 AM
Jan 2016

Watch a Von Trier movie some time.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
121. Oh no, even by the official stats it's quite high in India
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:40 AM
Jan 2016

And that doesn't even get into the under-reporting.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
104. Of course!!! The law should forbid misuse, and allow self-defensive use.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:04 AM
Jan 2016

Otherwise, it's "we just don't give a flying fuck about you," which IS actually the case in Denmark.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
182. Exactly. Some of the comments here are shameful.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:09 PM
Jan 2016

People in this thread are actually arguing she should have not possessed pepper spray. So what, better to be raped than break a stupid law?

Fuck that. This thread is embarrassing.

 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
6. Dude
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:56 AM
Jan 2016

Are you for real? You don't acknowledge that laws can be unjust? You've never hears of civil disobedience? You really think unjust laws must be obeyed until they are changed? Do you not realize that disobeying an unjust law is usually what it takes to change them? Does Rosa Parks ring a bell? Are you in the right place here? If a woman cannot defend herself with pepper spray, what's left? She should carry a legal weapon such as a gun or a knife instead?

Response to Flying Squirrel (Reply #6)

 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
14. Ok, to answer your original question
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:09 AM
Jan 2016

Pepper spray is one of the best non-lethal defenses a woman can use against an attacker. It is widely used for this purpose. A person has the absolute right to defend themself, and if they aren't able to do so physically then they should have some options. That's why it's an unjust law.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
89. Forget it. Let me take a wild guess. Everyone who is defending this decision is male.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:45 AM
Jan 2016

It absolutely disgusts me how little they care about how awful the threat of rape is for a woman.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
12. Europe is not like America.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:02 AM
Jan 2016

Their societies are not structured around the idea that people need to defend themselves every minute of the day and night. The idea of carrying a weapon everywhere you go is complete anathema to most Europeans, which is one of the reasons they have so much lower murder rates.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
16. Even in the US pepper spray is not across the board legal for anyone to carry
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:11 AM
Jan 2016

the laws vary greatly by state

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
223. You are romanticizing and generalizing about Europe
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 12:16 PM
Jan 2016

in such an odd way.

Europe includes dozens of countries, hundreds of millions of people, and a wide range of cultures, governmental structures, and opinions about society.

In several posts on this thread, you talk about how Europe is and how Europeans are and what Europeans think as though it is one massive monolith of homogeneity. It's just not the case.

I wanted to stay out of this thread but I just can't help but point this out. Others are doing a great job debating the details with you but the way you romanticize it is driving me crazy.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
225. I'm writing this from Europe where I'm currently living, so I feel quite qualified to do so.
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 12:21 PM
Jan 2016

When I talk about Europe, I'm talking about the attitudes of the major western democracies like France, Germany and the UK along with countries like the Scandinavian and Benelux countries. They each have their own differences obviously, but there are shared values that are very different from America. There are people across Europe who make the same arguments as some of the people in this thread with regards to self defense, yet those arguments disappear very quickly over here when reports of the levels of violence in America hit the news.

I'm also not romancing it. There are positives and negatives to all of this, but what is annoying me was the initial false narrative that Denmark (one of the safest and most gender equal countries in the world) was some backwards throwback where women don't have any rights.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
15. And what is this, "Women should appeal to their government to change the law" crap?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:10 AM
Jan 2016

"Women should appeal" because apparently this is a woman's problem, exclusively; which is just a shade from it being her fault.

"Women should appeal"

Should women appeal before or after they're violently raped?

Assuming they're not murdered during the assault, that is; she should appeal but she shouldn't fight with whatever means are at her disposal. Maybe she should just lie back and try to relax until it is over.

Then, after being prodded and swabbed at the hospital for a kit that will probably never be tested she should wipe-off, shower-off and wait for the swelling to go down. Then, at some time between therapy sessions she can see if Parliament is having a committee meeting about the matter so as to not inconvenience them and she can put on a pretty dress to look her best for the men she'll stand in front of and demurely say, "Please, sirs, can we not be charged as criminals for fighting off our attackers?"

Asif it should have ever had to have been asked in the first place.

Sorry to have interrupted your frat party with my petty concerns.

Response to Nuclear Unicorn (Reply #15)

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
49. Pardon not granted as I am disinclined to seek favor with those having obvious control issues.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:24 AM
Jan 2016

A girl has to be on guard for these sorts of things, you know.

Judging from your posting history your concern for what is or isn't legal in a country is rather selective. If only the safety of women rated with you as highly as a good Thai stick does. Do the munchies give you a craving for rolling donuts?

Response to Nuclear Unicorn (Reply #49)

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
53. Yes, they should, but the law is still unjust.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:41 AM
Jan 2016

If you take a hundred random women and you take a hundred random women and pair them off randomly, the male will be able to physically subdue the female at least 80% of the time. Thus a law like this is fundamentally patriarchal.

Laws that facilitate might making right are inherently unjust to the weak. There will always be strong predators.

Misuse of a defensive weapon such as pepper spray should be illegal - it's assault, and it probably already is in Denmark. Misuse should be prosecuted.

It is not the inherent function of law to forbid the weak innocents from defending themselves effectively against the strong predators. It is the inherent function of the law to defend the innocent, and most especially the weak innocent who are naturally more likely to be victims.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
141. lol. That will comfort her as she pays a fine for having to use pepper spray on a creep. I'll
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:10 PM
Jan 2016

just bet she feels all kinds of fucking equal.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
147. It's a shame it was applicable in this case
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:15 PM
Jan 2016

But she has exactly the same rights as any other Dane. That's what equality means.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
149. Lol. Sure, slavery and subjugation and assault mean equality, the right to be attacked
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:20 PM
Jan 2016

like anyone else.

What a bunch of drivel. Sounds like an analysis out of Evilhair's campaign.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
151. And yet despite all your huffing and puffing
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:37 PM
Jan 2016

Danes are happier, safer and live longer healthier lives than Americans.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
153. Danes other than the victim in this case.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:52 PM
Jan 2016
Danes are happier, safer and live longer healthier lives than Americans.


Danes other than the victim in this case.

But I'm sure if she sees your post, she'll find comfort in it.
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
161. Remind me of the single gun crime incident which caused everyone to suddenly try and regulate
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:05 PM
Jan 2016

Because last time I checked the mass shootings were happening weekly. At that point its not a single outlier.

Did I really think I had a point? Do you people even listen to yourself? All I'm seeing here is the typical arrogance about how bad other countries are at doing things, completely ignoring the statistical evidence that they are safer, more happy, more healthy and have more gender and social equality.

Oh but those foreigners must be doing it wrong, because 'Murica.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
164. See sandy hook.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:23 PM
Jan 2016

See every noteworthy shooting.

At that point its not a single outlier.


BS. A mass shooting is by definition in a nation of 300 million people and 300 million firearms and 80 million gun owners, 99.9 percent of which do not shoot anyone ever, A STATISTICAL OUTLIER. Which some people seem only too happy use as justification to regulate.

Do you believe some statistical outliers are more equal than others?

Did I really think I had a point? Do you people even listen to yourself? All I'm seeing here is the typical arrogance about how bad other countries are at doing things, completely ignoring the statistical evidence that they are safer, more happy, more healthy and have more gender and social equality.


That's a nice misrepresentation. I never said "how bad" anything.

Oh but those foreigners must be doing it wrong, because 'Murica.


And another misrepresentation.

