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loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 05:56 PM Aug 2014

The Truth About Down Syndrome (What Dawkins got wrong)

I'm not comfortable with his moral reasoning, and this is why.


But Mr. Dawkins’s argument is flawed. Not because his moral reasoning is wrong, necessarily (that is a question for another day), but because his understanding of the facts is mistaken. Recent research indicates that individuals with Down syndrome can experience more happiness and potential for success than Mr. Dawkins seems to appreciate.


http://mobile.nytimes.com/2014/08/29/opinion/the-truth-about-down-syndrome.html?smid=fb-share&_r=3&referrer


If the people who have down syndrome can experience happiness and success, wouldn't their families feel happy about that? It reminds me of what one young woman said "why isn't it called 'up syndrome'? I'm have an upbeat personality."

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The Truth About Down Syndrome (What Dawkins got wrong) (Original Post) loyalsister Aug 2014 OP
Like one of the mother's told me 15 years ago.."He'll be able to do anything but drive" Tikki Aug 2014 #1
I've known mostly adults with Down's. Warpy Aug 2014 #28
In all my years of working with clients with down's I have seen only one child that showed any signs jwirr Aug 2014 #36
People with disabilities were enlisted to be loyalsister Aug 2014 #63
Exactly. jwirr Aug 2014 #64
Fortunately for all of us, LiberalAndProud Aug 2014 #2
I really don't understand the controversy here, unless it's because Dawkins said it. arcane1 Aug 2014 #3
as a self-appointed moral authority loyalsister Aug 2014 #5
Thank you. n/t moriah Aug 2014 #6
It's merely his opinion, no more or less valid than anyone else's. arcane1 Aug 2014 #7
And no one takes opinions of intellectuals seriously loyalsister Aug 2014 #9
Since this isn't his area of expertise, his opinion is no more relevant than his opinion of tv shows arcane1 Aug 2014 #12
He is not a "self-appointed moral authority". Iron Man Aug 2014 #10
He stated his opinion when someone specifically asked it gollygee Aug 2014 #33
Still, never mind eh? mr blur Aug 2014 #59
This is about making a value judgement that he thinks should be applied to others. If he wants to jwirr Aug 2014 #37
It's because Dawkins said it. Mariana Aug 2014 #60
As far as I know Christians do not single out a specific group they are talking about they disagree jwirr Aug 2014 #65
Actually loyalsister Aug 2014 #70
At least in my church there is no such bias and the use of seizures (which my daughter has) was jwirr Aug 2014 #74
Unfortunately there are still literal interpreters who don't see it that way loyalsister Aug 2014 #75
Of course there are. That is much the problem we are having in America today. The rw with their jwirr Aug 2014 #76
landover baptist is a parody site, not a real church independentpiney Aug 2014 #77
Sorry, I should have been more diligent loyalsister Aug 2014 #78
It has nothing to do with Dawkins loyalsister Aug 2014 #71
Fetuses aren't "people with disabilities". nt. Mariana Aug 2014 #72
The statement devalues existing people loyalsister Aug 2014 #73
Exactly. They lead happy lives. I wonder if Dawkins does? Maybe unhappy people applegrove Aug 2014 #4
That was the sentiment behind eugenics policies loyalsister Aug 2014 #8
Eugenics was about race. Iron Man Aug 2014 #11
It was also about disability loyalsister Aug 2014 #14
Thank you. Dawkins seems to be implying that the severely disabled are not as valuable Wella Aug 2014 #20
What if disability-related medical expenses are the reasons she can't afford it? arcane1 Aug 2014 #21
So you think it's a moral duty to abort the disabled? Wella Aug 2014 #22
Putting words in my mouth? Classy. You know I never even implied that. Nice try though. arcane1 Aug 2014 #23
Actually, I'm not. I'm trying to figure out where you stand on this morally Wella Aug 2014 #24
