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Archae

(46,318 posts)
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 05:58 PM Sep 2014

The Duggars (19 Kids and Counting) consider Halloween "demonic"

Gee, I'm SOOOO surprised!

Is anyone surprised that the Duggars do not celebrate Halloween? "Magic, sorcery, witches, spell-casting and the like are all part of the demonic realm that God wants us to stay away from. One specific thing that our parents have always been careful about is magic, which often shows up in children's movies. As harmless as it may seem, it's not a joke in God's eyes."

http://www.christianpost.com/news/duggar-family-refuses-to-celebrate-halloween-relates-holiday-to-demonic-realm-127023/

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The Duggars (19 Kids and Counting) consider Halloween "demonic" (Original Post) Archae Sep 2014 OP
This is observationally equivalent to people who don't feel like buying candy to give out. Dreamer Tatum Sep 2014 #1
Even worse, giving out chick tracts sakabatou Sep 2014 #119
Of course they do...they have to make 19 freakin' costumes!!! n/t FourScore Sep 2014 #122
I consider having 19 kids during a time when our our future is one of ever limited resources... hlthe2b Sep 2014 #2
so much for pro choice Travis_0004 Sep 2014 #24
Sounds like you don't understand what 'pro choice' means. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Sep 2014 #26
Pro-choice does not mean "ABSENT ANY PLANNING" for any and all future pregnancies hlthe2b Sep 2014 #30
100 percent pro choice yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #66
Thank YOU! smirkymonkey Sep 2014 #71
I beg your pardon: pro-choice meant it was YOUR choice. Not anyone else's. Wella Sep 2014 #93
"Respect others' opinions" is a very weak argument. alp227 Sep 2014 #96
I said respect others' "choices". Wella Sep 2014 #104
In any case, define what out means to respect alp227 Sep 2014 #107
How about an apology first? Wella Sep 2014 #108
OK I'm sorry for misinterpreting your post. alp227 Sep 2014 #109
Thank you. It means that you come from a philosophical world view of choice Wella Sep 2014 #111
So can one be non judgmental while making an argument alp227 Sep 2014 #112
Once you assign values to choices, you disrupt the general notion of choice and you invite criticism Wella Sep 2014 #116
You really... hlthe2b Sep 2014 #98
I worked for a NARAL affiliate Wella Sep 2014 #105
Oh, really... hlthe2b Sep 2014 #118
Are you so accustomed to people lying that you can't comprehend when someone tells you the truth? Wella Sep 2014 #121
Seriously? You think pro-choice means you no longer LondonReign2 Sep 2014 #103
It means that your philosophical world view should shape your opinion. If you are Pro-Choice, you Wella Sep 2014 #106
You're very confused as to what pro-choice means LondonReign2 Sep 2014 #124
Ok. If I am confused, perhaps you can do what I have done: give a philosophical and legal perspectiv Wella Sep 2014 #128
I'm waiting. And I really will listen. Wella Sep 2014 #129
Still waiting.... Wella Sep 2014 #133
Still waiting to see why I am confused Wella Oct 2014 #141
Pretty freakin' judgemental, aren't you? HoustonDave Sep 2014 #134
when men decide to relegate women to the role of brood mare--mere chattel for more and more children hlthe2b Sep 2014 #140
Absolutely pro-choice. Mariana Sep 2014 #51
so its ok to protest outside an abortion clinic Travis_0004 Sep 2014 #52
Criticizing someone's decisions in no way denies her right to make those decisions. Mariana Sep 2014 #56
Not immediately. But societal judgements can quickly become laws that deny people rights Wella Sep 2014 #95
You and I know protesting outside clinics is far beyond mere criticism. alp227 Sep 2014 #97
So much for rational thought... LanternWaste Sep 2014 #91
