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bravenak
(34,648 posts)marym625
(17,997 posts)Except the hesitate part.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)marym625
(17,997 posts)Hell! I want to sometimes
Baitball Blogger
(46,697 posts)I deal with a lot of abuse from the good ole boys in my city. To add to the affront, I definitely see indications that efforts are made to prepare for a reaction. This can range from increased police car patrols (The frequency drops off when we're on vacation); to golf cart patrols at night; and a few other behaviors that I have written about before. I finally figured that the reason behind all this heighten vigilance is the knowledge that they would respond in a violent manner if I did the same thing to them.
To the discussion, I add another factor to consider. When you rely on your mother's advice and avoid them at all cost, it only adds another dimension. From a safe distance, they will try to subtly provoke you. In backwater communities that means leaving the garage door open in the hopes that the troublesome neighbor will cross the blue line. I, personally, see it as a silly exercise. But their intention is clear. Defame the individual and then provoke them in the hope that they do something that will confirm whatever was stated in their defamation.
busterbrown
(8,515 posts)Being Jewish, I am always troubled when discussing race, a friend might state, Well look at how Jews have managed to do so well, and certainly they have been subjugated to thousands of years of hate and discrimination...Yea , idiot, a little easier for a Jew to assimilate and lets not forget how the American Black family structure was destroyed to its core by slavery, and not so long ago..Jewish Family has always remained in tact..despite the horrible events of anti-semitism through the ages..
Scuba
(53,475 posts)mountain grammy
(26,605 posts)truebluegreen
(9,033 posts)Thespian2
(2,741 posts)when I grew up, we were not allowed to speak to black people...we did it anyway...we couldn't find a way to have black friends because the schools were segregated...Our lives were less than they should have been...
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)During WWII, American and Russian troops got along together quite well. So many years wasted, so much potential, so many possibilities, thrown away in fear of the other.
But the racial disparity is worse, because it's right here at home. These are our peers. Our own blood. And still, so much waste in fear of the other. And as far as I can tell, just to profit the jackals that capitalize on fear.
Thespian2
(2,741 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)as photogs we are well aware of it, so even that we are careful not to activate the bias.
Raster
(20,998 posts)good to see your name on a post again.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)I need to go through a few... I did not go as trigger happy as I tend to do
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)two decades ago, i had just moved to the panhandle of texas from california and was going thru a culture shock... it was a situation of subtle positioning.
i was so mad. she was ... accepting. and that made me that much more angry.
believe it.
i also came to a place that, better she wlaks her journey her way, then my always anger. that is not a healthy place to be. who wants a life of that. but, damn.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)You have a way of nailing it.
Half-Century Man
(5,279 posts)has shown is proof that we all would be better off if we elected more minorities into office. Every branch and level of our government could use more patience, perseverance and anger control.
kpete
(71,979 posts)we all would be better off if we elected more minorities into office.
correct!
peace to you Half-Century Man,
kp
Half-Century Man
(5,279 posts)The word tastes foul to me, my fingers ache when I type it. Yet, we have no better term to describe a population percentile group or groups.
Too many people read the word not to indicate a specific fraction of population, but as an implication of a person of lesser worth.
Fuck a bunch of that.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)the majority spent half as much energy, getting to know a Black person, as they do nurturing, and excusing, their fear. Because in doing so, they would learn that Black folks are not the least bit interested in "pay back" or burning stuff down.
Half-Century Man
(5,279 posts)How much could have been accomplished if a huge percentage of our population hadn't had to be dealing with racism?
Maybe I wouldn't be staring out the window at a apartment complex in Wisconsin; I'd be staring at Jupiter as we settled into orbit.
kpete
(71,979 posts)brush
(53,758 posts)Just get rid of the racism is what most Black people want.
(IMO it wouldn't hurt though for recompense to be made for the hundreds of years of unpaid labor during enslavement, which is a huge reason why Black household wealth is a fraction of that of whites. And I'm not talking of checks cut to individuals but of small business grants, college scholarships, inner city jobs programs, computer literacy workshops those kinds of things that show an acknowledgment of the damage done and an effort to at least partially make up for monumental psychic and physical toll that the legacy of slavery and the Jim Crow era extracted from generation after generation of African Americans).
And some consideration should go to Latino Americans and Native Americans as well.
tblue
(16,350 posts)as a whole can never be overstated.
I love my people and I just cry when I see images like those on tv the last couple days. All we ever wanted was justice.
tblue37
(65,269 posts)Number23
(24,544 posts)blackspade
(10,056 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)seen as the enemy - ironically based on nothing more than the color of their skin.
I did not see that last night in the riots because I think there were a lot of different people there. I hope that continues. Many whites do not like what is going on either.
On the other hand. Black people are actually almost always taken as guilty as a whole - ironically based on nothing more than the color of their skin.
Finally I agree that they have reasons to burn the place down and I think it is a matter of great restraint that they have not.
carolinayellowdog
(3,247 posts)My historical research is almost entirely on the 19th century, and a lot of it lately has involved the abolitionist movement. People look at the 20th century, and think of Gandhi as an influence on MLK's nonviolence. But the restraint and self-control of the 19thc Black leaders is astonishing in retrospect. For example, Frederick Douglass vs. John Brown on appropriate vs. inappropriate tactics.
The same issue is involved with gender-- men fear that women, given the same power men have held for centuries, would exercise it with the same wild lack of self-restraint. But they haven't and won't.
on edit-- as a white man with many black family members, I've long felt that it is easier to have an honest US-historical conversation with people of color than with whites; this recent bullshit with Ben Affleck being just another example of THEY CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH. Wish Gates had stood his ground rather than caved on the "censor my family history" demand.
BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)But it's not true. I think white people are afraid of black and brown people because they think they're completely different. They don't know any people of a different race and their parents pass on their fear and hatred. They don't know that it's not that people are different, it's that our life experiences are different. That distrust and fear is spread on all sides and I have no idea how to stop it other than education and sharing food (the fastest way to break down barriers that I've seen). That's why Muslims and Jews are also an easy target. It's just ignorance and fear.
Mira
(22,380 posts)would like to do it at least one thousand times.
Because that is really how it is.
Sort of along the lines if men bled 4 days out of each month, this difficulty would have long been medically circumvented...
or if it were the men who needed abortions, it would long have been declared a religious sacrament...
raven mad
(4,940 posts)I would have been crying in agreement.
Prism
(5,815 posts)I keep trying to understand the largely white media's treatment of black riots. There's a kind fear or dread involved, an unspoken fearful curiosity. "Is this the time the civil unrest takes off and Blacks and their allies start burning it all down?" Because the friend in the OP has it exactly right.
Most white people know the kind of system we've built. We know we've oppressed black people for centuries. We are more than fully aware these degradated neighborhoods and police brutality is largely our doing. And we know we've done little to stop it.
And it is exactly right. White people would not stand for this for long. We'd go nuts. Look at the NRA. Do you think they'd tolerate a police state in small town Texas for very long? No, they would not. We'd riot, too.
And we know it.