You missed an important phrase there: Iron Man Aug 2014 #55
Where I stand is an irrelevant distraction. arcane1 Aug 2014 #61
It doesn't matter. Iron Man Aug 2014 #54
What is it that you are arguing here? LisaL Aug 2014 #82
No. I pointing out that Dawkins thinks that aborting a Downs syndrome baby is a moral good Wella Sep 2014 #83
Choice goes two ways. jwirr Aug 2014 #40
We should be providing health care for all, so that shouldn't be a question. moriah Aug 2014 #66
It does have that ring loyalsister Aug 2014 #25
I like the way you said that Wella Aug 2014 #26
Eugenics was about a lot more than race. I suggest you read "War Against the Weak: Eugenics and jwirr Aug 2014 #39
:) Puzzledtraveller Aug 2014 #13
I fully support a woman's right to choose, just to be clear. And that means applegrove Aug 2014 #15
i agree Puzzledtraveller Aug 2014 #16
He merely gave an opinion when someone asked a question. Iron Man Aug 2014 #17
He wasn't chosing for other people. LisaL Aug 2014 #41
Is it a happy life PasadenaTrudy Aug 2014 #18
Do you know many parents who are raising or have raised children with DS loyalsister Aug 2014 #19
You can't really know that for sure, unless you're one of the parents ecstatic Aug 2014 #58
well I know many who are advocates for PWD loyalsister Aug 2014 #62
Ask them treestar Aug 2014 #56
why are people defending his opinion? Does he have a right to his opinion? Of course he does. liberal_at_heart Aug 2014 #27
I prefer disabled because it locates the condition more appropriately loyalsister Aug 2014 #32
It's named after some doctor named Down. SheilaT Aug 2014 #29
There are many issues that come with Down syndrome. LisaL Aug 2014 #30
And some go to college and start their own businesses loyalsister Aug 2014 #31
Maybe this will help loyalsister Aug 2014 #34
Men with Down syndrome are sterile, but large number of women with Down syndrome are fertile. LisaL Aug 2014 #38
Often is not the same as always loyalsister Aug 2014 #42
As far as I can tell, only LisaL Aug 2014 #43
Is this a problem that men with down syndrome are concerned about? loyalsister Aug 2014 #48
People without Down's also have these complications. jwirr Aug 2014 #44
Obviously not at the same rate. LisaL Aug 2014 #46
Yes I am aware of that - what I want to know is so what? We should abort then for these reasons? jwirr Aug 2014 #49
If a woman wants to have an abortion for whatever reason, she LisaL Aug 2014 #50
If you read the rest of my post you will see that is what I am saying. I see the devaluation of jwirr Aug 2014 #51
It should be woman's choice. LisaL Aug 2014 #52
Since we still cannot tell the level of functioning for Downs before birth are not one set of facts jwirr Aug 2014 #53
There is also this. LisaL Aug 2014 #47
I didn't know that. Wow. nt ecstatic Aug 2014 #57
So let's dismiss a huge segment of society mentalsolstice Aug 2014 #67
Fetuses aren't a segment of society. nt. Mariana Aug 2014 #68
Disabled people are a segment of society and unless you know some other way of becoming a person, liberal_at_heart Aug 2014 #69
Are you saying that disabled fetus should be afforded the same rights as a disabled person? LisaL Aug 2014 #81
It's up to one person: the mother. I don't consider it a "moral" issue. NYC Liberal Aug 2014 #35
Agreed. That is what those of us who are arguing against what he said are trying to say. jwirr Aug 2014 #45
my guess is that Dawkins resents the money being spent demigoddess Aug 2014 #79
People who resent the money being spent loyalsister Aug 2014 #80

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
1. Like one of the mother's told me 15 years ago.."He'll be able to do anything but drive"
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:12 PM
Aug 2014

and now I am thinking with new technology, he'll be able to get around independently in a vehicle..
to work and back home to a spouse..