Pretty ridiculous isn't it? Those who don't want to have a baby must have the choice not to, but liberal_at_heart Sep 2014 #117
My dad's parents had 9 kids (8 still living) and I love all my aunts and uncles dearly. nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #36
Large families, especially during the depression and in rural areas was the norm. hlthe2b Sep 2014 #37
All very true. Though my dad's family was neither rural nor extremely poor, just Catholic. nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #38
+1000 smirkymonkey Sep 2014 #43
We needn't hate the children or the parents. Orsino Oct 2014 #143
But God himself used magic to create the universe and everything in it. Rex Sep 2014 #3
Yes. Belief in magic isn't in question. Orsino Sep 2014 #88
The Bible doesn't say it was "magic". That's your interpretation. Wella Sep 2014 #94
I could never get 19 pumpkins to grow from the same vine. TheCowsCameHome Sep 2014 #4
Try talking fucking babytalk in a breathy Marilyn voice elehhhhna Sep 2014 #6
I can't get pumpkins Worried senior Sep 2014 #28
Read "Zealot". All the other messiah-type-guys back in the day, elehhhhna Sep 2014 #5
"Moses was but a juggler" according to Christopher Marlowe Tom Ripley Sep 2014 #83
These people are not fun. shenmue Sep 2014 #7
Beware of the magic in that appliance from hell you are typing on......... wandy Sep 2014 #8
It is a miracle mankind ever learned how to make fire. Jamastiene Sep 2014 #76
If blue smoke escapes from his appliance from hell, he needs to quit buying the cheap ones jmowreader Sep 2014 #132
Post removed Post removed Sep 2014 #9
crotch-fruit? That's how you refer to children? Wow. Do you aspire to be as hateful as the liberal_at_heart Sep 2014 #13
Crotch-fruit? TexasMommaWithAHat Sep 2014 #14
Disgusting. Seriously. nt Dreamer Tatum Sep 2014 #18
Excellent hide. Thanks jury! (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2014 #33
My my...poster been here since 2002 Rex Sep 2014 #50
Where did you get the (wrong) idea they just started posting? nt greyl Sep 2014 #62
Their profile, didn't you know that? nt Rex Sep 2014 #63
No, their profile doesn't say they just started posting. greyl Sep 2014 #64
Sure right, I see now. Rex Sep 2014 #65
Maybe I will go as a Duggar this year. City Lights Sep 2014 #10
The Baptist preacher in my neighborhood had the best candy and decorations FrodosPet Sep 2014 #11
I was hoping to conjur a demon out of my anus, this Halloween. Warren DeMontague Sep 2014 #12
Rent a Dick Cheney costume, less risk of hurting yourself, TheCowsCameHome Sep 2014 #15
Warren does that the rest of the year pinboy3niner Sep 2014 #23
I actually AM Dick Cheney. Warren DeMontague Sep 2014 #35
but they dressed up as a Cow to get a free meal from Chick Fila JI7 Sep 2014 #16
You would, too, if you had to come up with 19 costume ideas. cyberswede Sep 2014 #17
Why give them any publicity? Neoma Sep 2014 #19
They have a friggin TV show about them and their kids. Calista241 Sep 2014 #114
I don't even watch TV. Neoma Sep 2014 #123
After clicking on the link, I felt like I was mugged. Geezzzz BlueJazz Sep 2014 #20
the highly improbable magic events in the bible are "miracles" hobbit709 Sep 2014 #21
Blecch. catbyte Sep 2014 #22
hmm...I thought most Christians thought Halloween was demonic. Stellar Sep 2014 #25
Far from it! TexasMommaWithAHat Sep 2014 #31
Every year I read about churches that put on a "Hell House." Archae Sep 2014 #45
Get out....really?! Stellar Sep 2014 #48
Most churches are not "fundy" churches TexasMommaWithAHat Sep 2014 #73
The church I attended as a child Jenoch Sep 2014 #39
That still sound kind of erie. Stellar Sep 2014 #46
November 1st is All Saints Day. Jenoch Sep 2014 #59
I do too yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #67