When you have to stoop to misrepresenting what others have said or the sentiments they have expressed, you've clearly lost the debate.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
166. Sandy Hook and the other mass shootings
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:30 PM
Jan 2016

Are just the most visible signs of a problem that kills 30,000 people a year. It's not just the mass shootings and it never was.

The reason the Danes don't want people carrying weapons is because they don't want the same kind of armed, confrontational society that America has. Yes they occasionally have terrible stories where a weapon would have helped someone, but on the flip side they don't have huge numbers of their citizens trying to hurt and kill each other.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
171. Another misrepresentation.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 03:44 PM
Jan 2016
Sandy Hook and the other mass shootings Are just the most visible signs of a problem that kills 30,000 people a year.


That's utter nonsense. Sandy hook is no sign of suicides, which take 20,000 of the 30,000 people you refer to.

Yes they occasionally have terrible stories where a weapon would have helped someone, but on the flip side they don't have huge numbers of their citizens trying to hurt and kill each other.


So its a case of "I'm alright jack..."

10 thousand is not "huge" in a nation of 300 million people. And, nothing you've said, refutes in any way, anything I've said.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
173. Not a lot? Damn right it's a lot!
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 04:02 PM
Jan 2016

It's a murder rate that no Western European country would tolerate for a second. Which is why they don't tolerate people filling their houses with personal damn arsenals.

Lets drop this, we aren't going to come to any kind of agreement or understanding.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
174. In your own words, a statistical OUTLIER.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 04:53 PM
Jan 2016
Not a lot? Damn right it's a lot!


In your own words, a statistical OUTLIER. But thanks for proving that in your view, some outliers are more equal than others.

It's a murder rate that no Western European country would tolerate for a second.


Our murder rate by firearms has been going down for 20 years, in spite of tens of millions of more guns sold. Kinda hard to blame the gun, unless you hate them and they are all you can see.

Lets drop this, we aren't going to come to any kind of agreement or understanding.


You're right. We aren't. Particularly when the best argument in this thread from those on the other side of this threads topic is "its too bad she was raped, but not allowing x for her to defend hersef with is for the greater good.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
177. No not a statistic outlier
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 05:03 PM
Jan 2016

A national disgrace. As for the rest, every law is for the public good. Trying to twist this poor woman's story to try and score cheap points is revolting. Go spin with someone else.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
181. 10,000 incidents in a nation of 300,000,000 is the textbook definition...
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 06:42 PM
Jan 2016

10,000 mostly individual incidents in a nation of 300,000,000 is the textbook definition of 'statistical outliers'.

As for the rest, every law is for the public good.


You believe Citizens United is for the public good? Really?

You believe that laws that allow open carry are for the public good? Surely not.

You believe laws that allow concealed carry are for the public good? I very much doubt it.

You believe laws that outlaw abortion like those being proposed in FL are for the public good? Suuureee you do.

You believe that The Protection of Lawful Commerce in Arms Act is for the public good? uh huh.

You believe the Heller decision on amendment 2 is for the public good? Sure you do.

Will this lead to some clarification on your part, that amounts to "laws I agree with are for the public good"?

That's not spin. That's you twisting in the wind, hoist on your own petard, though I can understand your confusion.

Trying to twist this poor woman's story to try and score cheap points is revolting.


I'm not the one taking the position that 'its for the greater good' when a woman is raped, and charged with having pepper spray. And that position, is the ONLY thing that could be accurately described as 'cheap', in this thread.




 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
192. Twisting in the wind?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 03:50 AM
Jan 2016

Now that's funny.

The concept of having laws in the first place is intended to provide for the common good. Our entire justice system is built on the principle of seperating the individual instance from the system because if you allow emotion into the judicial system you get stupid and badly thought out results. A bit like here where a group of people are unable to see the long term dangers to society of allowing people to carry dangerous weapons, because they are too emotionally caught up in the detail of a single case.

Of course the easy thing to do would be to sit and spout meaningless platitudes and accuse anyone who has a differing opinion of not caring about the victim, but I see you already have that lazy position staked out so I'll leave you to it.

Enjoy defending the right to carry weapons, and I'm sure next time someone is pepper sprayed and raped that you'll be along to scream about how appalling it is that people are allowed to just carry that stuff around.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
198. So opposition to rape is being "emotionally caught up"
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 08:25 AM
Jan 2016

You've demonstrated quite exhaustively that you subordinate the safety of people, even would be rape victims to Duh Rulz. Innocent people are just collateral damage, apparently.

The greatest social and political awakenings in history were born from civil disobedience, the refusal to obey bad law, the refusal to obey law simply because it was law. We stand with the Underground Railroad, the draft dodgers, the civil rights protesters, Stonewall rioters, miners illegally striking and all the others.

You stand with whom, exactly? Those who opposed them whether from personal ambition or timid obedience? Do you think they will take care of you? They can't even protect a 17-year old girl walking down her own streets.

There is no duty to be raped to satisfy words on paper written by politicians.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
200. You want to throw away rules designed to protect public safety
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 09:07 AM
Jan 2016

Despite all the evidence showing their society to be safer. So yes, you're emotionally caught up in this.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
206. 1. There is no correlation between weapons and crime
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 10:30 AM
Jan 2016

2. Design and effect can often completely different things, as this case demonstrates

3. Innocent people defending themselves does nothing to degrade public safety

4. Allowing criminals to prey upon a helpless populace does improve public safety

5. No person is obligated to be a helpless victim. Any law that leads to that effect is unjust.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
199. Societal dangers of allowing people to carry dangerous weapons?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 08:39 AM
Jan 2016

Are you kidding?

This thread is not a rehash of our American gun debate. For heaven's sake, we are only talking about the right to carry totally non-lethal, non-damaging pepper spray!

In any event, the reason why this story is newsworthy is because this girl responsibly used a totally non-lethal product to fend-off an actual rape (and to add insult to injury, her attacker has not yet been apprehended), yet she is the one being prosecuted. It matters not at all that she likely only faces a small fine. She should be congratulated on her quick thinking and reflexes and offered therapy, and most certainly no re-victimized by the state.

If this was the USA, even in ultra-liberal jurisdiction like San Francisco, if a prosecutor did not exercise his or her discretion and merely suggested criminal charges, it would be the end of their political career.

Anyone should be allowed an effective means to defend themselves from serious harm, no less young women in bad areas employing products that yield no significant or permanent damage to their assailants. Most would argue it's a human right. This is even without any consideration of the current political and practical problems concerning increased violent crime committed by refugees (the woman's attacker was described as "dark skinned" in Denmark).

Ironically, it's attitudes like yours and others that effectively mandate victimhood and defenseless that fuel the right wing, discredit liberals, particularly on matters concerning criminal justice and immigration, and in the USA, ensure gun control is a losing issue for Democrats. As an American matter, that's why claims by people like President Obama and Hillary Clinton that they purportedly support gun rights and don't want to disarm anyone ring quite hollow. When people on our side defend not just policies against firearms, but everything relating to self-defense, good-faith is shattered. As I indicated earlier, if we are the ones highlighting the war on women, why should we expected them to fight this war literally unarmed. Issues like pay equity and other feminist causes are meaningless if women cannot even feel safe walking in the own neighborhoods.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
201. "totally non-lethal, non-damaging pepper spray"?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 09:11 AM
Jan 2016

Except it can kill people and even when used as intended and non-lethally 'can involve pain, discomfort, temporary blindness and respiratory issues'.

http://www.theguardian.com/world/the-lay-scientist/2011/nov/22/how-dangerous-is-pepper-spray

Pepper spray is not some harmless toy, its potentially extremely harmful and should only be used by trained professionals as an alternative to otherwise lethal methods.

