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kentuck

(111,069 posts)
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:03 AM Jul 2015

County Clerks will eventually obey the law but what about churches??

Is there anything in the law that would require them to perform gay weddings ?

Or does their "freedom of religion" permit them to marry who they choose?

I don't know if this has yet been discussed?

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County Clerks will eventually obey the law but what about churches?? (Original Post) kentuck Jul 2015 OP
No, they don't hae to perform weddings for anyone they don't want to. NaturalHigh Jul 2015 #1
So... kentuck Jul 2015 #3
It shouldn't el_bryanto Jul 2015 #8
Exactly! kentuck Jul 2015 #11
What new law? dumbcat Jul 2015 #28
Churches are exempt. Religious freedom. I personally think we should cut churches loose and peacebird Jul 2015 #2
This has been discussed at great length. yardwork Jul 2015 #4
No, and I don't think they should have to. onehandle Jul 2015 #5
err... what? Churches can refuse to marry whoever they choose. As is their right. Adrahil Jul 2015 #6
Shoot--most won't marry couples who aren't congregants Maeve Jul 2015 #7
It's also a numbers game. Calista241 Jul 2015 #9
What you really probably want to know is what are the limits of their "freedom of religion" PoliticAverse Jul 2015 #10
no, and they should not be required to do so. No one is forced to join a church, as no church can still_one Jul 2015 #12
I assume you know the reality that the 1st Amendment gives religions freedom to practice as they Bluenorthwest Jul 2015 #13
Just for the record, the Catholic Chuch will, in fact, marry people who are divorced....... WillowTree Jul 2015 #14
Screw that Oilwellian Jul 2015 #22
How so? WillowTree Jul 2015 #23
Yes, and their right to worship has not been affected at all. kentuck Jul 2015 #16
A church wedding is not a state matter Cal Carpenter Jul 2015 #24
Government doesn't interfere in churches, but churches interfere in government. Arugula Latte Jul 2015 #20
I don't care what churches do. I don't go to them Action_Patrol Jul 2015 #15
Churches that are actually for-profit businesses frogmarch Jul 2015 #17
First, the "law" is a court decision. Igel Jul 2015 #18
Catholic churches are not required to perform marriages for divorced people Recursion Jul 2015 #19
That will never be required. MineralMan Jul 2015 #21
You are forwarding a RW talking point. Many people who get married don't do it in a church NightWatcher Jul 2015 #25
Already settled HassleCat Jul 2015 #26
Churches don't issue marriage licenses... Spazito Jul 2015 #27

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
1. No, they don't hae to perform weddings for anyone they don't want to.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:05 AM
Jul 2015

Yes, their freedom of religion permits them to marry whomever they choose.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
8. It shouldn't
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:19 AM
Jul 2015

I don't think that forcing religions to marry people against their will would find much support.

Bryant

kentuck

(111,069 posts)
11. Exactly!
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:24 AM
Jul 2015

It's a classic case of separation of church and state. No one is trying to interfere with the people's right to worship but "religious" folks are trying to impose their beliefs on everyone else, in my opinion.

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
2. Churches are exempt. Religious freedom. I personally think we should cut churches loose and
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:06 AM
Jul 2015

Remove their tax exemption, but I din't see that happening.

yardwork

(61,585 posts)
4. This has been discussed at great length.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:12 AM
Jul 2015

Churches have an iron-clad First Amendment right to marry whom they choose. The government can't force a church to marry anybody.

Not an issue.

Count clerks and magistrates are public servants. Those are civil marriages.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
5. No, and I don't think they should have to.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:13 AM
Jul 2015

It would play right into their argument that 'gay marriage is an attack on their religion.'

The church service is just a decorative ceremony. The paperwork the county/state provides is the real license of marriage.

Whether it's an employee at the county/state office signing the paperwork, or your church's pastor/priest, you're married.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
6. err... what? Churches can refuse to marry whoever they choose. As is their right.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:15 AM
Jul 2015

Churches should be able to refuse to marry anyone. They are not a public accommodation.

Now.... if they rent their hall to the general public, they can't discriminate against protected groups. GLBT are not a federally protected group and are not protected in many states (for example, in mine, though my city DOES protect them).

Maeve

(42,279 posts)
7. Shoot--most won't marry couples who aren't congregants
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:16 AM
Jul 2015

Or go thru classes...No one needs to be married by someone who disapproves of them anyway. There are plenty of folks qualified and happy to perform the ceremony.

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
9. It's also a numbers game.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:20 AM
Jul 2015

How many churches can close their chapel for a day to host a couple weddings, and most churches are busy on Sunday.

So, given that Saturday is the only weekend day where many people can get married, how many weddings can a single church offer per year? 100? 120?