Birth control is also magic ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2014 #27
Everything about female anatomy is magic to them. Like The Wandering Wombs: freshwest Sep 2014 #130
That's because All Saints are Demons, right??? elleng Sep 2014 #29
We need our own cable news network to expose the dirty truth about the War on Halloween! pinboy3niner Sep 2014 #32
I will apply for a job there. Jamastiene Sep 2014 #77
Well of COURSE they think that! JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #34
Not surprised, sadly. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #40
Can you imagine 19 kids hopped up on halloween candy? Scootaloo Sep 2014 #41
You may have a point!!! pinboy3niner Sep 2014 #42
But these same people scream that liberals are waging a war on Christmas maryellen99 Sep 2014 #44
DUzy shenmue Sep 2014 #126
Side hug! CANDO Sep 2014 #47
The few times I actually saw her... Archae Sep 2014 #49
She does not actually raise the kids tabbycat31 Sep 2014 #60
Lol. A special Duggar episode yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #68
At the pediatric office where I work... 3catwoman3 Sep 2014 #53
Good comeback. I would probably have made some snotty remark mnhtnbb Sep 2014 #80
They don't understand what Hallowe'en is. Ilsa Sep 2014 #54
And they would say YOU don't understand it. nt. Mariana Sep 2014 #57
Buncha religion-poisoned homophobe hatemongers is all they are. HughBeaumont Sep 2014 #55
It IS, that's what's flamingdem Sep 2014 #58
Nominations for the subject of our annual satanic curse are now closed--we have a winner! pinboy3niner Sep 2014 #61
They probably hang out with this woman on the weekends. Initech Sep 2014 #69
They don't like "magic," but they are fine with a book of stories about a talking snake, Arugula Latte Sep 2014 #70
WTF? smirkymonkey Sep 2014 #72
Yes, it is. Jamastiene Sep 2014 #79
Don't forget Lott and his daughters, who take turns having sex with papa in a cave Jamastiene Sep 2014 #78
Those are some wholesome family values right there! Arugula Latte Sep 2014 #136
Tell me about it. Jamastiene Sep 2014 #139
Of course they consider it demonic - LibertyLover Sep 2014 #74
I haven't kept up with those weird ass people. Jamastiene Sep 2014 #75
They're based in Arkansas I think nt maryellen99 Sep 2014 #82
*eek* CountAllVotes Sep 2014 #81
Perhaps if people would not watch their silly reality benld74 Sep 2014 #84
Overpopulation is demonic. 6000eliot Sep 2014 #85
I'm offended. I consider Halloween as Christ's true birthday. hunter Sep 2014 #86
The quiverful thing requires a quantity-over-quality mindset... Orsino Sep 2014 #87
I feel so sorry for the Duggar kids. Raffi Ella Sep 2014 #89
There's one that was sent to boot camp tabbycat31 Sep 2014 #90
Of courrrrse libodem Sep 2014 #92
Fuck these people ellie Sep 2014 #99
Buying all those costumes would bankrupt them. leftyladyfrommo Sep 2014 #100
Isn't it statistically likely that at least one little Duggar or Duggarette would be gay? tularetom Sep 2014 #101
The father is a card carrying Republican.... SummerSnow Sep 2014 #102
Remind me why these asshats are on TV again? JCMach1 Sep 2014 #110
Who gives a shit? truebrit71 Sep 2014 #113
Well. the Duggars are DUMBonic...nt GReedDiamond Sep 2014 #115
I could care less what they believe especially about Halloween. What I care about is them liberal_at_heart Sep 2014 #120
I'm not shocked, but why again do we care Arkana Sep 2014 #125
A Duggar daughter recently married a LibDemAlways Sep 2014 #127
A woman wearing pants?!?! Arugula Latte Sep 2014 #137
Planet-killing over-reproduction is a lot more demonic n/t eridani Sep 2014 #131
F-them! I have one kid, and it's the best "holiday" of the year to him. HuckleB Sep 2014 #135
Don't much care what they think or say Marrah_G Sep 2014 #138
Do they also believe in elves? Orsino Oct 2014 #142