Ignoring all this because in this instance breaking the law helped an innocent person is just ignoring the entire reason we have laws. If this story was about someone who had pepper sprayed a girl and then raped her, how many of you would still be lining up to cheerlead for the public carrying of pepper spray?

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
205. Of course pepper spray, and virtually all realistic self-defense tools,
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 10:10 AM
Jan 2016

will involve some pain, discomfort and/or means to disable an attacker. That's precisely the point! Your don't stop an violent attacker with feathers, skittles and happy thoughts.

You can also dispense with the ridiculous straw man arguments. Neither I nor anyone else here suggested pepper spray was a "harmless toy." It is a tool, nothing more, nothing less. Most importantly, pepper spray is at least minimally effective at its designated task, and highly unlikely to cause permanent or lethal injuries (although I personally care not one iota if an actual rapist suffers serious or debilitating injuries while in the commission of the crime, an opinion shared by the vast majority of people liberal and otherwise, and I further support far more effective, and generally lethal, self-defense tools).

I also believe you're really missing the point in much of this discussion. Even a relatively average healthy young man can easily overpower and sexually assault most women. It sadly happens every day. Rapists and other violent criminals don't need pepper spray to employ their violence, but for most women, the sick and elderly, etc., it's one of the only tools available that gives them any fighting chance at all, no less without much risk to others (as the story of the girl in the OP amply demonstrates). Your perspective is little more than demanding we apply law of the jungle, the strong prey on the weak, and it is most decidedly illiberal and unprogressive.

Lastly, you totally failed to address my point about prosecutorial discretion. Even you concede this girl should not face any penalties under the circumstances. Nevertheless, you appear to support prosecution to ensure women, at least in Denmark, don't even consider any proper means to protect themselves. The women (and anyone else) subject to violent assaults are simply unfortunate faceless statistical anomalies in you entirely mythical question quest for a human society free of all violence.

Ironically, all that demanding victimhood and defenseless in the face of increasing risks to public and personal safety will do is ensure that liberal candidates lose more and more elections, both here and overseas. This is the very reason for the overwhelming shock, disgust and anger in response to the OP's story, as demonstrated by the reactions in numerous other media outlets and here on DU by a very liberal membership.


 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
214. I'm not missing anything
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 11:00 AM
Jan 2016

You're supporting a discretionary reading of law where a police officer gets to decide whether a law should apply in one case but not another. It's a terribly flawed way to run a legal system and certainly not one that stands up to any kind of scrutiny.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
218. Flawed way to run the legal system?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 11:18 AM
Jan 2016

Do you even know what the heck you're talking about?

First, the state prosecutor (or Danish equivalent), not the police, decide whether to pursue criminal charges. Even if a law is broken, the state need not prosecute. This prosecutorial discretion underpins and is essential to virtually all advanced western legal systems. By way of reference, it is exactly the same power that President Obama is attempting to use to prevent the deportation of hundreds of thousands of undocumented migrants in the USA or that local prosecutors use daily both in the USA and Europe to not charge various protesters, usually concerning liberal causes, despite many technical and minor violations of the law. If prosecutors were actually required to pursue every criminal legal violation, every modern criminal justice system would grind to an immediate halt.

YOU want this case prosecuted, but it is not a legally required. Considering the public outcry and the fact that the rape victim is a danger to no one, I wouldn't be surprised if the Danish authorities quickly decide to drop it entirely lest they face the anger of their electorate, particularly since those same authorities haven't yet actually managed to apprehend the rapist.

Lastly, I note once again that you conspicuously avoid responding to my actual arguments and instead offer straw men claims and now a clearly demonstrated lack of understanding about western criminal legal systems.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
261. If a woman pulls a can of pepper spray to defend herself
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 06:20 AM
Jan 2016

There's a definite chance that a stronger attacker will turn that weapon against her. Horrible but unfortunately true.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
268. Hey, I was the one saying
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 06:21 AM
Jan 2016

Women are not always the weaker ones in conflicts higher up the thread. The poor was just that if a woman feels she needs a weapon because she's worried about being overpowered, having a weapon can sometimes hurt more than help.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
271. You can walk around unprotected
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 01:58 PM
Jan 2016

and letting shit happen to you. I happen to like my Smith & Wesson.

I'd like to see someone try to take it from me!

christx30

(6,241 posts)
267. I'm ok with
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 06:21 PM
Jan 2016

'pain, discomfort, temporary blindness and respiratory issues' if it happens to rapists. That's the point. It causes pain to get someone to get away from you. It causes blindness so they can't see you to retaliate against it. It causes problems with the attacker's breathing so they want to get that part fixed first before hurting you. That allows you to get away from them and get to safety. You want to avoid that kind of thing in the future? Stop attempting to rape women.
If there were a self defense weapon that caused uncontrollable euphoria that incapacitated someone with hugs and puppies, would you be ok with that?

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
269. I don't give a damn if it's a rapist being hurt
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 06:22 AM
Jan 2016

That was just about how dangerous it can be when people use it to assault people, which you'd see a lot more of if it was legal to carry it.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
272. How do you suggest a smaller woman
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 04:02 PM
Jan 2016

fend off an attacker? Harsh language?
I guess the occasional fine is just the price you have to pay for living in a country that care more about compliance than it cares about the safety of the individual citizen.
They can't really catch you unless you have to use it. Then it's just a small fine as opposed to years of therapy and everything that comes after an attack.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
275. And for the outliers like the woman in the OP,
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 05:58 PM
Jan 2016

just what? "Sucks to be you."
How about rewording the law as "it's illegal to carry, but a victim of a crime will not be prosecuted."
Right there you have coverage to prosecute the bad guys, while leaving the good people protected. Everyone wins. Except for the attempted rapist, clawing his eyes out before going to prison for 15 years.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
202. Complete bullshit, and I already said I have no interest in talking to you.
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 09:12 AM
Jan 2016

Pretending other people are defending rape when they simply refuse to join your little chorus of poorly thought out and reactionary shouting is despicable and I want no part in it or you.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
208. When the decision came between the law or stopping a rapist you chose the law as higher importance.
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 10:34 AM
Jan 2016

Victims are subordinate to your authoritarianism.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
213. It's not crap if it's what you've been saying the entire thread: law > rape victims
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 10:59 AM
Jan 2016

Feel free to call out the post number where you made any statement coming close to assert the victim's right o defend herself as higher importance than obeying the law.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
215. The right to self defense does not give you a right to carry illegal weapons
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 11:08 AM
Jan 2016

On the off chance that you might be one of the extremely small number of people who ever have to face that kind of attack. It doesn't, because otherwise you have to legalize the carrying of those weapons to everyone. You can't have a law that says women can carry pepper spray but men can't because it would fly in the face of equality and be shot down immediately by any kind of constitutional checks and balances. If you allow everyone to carry pepper spray, then you massively increase the number of people using pepper spray for illegal purposes and create a situation where the police have to actually catch people after the fact, rather than be able to reduce crime overall by possession itself being an offence.

Basically you're supporting a vigilante approach to justice which only America in the western democracies thinks is ok. It's also one of the key reasons why America has many more murders than other western nations because the same stupid logic is applied to gun possession.