It was a privilege to work with the little one's with Down...


Tikki

Warpy

(111,250 posts)
28. I've known mostly adults with Down's.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 01:23 AM
Aug 2014

One characteristic I've found among them is the lack of a capacity for meanness. Oh, they can be contrary and they can get angry but they will never do anything out of spite.

They can be truly amazing people. It just takes them longer to learn things.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
36. In all my years of working with clients with down's I have seen only one child that showed any signs
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:41 AM
Aug 2014

of being mean and he was in an abusive family. It was learned behavior. Most of my clients believed in "don't worry - be happy". One of the problems with Dawkins theory is that before the child is born it is impossible to determine the level of functioning. So you can have a child who is severe and may not live very long or you can have a child who will be able to function in a very normal way. So he would have all of them aborted to keep the most severe from suffering?

I once sat in a classroom where we had a visitor who had been a young teen in Nazi Germany taking part in a discussion about just this subject. He let much of the class hang themselves with attitudes like Dawkins. He deliberately sat in the seat right behind me as he had been clued into my daughter's illness. When everyone but me had a say he asked me what I thought - my family would not give up my daughter for anything. She is the joy of our life. (She does not have Down's but a very severe developmental disability.)

Then he told us what he had learned in Germany when he was young. The summary was that whenever you take a subsection of society out of that society there is a vacuum and the society is less for the lose. Dawkins is wrong. And for a disabled person to say this is very narrow minded.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
63. People with disabilities were enlisted to be
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 02:52 PM
Aug 2014

the subjects in medical research which was actually experiments to help the NAZI's learn about the functional value of gas chambers. They were judged as being "life unworthy of life" meaning expensive and unable to contribute to society. It was easy to get people to agree either in the spirit of saving them from suffering or not wanting them to be a drain on society.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
2. Fortunately for all of us,
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:14 PM
Aug 2014

Dawkins isn't trying to get his code of morals legislated into law. The same cannot be said of people who hold opposing viewpoints.

I like the idea of renaming the condition, though.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
3. I really don't understand the controversy here, unless it's because Dawkins said it.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:19 PM
Aug 2014

If a woman aborts a pregnancy due to the presence of Downs Syndrome, she's committing an immoral act?

If she terminates a healthy pregnancy because she can't afford to raise a baby, that's OK?

If she chooses to end a pregnancy because of Downs Syndrome, should the state be allowed to force her to carry it to term?

Should the laws be changed to say "abortion is legal, but only if done for these specific reasons"?

Just because he's an outspoken proponent of atheism, doesn't make him a moral authority. And especially when it comes to this topic, the only moral authority is the mother making the choice.

My two cents

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
5. as a self-appointed moral authority
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:48 PM
Aug 2014

He said that it is immoral to carry a pregnancy to term if the fetus has been identified as having DS.

Both of these statements are offensive for the same reason. They are moral judgements on what women should do with their bodies. They are not legal statements made in court, but they are both efforts to persuade.

It is wrong for you to continue your pregnancy
It is wrong to end your pregnancy

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
7. It's merely his opinion, no more or less valid than anyone else's.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:58 PM
Aug 2014

Didn't this all come about because a woman was in this situation and asked him for advice?

Many people believe it's immoral to bring a child into this world if one can't afford to raise it, and the law allows them to act on that moral judgement. I won't go out of my way to tell someone that one reason is good and the other is bad, but if they ask for my opinion I'll likely provide it.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
9. And no one takes opinions of intellectuals seriously
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:03 PM
Aug 2014

Like when their input is requested by lawmakers? I remember a guy in the economics department at MU, who republicans invited to testify in bill hearings.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
12. Since this isn't his area of expertise, his opinion is no more relevant than his opinion of tv shows
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:21 PM
Aug 2014

I seriously doubt that congress will be trying to pass a law that mandates abortions anytime soon. The republicans are too busy trying to outlaw all abortions.