Dreamer Tatum

(10,926 posts)
1. This is observationally equivalent to people who don't feel like buying candy to give out.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:00 PM
Sep 2014

So really, who cares?

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
2. I consider having 19 kids during a time when our our future is one of ever limited resources...
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:02 PM
Sep 2014

to be demonic.

So there...

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
26. Sounds like you don't understand what 'pro choice' means.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 07:06 PM
Sep 2014

It means you support a woman's right to choose what to do if she is pregnant.

It doesn't mean you have to actually agree with the choice she makes.

Just that you recognize that the decision is hers to make, not yours or anyone else's.

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
30. Pro-choice does not mean "ABSENT ANY PLANNING" for any and all future pregnancies
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 07:19 PM
Sep 2014

Women are not brood mares and the men that press them into such a chattel role (and the parents/church members who brainwash them into this role) should rot in the hell of their own making.

Children deserve a childhood, which does not happen when they become indentured servants to cleaning the house and raising the younger children--all an outcome of these gargantuan families. In centuries past, large families served a purpose--to ensure the survival of at least a few, given the high rate of childhood mortality. That time is long past.

This is not a "pro-choice" issue. No one has taken her choice away during any of her 19 pregnancies. It is a world-responsibility issue, however and they are thus fully open to the criticism they receive as a couple.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
66. 100 percent pro choice
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 12:55 AM
Sep 2014

Besides it will help with Social Security having them work and pay SS taxes. Don't forget our country is aging big time. We as a whole are not having that many children. It is one family not everyone.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
93. I beg your pardon: pro-choice meant it was YOUR choice. Not anyone else's.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 01:18 AM
Sep 2014

It did not mean that third parties could interpret your choices and tell you that you were wrong, wrong, wrong. If you choose to have an abortion, no one gets to tell you that's the wrong choice. If you decide to have many children, no one gets to tell you that's the wrong choice. Period.

You may disagree with how Mrs. Duggar has chosen to spend her life, but as a pro-choice person, one must respect her choice.

In the same way, if you decide to have only one child or no children, that is ALSO a choice and one must respect your choice.

alp227

(32,018 posts)
96. "Respect others' opinions" is a very weak argument.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 04:50 AM
Sep 2014

What happened to critical thinking? Not all opinions/choices are equally worthy. In my book "pro choice" is only in the eyes of the law - not MY eyes.

alp227

(32,018 posts)
107. In any case, define what out means to respect
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:12 PM
Sep 2014

others' choices, our else that phrase is empty words to shut down thinking.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
111. Thank you. It means that you come from a philosophical world view of choice
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:31 PM
Sep 2014

You understand that different people can make different choices in regard to pregnancy and childbirth. It means that you philosophically respect a multitude of choices and don't eviscerate people for making those choices.

If a given woman wants to remain child-free through her life, she should be allowed to do that, and not be judged for not wanting children. It is a valid choice.

If a given woman wants a single child and no more, it is a valid choice.

If a given woman really wants to have a dozen or more children, it is a valid choice.

If a given woman wants to have an abortion, it is a valid choice.

If a given woman wants to carry a pregnancy to term and give the resulting child away for adoption, that is a valid choice.

If a given woman wants to carry a pregnancy to term and raise the child, regardless of her marital status or sexual orientation, that is a valid choice.

Your right to a choice is based on the rights of others to their choices. It is a philosophical position, but also a legal one. Roe v. Wade is based on the right to privacy in reproductive matters. Your right to an abortion is based on the right to privacy, and your right to make private decisions outside of government control. Mrs. Duggar's right to have many children is also based on her right to privacy, her right to make private decisions outside of government control.

If you are truly pro-choice, you respect the choices that others make based on their privacy rights (guaranteed by Roe v. Wade) and you respect their own ability to make those choices.

alp227

(32,018 posts)
112. So can one be non judgmental while making an argument
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:39 PM
Sep 2014

about why choice x is superior to choice y, for instance?

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
116. Once you assign values to choices, you disrupt the general notion of choice and you invite criticism
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:56 PM
Sep 2014

of your own choices.

So, if you decide that the Duggars made a "less good" (worse?) choice, then you will have to be ready to defend your own choices and cannot philosophically fall back on a pro-choice argument. Let's say you have no children and one abortion. In a pro choice model, there is no judgement for that. Once you destroy the model by assessing value to the Duggars' choice, you open yourself up to people criticizing your choice. You cannot say, "It's my right to have an abortion, end of story," because it is the Duggar's right to have many children, end of story, but you have challenged that. So they would have a right to challenge you: under what circumstances did you have the abortion? Wouldn't it have been a better choice to let that child live and put it up for adoption? Etc.

Pro-choice is actually a difficult position because it requires philosophical consistency.

What some people actually are is "anti-population growth", not pro-choice. If you are "anti-population growth" you support fewer births, whether that is by abortion or birth control (family planning) and, very often, more deaths, as in assisted suicide or euthanasia. If this is your world view, then you are not pro-choice, you are anti-population, and you can criticize the Duggars from that perspective. But to be intellectually honest, you have to admit that you want the entire world to have that same world view for your goal to materialize. It is a short jump from wanting the world to agree with you to supporting legislation limiting family size (like they do in China). This, of course, counters the whole notion of reproductive privacy in Roe v. Wade. It makes reproduction a state matter, not a personal one.

I am a strong believer in the undergirding of Roe v. Wade: the right to reproductive privacy. I strongly believe in supporting the right of a woman to have zero children or many children, of having an abortion or choosing an adoption--all without government interference.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
121. Are you so accustomed to people lying that you can't comprehend when someone tells you the truth?
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 11:00 PM
Sep 2014

There's not much I can do about that.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
106. It means that your philosophical world view should shape your opinion. If you are Pro-Choice, you
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 09:59 PM
Sep 2014

need to have an opinion consistent with that philosophy. Otherwise, it's called "hypocrisy".