We all feel emotion when it comes to terrible crimes, but there's a damn good reason why emotive appeals should have no place in lawmaking.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
220. PLEASE!!
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 11:35 AM
Jan 2016
emotive appeals should have no place in lawmaking


Warn people before you say something like that!

Emotive appeals are the core of anti-self defense proponents. It is the first rule in the manual.


The right to self defense does not give you a right to carry illegal weapons

A society may indeed limit access to weapons. Yet when every means of self defense is proscribed then the importance of the individual has lost meaning and victimhood is simply the cost an individual pays for the good of society.

Your lack of reply to my question above about what means of self defense should be legal speaks loudly.
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
224. Yes the individual is less important than the society
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 12:17 PM
Jan 2016

But what always gets overlooked in these discussions is that the society is a collection of individuals. The vast majority of rapes are committed by people known to the victim, and carrying a weapon in public will not help in most of those situations. Women being raped in public by a total stranger is (thankfully) extremely rare, and carrying a weapon can just as often result in that weapon being turned against the victim as it does actually help. So you have a situation where the equation (and sadly it really is an equation) comes down to either a largely imaginary feeling of increased safety vs the actual safety of a much, much larger number of people.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
230. Societies vary.
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 04:47 PM
Jan 2016

In American society it isn't quite that simple. Individuals enjoy much closer to equal footing here with 'society', and a great many of us prefer it that way.

...and carrying a weapon can just as often result in that weapon being turned against the victim as it does actually help.


'Can'. And yet, here in the states where people can and do carry defensive tools, it doesn't seem to be happening quite to the extent you'd have everyone believe. I doubt very much it would manifest itself on your side of the pond in any significant way, unless your society is more violent than ours, which we know not to be the case. In any event, the "outcome" is something we individuals would prefer to have say so in ourselves at the point of contact, rather having it decided for us. Theres nothing wrong in any way with that, morally or ethically, regardless of what nation one lives in.


So you have a situation where the equation (and sadly it really is an equation) comes down to either a largely imaginary feeling of increased safety vs the actual safety of a much, much larger number of people.


First, Its not an equation. Its a belief. A strongly held belief, but a belief nonetheless. Nothing more.

Second, the situation as you describe it is based on a belief of what WILL happen, not of what 'can' happen. You jumped right from 'can' to 'will' without ever using those words or skipping a beat. Cute.

Its not a matter of 'comes down to', its a matter of you side with the collective over the individual, based on nothing more than 'belief', even when the individual is a rape victim. As you have the entire thread. What you're attempting to do, and poorly I might add, is dress your arguments up with misleading terminology and subtle fear mongering, thinking nobody will notice that you're doing it. There was nothing 'imaginary' about the increased safety that the victim in the OP was provided, and it did not effect the safety of "a much, much larger number of people".
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
234. Ok you are fine with using a single case
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 05:33 PM
Jan 2016

While ignoring the statistics that show your position to be completely wrong. That's ok, I expected nothing less. Have a nice life in the echo chamber.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
236. Excuse me?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 05:42 PM
Jan 2016
While ignoring the statistics that show your position to be completely wrong.


How can there be statistics when it isn't allowed in the first place? What are the statistics for pepper spray use in Denmark? They don't allow it? Then how in the fuck can there be statistics on it then, eh?

Furthermore, I can't ignore what you haven't presented to prop up your argument.

That's ok, I expected nothing less.


When you provide nothing, how can you expect anything more?

Have a nice life in the echo chamber.


Hah. What you want, is an echo chamber. A society where the individual gets plowed under in the name of society, is nothing BUT an echo chamber.



 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
238. Bullshit
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 06:02 PM
Jan 2016

Yeah it's all about the right of an individual to protect themselves. The same argument that has millions of guns pouring across the nation year on year. Except you don't want to own that do you, you want this to be about a single case of a girl who managed to fight off a rapists. Fuck the societal implications of what you're supporting, fuck the evidence of a society that doesn't follow your bullshit and which as a result is far safer and happier. No, you have your point to prove, and you're going to fight it to the end, and anyone who calls you on that must be a rape apologist.

And people act surprised when nothing ever changes..

 

friendly_iconoclast

(15,333 posts)
240. Not bullshit at all-you've produced no evidence. What you promote is the ethos of Inspector Javert
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 07:41 PM
Jan 2016
Fuck the societal implications of what you're supporting, fuck the evidence of a society that doesn't follow your bullshit and which as a result is far safer and happier.


You've been implying all along that allowing pepper-spray use will somehow damage Danish society.

Which brings a question to mind:

What are the societal implications of demanding that a victim of attempted rape
'take one for the team'?
 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
241. Not once have you provided anything to back up your assertions.
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 08:14 PM
Jan 2016
Bullshit


Not once have you provided anything to back up your assertions during your exchange with me. Not a single time.

Free hint: "bullshit" doesn't qualify.

Yeah it's all about the right of an individual to protect themselves.


Any society which does not allow its citizens reasonable tools to protect themselves, is as sick as the thinking that leads to such a society, which is to say disturbingly, disgustingly sick.

The same argument that has millions of guns pouring across the nation year on year. Except you don't want to own that do you...


I own that competely. I support private individual gun ownership. It happens to be a right in this country, not a privilege or a boon granted by authority. As it should be. Your nation (IIRC) and what is now mine had a little disagreement about such philosophical differences a couple hundred years ago. You are, I expect, aware of how that turned out.

..., you want this to be about a single case of a girl who managed to fight off a rapists.


The OP is about a girl who managed to fight off a rapist. You're trying to make this about guns.

Fuck the societal implications of what you're supporting, fuck the evidence of a society that doesn't follow your bullshit and which as a result is far safer and happier.


You've provided no such evidence. You simply assert that it exists, and we should take your word that it exists and indicates what you insinuate it does. That's not how debate works, at least on this side of the pond.

And you know what else? As far as I'm concerned, FUCK any society which does not allow its citizens reasonable tools for self defense. Is that perfectly crystal clear enough for you?

The rape victim in the OP would not have been safer or happier with out the pepper spray, and you know what, you can't refute that. Its not debatable. The best you can do, is continue to post factual devoid substance free irrelevant diatribes claiming that society is more important, as you have. Pretty much everyone in this thread sees it too.

No, you have your point to prove, and you're going to fight it to the end, and anyone who calls you on that must be a rape apologist.


Not quite. Not even close. The point has already been proven. You can ignore that, and pretend to your hearts content that such isn't the case, but your denial can't make the facts disappear.

Also, I have to question your attempt to put your words into my mouth. I never used the words "rape apologist". I simply said that when it comes to the individual vs society, you side with society, even when the individual is a rape victim. That's not an opinion, that's a fact. All it takes is a brief perusal of this thread, which everyone is entirely free to do for themselves, to see it. It sticks out like a sore thumb. That it makes you uncomfortable when people point it out, would make a thinking person re-examine their beliefs. But not you, you're a true believer. If you're hearing the words "rape apologist" where those words aren't used, its possible however unlikely, that your conscience is talking to you, but I expect its just you trying to defend the indefensible.

Finally, you present zero evidence to support your claims assertions and insinuations. You refuse to address anything others say to you. Basically you just keep posting non-sequiturs strawmen and misrepresentations. Maybe that constitutes debate in your circles, but it doesn't on DU.
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
242. Conscience? Oh my conscience is just fine
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 02:44 AM
Jan 2016

As for evidence, I posted multiple links up thread to things like stats showing the Danes having far lower levels of rape than America. But of course they're the ones with the 'disgustingly sick' society. Less rapes, less murders higher on the indexes for happiness and health, but very few guns so 'fuck their society' right?