The "slippery slope to eugenics" argument is the same one that white anti-choice conservatives use to lure black people to their side, but they argue that poverty is the immoral reason for abortions: too many poor, black women having abortions will lead to the end of their race, they claim.

We can agree or disagree with his opinion, but I don't see it as fundamentally worse than any other argument for abortion. Many women have abortions, for as many reasons, and I don't see some of them as more moral than others.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
33. He stated his opinion when someone specifically asked it
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:10 AM
Aug 2014

He isn't a self-appointed moral authority. He just answered a question when someone asked him his opinion. I suspect that person was disingenuous in asking and wanted to create an anti-abortion shit storm. I'm not falling into that game. You ask someone's opinion, someone might tell you it.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
37. This is about making a value judgement that he thinks should be applied to others. If he wants to
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:48 AM
Aug 2014

get an abortion fine. He did not leave room for a different choice for others. This my post is defending the choices of others. I do not object to any woman making up her own mind. It is her right.

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
60. It's because Dawkins said it.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 01:48 PM
Aug 2014

Christians regularly proclaim that abortions, for any reason, are immoral, and you don't hear anywhere near this much squawking about it.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
65. As far as I know Christians do not single out a specific group they are talking about they disagree
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 09:19 PM
Aug 2014

with abortion period.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
70. Actually
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:18 PM
Aug 2014

People with disabilities often don't feel welcome in some Christian churches due to a long held beliefs that disability is punishment visited on the parents. Or that there is something inherently evil in people with disabilities (especially epilepsy and mental illness). And, they aren't always accessible.

Disability has been objectified in Christian churches for a very long time. People with disabilities "healed" by fraudulent preachers. Used opportunistically by the religious right to forward their abortion, end-of-life agendas. Used for fundraising, etc.


Obviously, there are churches that make an effort to welcome people with disabilities, so it isn't a blanket statement. However, the literal interpretations show either pity or images of a person who is possessed by demons. In fact, seizures are mentioned in the bible a number of times...

http://www.openbible.info/topics/epilepsy

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
74. At least in my church there is no such bias and the use of seizures (which my daughter has) was
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:56 PM
Aug 2014

long ago recognized as a reference to the way they understood it back then before science gave it a medical term. I suspect that it is the same way when we look at the Bible's story of creation. The way people saw it in history.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
75. Unfortunately there are still literal interpreters who don't see it that way
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:20 PM
Aug 2014

Last edited Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:51 PM - Edit history (1)

Believe it or not, seizure (seized by a demon or unknown force) is still a medical term. A state legislator told a man who he knew had a bipolar disorder that the solution is an exorcism.

Epilepsy.com and others have had to address the question for people who have epilepsy:


Has anyone had problems with religious family members whipping out Mark 9 (the chapter where Jesus heals a boy who apparently is having seizures of some sort), then declaring that you must have demons in you, or you have spiritual unrest, or are somehow "not right" with God?
My father did that to me recently.
http://www.epilepsy.com/node/976814


I am just pointing out that ableist sentiment is not limited to Dawkins. I know this is not the belief of most Christians. But, I do find it ironic that Dawkins is aligned with some radiacal fundamentalist Christians on this. Both consider the existence of disability to have some root in moral deficiency.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
76. Of course there are. That is much the problem we are having in America today. The rw with their
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:37 PM
Aug 2014

literal interpretations have messed up a good deal of our culture and economic attitudes as well as many other things. I was trying to point out that one example given was used toward a group of people while the other was used for most of us. I hear what you are saying but this discussion regarding Dawkins is not a religious discussion. It does not matter what his religion or lack of religion is. His statement is a devaluation of life, especially the life of one group of persons with disabilities. That is what I was trying to say.

independentpiney

(1,510 posts)
77. landover baptist is a parody site, not a real church
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:41 PM
Aug 2014

it's like using the Onion as a reference to validate what otherwise may be a valid point.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
78. Sorry, I should have been more diligent
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:48 PM
Aug 2014