LondonReign2

(5,213 posts)
124. You're very confused as to what pro-choice means
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 01:19 PM
Sep 2014

Hint: It doesn't mean precluding disagreeing with the choice.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
128. Ok. If I am confused, perhaps you can do what I have done: give a philosophical and legal perspectiv
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 02:46 PM
Sep 2014

on what pro-choice means to you.

HoustonDave

(60 posts)
134. Pretty freakin' judgemental, aren't you?
Tue Sep 30, 2014, 01:03 PM
Sep 2014

Got some bad news for you - some families welcome lots of kids and enjoy them. That doesn't mean the women are brood mares or that the men (or their churches) pressure them into it - they have large families because they WANT to. Kids are not indentured servants because they help out around the house - but it does help teach them about responsibility and personal obligation.

I personally would have no desire to have that many children, but think you could lighten up on their choices and could stop projecting so much into them. Just an opinion.

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
140. when men decide to relegate women to the role of brood mare--mere chattel for more and more children
Tue Sep 30, 2014, 01:30 PM
Sep 2014

than is healthy either for the woman or the children-- and thus relegate the children to raising the younger siblings and losing their childhood to indentured servitude, you are DAMNED right I am judgmental. Damn them all. Children deserve a childhood. Women deserve to be treated like human beings. We aren't talking a "large" family of five or eight or even ten---we are talking 19 children!

And those who defend women being treated like this are again, free to enjoy the hell of their own making.

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
51. Absolutely pro-choice.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 09:57 PM
Sep 2014

Criticizing someone's decisions in no way denies her right to make those decisons.

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
52. so its ok to protest outside an abortion clinic
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 10:04 PM
Sep 2014

As long as they are just critizing a womans decision?

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
95. Not immediately. But societal judgements can quickly become laws that deny people rights
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 01:24 AM
Sep 2014

That's why you must separate your philosophical outlook from your kneejerk reactions.

alp227

(32,018 posts)
97. You and I know protesting outside clinics is far beyond mere criticism.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 04:51 AM
Sep 2014

It's intimidation/coercion/discouragement. Otherwise why would the protesters spend all that energy going to clinics?

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
117. Pretty ridiculous isn't it? Those who don't want to have a baby must have the choice not to, but
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:56 PM
Sep 2014

those who want to have more than what is socially acceptable should be shunned. It's really not worth the argument. You're not going to get these so called pro choice people to agree to allow conservatives to have as many children as they want.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
36. My dad's parents had 9 kids (8 still living) and I love all my aunts and uncles dearly.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 07:42 PM
Sep 2014

Nonetheless, I still think the Duggars are idiots. Frightening idiots at that.

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
37. Large families, especially during the depression and in rural areas was the norm.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 07:47 PM
Sep 2014

Childhood mortality rates have, for centuries driven such decisions--rather understandably. But, even in those times, 19 children would have been excessive to most. AND, this is a very different time.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
143. We needn't hate the children or the parents.
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 12:19 AM
Oct 2014

Just the profound narcissism, xenophobia and conspicuous consumption that Quiverfulls confuse with virtue.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
3. But God himself used magic to create the universe and everything in it.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:03 PM
Sep 2014

It says so right in the Bible.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
94. The Bible doesn't say it was "magic". That's your interpretation.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 01:21 AM
Sep 2014

No one has a real clue as to why life exists at all and why there's not just nothing. Religious traditions give certain guesses about how this was accomplished. You can think they are non-scientific (which they are) but you can't assume they all refer to magic.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
6. Try talking fucking babytalk in a breathy Marilyn voice
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:07 PM
Sep 2014

into your 40's. Seems to work for stupid Mrs. Duggar. Oh, and make the first pumpkins fucking raise the rest of the pumpkins, yanno - Ponziparenting.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
5. Read "Zealot". All the other messiah-type-guys back in the day,
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:05 PM
Sep 2014

and there were many - wereblown off by the early Christians as Magicians -m a very highly perjorative term.

Of course Moses allegedly pulled a ton of magic-y shit prior to Jesus, but HE was DIFFERENT. Says who? The editors. Fuck all that shit and the crazy Tali-Duggs.

Also, their smarmy, soft, uneducated first son (Jackas, maybe? can't recall his stupid J name) is a fucking dipshit.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
7. These people are not fun.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:10 PM
Sep 2014

I had Halloween every year as a kid, and I still don't worship Satan. So there, Duggars.

wandy

(3,539 posts)
8. Beware of the magic in that appliance from hell you are typing on.........
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:16 PM
Sep 2014

It is not a joke in god's eyes and once the blue smoke and magic escape it you will be rendered into the dark ages.