You couldn't make this shit up, seriously.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
243. Oh, I completely believe that.
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 05:20 AM
Jan 2016
Conscience? Oh my conscience is just fine


Oh, I completely believe that. What you don't seem to understand, is that your clear conscience indicates much about your position, none of it good. Or maybe you're completely aware of how it makes you look, and just don't care. The reader can decide for themselves, but either way, it paints quite an unflattering picture.

As for evidence, I posted multiple links up thread to things like stats showing the Danes having far lower levels of rape than America.


I don't doubt that you did, however, such stats are meaningless to this debate. The rape victim in the Op is not a number, and I'd be very interested in seeing the look on her face if she saw you reducing her to one. Frankly, it doesn't matter if the stats you quote show that theres only 1 rape per year. Denying people reasonable tools of self defense is wrong, and theres simply no legitimate justification for it. The best you can do, amounts to "individuals must take one for the team", which is unethical immoral, and anything BUT liberal. Its indefensible, and everyone in this thread gets it, except you.

But of course they're the ones with the 'disgustingly sick' society.


If they deny their individual citizens effective tools of self defense, yes. Yes they are. If I were made aware of a society where one was not allowed a fire extinguisher, where the old, the infirm, and the physically weak/vulnerable could only rely on the fire department to put out fires for ANY reason, I'd call it sick too and so would everyone else. And We'd all be right, just like we are now.

Less rapes, less murders higher on the indexes for happiness and health, but very few guns so 'fuck their society' right?


Less rapes? SO what This isn't about how many there are, this is about what options potential victims are allowed by 'society', at the point of contact. Less murders? Non-sequitur. This isn't about the degree to which a society has problems. That's not the metric being used here. Higher on the indexes for happiness and health? Non-sequitur. Again, this isn't about the degree to which a society has problems. That's not the metric being used here. But very few guns? You're still trying to make this about guns? Hello? Haven't you been paying attention? This is about PEPPER SPRAY. I find your attempts to make this about guns to be parochial, sophomoric, and pathetic. And I'm only being that charitable to stay within posting rules here. You are incapable of creating that rabbit hole and enticing me into going down it. That you continue to try, smacks of desperation. Grasping at straws. And strawmen.

so 'fuck their society'


Yup. Fuck that society. It may not have occurred to you, but the rape victim in the OP said "fuck this society" the moment she bought pepper spray. It only makes sense, that your ire is as great toward her for saying it through action, as it is toward me for uttering the words. You should think about that for a minute. Really hard. Would you feel the same way if your mother had been the victim?



 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
248. I think this says it all..
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 05:57 AM
Jan 2016

"Denying people reasonable tools of self defense is wrong, and theres simply no legitimate justification"

In other words, you're so deeply entrenched in your ideology that no amount of scientific evidence showing that your position leads to more violence will sway you. You'd rather turn this into an emotional issue based around a single case, and ignore the bulk of evidence that shows that what you propose would cause more violence and pain to victims not less.

I have no time to waste on people who have closed minds and have no interest in the larger picture. Have a nice day.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
252. Yes, you would.
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 05:19 PM
Jan 2016
I think this says it all...


Yes, you would. I think you refusing to address anything that I've said in this exchange says it all. Particularly since I address essentially everything you say, and refute it point by point, time and time again, during the entire back and forth with you.

In other words, you're so deeply entrenched in your ideology that no amount of scientific evidence showing that your position leads to more violence will sway you.

You've provided precisely ZERO evidence that allowing women to carry pepper spray leads to more violence. The only proof we have that lends any credibility to that otherwise nonsensical notion, is that some asshole scumbag rapist took some pepper spray in the face while trying to rape an innocent woman. If that's what you call "more violence", then your position is even more ethically and morally bankrupt that it first appeared.

You'd rather turn this into an emotional issue based around a single case, and ignore the bulk of evidence that shows that what you propose would cause more violence and pain to victims not less.

I say this to my interlocutor on occasion, when it applies, and it definitely applies now: You aren't very good at this. Again, you've provided zero evidence about pepper spray use, yet you assert without providing that evidence, that allowing it would cause more violence. Because criminals and other bad actors are just itching for it to be legal, and wont misuse it until then, right? RIGHT? What part of "the only people stopped by its legal status are those who give a shit about this ridiculous law" don't you understand?

I have no time to waste on people who have closed minds and have no interest in the larger picture. Have a nice day.




That's a broken bolt extractor. More commonly known as an "easy out". Your last sentence is pretty much an attempt at an "easy out". For a person with no time to waste, you sure seem to have spent a lot of it, defending the indefensible.

Me, I think it's just simpleminded projection. An admission. A confession. Your ONLY interest is in the larger picture, and "fuck any individuals who get plowed under in the name of it". Right?






 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
259. No evidence?
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 06:17 AM
Jan 2016

Except that they do ban it amongst a long list of other things as as a result they have a safer society. But that doesn't count because it doesn't fit into your narrative.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
266. Round and round we go...
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 05:54 PM
Jan 2016
No evidence?


Correct. No evidence.

Except that they do ban it amongst a long list of other things...


Oh look, you're trying to make it ambiguous now by tieing it together with a list of other things. Too cute by half. As if they're inseparable. Careful now, you might accidentally imply that this society you refer to can't tell the difference between pepper spray and other things.

...as as a result they have a safer society.


Except that you have provided NO EVIDENCE that society would be LESS SAFE if they had not banned it. You've asserted it, you've implied it, you've insinuated it, you've claimed it, but you have provided exactly ZERO PROOF that what you claim is actually the case. Without that proof, you haven't actually proven it, you see, because proof is actually required to...prove things. Furthermore, without proof, it is nothing more than a belief on your part. And I must say, the belief is strong in you. People suffer for your belief. How does that fit in your big picture, eh?

But that doesn't count because it doesn't fit into your narrative.


Congratulations, you've graduated to diversionary tactics.


I'll ask again:

It may not have occurred to you, but the rape victim in the OP said "fuck this society" the moment she bought pepper spray. It only makes sense, that your ire is as great toward her for saying it through action, as it is toward me for uttering the words, since it didn't fit her narrative either. You should think about that for a minute. Really hard. Would you feel the same way if your mother or sister or wife or daughter had been the victim?

Will you address it this time?
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
270. You have the evidence
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 06:30 AM
Jan 2016

Their society is safer. You're just now falling back on 'prove it was because of this one weapon being banned rather than all the weapons they ban being banned'. Which is something that can't really be proved because you can't get statistics for why something didn't happen.

You've also conveniently skipped the part where this stuff is banned in a number of states too, because it's understood to be dangerous.

As for your supposed question, all you're doing is trying to make it an emotional appeal and I have absolutely no need to justify myself to you. You can try and set yourself up as the only one who cares about rape victims if it makes you feel special, but it's pretty childish quite honestly. Every damn person here would do anything they could to stop that horrific crime, but trying to stop people even discussing the issues by setting up some ideological purity test is really vile.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
274. Where it stops, nobody knows...
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 05:09 PM
Jan 2016
Their society is safer.


That's an unproven, unsupported, unsubstantiated assertion. Nothing more.

You're just now falling back on 'prove it was because of this one weapon being banned rather than all the weapons they ban being banned'.


Nobody in THIS discussion is talking about ALL weapons. Just pepper spray. Do you have a reading problem?

Which is something that can't really be proved because you can't get statistics for why something didn't happen.