Unfortunately, that could lead someone to believe it doesn't happen. I'll delete it.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
71. It has nothing to do with Dawkins
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:24 PM
Aug 2014

No matter whether the sentiment devaluing the lives and existence people with disabilities comes from the bible or Dawkins, Peter Sanger such statements are problematic in their devaluation of existing people.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
73. The statement devalues existing people
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:39 PM
Aug 2014

His comments imply that parents who decided to have children who were identified to have downs syndrome in time for them to have an abortion made an immoral decision. Thus, people with down syndrome should not exist. What does it say about existing people who have down syndrome?

applegrove

(118,622 posts)
4. Exactly. They lead happy lives. I wonder if Dawkins does? Maybe unhappy people
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:24 PM
Aug 2014

should never be born....... now how does that feel?

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
8. That was the sentiment behind eugenics policies
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:58 PM
Aug 2014

It was assumed that racial minorities, poor "shiftless" morally deficient (as measured by standardized tests) whites, immigrants, people with various disabilities would have children with such a low quality of life, they should be sterilized.

That argument was used to get people who had reservations on board, and it became policy.

 

Iron Man

(183 posts)
11. Eugenics was about race.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:18 PM
Aug 2014

It's not about terminating a pregnancy when the fetus has a chromosomal deficiency.

Going around and calling it eugenics is doing a disservice to people who are around that witnessed our government committing such atrocious acts.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
14. It was also about disability
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:52 PM
Aug 2014

It used a faulty interpretation of genetics to claim that all disabilities, and even "moral deficiencies" were genetically determined. Thus, immigrants with disabilities were turned away.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
20. Thank you. Dawkins seems to be implying that the severely disabled are not as valuable
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 09:20 PM
Aug 2014

or something. It bothers me. I would never fault a woman for not giving birth to a child she couldn't afford. Up to that point, Dawkins is all right. But, to decide strictly on disability that the fetus wasn't worth carrying to term is not the answer.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
21. What if disability-related medical expenses are the reasons she can't afford it?
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 10:28 PM
Aug 2014

Are healthy children born into poverty considered less valuable than affluent children born with disabilities? Impoverished children can lead happy, fulfilling lives, and contribute to society too. Where is this line being drawn? Didn't Roe v. Wade erase the line? Isn't your moral judgment of impoverished children's value just as controversial as his judgement?

That's ultimately why I don't see anything positive about this non-controversy over Dawkins' tweet. Disagreeing with his opinion on that topic is one thing; to go any further than that, one has to start encroaching into anti-choice territory. The last thing we need is a bunch of liberals saying "women have the right to choose, but only under certain conditions" in an election year

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
22. So you think it's a moral duty to abort the disabled?
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 10:32 PM
Aug 2014

I said that I wouldn't blame a woman for not carrying a pregnancy to term that she couldn't afford. Whether it's moral or not is up to the woman's own spirituality.

I think Dawkins goes a step further than I do: he seems to think abortion of the disabled is a moral imperative.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
23. Putting words in my mouth? Classy. You know I never even implied that. Nice try though.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 10:46 PM
Aug 2014

Again: his opinion, your opinion, my opinion, are equally meaningless. The law allows a woman to have an abortion for any reason she damn well wants to. It's not our place to judge them for it.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
24. Actually, I'm not. I'm trying to figure out where you stand on this morally
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 10:59 PM
Aug 2014

Is it a moral good to abort a disabled fetus?

In my opinion, the answer is no. Dawkins seems to think otherwise:

https://twitter.com/RichardDawkins/status/502332698770542592


Richard DawkinsVerified account ?@RichardDawkins

Women have a right to early abortion. Choice is theirs. Down Syndrome is 1 of the commonest & most moral reasons to exercise that right.