Or at least I'm beginning to understand how the dark ages happened. Dugger like primitives fearing magic, sorcery, witches, spell-casting and harmless things they don't understand.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
76. It is a miracle mankind ever learned how to make fire.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 11:13 AM
Sep 2014

It is also a miracle mankind invented light bulbs. We would all still be sitting in caves eating raw meat in the dark if people like the Duggars had their way.

Response to Archae (Original post)

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
13. crotch-fruit? That's how you refer to children? Wow. Do you aspire to be as hateful as the
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:29 PM
Sep 2014

people you criticize?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
50. My my...poster been here since 2002
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 09:49 PM
Sep 2014

yet just started posting. I do hope they enjoy their stay.

greyl

(22,990 posts)
64. No, their profile doesn't say they just started posting.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 12:23 AM
Sep 2014

A simple search shows your statement was false, and should probably be retracted for the sake of honesty.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
11. The Baptist preacher in my neighborhood had the best candy and decorations
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:25 PM
Sep 2014

Then again, his church used to feed the homeless and welcomed everyone regardless of race or national origin, so he wasn't exactly a stereotypical right-winger.

I don't believe in the supernatural. But I always have, and always will, respect him, his generous spirit, and his commitment to everyday people.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
12. I was hoping to conjur a demon out of my anus, this Halloween.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:27 PM
Sep 2014

I figured the ol' neighborhood would get a kick out of that.

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
114. They have a friggin TV show about them and their kids.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:51 PM
Sep 2014

That i have never, ever seen and have no desire to. I don't think a thread on DU is significantly going to impact their public perception.

Neoma

(10,039 posts)
123. I don't even watch TV.
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 11:44 AM
Sep 2014

Bad publicity is good publicity for these folks. Why should anyone give a shit about these people?

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
21. the highly improbable magic events in the bible are "miracles"
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 06:46 PM
Sep 2014

All other highly improbable magic events are demonic.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
31. Far from it!
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 07:20 PM
Sep 2014

My church is going to have a big Halloween bash.

No super scary costume because of the little kids, but you don't have to dress as a pumpkin, either.

And heaven forbid, our pastor loves Harry Potter!

Archae

(46,318 posts)
45. Every year I read about churches that put on a "Hell House."
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 09:36 PM
Sep 2014

Supposed to scare the kiddies into being Christians.

Shows terrible stuff, dope addicts, abortions, all the fundy bugaboos.

Talk about stupid.

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
73. Most churches are not "fundy" churches
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 09:35 AM
Sep 2014

Although most churches share a bit of fundamentalist elements here and there. That's ok, though. No one on this board completely agrees, either.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
39. The church I attended as a child
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 08:02 PM
Sep 2014

had a special service on October 31st that was for rememberng those who have died.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
59. November 1st is All Saints Day.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 11:21 PM
Sep 2014

I suppose to those who did not grow up ij the Christian faith (which I understand is looked down upon by many DUsrs) it is erie.

For a party that regularly proclaims tolerance, I find some irony when it comes to religion.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
130. Everything about female anatomy is magic to them. Like The Wandering Wombs:
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 05:35 PM
Sep 2014
The Wandering Womb : A Cultural History of Outrageous Beliefs About Woman

Female anatomy, especially the womb, has for centuries been shrouded in mystery and misunderstanding, defining the social place of women in male dominated cultures. Even with advances in medicine, some in today's society believe they can control women's sexual identity.

The Wandering Womb is a provocative tour through religious, medical, and social histories, pinpointing humorous, outrageous, and hair-raising beliefs, practices, and longstanding falsehoods that permeate human cultures. In Egyptian times, it was believed that the womb was an entity unto itself capable of "wandering" in the body, and also into the world beyond in search of nourishment! This idea, and many others were entwined in medical ignorance and religious superstition, which have often labeled women as incomplete, inferior, imperfect, and even inherently evil.

Sexual myths have viewed menstruation as dirty, designing outrageous rituals around this natural process, from strange diets and prescriptions to mandated isolation and violent practices. Sexuality and desire in women has been viewed as taboo and dangerous, while child rearing is considered the highest calling. In Western history, women's health problems were often written off simply as an "unsatisfied uterus," or "hysteria" of their weak and demon possessed bodies, while physical characteristics were used to label women as witches.