Oh, but that doesn't stop you from claiming something that by your own words you've now admitted, can not be proven.

Except it CAN be proven that the victim in the OP was made safer by carrying pepper spray. That's not debatable, because its a fact. Quick check: It has been proven that the victim was safer carrying pepper spray. And yet you will ignore that proof in favor of your big picture. Meanwhile, you've proven...nothing.

You've also conveniently skipped the part where this stuff is banned in a number of states too, because it's understood to be dangerous.


Its not banned anywhere because its 'understood' to be dangerous 'Believed' to be dangerous, at best.

There IS a difference.

Every damn person here would do anything they could to stop that horrific crime...


It seems the word 'anything' has certain hidden qualifiers when you use it, since supporting potential victims ability to lawfully carry pepper spray doesn't seem to be included. Is there anything else that 'anything' doesn't include when you use the term?

Just answer the question:

It may not have occurred to you, but the rape victim in the OP said "fuck this society" the moment she bought pepper spray. It only makes sense, that your ire is as great toward her for saying it through action, as it is toward me for uttering the words, since it didn't fit her narrative either. You should think about that for a minute. Really hard. Would you feel the same way if your mother or sister or wife or daughter had been the victim?

Will you address it this time?

I have no time to waste on people who have closed minds and have no interest in the larger picture. Have a nice day.


P.S. I guess you found some time to waste.



 

branford

(4,462 posts)
277. I just wanted to note that pepper spray is hardly banned anywhere in the USA,
Sun Jan 31, 2016, 06:13 PM
Jan 2016

and is widely available, including online. Mace is restricted in some areas, as are stun guns.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
227. Thats not 'babbling crap'...
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 04:02 PM
Jan 2016

Thats not 'babbling crap', its a spot on assessment of the position you've taken.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
162. In some twisted way you think assaulting defenseless women represents equality.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:17 PM
Jan 2016

I don't think we will talk any more.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
163. What an utterly ridiculous twisting of what I've said
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:20 PM
Jan 2016

I have no desire to continue talking to you if you're that dishonest.

NickB79

(19,233 posts)
228. Equality is not what is needed here. Equity is what is needed
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 04:25 PM
Jan 2016

Here, maybe this will make it a little clearer.

NickB79

(19,233 posts)
229. You really think gender equality has fuck-all to do with defending yourself from a rape?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 04:32 PM
Jan 2016

Your link discusses ECONOMIC equality between the sexes. It's presented by the World Economic Forum. And that's a wonderful thing, to have economic equality between the sexes. It also has absolutely nothing to do with the OP at hand.

The fact that women and men make the same pay at work means nothing when a guy who's got 50 lb more muscle than a woman is dragging her to into a dark corner.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
253. Except for the occasional rape of defenseless women
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 09:04 PM
Jan 2016

by stronger men with nothing to fear, because the police are inept, and self defense is illegal.
Yay, I guess.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
260. No society has (or sadly probably ever will)
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 06:19 AM
Jan 2016

Completely stop vile people committing terrible crimes. They have a lot less of them though, and I think that's a pretty good sign they're heading in the right direction.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
262. What should happen is the
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 10:12 AM
Jan 2016

authorities use her prosecution to bring in the rapist. Announce that charges are going to be dropped unless her victim (the scumbag) presses charges. If he's stupid enough to come forward, he's arrested, and put in prison for 10 years. All charges against her are dropped. She goes on vacation with the money she gets from suing him for everything he has.

What's actually going to happen is that she's going to pay her fine and live in fear of another attack. He's going to get away with it. He'll be emboldened, actually finish raping the next woman he sees. If she's lucky, she'll get away with her life.
Horray for an enlightened society.

surrealAmerican

(11,360 posts)
125. The attacker was described as an "English-speaking man in dark clothing".
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 11:43 AM
Jan 2016

This would suggest he was not a Dane.

Lancero

(3,003 posts)
168. Not really. English, while not the official language, is the most common second language...
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:39 PM
Jan 2016

With 86% of Danes being able to speak it.

JonathanRackham

(1,604 posts)
30. I can't believe some of the responses.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:45 AM
Jan 2016

I hope Denmark has a good jury system and this clear self defense gets nullified.

X_Digger

(18,585 posts)
189. That's fucking sick, right there.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:02 PM
Jan 2016

I'm gobsmacked at some of the responses in this thread, and now that? Ick.

ProfessorGAC

(64,995 posts)
68. Been Here A Long Time, And I Can't Either
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:13 AM
Jan 2016

Actually, a prosecutor will either refuse to bring charges or they'll plea to some minor violation, recommend a 50 dollar fine and the judge will waive the fine.

Given the overall circumstances, i don't see her actually paying any penalty for carrying pepper spray in what is clearly a self-defense case.

potone

(1,701 posts)
226. Nor can I.
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 02:13 PM
Jan 2016

I am a strong supporter of gun control laws, but if people are not allowed to defend themselves with any less than lethal means, it just makes it harder to restrict guns. And by the way, I have never read a story about a civilian going crazy and pepper spraying random people in a public setting. Has anyone else?

I think this girl acted prudently. If you live in a dangerous area or have to go through one routinely, it makes sense to have some form of self-protection. She saved herself from a terrible experience that could have caused long lasting psychological damage to feeling of security and her ability to have healthy sexual relationships even if the physical injury was not severe or permanent.

Where is the compassion for the victim? Too many threads seem to think her feelings count for nothing.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
67. Wow, the comments here suck.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:12 AM
Jan 2016

I didn't know so many DUers were against women defending themselves against rapists.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
95. Peruse the Gun forums sometime,
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:52 AM
Jan 2016

and you'll see how many DU members are not particularly keen on self-defense, armed or otherwise, or at least very selective as to who should have the right and when.

Also keep in mind that we're only now discussing non-lethal pepper spray.

These are the moments when I truly dread defending Democrats' and liberals' "soft on crime" reputation with my more conservative friends and colleagues. There is indeed a war on women, and sadly many liberals want women to remain unarmed, both literally and figuratively.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
122. the real issue is the conflict between their laws not allowing
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:41 AM
Jan 2016

one to carry pepper spray and the idea women need something for self defense.

Seems a technicality and hopefully she just pays a small fine while he gets jail time.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
115. If they go ahead and charge her with a fine,
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:23 AM
Jan 2016

it will be just one more thing that causes a rise in popularity for the RW nationalists.

RW Nationalists are becoming increasingly attractive to voters all over Europe.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
119. Pepper spray is illegal?
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 10:39 AM
Jan 2016

I suppose surely guns must be too, then.

What do they recommend for self defense then?

christx30

(6,241 posts)
254. Urinating on yourself to make yourself
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 09:12 PM
Jan 2016

less attractive to the rapist is the usual standby from them.

Never mind that rape is less about sex or attractiveness than it is about wanting to exercise control over another person. It's just about violence, pure and simple.

"Rape is about sex, just like being hit in the head with a frying pan is about cooking."

katsy

(4,246 posts)
128. A very nice female LEO once suggested...
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 11:49 AM
Jan 2016

Travel size hair spray for personal protection. Still legal to carry last I looked. And quite a bit harder on the eyes. I always have it handy.

Oneironaut

(5,492 posts)
154. Problem is, hair spray isn't rated for self-defense.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:53 PM
Jan 2016

I always cringe when the internet tells people to use anything other than pepper spray (like bee poison, for example) because it might get them killed. If you have nothing else, these might be a good last-ditch effort, but as an alternative they're terrible.

katsy

(4,246 posts)
176. The LEOs exact words, and one can't forget these words, were:
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 04:59 PM
Jan 2016

"It'll blind the fucker longer, harder and you'll get away."