 

Iron Man

(183 posts)
54. It doesn't matter.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:58 PM
Aug 2014

If a woman wants to abort her fetus because of a chromosomal deficiency, that's her choice.

I can't believe I have to defend abortion here.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
82. What is it that you are arguing here?
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 07:01 PM
Aug 2014

That it's only o'key to have an abortion for financial reasons?

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
83. No. I pointing out that Dawkins thinks that aborting a Downs syndrome baby is a moral good
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 01:35 AM
Sep 2014

I do not believe that it is. I wondered if those defending Dawkins agreed with his moral assessment.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
66. We should be providing health care for all, so that shouldn't be a question.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:10 PM
Aug 2014

Part of creating a truly pro-choice society is making sure that people have the resources to parent if they choose to do so, whether their child is disabled or not. That includes safety net programs for all children, adequate family leave, etc. (Most low-income households with a child with Down Syndrome would qualify for SSI for the child, who would also immediately qualify for Medicaid, but that should be accessible to all children, and adults IMHO.)

His statement was well within anti-choice territory itself, and that's the issue I have. But just as I believe abortion must be accessible, I believe parenthood should be accessible too -- in that we should prioritize our society so that if a woman gets pregnant and wants to keep the child, she is able to do so without losing her job or the roof over her head. We should feed the kids already here, too. When we have universal access to highly effective birth control, sex education that is factual instead of judgmental, and a support system for people who wish to parent, then abortion will be as "rare" as it can be. Along with all of that should come safe, legal, and accessible abortion care for women who need it, regardless of the reasons behind their choice. No one should have to feel like they have to explain why they sought or refuse a medical procedure, any more than they should have to listen to someone telling them what is "immoral".

Least of all to/from some man who is not a doctor.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
25. It does have that ring
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:02 PM
Aug 2014

I have no stake or interest in what an individual woman decides with whatever information she has. I have a problem with someone making an authoritative statement about what is moral regarding my body. It does smart a little more knowing that he is endorsing the position taken by the people who forced people like me to be sterilized.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
26. I like the way you said that
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:04 PM
Aug 2014

"I have a problem with someone making an authoritative statement about what is moral regarding my body."

That's a serious problem for Dawkins' statement. One wonders if he would support a law demanding that all women abort disabled or potentially disabled fetuses. I don't know that he would, but his followers might.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
39. Eugenics was about a lot more than race. I suggest you read "War Against the Weak: Eugenics and
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:57 AM
Aug 2014

America's Campaign to Create a Master Race" by Edwin Black. My family - white - experienced what he was writing about. We unfortunately had mental illness in the family. I am lucky to have been born.

applegrove

(118,622 posts)
15. I fully support a woman's right to choose, just to be clear. And that means
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:56 PM
Aug 2014

I get to choose what type of life I value for myself. He doesn't get to choose for other people. Or what their families look like. Depressed people see the world without delusional happy goggles. So sometimes they are more accurate and you need that in part of the population, some of the time. So depressed people play an important role too. I was only saying depressed people as a example of his thinking. So do dyslexics like Darwin, Churchill and Thomas Edison. Imagine if Dawkins had been around to scold their mothers way back when.

 

Iron Man

(183 posts)
17. He merely gave an opinion when someone asked a question.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 08:30 PM
Aug 2014

Maybe you should read his actual tweets before attacking him for no reason.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
41. He wasn't chosing for other people.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:04 PM
Aug 2014

Woman asked him for his opinion. He expressed it.
As far as I can tell, the woman who asked him wasn't even carrying a fetus with Down syndrome, it was a hypothetical question.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
19. Do you know many parents who are raising or have raised children with DS
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 09:16 PM
Aug 2014

I know several and they are open to their child's difference and allowing them to negotiate the world on their terms. They are very happy and enjoyed parenting them and watching them live their lives.

ecstatic

(32,688 posts)
58. You can't really know that for sure, unless you're one of the parents
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 01:16 PM
Aug 2014

Can't really tell from the outside looking in.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
62. well I know many who are advocates for PWD
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 02:45 PM
Aug 2014

In fact, it was parents who led the charge against institutionalization. I don't think speculating about the numbers is useful, but it is useful to know that there people who have children with disabilities who are happy enough with the people that their children have become to want to influence policy so that it can be true for others.