PoliticAverse

(26,366 posts)
10. What you really probably want to know is what are the limits of their "freedom of religion"
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:24 AM
Jul 2015

as determined by the courts.

For example although a church wouldn't be required to perform a same-sex wedding the courts
have found it could be required to rent a location the church owns (and rents to the public for events)
to a same-sex couple.

still_one

(92,110 posts)
12. no, and they should not be required to do so. No one is forced to join a church, as no church can
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:32 AM
Jul 2015

force someone to join them.

There are enough churchs or civil ceremonies where same sex marriage will be honored.

The government cannot tell a church what to believe

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
13. I assume you know the reality that the 1st Amendment gives religions freedom to practice as they
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:37 AM
Jul 2015

wish. I'm sure that you have had this explained before, I am also sure that you are aware that the Catholic Church will not marry people who have been divorced although both divorce and remarriage are perfectly legal and wildly common in the US.

Churches have nothing to do with it, never have and never will, unless they want to do so.

WillowTree

(5,325 posts)
14. Just for the record, the Catholic Chuch will, in fact, marry people who are divorced.......
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:41 AM
Jul 2015

.......if the prior marriage has also been annulled by the Church.

kentuck

(111,069 posts)
16. Yes, and their right to worship has not been affected at all.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:46 AM
Jul 2015

Their inclination to interfere with state matters has been challenged.

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
24. A church wedding is not a state matter
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 12:42 PM
Jul 2015

If the pastor also happens to be the county clerk and refuses to perform his/her duties for the county because of religion, that is a problem. But a church has no obligation to perform this duty for the state. Churches can already pick and choose who gets married in their church and that doesn't change.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
20. Government doesn't interfere in churches, but churches interfere in government.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 11:38 AM
Jul 2015

They need to get their tax exemption revoked, pronto.

Action_Patrol

(845 posts)
15. I don't care what churches do. I don't go to them
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:44 AM
Jul 2015

My marriage certificate is a state form that doesn't have a picture of Jesus with his thumbs up on it.
why the hell religion comes up at all on a marriage form makes no sense to me.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
17. Churches that are actually for-profit businesses
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 10:54 AM
Jul 2015

must perform same sex marriages, even if the pastor is an ordained minister. Otherwise, churches are not obligated to marry same sex couples.

Igel

(35,293 posts)
18. First, the "law" is a court decision.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 11:26 AM
Jul 2015

It's not a legislative change. At most it struck down laws and ballot referenda.

SCOTUS relied on a due-process argument, and that's where its findings apply. Gays are entitled to due process. Due process applies to government. Unless there's government entanglement with the private organization that's under discussion, unless government plays a large enough role--then there's no due process that applies to a private individual or corporation. No, being tax exempt is not sufficient government entanglement: Many individual people are tax exempt, and I'm no different from most Americans in that I'm partially tax exempt.

Some argue that some churches are public accommodations. Public accommodations, the way I understand the term, extends constitutional protections to specific protected classes because it's in the government's interest to do so. Gays do not form a protected class. This is why some activists considered the SCOTUS ruling to be a loss and that the real fight continues. Women, minorities, the disabled, and various other subpopulations do; currently well over half the US population is in one or more protected classes and are afforded special protections in certain circumstances (officially we all are, but some are more protected than others).

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
19. Catholic churches are not required to perform marriages for divorced people
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 11:28 AM
Jul 2015

The government will never step in and require a church to solemnize a marriage that contradicts its theology. Take that to the bank.

MineralMan

(146,281 posts)
21. That will never be required.
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 11:42 AM
Jul 2015

It can't be. Ministers are completely free to marry or not marry any couple. They have been doing that forever. That's not going to change.

Frankly, I can't imagine why a couple would want a minister who didn't support their marriage to perform the ceremony in the first place.

In most places, other officiants are readily available to perform ceremonies. That might not be so true in small communities, but in cities of any larger size, it's easy to find wedding officiants and places to get married.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
25. You are forwarding a RW talking point. Many people who get married don't do it in a church
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 12:44 PM
Jul 2015

There is no way they will be required to host any weddings in a church, much less any they don't want to do, such as previously married people, gay, atheist....

 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
26. Already settled
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 12:56 PM
Jul 2015

Churches can refuse to perform weddings for anyone who does not conform to their rules. Various churches refuse to marry one of their members to someone of a different faith, for example. As far as I know, they even have the freedom to turn down interracial marriages. Remember Bob Jones University, which prohibited interracial dating among its students? They can do that on the grounds of, "God told me to!" The government can threaten their tax-exempt status, but that's about it.

Spazito

(50,235 posts)
27. Churches don't issue marriage licenses...
Wed Jul 1, 2015, 01:14 PM
Jul 2015

the reality is they are simply 'blessing' the union not making the decision on who can marry and who can't.

If they want to remain homophobic as to who shall receive that blessing, that is their right.

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