No it has not been rated. But it's not illegal to carry in most of the world.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
130. Lots of anti-
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 12:07 PM
Jan 2016

Self defense people out on this one. I wish I could say I am surprised about "progressives" believing she should go bare handed against her attacker. I fear if that happened and she injured him in the fight they would say she should pay his medical bills.

Question- if a rape victim can be fined for illegal self defense, how big of a leap is it to having the victim pay for the rape kit?

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
136. self-defense examples do infuriate the vulgar pascifists...
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:06 PM
Jan 2016

Both Gandhi and King warned against confusing the strategy of non-violence with the right -- nay, obligation -- to defend one's self, family, property and religion. One may choose to defend in various ways in accordance with the dictates of conscience and religion, but defense nevertheless is a DUTY.

Gandhi chose "ahimsa," a moral practice of personal defense which obligated the victim to prevent an attack without hurting the attacker, even to the point of the victim's death. But he considered the person who used violence, to the point of "despatching" (killing) the attacker, a good citizen.

I think too many folks continue to confuse these notions of SD with some broader, social strategy. Gandhi considered complete passivity when attacked as "cowardice."

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
146. I have a feeling that they are mostly just anti-self defense when it comes to women.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:15 PM
Jan 2016

if they were the ones being attacked it would be quite another story.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
155. I have never met a victim
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:55 PM
Jan 2016

Who tells others- just take it and get on with life.

It is only people who have not been victims, and often have their own bodyguards, that are telling folks to be victims.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
160. Exactly.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:02 PM
Jan 2016
It is only people who have not been victims, and often have their own bodyguards, that are telling folks to be victims.


Exactly. Well said.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
135. Write off the fine as money well spent.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 12:50 PM
Jan 2016

In fact, that's what I'd tell the judge. Better to pay a fine for using a non-lethal self defense device than go through all the trauma of a sexual assault.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
150. I'd love to be on the jury.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 01:28 PM
Jan 2016

I would want to return the not guilty verdict faster than you can say "nullification".

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
159. Something is rotten in the state of Denmark.
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:02 PM
Jan 2016

First nightclubs start demanding that guests speak Danish (or English or German), now this.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027544133

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
167. Replace the moronic politicians and get some common sense laws
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 02:32 PM
Jan 2016

Pepper spray should not be illegal. Women should be able to protect themselves from sexual predators. Sexual assault victims should not be charged.

This is common sense in most countries. Denmark needs new leadership.

DFW

(54,355 posts)
179. This has been a general tendency in Europe
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 05:09 PM
Jan 2016

Where in the USA, "stand your ground" has been taken way too far, in many countries in Europe, "stand down" has also been taken too far. This is just on extreme example.

A friend of mine in France, now deceased, had a small shop in the IIième in Paris. He had one recent immigrant from Bulgaria who used to like to hang around his shop. His wife was from Serbia, and so the Bulgarian and she could make out enough of each other's language to communicate. In time, the Bulgarian gained the guy's confidence, and one day he allowed the Bulgarian into the security are of the ship where he kept the cash (cup of coffee or something like that I forget). The Bulgarian took out a hammer, beat the guy on the head, and tried to make off with the cash. But he had to open the security doors to get back out, and while he was trying to figure out how, my friend came to, and with blood streaming from his head, grabbed the hammer, gave as good as he got (although he was 70 at the time), subdued his attacker and called the cops. Outcome? The Bulgarian was set free and my friend was charged with assault. Disgusted, he closed his shop and retired.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
183. Unreal. It seems to me, from reading the comments of Europeans in both the
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:37 PM
Jan 2016

US and overseas blogs & online papers that Europe has swung too far to the left and the people are getting fed up with it. I could be wrong, but that is the impression I get.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
184. Maybe
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:48 PM
Jan 2016

but even the leftist of a far-left person would agree with defending one-self. This incident reminds me more of a school's "No Tolerance" policy tbh.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
185. Yes, exactly, but it seems like the Governments and LEO's haven't quite caught up yet with the
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 07:53 PM
Jan 2016

sentiments of the citizens.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
186. Correct, unfortunately. The RW Nationalists are gaining popularity, wildly
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 08:11 PM
Jan 2016

all across europe.

Multiculturalism has failed badly in many european countries. Many muslims don't want to assimilate. Fuck Muslim Culture!!!
If they don't like it, get outta here!!! I appreciate swedish culture.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
188. The law enforcement / self-defense far leftward tilt is separate from and predates
Wed Jan 27, 2016, 09:20 PM
Jan 2016

the issues concerning Muslim and Middle Eastern and North African immigrants and migrants. It is only now far more pronounced because of increasing crime rates largely due to assimilation problems.

Very low crime rates in many European countries were due primarily to significant homogeneity and wealth. This low risk therefore made it easy to institute and support very liberal criminal justice mores and law. Multiculturalism and increasing crime have sorely tested these values, and if left-leaning governments do not respond quickly and forcefully, the right will continue to politically ascend in Europe and all liberal gains will be in jeopardy (along with the EU itself).

DFW

(54,355 posts)
191. It's more nuanced than that
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 01:56 AM
Jan 2016

France has a useless socialist government where 40% (!!!!!!!) of the employed work for the government. Germany has a functioning social democracy with a "conservative (still to the left of anything we've had since FDR)"-led coalition. Belgium is a basket case, Holland gets by, but these two are small, densely populated countries with a population of between 11 and 15 million and about the size of Connecticut. You can drive from the Dutch coast on the North Sea to the border in about two hours. It takes longer than that to drive the Massachusetts Turnpike! Germany is about 85% of the area of California, but has a population a quarter the size of the entire USA. Europe is CROWDED. Add to this the fact that German governments of right or left still (to their credit, I might add) feel a deep moral obligation to help people in dire need due to their history in the first half of the past century.

The trouble is that they make no secret of this, and they get overwhelmed by scammers who know that in the past, all they had to was to show up and say "me persecuted!" and they'd get a free apartment, a living allowance and other perks that local citizens did not. Resentment festered, but as long as abuse was minimal, it stayed at that level. My wife went crazy dealing with trying to place hard core unemployed into jobs, but many would have had to take a pay cut if they worked, so they found doctors who took bribes to declare them unfit for work, claimed not to know the language well enough to work (after, in some cases over 20 years in Germany!), even, in one of her cases, fathered 15 children, collected government child subsidies for each one, and then kept the money for himself and let the various mothers of these children fend for themselves. These are some of the extreme examples, of course, but they and their like gave a bad name to the other 90% of asylum seekers who came for legitimate reasons. The percentages may be similar, but 10% of a million is still a LOT of bad apples. The left doesn't appreciate German women getting harassed on the street or calls for them to adapt their behavior to accommodate Arab morality any more than the right does.

Each country has its own issues. France let nearly all who wanted to come from its North African colonies come be French citizens when they granted those colonies independence. Huge numbers did just that. Most of them knew French, but they didn't know France. When they brought their local religion and mores with them, and passed them on to the next generation in their ghettos, the seeds of conflict were sewn.