And, parents of children who have DS and other developmental disabilities have created blogs to let the world know it's not the tragedy the that entertainment and infotainment media so often claim.
A friend referred to his son's autism as "a beautifully unique way of seeing and interacting with the world."

People's personal reasons for terminating a pregnancy are not my concern. But I think it would be very sad for someone who very much wants to have a baby to abort based on of faulty ableist information.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
27. why are people defending his opinion? Does he have a right to his opinion? Of course he does.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:51 PM
Aug 2014

Even right wing conservative assholes have the right to their opinion but I don't hear people on here defending them. Maybe if we had a different perspective on disability. Maybe if we could do away with the word disability all together and remember that just like race, gender, and sexual orientation, physical or mental ability is just another diversity that should be celebrated, not feared.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
32. I prefer disabled because it locates the condition more appropriately
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:03 AM
Aug 2014

Using a wheelchair enables people whose mobility is limited by providing the opportunity to move around independently. What is disabling is the lack of elevators, ramps, curb cuts, etc.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
29. It's named after some doctor named Down.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 02:49 AM
Aug 2014

I recall quite clearly when they were called Mongoloid Idiots.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
30. There are many issues that come with Down syndrome.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 03:15 AM
Aug 2014

Large number of children with Down syndrome also have heart problems and are susceptible to infections.
Men with Down syndrome are sterile (they won't be able to have children).

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
31. And some go to college and start their own businesses
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 03:20 AM
Aug 2014

That the images and stereotypes regarding down syndrome are the instant argument says a lot about how our culture understands disability as a negative experience.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
34. Maybe this will help
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:14 AM
Aug 2014

The medical issues associated with down syndrome are treatable.

http://www.ndss.org/Down-Syndrome/Down-Syndrome-Facts/

As for men being sterile, do you have info on that? It seems to me a ridiculous number of people are concerned about BC if that is true.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
38. Men with Down syndrome are sterile, but large number of women with Down syndrome are fertile.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:57 AM
Aug 2014

The children of women with Down syndrome are at much higher risk to have Down syndrome than general population.

"Men with Down syndrome most often are sterile and cannot father children. Many women with Down syndrome can have children, and they usually have early menopause."
http://www.webmd.com/children/tc/down-syndrome-what-happens

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
42. Often is not the same as always
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:04 PM
Aug 2014

And, why on earth would that interfere with their having a good quality of life on their terms with the differences they are aware of?

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
43. As far as I can tell, only
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:07 PM
Aug 2014

a couple of documented cases exist of men with Down syndrome being able to father a child.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
48. Is this a problem that men with down syndrome are concerned about?
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:20 PM
Aug 2014

Are they calling for a medical solution? Until I hear of people being truly bothered by it, I will assume it is not considered a problem and that it doesn't interfere with their quality of life.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
46. Obviously not at the same rate.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:14 PM
Aug 2014

"People with Down syndrome may have a variety of birth defects. About half of all affected children are born with a heart defect. Digestive abnormalities, such as a blockage of the intestine, are less common."

http://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/down-syndrome

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
49. Yes I am aware of that - what I want to know is so what? We should abort then for these reasons?
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:21 PM
Aug 2014

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
51. If you read the rest of my post you will see that is what I am saying. I see the devaluation of
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:34 PM
Aug 2014

disabled person due to his/her symptoms such as Dawkins does as an example of being told we do not have a choice since a choice involves being able to opt to have an abortion or opt not to have an abortion. There is no valuation or moral issue in doing either. It is the woman's choice either way.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
52. It should be woman's choice.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:35 PM
Aug 2014

But she should be informed of the issues her child might be facing before making an informed decision.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
53. Since we still cannot tell the level of functioning for Downs before birth are not one set of facts
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:43 PM
Aug 2014

that can inform. In the case of severe heart problems you may be right. The doctor can probably determine the presence of this problem the same way as they do in other patients. But as far as knowing if the patient has certain capabilities for functioning or being happy. We have few resources to determine this.