This fascinating, often maddening romp through the bedrooms and birthing rooms of time illustrates why women have been sexually "enslaved," and reminds us that we've come a long way from the mythical virgin birth to women's liberation and beyond.


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The first review is also good, but it was written back in 1999. I think the country has regressed to something slighter newer than 3000 B.C. with the GOP take over of school boards and churches.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
77. I will apply for a job there.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 11:16 AM
Sep 2014

There really is a War on Halloween. Seeing Rudolph and Santa standing next to witches and pumpkins is kind of odd, but at Lowes in my hometown last year, that is exactly what happened. I actually like Christmas too, but not before Halloween.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
41. Can you imagine 19 kids hopped up on halloween candy?
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 08:23 PM
Sep 2014

"Demonic" is a pretty accurate term for that, I think!

maryellen99

(3,788 posts)
44. But these same people scream that liberals are waging a war on Christmas
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 08:55 PM
Sep 2014

But nobody cares that the religious right has been waging a war on Halloween.

 

CANDO

(2,068 posts)
47. Side hug!
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 09:44 PM
Sep 2014

Mrs Duggar is a stepford wife. She's always way too chilled out for a mother with 19 kids. She so non chalant in her demeanor it frightens me.

Archae

(46,318 posts)
49. The few times I actually saw her...
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 09:47 PM
Sep 2014

She seemed to be brainwashed.

"Gawd told me to do everything my husband wants!"

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
60. She does not actually raise the kids
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 11:31 PM
Sep 2014

Her older daughters do. There was one episode of the show where she was trying to get her younger kids to do something and they would not listen to her, but listened to an older daughter. Two of the younger girls, Jennifer and Jordyn (#17 and #18) barely get any attention from her at all and Jennifer responds better to (now married and pregnant) Jill instead of Michelle. Jordyn truly is the lost girl because she was less than 1 when Josie (youngest, born very premature) was born.

I think she's on many meds and that's what is causing her to act the way she does.

And I really want one of those kids to rebel and take a few siblings with him/her. And I'd love to see the episode "A Duggar Comes Out."

(Their TV show is one of my guilty pleasures).

3catwoman3

(23,973 posts)
53. At the pediatric office where I work...
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 10:33 PM
Sep 2014

...we can dress up on Halloween if we choose to, as long as it is not creepy axe murderer type stuff. I usually opt for a cape and a pointy wizard type hat. One year, a mom looked at me very severely, and announced, "WE don't celebrate the devil's birthday." After being briefly at a loss for words, I simply said, "Neither do I."

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
80. Good comeback. I would probably have made some snotty remark
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 11:36 AM
Sep 2014

like, "Well, give yourself a pat on the back for being so holy."

And gotten myself fired!

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
54. They don't understand what Hallowe'en is.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 10:35 PM
Sep 2014

It's intended to be fun to mock death and winter and short days right before All Saint's Day and All Soul's Day, or Dia de los Inocentes and Dia de los Muertas on Nov. 1st and 2nd.

HughBeaumont

(24,461 posts)
55. Buncha religion-poisoned homophobe hatemongers is all they are.
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 10:37 PM
Sep 2014

Jawsh Duggar is the poster boy for wingnut welfare.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
70. They don't like "magic," but they are fine with a book of stories about a talking snake,
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 01:52 AM
Sep 2014

a burning bush, a dead guy who turns out to be a zombie, cannibalism, and creatures including unicorns, satyrs, cockatrices (rooster-serpents that kill when looked upon), and a race of giants. Oh, and there are lots of lovely little stories such as this one:

Judges 19:22-30:
A man and his concubine are wandering the streets when they decide to seek shelter for the night, and find a man kind enough to let them stay. That night however, a group of men turn up at the door and demand to see the guest so that they may have sex with him. The owner is unwilling to let his male lodger be raped and so offers up his virgin daughter instead. However, this is still not good enough for the men, so the owner offers them his guest’s concubine and the men accept. The men brutally rape the woman and leave her on the doorstep where she bleeds to death. If that is not enough, when she is found by her husband, he chops her up into twelve pieces which he sends to each of the twelve tribes of Israel.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
79. Yes, it is.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 11:26 AM
Sep 2014
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lot_%28biblical_person%29#Lot_flees_Sodom

Don't forget to read about Lot and his Daughters right after that...it's part of the same story.