Belgium's minority French-speaking Walloons invited hundreds of thousands of Moroccans to come to Belgium, offered them generous social packages, and reminded them "vote for us!" Well, the Moroccans did just that, and were granted wide immunity from prosecution for crimes as well. Government censors, for a while, forbade the media, when reporting on violent crime, to say who the perpetrators were (if they were Moroccan). It gave rise, predictably, to ugly far right movements among the Belgian majority Flemish, who are Dutch-speakers. They started to cynically say, when violent crimes were reported without identifying who had committed them, "it was those Swedish people again."

Germany has had its problems with some of the millions of Turkish-speaking "guest workers," invited starting in the 1950s to help ease the labor shortage. Most stayed on, and it created cultural clashes, but the Turks--many of whom are now the adult children of the original guest workers and full German citizens--are widely assimilated now. They are business owners, TV reporters, journalists, one even is Party leader of the Greens. He speaks accent-free German, and no one gives his ethnicity a second thought. But the Turks came to waiting jobs, and bringing modest expectations. Turkey in the 1950s was not exactly what you would have called cosmopolitain. The 10% of the people now streaming in with big expectations and short fuses are going to clash with the local populations, and give the other 90% a bad name. And no one knows who they are or how to identify them, because no one figured out how to screen a million people in three months, or that they should have prepared for them before they arrived.

What the German government missed is that it is not showing "tolerance" when they turn their back on their own citizens when they encounter violence at the hands of newcomers brought in by that same government. I talked with my wife today in Germany before flying up from Dallas here to Northern Virginia. She was with an old friend of of ours and his Russian girlfriend. They are both in their late 60s. The Russian woman speaks no German, so my wife can't converse with her, but the German man has been a friend of ours for over 30 years. He is an old die-hard socialist from an old working class family in the industrial town of Oberhausen. He lives in Köln now, and even he has got a bad case of what my wife calls "the refugee blues." He had desperately wanted the wave of immigrants to assimilate into a working-class new wave of grateful new Germans. After the attacks in Köln on New Year's Eve, his ideals have suffered, since reality has refused to conform to them. My wife, by contrast, also a loyal SPD or Greens voter, expected the mess, and thus was not disabused of any rosy illusions when that mess ensued.

It's not that Europe is fed up with the left. They are fed up with smug, incompetent bureaucrats, most of whom can't be fired, who dream up schemes in their offices, but never think out the consequences, never see the consequences, and never have to take responsibility when they fuck up. This is not a right or left phenomenon, but a very European phenomenon. When these useless government employees are there for life and can't be fired, they have no incentive to be creative or useful. Some have consciences and are both, but far too many are not. To change that, you'd have to erase the whole system of protected functionaries. When, for example as in France, they represent FORTY per cent of the work force, good luck in getting THAT system changed.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
204. Thank you for your perspective on the issue. I always appreciate getting
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 10:00 AM
Jan 2016

your take on things. We can only conjecture, so it helps to hear what is really going on from an insider's point of view.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
258. Yes it has.
Sat Jan 30, 2016, 04:04 AM
Jan 2016

I'm a Brit and I moved to the US over 40 yrs ago. I had to endure extended stays in the England over the last few years and what I've seen has changed my views on many things.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
219. Sneaking?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 11:29 AM
Jan 2016

Yea, there never are any threads about guns in GD.

However, if you believe that advocating that women have the means to properly protect themselves from sexual assault, particularly when the OP and thread concerns pepper spray, is only a matter for the firearm forums, it reveals a great deal unflattering about you.

Ironically, such a perspective also underscores why gun rights advocates, including a great many Democrats, refuse to discuss or compromise at all with the other side. As has been demonstrated in this thread, the goal of some is not just the elimination of civilian firearms, but rather all means of effective self-defense, including non-lethal, marginally effective tools like pepper spray. This is little more than advocating for the law of the jungle, where the strong easily overpower and victimize the weak, and is contrary to the very essence of liberal, civilized values.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
231. Glad I wasn't taking a drink...
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 04:56 PM
Jan 2016

Glad I wasn't taking a drink when I read this:

Yea, there never are any threads about guns in GD.




Beyond that, you're right on the money, as usual.

I really enjoy your posts bud.

redgreenandblue

(2,088 posts)
244. It wasn't meant as a snark at all.
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 05:37 AM
Jan 2016

It is just that in an abstract sense, the tool which is used for self defense is irrelevant to the discussion. Had she used a gun we could not have this discussion in GD.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
221. If by saying "gungeon thread"
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 11:48 AM
Jan 2016

you mean a debate between those who believe in an individual right of self defense vs those who would criminalize self defense 'for the good of society' you are correct.

Even though guns were not involved in the incident, and have not been advocated or brought up, except in straw man argument, it illustrates a major facet of the gun control debate. When a "pro-gun" person proposes a control measure it is called "a good start". The follow up question- "what is the end" always goes unanswered. That is due to the fact, as we see here, is that once guns are eliminated, then other "offensive weapons" will be targeted.

At the extreme any act of violence, even those taken to necessarily protect life and body from assault, become criminalized. A victim of crime then is re-victimized by the state. Since the victims of crime tend to self-report, they then will be punished more often than the aggressor.

I find this view abhorrent. The D.C. deputy mayor of public safety stood in front of a public meeting and told people "It is better to be a victim...". I will never abandon the individual and the right to avoid being a victim. To others, however, the opposite would be a utopia.

redgreenandblue

(2,088 posts)
247. Yep. This discussion is typically not GD material.
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 05:42 AM
Jan 2016

My comment was not a snark. I just found it noteworthy. I do not object to the discussion taking place in GD by the way.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
239. How is this a gungeon thread?
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 06:22 PM
Jan 2016

I'm anti-gun, but I have zero problem with pepper spray. This case is complete bullshit.

redgreenandblue

(2,088 posts)
245. Because the tool which was used for self-defense is entirely irrelevant to the discussion.
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 05:38 AM
Jan 2016

The discussion would be almost the same one had a gun been used.

My comment was not meant as a snark at all.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
249. The tool is relevant because it demonstrates that some self-proclaimed liberals
Fri Jan 29, 2016, 09:36 AM
Jan 2016

are not just against the carrying of firearms, but ANY means of )self-defense, no matter how marginal or non-lethal, if not the right to self-defense itself, and therefore whether intentionally or implicitly, support or tacitly encourage or excuse violence against women.

If the tool used by the young woman in the OP was a firearm, it would indeed be an appropriate discussion for the firearm forums, precisely because one of the primary reasons most Democrats here support the right to keep and bear arms is because of our inherent right to self-defense and the appropriate means to do so. This particular discussion in GD certainly expanded and expounded upon the issue. Although the opinions of some apparently defending the total disarmament of women and prosecution of the young attempted rape victim truly shocked and saddened me, I do take solace in the fact that some DU members who oppose firearms still recognize that the law at issue and the prosecution in the OP are patently absurd and morally wrong.

The story also deals with the issue of decreased safety and increased criminality allegedly experienced due to the rapid influx of refugees and minority immigrants to Europe (the woman's attacker was "dark skinned&quot and the reaction of voters to the liberal policies and governments who allowed it. This aspect of OP would have little direct relevance to the firearm forum regardless of the choice of self-defense tool.

yellowcanine

(35,699 posts)
222. Well they shouldn't fine her but if they do maybe people will chip in to pay it and
Thu Jan 28, 2016, 12:10 PM
Jan 2016

give here enough to buy a new can of pepper spray as well as a new outfit which I am sure was messed up in the attack. This is one of those laws which is okay to break. Hopefully the magistrate has some discretion and can exercise it - maybe fine her the Danish equivalent of $1.

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