I for one am glad that I did not have to make this decision because my daughter was born way before we had this testing. BTW I have had an abortion due to financial situations so I am not against abortion. I do not want someone to tell me that because of certain condition it is immoral to make a choice to carry the fetus to term. That is what I see happening when someone says well they have certain disabilities so.....

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
47. There is also this.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:18 PM
Aug 2014

"All people with Down syndrome develop Alzheimer’s disease. Adults with Down syndrome often are in their mid to late 40s or early 50s when symptoms might first appear."

http://my.clevelandclinic.org/disorders/alzheimers_disease/hic_alzheimers_disease_and_down_syndrome.aspx

mentalsolstice

(4,460 posts)
67. So let's dismiss a huge segment of society
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:01 AM
Aug 2014

Your argument takes us down a slippery slope. So they "may" develop Alzheimer's at an earlier age. However, we also know Alzheimer's can be hereditary, so should any person that has a familial history refrain from having children? And with so many other disabilities, diseases, disorders and conditions, that we now know can be passed down, hereditary or genetically. Alzheimer's runs through the paternal side of my husband's family, while I've got the double whammy of heart disease from both my mom and dad's families, as well as leukemia. So should our younger family members refrain from having children? My cousin has schizophrenia, however, her daughter had 2 children knowing it can be hereditary and can skip generations. Was her daughter's decision immoral?

For all of the disabilities, diseases, and disorders listed above, including DS, I can point you to people who made a contribution to society before they succumbed to what fate had in store for them.

I support a woman's right to choose in any circumstance, only she knows what her capabilities are to nurture a child with special needs. However, to say it's immoral if she chooses in way that you disagree with is no different than if you say you have negative opinions about affirmative action, gay rights laws, EEOC. ADA, VAWA, etc., you're on a losing side with true progressives. Caveat, opinions can sway legislation.

ETA, as science and technology progresses, we're going to know what we're passing on to future generations. The plus side, as with Down's Syndrome and other conditions, with that same science/tech hopefully we'll come up with ways to accommodate and accept the diversity amongst us.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
69. Disabled people are a segment of society and unless you know some other way of becoming a person,
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 03:36 AM
Aug 2014

a disabled person must first be a fetus. The attitudes about disabled people in this thread are disgusting. It is literally making me sick to my stomach.

NYC Liberal

(20,135 posts)
35. It's up to one person: the mother. I don't consider it a "moral" issue.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 11:21 AM
Aug 2014

There is no person involved with abortion except for the woman. The reason for the abortion is entirely irrelevant.

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
79. my guess is that Dawkins resents the money being spent
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 04:25 PM
Aug 2014

on special ed in schools, SSI for handicapped adults and other things similar. I have a severely handicapped daughter and in the early years before we settled in a more accepting area, I was stopped on the street and asked why I didn't have an abortion (she's pre Roe v Wade), and others complaining of the money spent on special ed in school that "takes money away from normal children" and her being a 'burden on society". As far as their lives, even though my daughter is very severely retarded, I have seen her do things that made me very proud of her. And her brothers grew up to be very caring men. Not once in their childhoods did I ever have to say to any of my kids "be nice, now, to your brother/sister". They shared beautifully and never fought. My sons have made me extra proud of how they have accepted her and others.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
80. People who resent the money being spent
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 05:58 PM
Aug 2014

make strange bedfellows with those who believe they know what women should do with their bodies out of compassion is a match made in hell. Those who forget history and all that.
Good on you for raising compassionate children.

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