I'd much rather carve a pumpkin, eat some of it, freeze the rest, and watch horror movies all night one night a year than live THAT reality the entire year.
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
136. Those are some wholesome family values right there!
Tue Sep 30, 2014, 01:19 PM
Sep 2014

No wonder people want to use this book to guide their lives.



Ugh.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
139. Tell me about it.
Tue Sep 30, 2014, 01:20 PM
Sep 2014

And THAT is the story they use to beat gay people over the head with the Bible. Un-fricken-believable.

LibertyLover

(4,788 posts)
74. Of course they consider it demonic -
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 09:46 AM
Sep 2014

they are extremely conservative fundy Christians, probably with little or no sense of humor or knowledge of history. Honestly, it would be a news story if these idiots came out and said they liked the holiday, encouraged their children to participate in trick-or-treating and celebrated it each year with a big party for the entire neighborhood. The OP in entirely correctly - why is anybody surprised? What also doesn't surprise me is that the Duggars don't know that Halloween really is a Christian holiday, the eve of All Saints' Day. Besides, witches don't celebrate Halloween either - but ask us about Samhain.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
75. I haven't kept up with those weird ass people.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 11:08 AM
Sep 2014

Are they from my area of the country? They have Hell Houses down here instead of Haunted Houses and it's freaking backasswards. I was just wondering if they are from the Bible Belt. Or do other areas have backasswards people who go to extremes to appear holier-than-thou like that too?

hunter

(38,310 posts)
86. I'm offended. I consider Halloween as Christ's true birthday.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 01:29 PM
Sep 2014

The Christmas Creche, with baby Jesus, Mary, Joseph, and the Three Wise Werewolves is a big hit with neighbors. Their favorite part is the gory realistic crucifixions in the background, randomly and shockingly lit by simulated lightening and thunder. Oh, yeah, there's also a burning bush speaking in tongues. If you listen long enough you can almost make out the words. It's rather like a Rorschach test. The faithful will hear God just as they might see images of Christ or the Virgin Mary on their toast.

Okay, can I be a television celebrity now?




Orsino

(37,428 posts)
87. The quiverful thing requires a quantity-over-quality mindset...
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 01:54 PM
Sep 2014

...akin to trying to set a record for most marriages. It relegates women to the nurseries. Go thou forth and raise up an army of believers to fight for Jesus!

Military recruiters with such mandates cut a lot of corners, too.

Raffi Ella

(4,465 posts)
89. I feel so sorry for the Duggar kids.
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 02:18 PM
Sep 2014

They're so isolated and controlled and watched that they are not able to think for themselves, and if they try to they are "trained" out of it.

It fascinates me that the older children continue to go along with it. I realize it's hard to break away, almost impossible really, but still. I keep hoping to see some glimmer of independent thought from one of the kids...

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
90. There's one that was sent to boot camp
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 02:34 PM
Sep 2014

Well a Christian boot camp. He strikes me as a likely rebel (and probably gay) and I think Dim Bulb, err Jim Bob saw the writing on the wall.

He just turned 18 and I would love to be his gateway to escape.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
92. Of courrrrse
Fri Sep 26, 2014, 02:41 PM
Sep 2014

There are no seasons. There is to time to be born. No time to die. To time to sow. No time to reap.

Death does not happen on God's watch? Right?

Big ol' sarcasm tag:

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
101. Isn't it statistically likely that at least one little Duggar or Duggarette would be gay?
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 11:47 AM
Sep 2014

I want to see the show where they discover that.

SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
102. The father is a card carrying Republican....
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 12:49 PM
Sep 2014

who served in the Arkansas House of Representatives. They also endorsed Rick Santorum for President.Demonic for sure.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
120. I could care less what they believe especially about Halloween. What I care about is them
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:59 PM
Sep 2014

trying to influence politics. I heard Mrs. Duggar had some pretty nasty things to say about a law that was being proposed to protect transgender people. That is what we should be outraged about. Who gives a shit what they believe about Halloween?

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
127. A Duggar daughter recently married a
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 02:09 PM
Sep 2014

guy who grew up celebrating Halloween. There's photographic evidence of him carving a jack-o-lantern as a kid. He also attended a secular university and dressed up as the school mascot. His mother is a career woman who wears pants. Hoping some of this rubs off on his wife and she enters the 20th century at some point.

HuckleB

(35,773 posts)
135. F-them! I have one kid, and it's the best "holiday" of the year to him.
Tue Sep 30, 2014, 01:17 PM
Sep 2014

Yep. Decorations are already up!!!!

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